The reason why you feel so unhappy is because you think you need someone or something to make you happy, you think happiness was based on the outside and not on the inside. Trust me, you can sleep without it, you can still live peacefully, you can still thrive without it, you can live a normal life, you can still work and you can still do something. Never let your happiness be controlled by someone or something, never let your emotions get played by the external things because it will be the start of having a miserable life. Giving other people the key to your happiness will only put you on a bad position in life, always remember that you can become happy anytime you want to if you will just create the right mindset in life.
YOU LIVE WITHOUT THAT CHICK
Any girl who rejected you, let that bitch go, she is nothing, she's not for you. That girl is nothing, you can sleep without her, don't take it seriously. Remember that she's not the only price, you are the price too, she will also benefit from you so don't ever degrade your value by acting like she's so above you, if that chick doesn't want you then go find another victim, hunt another chick that will appreciate you more. The girl that rejected you is not the only girl so be happy that she rejected you because you will find someone who is better. There is someone much better waiting for you, you don't need to force something, it will come on the right time. If it's your time to make love with someone then it will happen, you don't need to be needy with other people's love, just love yourself, you can sleep alone on your bed.
Ignore what is ignoring you, you don't have to cry over someone who can't see your worth, see your own worth and never put pressure on yourself if you can't make somebody love you, again just love yourself, make yourself better, improve everyday and one day that chick who rejected you will feel regretful. Once they see you are growing... they will feel affected.
YOU CAN LIVE WITHOUT APPRECIATION
If nobody is giving you attention... so be it, create your own world, appreciate yourself, you don't need their clapping hands, you don't need them kissing your ass, you just need to do what you need to do, focus on what makes you happy and that is controlling your thoughts and trying to get a little bit better everyday. You can become really happy by simply growing and evolving, watch yourself improving, watch yourself going to that next level mentally and physically. So what if they don't like you, just ignore those people because you don't even need them in your life, you just need to be yourself, do whatever it takes to grow and evolve, you will become much happier if you will groom yourself.
YOU CAN LIVE WITHOUT THAT FANCY THING
Don't feel so itchy getting that something you've been dreaming of for a long time, don't get so excited and obsessed getting it to the point where you feel like dying if you can't have it. You can live without that fancy car, mansion, millions or anything that you are dreaming of. I'm not saying that don't chase your dreams, I'm just suggesting you to relax and don't feel the pressure too much, don't feel depressed not having those things because you can't have it forever, you can only have it for a very short period of time while you're still alive, you can never have it until eternity. You can live without it, actually you can live without anything. Life is too simple, just live it and give your very best. Feel lesser pressure by just having a mindset of accepting what may happen today.
YOU CAN SLEEP WITHOUT THAT TOXIC FRIEND
That's not your only friend and if that's your only friend you can still find a true friend in the future, someone who will love you and accept you for who you are, someone who will give you confidence. Some relationships can't end because of being afraid of not finding another person. This belief is funny, if you can just be true to yourself, if you can just love yourself and bring out your best version then someone will get interested with you, someone will befriend you.
NEVER MAKE ANYTHING A BIG DEAL
You got rejected, you got left behind, never give time or energy to someone who doesn't see your value. So what if they don't like you, you can be happy without them, don't make dramas, don't look like a victim on social media posting your hurt feelings. You're better than that, stand up and make yourself better, be the best that you can be, be the richest that you can be and you will feel much better. Upgrade your self worth and you can only do that by not holding grudge or bitter feelings into something.
IT'S ALL ABOUT LOVING YOURSELF
If you love yourself then you will never think about the people and things that makes you suffer. If you love yourself then you will think about yourself first and never mind these people that makes you feel bad. Even if you love someone, even if you want to marry her so badly and dreamed about having sons with her... if she doesn't like you, so be it, accept it and move on, don't think about that chick again, she's just another woman that will never retain her beauty forever, she will become ugly too when she grow old so don't ever treat her like a Goddess or something, treat her like an ordinary bitch that you can forget anytime soon.
LIFE GOES ON
The world will still continue revolving without it. The sun will still shine, the birds will still fly, the river will still flow and you will still breathe. There's no pressure in not getting it. Life will continue whether you like it or now, there's nothing you can do to stop the world. It only means what you're aiming for is not of a big deal, it's not your lost if you can't get it.
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