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Mar 4, 2022

you're not late you're just lazy

You're not late you're just lazy, you can still do it but you choose not to because you think the time is not right anymore. You will never run out of time, there is always a time if you will choose to think that way. You can find a way to do things even if you think that it was already too late, thinking that it's over is just an excuse, it ain't over till it's over, if you really wanted to do it then you will do it, as simple as that. You're not really late, you're just thinking that you don't have the right to do it anymore because you're too late and there's no more time for you. But the reality is you can do anything you want even if it's too late, nobody can stop you, you're the only one who's stopping yourself. You can go to school at the age of 70, you can cut the grass at 10 pm, you can start a you tube channel even if you're already at your 70s, you can marry at the age of 50, you can become pregnant at the age of 40, you can still play even if the world is melting, you can still go to parties even if you're already too old, you can still take the bar exam even if you're already a grandparent, you can still go to your work even if you're 2 hours late, nothing can stop you if you will decide to just do it and forget what people say. Forget the time, forget the consequences and just do it. 

YOU HAVE TO MAKE THE TIME

There is no such thing as your time is not enough, there is no such thing as you don't have a time, of course you have a time if you will make the time. There is a way no make a time for something, all you have to do is just do it and forget about what's going to happen next. You can do anything you want if you will stop acting like a diva and force yourself to pull the trigger. You have to make a space for the things that is urgent, make it a priority, stop doing things that will never make you progress. You can find a way if you will use your willpower, stop acting like you cant do nothing, you can always make a time for something if you will give importance to it. Just go with it, don't be afraid of what may happen next and just go with it, start fast and just enjoy it even if it is hard. Force yourself to create a time for the things that you need to do, don't ever think that your time is not enough, feel abundant with your time, always think that you can do it now and it doesn't matter how much time left. 

THE EARLY BIRD CATCHES THE WORM BUT

The persevering bid can also catch the worm even if he's late if he didn't give up. It doesn't matter if you're already too late, what matters is the mindset to finish and still do it. It doesn't matter if you're too old... just chase your dream. It doesn't matter if your crush already have a boyfriend, say I love you still. It doesn't matter if you're late in your class and your professor is terror... just go to your class and face the embarrassment. It doesn't matter if you already miss the deadline, pass your project still and don't be afraid to fail. It doesn't matter if you're too old but you still want to finish your studies, still finish your studies. It doesn't matter if it's already 4:30 am and you haven't exercise yet, still exercise. It doesn't matter if you son was already 20 years old but not yet circumcised, circumcise him yourself if he is too shy. What matters is you still execute and you didn't become a coward. It's never too late if you really want it, you will do it if you really want to do it, there is no excuse only actions. 

DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME

If you don't want to feel the feeling of being late or rushing then don't waste your time. If you need to do something now do it, if you need to sleep now because your work is early tomorrow then sleep now. If you need to wash the dishes now because you will watch the stupid Kdrama later then watch the dishes now.  You should have the power to be decisive, you should start now even if it's too uncomfortable. Don't be scared to take actions, you only need a little energy to pull the trigger. It's better to be moving now than waiting. If you keep n waiting then you will never make a progress, as simple as that. You have to force yourself to take actions because that's the best thing to do. Eliminate your built in excuses, eliminate your laziness and just work hard. It doesn't matter if you are slow, it doesn't matter if you're not making any significant progress, what matters is you're not stopping and you're giving your very best every single day. Because the reason why you're always late is you always waste your time, you think you can always catch up or be early tomorrow, you think you can always do it later. You're always putting off what you can do today, you're not prioritizing your priorities and that's why you're always rushing. But if you will use your time wisely and just do the things needed then you will have more time, you will become faster, you will be able to do more, you will have control. Being a disciplined person means having more control in your life. You will have more power if you are disciplined. 

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Mar 7, 2021

STOP DREAMING

If you really wanted to become great, if you really wanted to become big and successful then stop dreaming now. Most of the time you are wasting your time dreaming about the past and wanting to change it. Most of the time you're thinking about the future and hoping to  have a good life. You're dreaming about money, mansions, perfect partner etc. You're dreaming about what you want and you always get mad if you find yourself very far from it. 

YOU'RE NOT AWARE THAT YOU'RE JUST DREAMING

Most of the time your actions were all about dreaming, most of the time you're not aware that you're just dreaming. Look at your idol, you wanted to be like him, you wanted to have a life like him... that's dreaming. Getting jealous with other people, that's dreaming. You want what they have, you want to become successful too, you're so bitter, you're dreaming of having an easy life too but all you do is dream about it, you're not doing something to get it. Watching Home TV shopping and dreaming about those things. Watching Porn and dreaming about those ladies. Watching other people doing their thing, that is dreaming too. Surfing the ecommerce website and hoping to have all those nice gadgets. Reading books about fantasies, vampires and millionaire knight and shining armor. Most of the time you're just dreaming and not doing. Most of you time goes to dreaming, you're only using 5 percent of your time for taking actions. It's time to be real, it's time to wake up and chase your dream and not just dream about it. Realize your dream by doing whatever it takes to get it and not thinking all day and praying for it to fall into your hands without suffering. 

Dreaming about your high school crush and thinking what you should have done to get here. Dreaming about your neighbor's car and seeing yourself driving it too, dreaming about your boss promoting you. Sight seeing the girls at the mall. Asking the sales lady how much is the expensive shirt being displayed without having the money to buy it. You're doing a lot of foolish moves, there's a lot of stupidity going on with your life and that's why you can't make a progress. Checking for the results, asking your friend about business without the willingness to try, you're always making moves that are half committed. You're not aggressively pursuing your dream and that's why you're stuck on the same place forever. 

THE TRUTH IS YOU HAVE TO GET IT

Whether it's an easy way or the hard way... go and get it. But most of the time it will be a hard way, only the lucky people will get what they want without sweating for it. And these lucky people were sons of kings and daughters of business moguls, they were born rich. So stop wishing to get lucky because it will never become real, you have to create your own luck through persistence and relentless work ethic. Nobody will help you to get it, the break will not come unless you attract it, the chance of a lifetime will not show up if you're doing the same thing over and over again. There must be a tiny change, you can just work harder and that's a change already, you can just work faster and focus sharper and that's a change already. Stop looking for a miracle because it will never happen, you have to go and get it... period. Stop worrying, never entertain fear, never think about failing and simply do it. Take it one step at a time, be patient and start taking baby steps right now. Focus on your life, focus on your own journey... be the best that you can be. 

Never think about how are you going to get it... just go and get it, every action is the right action. Every step is taking you closer to your goa so don't ever stop, don't ever feel bad every time you fail because it's molding you to become ready for a big time success. Failure is making you stronger and ready so be happy if you're failing now because it means you're getting closer and closer to success, it's only just a matter of time before you win so keep believing and never get tired of working. 

VISUALIZE FOR 1 MINUTE THEN ACT

Think about your dream, see the colors of your goal, see yourself getting it, put detail as much as you can, imagine it falling into your hands, do this for one minute then move right away. Stop overthinking how are you going to get it and just move right away. Most people were too busy visualizing and imaging their wants only to find out that they've been doing it all day long and they already forgot how to take actions. Condition your mind but you also have to condition your body, sometimes the mind can't visualize so what are you going to do? sometimes the mind is not thinking right so what are you going to do? just do what you are suppose to do. Forget about what you think, forget about how you feel and just move... as simple as that. 

Your mindset should be all about movement, it should be all about taking baby steps and taking it fast. Don't you dare disrespect the power of taking one small action. It is too powerful, just do something positive and follow through and you will go further. You will never get hurt if you try so why not try? the only thing that's stopping you is your fear of failure. You're scared to work hard and fail, you're thinking that your time will be wasted if you work too hard and didn't get anything. But the truth is... you get a lot if you work hard and push yourself to the limits, you get a lot of experience and wisdom, you will discover how strong and great you are. So keep pushing, keep grinding, your life should be all about grind and nothing else. 

Jul 28, 2020

WHAT'S MISSING IN YOUR LIFE?

Most of you are looking for what is missing in your life, it maybe a car or money, or a love life or even a dog. Some people are looking for happiness, success, or just a simple meal for the day. And if they can't find what they are looking for... they feel like it's the end of the world, this is funny, it's because their happiness depends on external things. 

THERE IS NOTHING MISSING IN YOUR LIFE

Your perspective and focus makes yo feel that something is missing. Look at you, you are still alive, you become happy anytime you want to. Just think of someone you deeply love and you will feel happiness. Nothing is missing in your life, you're just focus on what is lacking, you're too focused on having the big things right away without having to work hard for it. And let's say that you really miss something? was it really so bad not to have it? can't you breathe without it? you were able to live before without it, so how come you can never live again today without it? Stop focusing on what is missing and simply focus on what you have, appreciate what you have and try to make it grow. If you want to change your situation then you have to accept it with all your heart, act as if you choose it. Look around you, there are many things you can be happy about, happiness is everywhere you just need to lower your standards about happiness. It's up to you if you will look for something missing in your life, my advise is focus on what you have and appreciate it and you will never feel bad again.      

NEVER LET ANYTHING MAKE YOU FEEL BAD

No fancy shoes, no girlfriend, no car, no money... it's ok. You can have all of these things in the future if you work hard. You may not have it for now but eventually you will on the right time. Never let anything make you feel bad, it's ok if you have nothing, it's not the end of the world. You are still living, your breathe is the most important thing in your life. Your happiness lies in your head, it depends on how you think and see things. You should let emotions controlled by you and not be controlled by some random wishes that you really don't need. You don't need what you don't have because you have everything you need for now. If you can't have what you want, if it's really impossible to make it yours then just let it go, set it free, never hold grudge nor ill feelings, just let it go, it may come to your life one day if you stay positive. Stop being a wish washy, stop letting something control you or set your temper. You have the power to feel good anytime, yo just need to correct your mind and know what is it that you really need. 

YOU WILL NEVER GET SATISFIED

Always remember this so that you won't feel so bad if you can't have what you want... YOU WILL NEVER GET SATISFIED, this is the truth, even if you get what you want today... tomorrow you will look for something else, you will wish for something new that you think will make you happy. The truth of the matter is you don' need anything just to become happy, you just need yourself. There will always be another form of desire, another wish list, another something that makes you go crazy for it. So don't ever feel bad if you can't have it because your feelings towards it will change when you already have it, you will never get excited about it anymore. Always remember that something will make you crave, something will make you chase so if you can't have what you want now just be happy because it's just another thing that is trying to control you, you think you need it, you will find every reason in the world why you need to have it but months or even weeks will pass and you're already looking for something else. Because you're weak if something is making you feel bad, you're soft if you're letting something control you. It's our human nature to always look for more but if you can control your eagerness to have more then you're already rich, you don't need to work for more. It's because your belief is making you feel abundant. 

LIFE WILL NEVER BECOME PERFECT

There will always be something that will distract you, there will always be something that will catch your attention, there will always be something that will make you crave, in other words you will always feel that your life is not perfect. But that's how life was designed... it's not suppose to be perfect because if it is then it will become very boring. Problems makes your life more colorful. So don't ever feel frustrated if you can't get what you want to have because it's just another thing that's playing with your mind, you don't need it at all, it's ok to chase it but don't ever feel so low if you can't make it yours. 

Life is not perfect so deal with it, accept it or else you will have no peace of mind. You can feel that you life is perfect if you will accept everything about it, embrace everything including the imperfections. Life will become much simpler and easier if you will accept the fact that no matter how hard you try... you will still feel that something is missing in your life. 

A real happy person doesn't look for what is missing in his life, he just use what he have and make the best out of it. He is simply happy having less, and he doesn't even know that there is something missing in his life, he's just focused on what he have and trying to enjoy himself with it. 

Jul 27, 2020

WHEN IT'S ALL SAID AND DONE, DID YOU REALLY GAVE YOUR ALL?

When it's all said and done, when it's over, when you can't do anything about it anymore the only question is did you really gave your all? did you really push yourself to the limits and destroy your boundaries? did you let yourself gas out? did you fight with all your might for your dreams and ambitions? you can never fool yourself, you can make excuses all day long, you can fight for your case and tell everyone that the world is unfair but the truth of the matter is you only give your 50 percent or maybe even lower than that. You know in yourself that you wasted some time, you know in yourself that you procrastinate a lot so stop fooling the public, stop trying to explain yourself because the world will never believe you, if you're a loser then you're a loser, accept it, you're the only one to blame for your life and nobody else.

HOW TO KNOW IF YOU'RE GIVING YOUR ALL?

1. You're not wasting your time.
2. All of your actions were related to your goal and dreams.
3. You don't easily get bothered by petty things anymore.
4. Your discipline is so strong, you're not looking at some other things that are wasting your precious time.
5. You just do it, you don't care about how you feel, you don't care about what time is it, whether it's already 3:30 am... you just do it. You have no hesitations, you feel so unstoppable.
6. You don't quit even if you failed a million times.
7. You keep pushing even if the whole world is telling you to stop.

GIVING YOUR ALL WILL ERASE ALL OF YOUR WORRIES

The reason why you're not confident, the reason why you don't trust yourself is because you're not giving your all, you're just hoping and not executing, you're just waiting for luck. If you will give your very best every single day, if you will force yourself to become the best version of yourself then you will feel invincible. So give your best now, go all in for something and never mind about anything else, your worries and troubles will go away if you're focused on simply giving everything you've got with zero reservations. Confidence on yourself will be felt if you're giving your all no matter what. Give your all even if it's hard, give your all even if time is running out, give your all even if there is a strong resistance that is stopping you from taking actions, give your all even if you're not focused, give your all even if your mind is not calm yet.

MOVE FAST AND NEVER LET YOUR MIND BECOME NEGATIVE

The more you procrastinate, the more you postpone something... the more your mind will become negative. People were trap in a rut because they let their minds wander anywhere, they don't have a strong foundation. So whenever you feel lost... just start something positive, whenever you feel out of tune... just play the music, whenever you feel luck is not on your side just work hard and try to become lucky again, whenever you feel stuck just move forward and never look back, whenever you feel that there is something wrong just do something right. You can create another strong momentum if you never let your mind think.

Stop hesitating, stop judging yourself, stop thinking that your work is useless, stop thinking that you're bored and have to do something else. Stick with the process, start it and finish it as fast as you can. Be fast but don't rush, be aggressive but be in control.

NOTHING CAN STOP YOU EXCEPT YOURSELF

You're the only one who's stopping yourself and the thoughts you play inside of your head, you have to realize that, you have to admit that you're destroying your own life. But the truth is you can recreate it again and make it better again. Stop stopping yourself, you have to move whenever you feel so lazy, you have to do the most important thing right away. Stop holding yourself back because it's not helping at all, free yourself, free your mind, do whatever you need to do with all your might and power. You have nothing to lose when you move, you have everything to gain, you're getting better, your confidence is going higher and your experience is adding up. So whenever you feel procrastinating and getting lazier again... stand up and do something, stop the useless entertainment, stop the useless thoughts and just go all out. You're always stopping yourself but the sad thing is you don't know it. You let your fear eat your courage, you let the fear of the unknown immobilize you. You're better than that and you can become better than that, it's just a matter of changing your perception and attitude.

NEVER WASTE YOUR LIFE AGAIN

Have fun doing the process, have fun taking it little by little. Never waste your life gain, never grow old without achieving anything, be a dreamer and a doer. Don't just dream, take actions, you should be 10 percent dreamer and 90 percent doer. Just do it, regardless of what may happen... just do it. Treat your life as something precious, it is full of possibilities and opportunities, it has a large room for growth so don't ever get stuck up on something that isn't worth giving any attention. Live your life to the fullest, you can only do that by working hard everyday and enjoying your work. Try everything, don't be scared to fail, be scared if you're not giving your all. Don't be afraid to get exhausted, don't be afraid to miss out a lot of happy moments and just go all in, this is how to celebrate your life, this is how to know who you really are and what you are capable of doing, this is how to reward yourself... go all in, give your all no matter what. Believe in the power of your dreams, believe in the power to create. 

EVERYTHING YOU DO IS PUSHING YOU FURTHER

If what you're doing is related to your goal or to the life that you are dreaming of... that action is right, keep doing it. Every action is the right action if the intention is good. Just push and never mind if you're doing it perfect or not, go all the way, try with all your might and tenacity. Never quit and just keep pushing and pushing. It may sound crazy, you may look like a fool, you may not get overnight results but the reward is really promising and it is guaranteed that you're going to win if you don't give up. So just keep grinding and do whatever it takes to win in life. So don't be afraid to make mistakes because it will teach you something, don't be afraid to fail because it means you're trying. Making mistakes and getting frustrated is all part of the game. But if you can make yourself believe that everything you is helping you even if you can't see results yet... that's the time you will have a breakthrough.

ENJOY THE RIDE, ENJOY PUSHING

Just enjoy what you're doing, you can do this by being patient and not rushing. Slow down if you need to, be attentive to your actions, be aware of what is going on. Feel your body, feel your senses, no need to hurry because you can finish everything, you can arrive at your desired destination. Just look for what you can do that is related to what you want and just do it. Never hesitate, never think twice and just do it. All it takes is one push to get a momentum, all it takes is forcing yourself to take actions and stay committed with the process until it's done. You can enjoy any kind of work if you're being patient and observant. Observe what is going on, learn to feel everything, learn to face all of the challenges and pressure, you will soon realize that it's not difficult at all right? it's not difficult at all if you will start right away and endure the pain of laziness. It feels so hard because you're lazy, admit that, but you have to fight it if you want to go to another level. Laziness brings pain, it's a lot of resistance, it's a lot of war going on inside of your head, but the good news is you can overcome laziness if you will force yourself to just do it no matter what.

DO IT EVEN IF YOU DON'T FEEL INSPIRED

Do it even if you feel so lazy, do it even if you're not motivated. Trust me, you will only feel lazy for the first 2 minutes, but after that you will be able to create some momentum that will make you do more. Because the truth of the matter is feelings doesn't matter anymore. Your emotions is killing you, it's controlling you, you're too addicted to temporary high and that's why you can't move anymore. But if you will just face the pain and just do it, if you will just force yourself to do it... good things will happen to you. So take actions even if you feel uninspired, just do it, making this a habit will make you a better person, this will make you go further and further. Always remember that you don't need to become perfect at all, you just need to start and give your very best. And even if you can't give your best, just still try, do something even if you feel lazy, push yourself, give a strong effort and soon you will see that you are already enjoying what you're doing. The reason why you can't make an improvement with your life is not the lack of skill or opportunity, it's the lack of discipline and willpower to just do it and feel hopeful even if the odds were against you.

IF YOU'RE HAPPY TAKING ACTIONS THEN YOU'RE PROGRESSING

It's not about the results, it's not about getting what you want in an instant. It's about being joyful with the process. Because the truth is you will become happier if you are moving, look at yourself... you feel depressed and weak if you're just thinking right? you feel so stuck, you want something but you can't get it, you're hopeless and miserable. But if you are moving, you are a little bit happier, your confidence is going up, you are beginning to think clearer.

And even if you're not happy, even if you feel so heavy... it's ok, happiness will come later. Just don't forget to do what you need to do, hard work is the key and nothing else. You have to take your journey seriously or else nothing will happen to you. Always remember that happiness comes from taking actions, you will feel free and independent if you are moving, so what are you waiting for? start now and do what you want to do, give yourself a chance to go further and further. Go for your vision and never let it go, chase it, keep going further and further and never give up. It's only just a matter of time before you get what you want.

STEP INTO THE UNKNOWN

What are you being afraid of? you're afraid of uncertainty? you're afraid of not knowing what to do? you're afraid that you might fail? well guess what? you already failed if you don't take risks, you already failed if you don't take matters into your own hands. The unknown is your friend, the unknown offers possibilities. It's pretty scary but it's the path to success, it's the path to better opportunities. GO there even if you're afraid, go there even if you don't have any idea what's going to happen. After all, you're already stuck in your place, it's because you already knew what's happening there, you already memorized the events there, there is nothing more to get there, it's too comfortable that's why there is no growth. The place of the unknown is what will give you what you need, go there even if you are scared, embrace your fears, don't resist it... embrace it and see what will it give to you. 

Jul 18, 2020

NEVER COUNT YOURSELF OUT AGAIN

How many times have you counted yourself out so fast before you even try? you already announce to the world that you will never win and that it's not for you, you're doubting yourself for so many times. And that is why you can't get what you want, the level of your belief is so low, you are destroying your own confidence by always thinking that you don't deserve it. 

ALWAYS THINK THAT YOU WILL WIN

Program your subconscious mind about victory, always think that you're going to win no matter what. Never think about defeat nor failure, just always think about winning and that's it. Saturate your mind with picture of victory, an image of you getting what you want. Bombard your brain with motivation and thoughts that makes you feel good all the time. Never think about losing, throw away negativity outside the window. It's possible to think that you can win, never be ashamed of thinking positive, it's better to think positively than to think negatively, you can find a way out of no way, you can use your willpower all the way and force fate to go with you. It's never a sin to think that you will win, you have the right to dream, you have the right to wish for something that you think you deserve. 

YOUR BELIEF IS THE SECRET TO SUCCESS

What you see in your dreams, what you are secretly thinking, what you keep thinking everyday, what you believe is going to be the key to your success. If you believe it so hard then you will attract opportunities that will make you closer to your dream. If you believe it you can achieve it, this is a very old and overused saying but it really works and it will never fail to work. Your belief will guide you, it will put you on a better position so you have to pick the right beliefs that will make you stronger not weaker. If you think that you can do it then you are right, if you think you can't do it then you are right as well. Whatever you believe in will manifest into your life so it's better to choose a belief that will make you stronger and confident. 

YOUR BELIEF WILL MAKE YOU MOVE

If you really believe it then you will always act, you will never hesitate you will never count yourself out, you will give yourself a chance to succeed. If you feel lazy now, if you're not giving your best then it means you don't believe what you're doing, you don't believe that you're going to succeed. Because you will go to the extreme if you really believe it, you will push the hardest and never give up even if the challenges were brutal and overwhelming. Your belief will make you stay on the game until you finally succeed. If you really believe it then it will never stop, if your dreams are real it will never stop, you will keep chasing it, the journey will never end. 

JUST GO ALL IN WITH ALL YOU'VE GOT

What you have now? your ugly face, your weak spirit, your useless skill, your arrogant attitude, your old shoes, your weak body, your old things, your rusty mind, your unpopular you tube channel, your stinky dog, your stupid idea... JUST GO ALL IN. You never know what may happen if you go all in and give everything you've got, give your best with what you have, trust me... something good will happen if you're always giving your best. Never focus on what's lacking in your life, focus on what you have and use all of it to make your life a little bit better. Because the reality is you have a lot, you just can't see it because you're too focused on what's missing in your life. You're dwelling too much with your weaknesses. 

Most people were complaining about what is lacking in their lives, that's why they can't see the opportunities infront of them. If you want to have more self confidence you have to believe in everything you have.

IT'S ALREADY GAME OVER IF YOU COUNT YOURSELF OUT

You can never win anymore if you belittle yourself. Stop judging yourself, even if you try... you will never win if you don't have full faith in yourself. Beliefs will make you stronger, beliefs will make you do the impossible. Again, it doesn't matter if you're talented or not, what matters is you have full faith in yourself and you will never quit even if the journey gets rough. So always be aware if you're not loving what you're doing, be aware if your confidence is going down because you need to adjust your thoughts to feel good about yourself. Because your skill level will always elevate every time you feel good and relaxed. Stop getting anxious if you're making mistakes, stop judging yourself if you're not doing the right thing, just enjoy the process and keep going. It's only just a matter of time before you get the right rhythm, everything will flow correctly if you will trust yourself. 

IT'S YOUR TIME TO SHINE

You can shine, you can steal the limelight, you can steal the show, you can be a start. All it takes is tremendous belief in yourself and the willingness to fail big time, if you're not afraid to lose then you have a chance to win. You should be like a fearless beast here, you can't shy away from the pressure, you have to face the pressure, face the pain and make something out of it. If you wanted to win then you have to show the universe that you really want it, you have to do something extraordinary even if you're just an ordinary, you have to be at the edge of your skill, push yourself, stretch your limitations and ignore your boundaries, you can shine if you want to if you will allow yourself to win. 

Jul 13, 2020

YOU ARE THE CHOSEN ONE

What if you are? what if you are really the chosen one? what if you are destined for greatness? what if you can really achieve anything you want in life? don't laugh, don't underestimate yourself because you really have the power to become the number one if you will just believe in yourself and try to outwork everyone, you have to be the hardest worker in the world, you have to be the energy that you want to be... be something that most people can't do, be something that most people can't feel and understand, create your own energy and way, create your own path and fully believe in it... that's how to become the chosen one. 

DON'T FEEL HUMBLE ALL THE TIME

Don't be too humble because it's lowering your standards. You have to be bad sometimes, I mean you have to be mean in a nice way, in other words, you have to be a bad ass, stop trying to look humble all the time and express yourself. Unleash your creativity, free your ideas, use your confidence, trust your work and strive to be the number one. Because being humble will make you feel low of yourself, you will not strive for more, you will never push because you're being low key all the time, you're being passive and fine with getting lesser than what you can really get. Being humble, being too nice will get you nowhere. I am not saying that be arrogant and obnoxious, I am not saying that become overconfident with your abilities. What I am trying to say is... set yourself free sometimes, give yourself a chance to shine, give yourself an opportunity to become great. 

THE CHOSEN ONE IS UNKNOWN 

There is really no chosen one, you have to choose yourself as the chosen one. If you chase greatness, if you give everything you've got then you are the chosen one. Nobody is born as the chosen one, it is unknown. And that being said, it means you have chance of becoming the chosen one if you choose yourself to become great. So decide that you are going to do whatever it takes to win, decide that you are going to put yourself on top. So don't ever believe somebody if he says that he is the chosen one and you're not, you need to test if it is correct and you can only do that by trying to win, go hard all the time and see if you're the chosen one or not. 

THE CHOSEN ONE IS BEING MOLDED NOT BEING PICKED

Nobody can pick the chosen one. Any teacher, coach, president, recruiter, employer can never pick who is the chosen one. So don't get jealous if you're not getting attention nor credit that you deserve. The real chosen one will rise in the end. It will show up, greatness will shop up when it's needed the most. So don't ever get jealous with people who are getting a lot of hype that they don't deserve. Just mind your own business, focus on your work, focus on making yourself better each day. Always remember that if you really choose to become great then you are the chosen one regardless of what people think of you. They can say whatever they want but if you really bust your ass and push yourself to the limits then you deserve of being called as the chosen one. 

IT'S IN YOUR CHARACTER

The chosen one has the strongest character. It's not about his abilities, it's not about his size, it's not about what he can do, it's not about his talents or name... it's about his character. So look at yourself, how do you react when difficult things are happening? are you always reacting bad or are you moving forward right away and do what you are suppose to do? So if you're always quitting and always wanted to feel comfortable then you are not the chosen one, if you have a weak character then you're not the chosen one. If you're always quitting when the going gets tough, if you can't manage stress, if you always look for an easy way out then you are not the chosen on. The chosen one never quit, he never choose an easier path. So if you are willing to go hard all the time, if you're willing to give everything for something then it means you're the chosen one. So never admire people who are winning but in reality the just take a short cut, look at Kevin Durant.. he chose Warriors but still leave in the end, it's because he is not satisfied, taking a shortcut will make you feel that something is missing. He is not happy even if he won 2 championships.

A STRONG MIND CREATES THE CHOSEN ONE

Make your mind strong, fill it with powerful and positive thoughts. If you want to become the chosen one then you need to have a very tough mind, a mind that doesn't quit no matter what. A mind that keeps pushing until the end, a mind that believes, a mind that is full of positivity, hope and determination. Look at your mind, if it's always filled with negativity then it's time to reshape it, mold it into a positive one, never  let any form of negativity dominate it. Of course not all the time you will think positive, it's impossible to think positive 100 percent all the time but you should be aware if you're thinking about negative or frightening things and then change your thoughts right away. You need to be patient while changing your mind because it's going to be a tough job, you will be tested, there will be a lot of distraction and frustrating moments but you can overcome all of it if you really want to have a strong mind. Just keep going when it's hard, keep training your mind, try to stop the thoughts that are not helping you, try to forget everything that is only making you feel weak and powerless. You have to be selective of the thoughts that are entering your mind. 

Jul 8, 2020

THE MOST EFFECTIVE SECRET TO SUCCESS FINALLY DISCOVERED

Success is what everybody wants, who doesn't want to escape poverty and mediocrity? who doesn't want to taste a fine ham on the table? who doesn't want to wear the finest suites made by the most popular tailor in New York? you've got to be kidding me if you will not want any of these things. You have to be honest with yourself, I know you want success too. Don't pretend to be a simply and nice guy that is satisfied having your skinny and weak dog, don't pretend that you're satisfied riding a rusty bike that can't even go to the finest beach in Miami to see the hottest babes, you're better than that. It's to dream about big things, you have every authority in the world to dream about anything you want. It's bad if you're dreaming about big things but working for only 30 minutes a day.

IT'S YOUR LIFE

You have the power over your life, you can do everything with it. You can end up being a trash or you can end up being a diamond, the choice is yours. Don't ever say that you don't know how to become successful, of course you know it, you just need to dream and persevere. You just need to get serious about what you want and sacrifice everything to get it. If you can give everything to your dream then you will get it, as simple as that. Your life is only one so why waste it for nothing? you can make it epic, you can make an interesting story out of it. Don't just live it without knowing what is your real potential. You are free to do anything with your life, you can destroy it nor make it better, but if I were you I will make it better because destroying it will only create regrets in the end. 

THE SECRET TO SUCCESS IS...

Speed and hard work, that's it. You don't need to master anything else, just master speed and hard work and of course you have to have a vision. Your vision or goal is what will make you fast and hard working. You need to have a vision to inspire you and motivate you to keep pushing all day. Just be fast and you will make a lot of results, your mind will never worry anymore if you're fast and working hard. Hard work never fail anyone, it will show you the way, it will reveal your full potential. A lot of people become successful not because they were talented but because they were just insanely fast. They were bold, they were decisive, they don't care if they fail, all they know is they've got to keep trying and pushing so that they will get a little bit of momentum. And that momentum will continue to get bigger and bigger each day, it's like a small fire in the beginning and gets hotter and bigger every time they take actions. They push themselves like crazy animals, they don't care about the results, all they care is they've got to do something spectacular. 

You've got to be real quick here, if you want to make it in life then you should be faster than time. Sometimes all you have to do is stop wasting time and that's it. Wasting time will make you a failure, you have to make your time very useful because every second counts, time is money, time is gold, time is everything. You don't need to be really good here, you just need to use your time wisely and you will prevail. It's just a matter of disciplining yourself and your mind, you can make your life epic if you will use your time like it's the most precious thing on earth. 

CHECK YOURSELF, MAKE AN INVENTORY

Look at yourself and be honest, watch what you are doing. Are you wasting a lot of time, are you allowing yourself to become slow and useless? are you really unproductive today? If you really want it then you must be strict with yourself. What are the information you are consuming? what are you doing? is it taking you to the next level? or is it just pulling you down? you have to be real here, you have to stop pretending that everything is alright and believing that you may succeed by just chilling and trying to become lucky. You can't wake for brakes, you have to make the brake, create an opportunity if it is not there. Waiting is the number one game of losers, you have to go for it, don't wait for it... run towards it. Full speed ahead and never stop yourself... that is the key to success. Because you could have been a president of the united states by now, you could have three hot blondes right now, you could have been the richest person in your community right now if you just use your time wisely and use it to give you advantage. 

But it's never too late, you still have some time to make things right. Just make sure you will never destroy everything this time, make sure you will do the right thing. I know it's going to get uncomfortable but it is what it is, you have to cut all the things and activities that are not taking you to the next level. If you want to experience a new life then you need to force fate, you need to force things happen and stop waiting for luck to come to you, you have to look for it, find it, and even if you don't get lucky... you will still have an opportunity for as long as you're working hard and doing what is best for your life.

BE THE FASTEST DUD ON EARTH

Let's see what you will get if you're the fastest and hardest working man on earth. Do this for a month or two and see the difference, let's see what you can achieve, let's see your improvement. It's not about the results, it's about making progress and celebrating the small success until it becomes bigger and bigger each day. 

So be fast, be fast in forgetting the things that made you feel bad, be fast in starting, be fast in making a decision, be fast in moving on every time you get rejected or fail. Be fast in doing something that needs to get done. Let's see how far you can go. 

Jul 7, 2020

16 REAL MEANING OF "NEVER GIVE UP"

When you're struggling and looking for a way most people's advise will be "never give up" or "just keep going". Bust most of the time the man who's pushing to win will give up anytime soon because he can't stand the pain physically and mentally anymore. Not giving up has a lot of layers, it has a lot of philosophy, it's deeper then just fighting, it has a lot of meaning.

Enjoying

You're enjoying everything, you're enjoying all the things that are happening even if it's hard. Nothing seems to stop you, you feel unstoppable, you're not worried about anything, you're not worried about losing or struggling, you're just enjoying everything because you feel like it's a game, you feel that there is nothing left to lose, you just feel that you already won because you're so much having fun and the funny thing is you don't want the moment to end, you feel victorious already by simply pushing forward and giving your best. 

Believing

Believing in yourself, creating your own belief, no other belief can intervene, no comments from people can manipulate your mind. You believe your beliefs and you keep believing it even if there is no reason to believe anymore because you can't see any signs of improvement. You just don't care, you simply believe in yourself while trying. You never recite the words "I can't" or "it's over", you have this insane belief in yourself and that's why you don't never think about giving up just for a second. 

Surrender

Surrender to the process. You have to trust that everything will work out, you just need to grind now and do what you haven't done before to produce a different result. You surrender to everything and feel loose, you feel so free, you're not struggling too hard because in your mind you know you're going to win. You let go of the resistance, you let go of everything that is making the process harder and that is your negative thoughts and fears. 

Following the game plan

You stick to the game plan no matter what, you have no intention of following the crowd because most of them are succeeding. You set the game plan and you execute it everyday. Even if it's not working at all... you still stick to it and use it until you become successful. 

Never looking at the time

You don't care about how much time left in you, you just keep trying again and again. You don't look at the time, you don't look about how many seconds left for you to make it. Because time really doesn't matter at all, it's just an illusion, it's only giving you a lot of pressure. You only care about what you're doing, you never care if it's already 3:75 in the morning, you don't care if it's not the right time to push forward, you don't care if it's already over... you just keep pushing even if there is no time left. 

Forgetting your emotions

You just know that emotions is only making the process even harder, you don't care if you feel bad because you knew your emotion is going to change in just a matter of time. You never care about your emotion, if you feel good then good but if you feel bad you still move forward and do what you can do. You don't care about the pressure you feel, you don't care about the roller coaster of emotions that are running inside of you, you just follow your philosophy and that is to never give up. 

Appreciating what's going on

You are very appreciative, you never complain, you never whine like other people. You appreciate the struggle and the difficulty, you appreciate that it will take some time to win. You love every action, every day, every challenge, you love everything that completes equation of the process. 

Being yourself.

You do it your way. You use your own style, you're not afraid of expressing yourself and trying the best idea on your head. You are so yourself, you're not afraid of being judged by other people, you simply trust your craft and the skills that you honed in the past. 

Just listening to your own voice

You don't listen to naysayers, you don't listen to guru wannabes or people trying to have a place in your journey without having to work for it, you listen to your own voice. You only take advises if it's helping you to become more motivated, but if it's not making you feel good... you trash it. You don't care about the critics or self proclaimed mentors, you just care about your own insights and instincts. 

Defying rules

You don't care about the rules anymore, you just move forward and if they can't stop you then that's their problem. You're so focused on taking it one step at a time, you're loving the small improvement that you're getting. You're bending the rules and the funny thing is you're getting away from it. 

Loving fear

You have peace with your fears, you totally understand what your fear is all about, you that int only means that you need to move forward and stop hesitating. You feel that your fear is a guide towards the right direction. You embrace all of your fears and you know that it will be gone anytime soon. 

Immunity

You're immune to pain, you don't care if you're bleeding or severely exhausted, you want it so bad now and you are giving your best to do the next step even if you can't move anymore.

Belittling the result 

You love to win, you love to get the result that you are expecting but you don't care too much about it anymore, you're just in the zone and just embracing everything. The result doesn't matte anymore, what matters is you testing yourself and not giving up, you don't care if you lose you only care about trying while there is still a chance. You keep pushing and pushing, you are relentless and invincible... you just feel that the result is already yours and all you have to do is do your job. 

Being fully present

You don't care about the next moment or what's going to happen next. You only care about the now, you only care about not giving up the fight and using your willpower. You're doing everything you can and you don't mind if you're right or wrong, you're just fully present in the moment because you're so confident that everything will fall into the right place so there is no need to worry about the future.

Unleashing your creative side

You're not afraid taking risk using your creativity. You feel so creative, you feel so free to try everything. You're having so much fun, you just feel like a kid who's playing the game. 

You feel that it's easy

For whatever reason you feel that it's easy even if it's not. You feel that you can thrive even if you're at the bottom, you feel that one day is going to be your day. It's not that you're arrogant, you just believe that perseverance works and it can put you on top. 

CAN YOU REALLY WIN BY NOT GIVING UP?

I don't know, maybe if you got lucky hahaha! Just kidding, of course you will win. I am a living testament of a winner who simply win by not giving up. I don't have talents nor confidence before, all I have is this insane ability to not give up no matter what, I just persevere everyday until I become finally successful. 

Jun 18, 2020

9 EFFICIENT TECHNIQUES TO TRANSFORM YOURSELF FROM BEING A LOSER TO A WINNER

Are you so sick and tired of your bum life? are you tired losing again and again? Do you feel you deserve more? do you feel that life has something more but you're getting less? well, something bring you here, you are reading this not by accident but because you are destined to know the information below that will transform your life from being a loser to a winner. This is your lucky day because the techniques I am going to tell you will surely change your life, and if it didn't changed your life... then you didn't follow my tips. I was a loser before, nobody likes me, I feel like a victim, I have no strength and confidence, I feel so powerless and useless. But my life suddenly changed when I follow these steps.

1. Make yourself better than yesterday.

The good thing about being a man is you can always improve everyday. You have a brain, a brain that is better than all of the species around the world. Unlike a cockroach that cannot walk back, unlike a gorilla that cannot even talk or process complicated information... you have a mind that can operate on a higher level. Use your mind to your advantage, use your mind to give you a better life. Be better than yesterday. You can decide if you will become better than yesterday or not, it's up to you, it's within your reach. You have what it takes to become better all you need to do is go further. You can do better than yesterday, you can go harder than yesterday. 

2. Be fast.

Success loves speed, if you wan to become a winner then you need to be fast. Think fast, start fast, try again fast, recover fast, sleep fast, be fast but don't rush. If you're fast in starting something, if you will just do it no matter what regardless of how you feel and what type of condition you have... you will go to a different level so fast. It's because you're fast, speed will attract speed, slow will attract slow... as simple as that. You should live in a fast lane, quit doing stupid things that will make you slow. Start disciplining your mind to move right away even if it's too uncomfortable. It's all about killing the thoughts that makes you believe that it's hard, it's about not thinking about the long work that you must do, it's about not thinking if you're already late or still early... stop thinking too much and execute. Transform yourself from being a waiter to a fast starter. Ignite the fire that is sleeping inside of you by being relentless, pretend that you're unstoppable and you will become one. Being unstoppable simply means working and pushing yourself every time you feel the resistance. It's dragging yourself to work hard even if you don't like it. 

3. Stretch your skills and abilities.
4. Lock in.

Forget about what other people are doing, forget about what other people are talking about, forget their achievements or failures and just focus on your own growth. Watch yourself evolve, enjoy yourself because you have to give yourself and your journey a lot of time if you want to evolve big time. Whether you admit it or not... you're only getting bitter when you see someone succeeding and you're not, this is normal. But you must see yourself doing it, you must admit that you're bitter so you're eliminating that attitude little by little. Being bitter is a waste of time and energy, so the solution for this is to just focus on yourself and make yourself a little bit successful everyday. You can improve and make progress a little bit. Every time you work you are progressing even if you haven't get any results yet. Every time you persevere and face discomfort you're going to another level. 

So take it slowly, stay locked in, focus on your goals, focus on becoming a better man. More skills, more knowledge, more disciplined, more tenacious... these can be achieved by you, just give yourself more time, feel everything about. Enjoy every step and sacrifice, feel happy that you're doing the hard things and not the easy things like others. Always remember that if you want a different result then you need to separate yourself from the pack, do what other people can't do... be something extra ordinary by just focusing on your own work and doing your very best every single day. 

5. Know what you really want.

Sometimes you don't know what you want and that's why you don't have a direction, that's why you can't escape the rut you are in, you don't know your destination. Or maybe you want a lot too much, you're wanting everything. You want to copy other people's path because you see that they're succeeding even if you really don't want that path. You must know what you want and you must stick with it. It's ok to want one or two things but never desire everything because it will only bring confusion into your life. You need to be in a one direction only, know the patterns you are creating, know every single action that you are taking and you will see how lost you are. 

6. Be ready for any bad luck.

Losers whine, losers complain, they don't want to take full responsibility of what is happening with their lives. Bad luck will come, it's part of your life but what you don't know is that it's only making you stronger, it's not a bad luck... it's a strength creator. Bad luck will bring out the best in you, it will reveal you who you really are. Are you going to cry like a loser? are you going to blame the world? are you going to look for sympathy? or are you going to fight back? 

7. Don't quit. 

Just don't quit and you're already a winner, just do whatever it takes to win and you will get there in just a matter of time. Keep trying, keep hoping, keep moving, never get stagnant or idle. Just keep moving forward, there is a space waiting for you to operate, there is always a one small action that you can do to make your situation a little bit better so quit quitting and keep trying, this will make you a better person, you have a very big chance of winning if you don't quit. 

8. Be ok getting less.

Feel happy with what you are getting, be ok with getting less, this kind of mindset means abundance, it means you're happy with what you are getting and you're not complaining about it. The result is you attract more, you are getting more little by little. Because if you're not complaining and being an asshole then more good things will come to you. And the truth is... there is no big nor small, there is only happiness. If you can be very happy with what you've got then it is big but if you're always complaining about what you have and being unappreciative about it then it is small. Size is just an illusion, there is no big nor small there is only appreciation. Being grateful, being appreciative is the key to getting more. 

9. Feel invincible

At the end of the day, you will feel something. Why not feel invincible instead of feeling depressed, weak or anxious? You can draw the state from within, all you have to do is move and you will become confident again. Have a mindset that you will face any challenge in front if you... that's how to feel invincible. And really face it, don't shy away from it, don't panic if there is a challenge, don't get overwhelmed because for as long as you're alive and breathing... there is no challenge that cannot be conquered. 

Jun 16, 2020

REALIZE SOMETHING, MAIN REASONS WHY ARE YOU FAILING

Realize that if something is not making you improve or giving you a better life then you need to get rid of it as fast as you can. What are you doing now? what are you thinking now? is it taking you to the next level? is it making you a better person? is it giving you more money? if not then why the hell are you still doing it? it's too simple, success is hard but it's too simple. It's all about pushing everyday and putting yourself on a better position than yesterday. If you can be a good realizer about what works or what does not then you're already on a different level. Because 90 percent of what you do is rubbish, it's not helping at all, you're wasting your time and energy and you keep living that way. The funny thing is you're not doing something about it, you mess up all the time but you keep on doing the same funny shi*t everyday. You're better than that, you're always better than that and you should get better in realizing that most of your actions are putting you down.

ENTERTAINMENT IS RUINING YOUR LIFE

You're picking the wrong entertainment and this is the main reason why your life is falling apart. You're so addicted to temporary high, you love to feel good by practicing instant gratification. You're entertained with useless information, you're entertained with garbage, you love to waste a lot of your time and that's the main thing why you're still a loser up to now. Look where your time is going... it's going to nothing, you're using it to make you feel good right away but will make you feel bad in the future.

CHOOSE THE RIGHT ENTERTAINMENT

The right form of entertainment is practicing delayed gratification. You have to discipline yourself, you have to choose the entertainment that will make you grow. You know what it is, you know if you're doing something bad or not, you know if you will get something from a particular activity or not. Stop fooling yourself, you have to give up temporary and fast happiness in order to attract success. Remember that you only have to suffer for now but you will live as a champion for the rest of your life as Muhammad Ali says. It's only a short period of time that you must sacrifice, time is fast, you will never know that you're already great so keep going, keep pushing yourself and never stop. Don't stop when it's hard, stop when you're already successful... this philosophy always work and will never fail you. You have to stay consistent, stay committed and success will be yours.

CREATE YOUR OWN ENTERTAINMENT

If you want to become successful you must focus on your own life. Get entertained by simply watching your own life, feeling yourself, feeling happy about yourself, creating arts, creating something that will produce millions one day, chasing an impossible dream, creating your own philosophy, creating your own set of beliefs. You can amuse yourself, learn to become happy with your own form of entertainment, learn to be content of what you have and never let external things fool you. If you want to become a better man, if you want to have a better life then you need to discipline yourself, top acting like a child because wanting to be happy all the time is not getting the job done.

It's only boring in the beginning because your subconscious mind was filled with garbage thoughts. Once you become fully engaged on yourself... everything will become a miracle. You have to feel everything about you, see everything about you, enjoy yourself as much as you can. Treat yourself like a super hero with a mission, and your mission is to save yourself from drowning from bad habits that are putting you down all the time. You're powerful, you just need to accept that you can become great if you work hard and stay fully committed to your goals and ambitions.

ENJOY CHAOS, EMBRACE DISCOMFORT

This is the only way to get to the next level... enjoy chaos, if it's uncomfortable and stressful it means you're fighting, you're trying, you're improving and growing. Be happy if you're struggling because it means you're on the right path. Forget about your emotions, always remember that you need to get something done. Be fast in starting and never let your mind think again. Embrace the pain, embrace the struggle because that is the only time when you're making a progress, you will never grow if there is no pressure or resistance at all. Your duty is to keep on facing what needs to be faced, do what is needed without hesitation and for sure rapid growth will be achieved. Because most of the time your feelings are tricking you, it's telling you to quit, it's telling you to stop, it's telling you that you can't do it but the truth is you can do everything you want if you will use your willpower and tenacity to keep going. Just keep going and live with the moment, forget about what's going to happen next, know what needs to be done and do it with all your might.

ALWAYS GUARD YOURSELF

Be aware if you're doing a lot of damage to yourself, be mindful if you're not doing everything you can to succeed. You know what's working, you know the habits and thoughts that are keeping you down, stay away from negative thoughts and actions and you're already successful. Be mindful of your actions and decisions, life will become much easier if you will learn how to control your mind. Whenever you find yourself on the wrong path again... force yourself to stop and go back on the right track, you need to use a lot of willpower here but it's really possible to change yourself and your life, just endure the pain, enjoy the boredom and learn to enjoy every second even if it's not entertaining or fun at all. Learn how to enjoy every struggle and difficulty... that's the only way to get out of the rut you are in. That's the only way to escape being stuck in a mud and rise from the ashes. 

Jun 12, 2020

THE RESULT WILL BE DIFFERENT IF YOU'RE REALLY WORKING HARD

You know why the result is still the same? you know why you're still stuck in a rut you're in? it's because you're faking hard work, you're not respecting its title. "Hard work" is a very strong title. You should respect the word "hardwork" and don't attached your name with it if you're working like a sick dog even though you have the strength to push and do more. Hard work is a special word, it's common but it's still special. It's the number one recipe for success. Nothing can outclass hard work.

HARD WORK CAN GIVE YOU ANYTHING IF YOU ARE TRUE TO IT

If your hard work is real and you're really paying the price, hard work will give you anything, literally it can make you anything. It can give you confidence, it can give you money, it can upgrade your skills, it can take you to another level, especially if you paired it with the proper technique and strong belief... you will become really unstoppable if you work hard. So be true to hard work, never disrespect it. So look at yourself, study your past, you're not getting any form of success because you're not true to hard work. Just because you're having a hard time doesn't mean you're really working hard. You're having  a hard time because you don't really want to work hard, you want to do something else. You can do something else but keep in mind that it will never make you a better person. 

If you're true to hard work then you will never complain, you will never get frustrated if results were not coming in, you will just work hard and stay faithful with it, you will treat it as your friend and good adviser, you will come to it and use it again every time things are not going well. 

YOU CAN LOVE ANY WORK

Even the most difficult job can be learned how to love. All you have to do is feel it, feel it second by second, never rush, never take shortcuts, just feel it and always have the mentality of giving your best no matter what. Once it became your habit to give your best even if the reward is small or big... it will be easier to work hard, it feels like not hard work anymore, it feels like a game that you must play and enjoy. You can treat everything like a game if you will condition your mind that every work is easy. Just take it one step at a time, it's ok if you're slow, just feel every movement of your body. Focus your thoughts on your work, never think about anything else other than your work. Build a very strong work ethic, by doing this will make you attract success faster. People will love your work, they will feel that there's a lot of passionate put into it. The world will recognize you if you're not rushing your work, they will feel and see that you really put a lot of blood, sweat and tears into it. 

Don't change the level of difficulty, don't look for an easy work... change your attitude, change your attitude towards any work and learn to love every step that you're going to make. If you can have this mindset then all work will become an easy work. Every work will become easy peasy, you don't have to worry anymore, you don't have to hide from it, you will embrace it and have fun with it as much as you can. 

IT'S BECOMING HARD WORK BECAUSE YOU'RE ITCHING TO FINISH IT

You're not trying to love it, you're not giving it a chance to make you feel better. All you want to do is escape it and that's why all of your work looks like a mess. You don't believe that being passionate and loving your work will bring success, you're always rushing, you're always looking for an easy way out. The result is inefficiency and mediocrity. If you want to become great then you must be great in anything you do. May it be sweeping a floor or washing dishes... you must learn how to enjoy it because it's the only mindset that will breed success. 

Don't rush too much, forget about time, never make a sloppy work because it will back fire on you. You may have to repeat it again because it's useless. When you're not trying to feel your work, if you want to do something else while doing it then it will become harder, you will never be able to finish it on time. You have to bring out the childlike attitude in you while working, treat every work as a play but of course don't mess around and take it for granted, enjoy it but still give your very best. 

HOW BIG ARE THE NUMBERS YOU CAN PRODUCE?

You can lie, you can pretend to be working hard and be proud that you're suffering but your numbers should be consistent with your talking. You can lie but your numbers won't. Did you really work hard? did you really spend longer hours than what it used to be? did you exert extra effort and push yourself a little bit? did you repeat as many times as you can to make the output closer to perfection? Did you do whatever it takes to produce a great outcome? you can lie, you can be a great pretender but you can never be a great finisher. It will be seen in your numbers, it will be seen in the quality of your outputs. Most people are pretending to be working hard but the truth is they just want sympathy and appreciation. If you're really working hard then you don't have to tell it to the whole world, you will just work and let them feel you. If they appreciate you then it's fine, if they don't then it's fine too. You don't need people to applaud you after working hard, it should be in your system forever, it should be your culture and religion. So don't ever fake hard work, don't try to impress people by telling them how hard you work.. just do it. 

HARD WORK AS YOUR GUIDE

If you're lost, if you're in a state of oblivion just simply look at yourself, are you working hard or not? are you giving your best and pushing yourself like you never push before. If you're going down then simply go to your hustle, work hard and you will be able to climb up to the ladder again. Because the truth is you're going down because you're not working hard anymore. There is no fire and ambition in your work anymore, you simply just do it without even enjoying it, you do it for the sake of having to avoid being labeled as lazy. If you will do something... give your everything, give your heart and soul, admit to yourself if you're being lazy and go back to working hard again. Hard work can be a very good guide, it is a perfect path. Just stay consistent working hard everyday and you will be able to go further, you will become better and bigger, success will be cornered by you.

So forget everything if you are lost, forget the techniques, right methods, right process etc. Just work hard, you will be able to figure out everything once you keep working hard and moving forward all the time. Clues will be given to you, opportunities will be awarded to you, just keep working hard and grind every single day, that's how to get it done. 

IT'S TIME TO CHANGE THE RESULTS

You can manipulate the results of your life if you're really working hard, if you're sick and tired of getting the same results over and over again then make a work ethic adjustment. Work like hell, focus like a sniper, never take your eyes off the target. Have no conscience like an assassin, do it right away whenever you need to do it and never regret any mistake that you did, look for the next step right away and execute as fast as you can. Results will change, trust me, hard work is the answer to your fading career, hard work is what you've been waiting for all of your life, it will show you they way, just trust it and adapt it into your system. If the results are not changing yet it means you need to exert more effort, you need to push more, don't worry about getting depleted because the truth is you're having more and more energy every time you force yourself to work hard. Don't be afraid of getting tired because it only means you're leveling up, be happy if you're getting tired because you are getting closer and closer to what you want. You're a result changer, all it takes is discipline and commitment, anything is possible if you work hard, you can conquer anything, you can become anything you want to. 

Jun 6, 2020

ARE YOU REALLY TRYING?

Trying means really trying, trying means you're trying to win and get what you want. It's not just a pure effort here and there just for the sake of saying that you did try. If you're trying you're really going for the kill, you're trying to put the last nail on the coffin, you're going to the extreme and doing whatever it takes to win. Because some people say that they tried but never win, they say that they already did everything but still life is unfair to them. This is the funniest thing I've ever heard. If you really tried and do whatever it takes then you should still be trying up to now, trying means not stopping. It's not giving up. That's why it's called TRYING, you still push yourself and see what is possible, it doesn't mean COMPLAINING nor QUITTING. 

GIVE YOUR BEST EVEN IF YOU'RE FAILING

Your motivation should never go down, you should feel even stronger and motivated every time you fail. Don't be scared to try again, don't be scared to exert full maximum effort again. You have to make giving your best as your number one habit. Always be on a sense of urgency all the time. Everybody fails, every successful people hits the rock bottom. But your vision should never get blurry, it should be clearer than before. Never change path because it's hard, you should try again for one more time. And when toy fail again, try again, never get tired of trying. 

You should love trying again and again until you make it right. Never feel bad if you're working hard and yet nothing is working. It is part of the process, you really have to give a lot of time and effort to become a master of something. Giving your best will make you feel good, really really good. You will feel powerful, you will have pride in your work and you will feel that you're really growing and improving. 

STAY COMMITTED

Promise to yourself that no matter what happens you will still give your best and stay committed to your journey, you will try until you can't try no more. It is what it is, it's going to get hard, your commitment will be tested. You have no choice but to keep moving forward all the time if you really wanted to win. How to know if you're really committed? you focus your time and energy to yourself, you focus on the hustle. You never care about what other people are doing, you just focus on your own journey. You don't mind who's the latest pregnant celebrity, you don't care if Lebron James chokes again, you don't feel anything if Elon Musk go crazy or something, you don't care if Beyonce cried, you just care about your life and the things that you do. You're commitment is scary, it's something that cannot be break.

If you're really trying then you will never stop, you will go all the way and do whatever it takes to become successful. 

IT'S NOT ABOUT YOU WINNING

It's not about you winning, it's not about you getting a lot of money or becoming popular or something. It's not about you getting it fast and looking spectacular. It's about you giving your best, it's about you drinking your own blood, sweat and tears. If you can really give your best every single day then you already won. Because winning will come on the right time, you don't need to worry about it today. Your concern must be your effort, you must focus on taking massive actions. Because if you all you want is to win then you will lose your focus, you will always think about the results and easily get discouraged if you didn't get any result. Focus on what you can control and that is giving your all, you can never pick a day when you're going to win, you can never command the universe to give you what you want because you think you deserve it. The only thing you can control is your patience. Keep moving even if nothing good is happening. 

DON'T BE ASHAMED IF YOU'RE TRYING ALL YOUR LIFE

Don't feel bad, don't feel sorry for yourself if you've been trying something for almost all of your life. Nobody can do that, you're a legend, it only means you want it so bad, it only means you're not taking your chances for granted and you're giving yourself a chance to see greatness. Because giving your all is the real prize here, it's not about how much money or recognition you get, it's about giving your all for something and not giving up in the end. It's all about pushing yourself to the limits and trying every possibility. It's all about discovering what you really can do if you never give up and give your all. Just be patient because one day is going to be your day, one day you will be on top. 

PUSHING SHOULD BE THE ONLY THING YOU KNOW

Be a single minded person. Forget about feeling exhausted. Push if you're lazy, push if you don't have motivation. Keep pushing all the time. You can only make progress if you're really pushing yourself and giving everything you'be got. Because nothing will happen to your bum ugly life if you're not forcing yourself to take actions. It is what it is, it's not going to be easy but you will like it because you will see yourself evolving and developing into a beast. You are expanding, you don't feel inferior anymore because you have something to be proud of and that is your ability to focus and work really really hard. 

May 31, 2020

9 TIPS ON HOW TO STOP CARING ABOUT WHAT PEOPLE THINK OF YOU, BULLETPROOF YOUR MIND

Are you always conscious or cautious of what other people think of you? are you having a hard time expressing yourself because you think that they might not like your actions? if your answer to this question is yes the probably you have a sad life, your confidence is low but don't worry because just a few adjustments will make your life great again. 

1. Keep in mind that they don't care

They don't care, they really don't. Who are you to get insecure? who are you to stop yourself from expressing? you are nothing, they don't even know your name, they don't even know what you do so why get insecure of what they think? If you embarrassed yourself today with your silly and awkward actions and they laugh so hard and you feel like shrinking because your ego was badly hurt, don't worry because they will forget it tomorrow. Especially if the people who witness the event doesn't know you. And even if you know the people who witnessed the event... so what? People don't even care about you so don't be afraid to speak up or do what you want, they don't care if you're right or wrong. You're the only one who's creating an illusion that all of your actions were being guarded or criticized. 

2. They will forget what happened so don't be afraid to try.

They will forget that you lose, they will forget that you come up short, they will forget that you looked like a fool on that moment. An event that is not worth remembering will not be remembered, people will never treasure a mediocre memory. So don't be afraid to try and express yourself because you have nothing to lose here. Losers will never be remembered. So if you're losing now, if you're struggling or in a rut... enjoy it, don't be afraid to try and win because they are not counting how many times you lost. Try again because you only need to win once, and once you win... they will forget every embarrassing moments about you. 

3. Focus on the most important things in your life.

Focus on your goals, focus on your family, focus on the people that loves you back. If you know what really matters in your life then you will never give attention to things or people that doesn't resonate with your purpose. You will allow them to laugh or criticize you but it will never even make an impact to your emotion. So what if you got embarrassed in front of a lot of people, you don't know them, they're not important in your life so forget about looking stupid, there is nothing to be ashamed of. 

4. Embarrass yourself all the time. 

If you fail again and again, if you got rejected by a girl again and again, if you feel anxious again and again but you fight it... you will no longer be afraid of what people say. It's because your mind was hardened by ugly circumstances. You already felt the pain a lot of times, you know how it feels and you were able to discover that it is nothing, it doesn't lessen your manhood, it doesn't even hurt you in real life, you're the only who one who's giving it a bigger meaning. Your interpretation about what happened is what's hurting you. 

5. Remember that you're just a human being.

You're just a human, you are allowed to fail, you are allowed to look ignorant or weak. Being weak, inadequate, ugly or looking like a loser is forgivable. You are not perfect so don't try to be one. You're just a human being and your flaws or weakness is part of who you really are. All humans make mistakes, even the most intelligent and modest person makes mistakes, you're just a human being, you're allowed to look like a fool and stupid. And when most people criticize or laugh at you... just ignore it, it will soon pass, don't give it any attention, don't let it bother you. It's their problem if they can't forget what happened, they're just wasting their time and that is already your revenge. While they are wasting their time thinking of you, you are moving forward and living your life with no regrets at all. 

6. JUST BE YOURSELF

If you're ugly so be it, if you're not smart so be it. But don't ever stop yourself from asking for what you want. You are allowed to ask, don't be afraid of what people might say that you don't deserve what you're asking for. Remember, you're just trying, there is no harm in trying, it's ok to ask for more than what you deserve. And you really don't know what you deserve, sometimes the word "deserving" is only coming from the judgement of people. If you can get it, if you get lucky having it then you deserve it. Be yourself, show your true colors, and even if some people won't like you... so be it, you are not here to impress them, you are not here to please all people. You are here to enjoy life and feel free all the time, and you can only achieve freedom if you stop thinking about what other people say. 

7. Always remember that there is always tomorrow. 

There is always a tomorrow so don't be afraid to fail now, don't be afraid to look stupid now. Tomorrow you can try again, tomorrow might be your day. Don't be afraid to lose, get humiliated, get rejected because tomorrow is another day where you can win. You have unlimited number of tries and that is your biggest leverage. If you got rejected by a girl now, try again tomorrow, look for another potential victim. If you got laugh at today because of making a mistake and it makes you feel so bad, don't worry because there is a tomorrow. Good things may come to your life tomorrow so forget about what happened today and just move on.

8. Stop thinking that you're so special. 

You're not a star, they don't even know your name, you're nothing, you don't even have a followers on you tube so who are you to think that you don't have the right to make mistakes. And even if you're a little bit popular... forget you name, your name is nothing, forget about your reputation, you will never be able to move and express yourself honestly if you're always taking care of your name. If you can just stay humble and forget your identity then you will be able to express yourself to the fullest. Stop thinking that you deserve a special treatment, you're just a human being, don't think that you're so special because that's stopping you from taking actions and risks. 

9. Don't focus on perfection, focus on execution.

It's not that you will act like a fool or clown and just do stupid things, it's not that you're going to mess up everything and just show up. Of course you still need to give your best but don't ever look for perfection, give your best but be ok with making mistakes.  People who focus on making it perfect never achieved anything, it's because they can't start. They were to focused on what people are going to say instead of focusing on giving their best. 

WHAT IF I GOT INSECURE AGAIN?

Very simple, in your mind... think that everything is nothing. Because it really is, nobody owns something forever. Everybody will die, everyone will never take with him his millions. So why get insecure of someone who is not invincible at all. If you got insecure with someone, always think that he is just another person who is decaying one day at a time, because he really is. No matter how rich you are, you're dying one day at a time, no matter how rich you are... you will never escape death. So why get insecure with someone who is not even a God? Treat everyone with respect but never treat everyone as someone who is higher or lower than you, always think that they're just another human being with no special powers. So never mind what they think because it doesn't matter at all. 

May 30, 2020

11 SIMPLE WAYS ON HOW TO REINVENT YOUR LIFE

Reinventing your life is possible, it's not that hard if you will make it simple. If you will just follow the tips below then you will be able to reinvent your life in just a matter of time, all it takes is patience and discipline. Keep going, keep persevering, you have to use your willpower, you have to focus on your goal and never let any distraction make you slower and frustrated. 

1. Change the pattern.

Look at your behavior, it is all connected to a thought. You are doing something because a thought triggers it. If you want to reinvent your life then you need to be mindful of your thoughts. Your thoughts is the one in control of your life. Basically all of your actions was triggered by your subconscious mind. You're doing something because it was recorded in your brain. You're always in an auto pilot mode, that's why it'so hard to get rid of a bad habit, it's because you've been doing it for a very long time and it's already hardwired in your brain. Look at those drug addicts... Most of them want to change, they don't want to do drugs anymore but they feel that's it's impossible to change because they always feel weird and uncomfortable whenever they try stop taking drugs. 

The pattern of your thoughts will only change if you're aware of your stupidity, you must feel everything. People who were stuck in a mud for a very long time can't feel anymore, they just go with the flow, they let their thoughts and addiction to delayed gratification control them. If you want to reinvent yourself you need to feel the pain, you need to realize that it's hard but you have to keep going, keep pushing until you finally control your thoughts and build the discipline you needed to become successful. 

2. Leave some of the toxic people in your circle

There are some people in your circle who are contributing to your life getting rotten even more, you know them you just don't have the strength to leave them. I'm not saying that you have to ignore them and make them feel that you're no longer interested in hanging out with them, you can little by little get cold with them or you can reject them simultaneously by making excuses or dramas that they're also using on you before. It's time to leave the people who are not making you feel motivated, don't think about them, ignore their messages but don't be rude, just treat them cold and they will go away, they will feel it. And when they ask if there is something wrong just pretend that there is nothing, leave them thinking about what went wrong. And feel no guilt by doing it, remember that you are reinventing your life and part of the process is getting rid of people that are only making you feel weak and useless. You have a value, it's just that your value is getting smaller every time you hang out with people who are toxic, users and cry babies. They have no place in your life, they're only using you, its time to man up and pick the right people to your life. Take care of the people who are making you feel motivated, only hang out with people that really cares for you. 

3. GO harder than yesterday.

You need to go hard, I mean really hard, not like a soft teddy bear that is so frail and useless. You have to make yourself stronger, more productive, you have to increase your value by not wasting time and focusing on things that are giving you some progress. Go hard even if results were not coming yet, go hard all the time, you can do it. Once you develop a habit of working hard all the time... it will be easier for you to conquer obstacles, you will no longer be afraid of any process, your endurance and focus will become much better. Start fast and go hard, never think, stop caring about how you feel, stop caring if you're badly exhausted... just keep moving forward all the time. Don't worry about resting because you can rest anytime you want to once you become successful. The rest is in the end and not in the middle. 

4. Go for what you want relentlessly.

Go for it, attack it, have no conscience in getting it, do whatever it takes to make it yours. The reason why you can't reinvent your life is because you know what you want but you're not aiming for it. Don't be afraid to lose over and over again, you only need to win once but you have to try as many as you can. Trying is free, the number of trials you are allowed is unlimited so take advantage of that privilege. There is something you can do, there is an action waiting to get started, you have to keep pushing the pace, be a relentless lion that hunts for his prey all the time, it doesn't matter if you're not getting anything for now... just attack relentlessly and viciously. 

5. Reinvent your thoughts

Give other meaning to different things, give it a better meaning. For example if today is not your day, think that tomorrow is going to be your lucky day. most people will lose hope when they fail today, reinvent your thoughts and always think that everything that is happening is giving you a favor. If you failed today, think that it's just a learning curve, think that it's purpose is to make you a better person. Your thoughts is what make you, your thoughts is the creator of your reality, you better think the right way, you better fill your mind with positive thoughts if you want to have a very good transformation. It's hard to think positive but if you can make it a habit to practice it everyday then those negative thoughts inside of your head will be replaced by the positive ones. Take time to practice, take time to know yourself , tame your mind and stop focusing on the things that you don't want to attract into your life, focus only on the thoughts that makes you feel better and motivated. 

6. Be patient in learning the skills you needed.

There are some skills that you need in order to become a better person, and it's your duty to learn those skills. Don't rush, it will take time, enjoy the learning process. You don't need to learn everything in one day, be fast in moving but don't panic when you can't get the information you needed, you will learn it naturally if you will love the process. Don't be afraid to apply the skills you learned right away, don't just think about it... apply it, execute and don't be afraid if you can't get it right on the first try, you will learn even more every time you fail so don't be afraid to endure he bitterness of failure because you're headed to the right direction every time you take the risk. 

7. Be a doer not a procrastinator. 

As simple as it sounds, be a creator, be a doer, do something instead of watching other people succeed. Stop talking and just do something, this is not hard, all it takes is the discipline to stay committed. Watch yourself, are you a doer or a watcher? are you a commentator or an executor? Always guard what you are doing, always be aware if you're not doing something that will make you evolve. Doers evolve everyday and that is why they keep succeeding and growing and winning. While procrastinators simply watch other people perform and get jealous with it, they were more interested in talking about what other people are doing instead of focusing on their own lives and try to grow a little bit by taking actions and working hard. You can reinvent your life by simply being a doer, do something. It doesn't need to be fast, flashy or great... just do something and never stop, make it a habit to be the one performing and not watching. If you are a doer then you're in control, you can control the outcome of your life but if you're just a watcher then you're the one being controlled by the things that you are watching. You are hoping to see something differently but you can't because you're not part of the show, you're just an audience wishing to see the perfect ending of other people's stories. 

8. Stop looking for a change.

Be the change, stop looking for improvement and just practice improving. You're always looking for an improvement in your life even if you haven't done anything massive yet, you're always checking for results even though you only give a little effort. Stop looking for a chance and just change everyday, be the change you want to happen. Focus on the process and not on the results. There is no such thing as a fast or big transformation, great things doesn't happen in just one night. You have to grind, stay committed and push as much as you can, there is no shortcuts to reinvent your life. You have to undergo every process, you have to take every step required to achieve the life that you want. 

9. Work even if you don't need to. 

Just because your papa gave you 500 gran doesn't mean you don't have to work anymore. Remember, if you're too comfortable with your life then your life will go down later. You have to keep working because you can only produce growth thorough working. If you want to reinvent yourself then make yourself uncomfortable even if you have the luxury to not work. Working will be your obligation if you want to have an evolution. Because grinding and forcing yourself is the only way to change your life or produce a different outcome, you will never be able to reinvent your life if you're chilling too much and not doing some hard things. Work even if you don't have to, work hard now because it is easier to work hard while you don't need to, it's harder to work hard if you are being forced to do so just to have some money. Work hard now and build your own empire, build a strong foundation now so you won't be forced to work hard in the future. 

10. Learn to enjoy every moment of your life. 

For you to get out of the rut you are in... you have to enjoy your life. Enjoy every second of it, enjoy the process, enjoy the struggle. Enjoy your stinky life, enjoy your boring and hard life... that's the only way to have a right state of mind. It's easy to evolve and improve if you're appreciative of what you have. Stop comparing what you have with what other people have, stop looking at other people's lives and getting jealous with them. Be happy with your own life and learn to enjoy every second of it. Having fun will make you do more, it will keep you motivated and aggressive. Enjoy every moment of your life even if you're on a bad situation. 

11. Give nothing but your best

Stop exerting a mediocre effort because you are not stretching your skills by doing that, always give your best. You can do better than that, there is always a room for improvement, you can always give an extra effort, you can always work longer than you normally do. Show your best, chase greatness. How to know if you're giving your best? if you're making the process a little more difficult than what it used to. Make it a promise to give your best no matter what. Just give your best, don't look for perfection but always give your best, you know if you're pushing yourself or not, you know if you're exerting a poor effort. 

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