You don't need to care about what people say because they don't care about you. Stop being too sensitive, stop being soft, stop being too emotional because feelings will never take you anywhere. You have to be hard, you have to be tough, you have to be insensitive because you will never win if you're always making dramas and crying like a bitch. They don't care about you, they don't care about how you feel, they don't care about what you think. Why are you so scared to express yourself? why are you so scared to make a mistake?
DON'T BE AFRAID TO FAIL
You are afraid to try because you're too afraid to fail, you're afraid to fail because you're afraid of what people might say. You have to change that kind of mentality, you have to try as much as you can and put yourself on a better position to succeed, you have to go all in every single day, you have to work hard even if success is not guaranteed. Failing is the surest way to learn, failing is the fastest way to make a progress, it's the most painful but the most legit lesson giver.
Failing is all part of the process, it's part of life. If there is no such thing as failure then you are sure to succeed, life will become very boring, there will be no balance. You will never experience how it feels to become great. Failure makes the victory sweeter, failure will teach you a lesson that you can use for daily life.
Failing is for the brave, not trying is for the weak. You have to keep on failing to shine, you have to keep on failing to learn, as simple as that. Just don't be afraid to fail, do whatever it takes to become successful. Go all in, go for what you want and never hold yourself back.
Devour this day and try to earn as much as you can, grow as much as you can and win as much as you can. Don't be afraid to fail, you have nothing to lose here, you have everything to gain. Treat your life like a game, you're just playing it and testing what you can get by simply working hard and believing in yourself.
LEARN TO LET GO AS FAST AS YOU CAN
Whenever you feel bad, whenever you feel embarrassed or something, whenever you feel anxious and overwhelmed... let go, learn to let go as fast as you can. Stop holding on to something stop thinking that you should feel good now, stop attaching yourself to an event of a person. Let go and you will feel free, if something was painful enough then just let it go, forget about it and never feel bad again. Never feel bad if you embarrass yourself, never feel scared because you don't know something, never feel out of place because you don't know someone... just let go. Never get addicted to your emotion, you have to see yourself if you're feeling bad for no reason, you have to feel confident that any emotion will just visit your body and will soon go away. You have to understand that everything is just an emotion and nothing else. Never care about how you feel too much, it's just a feeling and nothing more than that. Don't be too soft, don't make dramas like a diva because you will become a victim by doing that. And a victim is someone who always complain, a victim is a loser, a victim is the weakest person in the society.
No matter what they say, no matter what you feel... let it go. Let go of that negative feeling, let go of that negative self talk, stop thinking that you're something special and you will feel much better. Stop thinking that you're entitled to feel good all the time, stop thinking that your life is suppose to be perfect and life will become much much lighter.
TRASH YOUR IDENTITY
You feel perfect don't you? you feel so special right? you feel like you're entitled of getting something. But the truth is you're nothing, you're just another snowflake that wants some attention, life is very easy if you will forget your identity and just express yourself to the fullest. The reason why you can't even try is because you're so afraid of getting judged, you're so afraid of looking stupid, don't be afraid to look like a fool. Forget who you are, forget that you're a bum, forger that you are special, forget that you are great, forget that you are weak, forget that there is a reputation that you need to take care of. You are nothing, you are only suppose to work hard and give everything you've got, you are here to squeeze everything you can squeeze out of your life... as simple as that. Never look for appreciation nor clapping hands from other people, never think that you need some respect, think that you're at the bottom who's simply trying to climb your way to the top. Just keep pushing, keep trying and never care if you look like a fool who's trying so hard.
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