Jan 31, 2020

CAN YOU STAY CONSISTENT WITH IT?

You can have the nicest process in the world, you can have a perfect and sound game plan, you can have all the tools to make you better but the question is... can you stay consistent with it? can you do it everyday? you can have all the support and best equipment or coaches to help you but can you stay committed? Commitment is better than any kind of process, showing up everyday will have a big impact on your journey.

You can have the most high tech thread mill that you can use for exercise, you can have the best shoes for running, you can have the highest paid coach but the question is can you show up everyday? Because it's not about what you have, it's about what you do with what you have. There are lot of people who will keep on looking for something before they start. They will look for the best coach, best outfit, best place, best everything before they start. The funny thing is they will just do the process for how many days and then they will quit, they will go back to their old lazy habits. You must understand that this is not a sprint, this is a marathon. It's not how high tech you are, it's not how good looking you are... it's about consistency and tenacity. Can you do it everyday? can you stay tenacious when you're feeling lazy and tired? can you force yourself to just do it no matter what?

YOU'RE JUST MAKING AN EXCUSE THAT'S WHY YOU'RE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR SOMETHING

You're always looking for a help, you're always looking for good things, you're always looking for a perfect situation, the truth is you don't even need anything before you start. You can show up empty handed without anything, you can still move despite of having zero in your hands. You can succeed by starting from the bottom, you can work hard without nice clothes, nice shoes, etc. Because you can have everything you need but still feel lazy, it all depends on how bad do you want it. There are some runners in africa who made it to the olympics by running barefoot, could you believe that? there are some people who can't read and write but made millions. You can have everything you need but still fail. Because if you're not consistent, if you will not do it everyday then you will still fail. Consistency is what you need, not the beautiful things, not the fancy shoes or clothes, not the strong support... it's work ethic and showing up everyday, as simple as that.

I have a fat friend who has a gym in his house, he is rich, he have everything he need but he can't cut his weight because he has no will, he will just exercise whenever he is comfortable, and that is why he looks like a bum. He is so full of crap and making a lot of excuses, sometimes he will even tell everyone that he needs to buy this first or buy that before he begin.

CONSISTENCY OVER ANYTHING

Don't look for results right away, don't look for a perfect situation, don't look for anything before you start. Forget everything, you just have to start now and do it again tomorrow and next next day and so on. That's what you need to be focusing on. It's action, it's taking massive massive action and nothing else. You can have the nicest Jordans or Nike shoes, you can have the best coach, you can watch all the motivational videos but if you will not utilize your time very well then you will never achieve anything... as simple as that. Because work is the only thing that will get the job done and nothing else. Don't worry if your pace is too slow, don't worry if you can't get any results yet for now... just keep moving forward and you will see the sunshine one day, you will see the silver lining, you will get what you want. There is no way you can't get it if you really want it, as simple as that. Never check for results... just do what you can do, never mind if you're giving too much effort on your work, it's ok, just have fun because enjoying what you're doing will make the process so much easier. Just keep pushing yourself, do it even if you feel lazy, do it even if you feel like not doing it. Once you mastered consistency... it will be a lot easier for you to succeed.

THINGS TO DO TO BECOME CONSISTENT

1. Always go hard. Don't be too soft, stop making excuses, just show up and do it everyday, do whatever it takes to force yourself to take actions. Take massive actions and never take days off. Always think that you have to do it or else you will fail, scare yourself, remind yourself that failure will lead to a miserable life, remind yourself that you're chasing greatness and you will never stop until you become very successful. Stop looking for comfort all the time, you will have a comfortable life later once you reach your goals. Don't rest in the middle, rest in the end. Do whatever it takes to keep pushing forward and make some small progress.

2. Stop checking results every now and then. You feel bad and lazy because you can't see some progress. Guess what... every time you move you're already making some progress, you just can't see it now because you're expecting too much. Stop looking for huge strides, stop wishing for a shortcut, it will be yours in just a matter of time, you have to work hard for now and endure all the pain if you really want to become a huge success. Because you don't need to become a fast millionaire, you don't need to become jacked up with steroids, you don't need to compare yourself with other people's success. Enjoy your own journey and never fast forward the process.

3. Believe in yourself. Believe that you already won, believe that you can do it, always believe in yourself. Have some confidence with your process and trust that it will work with the right amount of effort exerted. Because if you will not believe in yourself then you're not going to make it... as simple as that, keep believing in yourself, keep surviving the habit, just do it now, survive the habit now and never kill the momentum. 

Jan 30, 2020

GIVING ADVISES THAT YOU WILL NOT EVEN DO IN YOUR OWN LIFE

We are talking about people who were so arrogant, who are preachers and thinks they know what to do in any kind of situation. These are fake gurus, advisers, wannabes, they think they are perfect but in reality they are not even doing what they are preaching, they were fake mambas, they were fake leaders. If you will give advises to other people make sure you're going to do it too because you're just fooling yourself and the people you are giving advises to. Make sure you are for real, make sure you're reliable and you already experienced the same problem as they have right now. The funny thing is a lot of people can make comments about the problems that they haven't encountered yet. If haven't experienced something yet stop giving suggestions even if the problem looks easy. You never know how it feels to be on that situation so who are you to talk like you know everything?

TELLING PEOPLE TO WORK HARD AND MAKE SACRIFICES

Are you really working hard? are you really doing what you say you're going to do? you can fool the public and act like great but you can never fool yourself, you know if you're just clowning around and simply trying to sell some crap for your own advantage. Stop taking advantage of people and manipulating them, you know if you're for real or not. Talk is cheap, talking is for the losers. Even if you're good in talking you will still lose in the end if you're poor in executing. So shut up now and if you really want to give some good advise then you need to make yourself better first, make sure you already experienced the same situation as the people that you're giving an advise, make sure you have the right records and wisdom to give them the right information.

So if you're telling them to work hard then you need to prove that you're a hard working person too, take massive actions and prove them that you're all about working with the process. Stop giving advises about hard work if you're too slow and lazy, stop acting like you really work hard if all you do is kill your time and watch TV. If you can't make sacrifices on your own, if you can't practice delayed gratification then you don't have the right to make advises about hard work.

ONLY GIVE ADVISES IF THEY ASK FOR IT

If you seen someone who need your advise... don't give it unless they ask for it. People know if they need information from other people, you don't need to feed them your knowledge if they are not read for it because they will not accept it and they will only get annoyed at you. Open your mouth only if you need to, and even if you really know something... it's much better if you will wait for them to come to you instead of forcing them to believe you. Because sometimes you are talking too much and not respecting their space, you're giving inputs even if they're not yet ready for it. You're looking like arrogant and a person who feels he knows everything, shut your mouth first and wait for them to come to you. If they come then good, if they not then just shut your mouth. Because if you're really good, if you really know how to react with a specific problem then you don't need to shout to the world the right action to be take, you will just stay humble and will just speak when the right time comes.

Always stay humble, just because you know something doesn't mean they need it. If they don't need your advise then don't give it, just keep it and just use it in the future. Maybe some other people maybe needing it in the future so keep it and just be ready if someone ask for your advise.

PROVE TO THEM THAT YOU'RE THE REAL DEAL

You can't be giving advises to someone who has a love problem if you're still a virgin and hasn't been a relationship yet. You can't be giving an advise to a struggling athlete if you're being benched in your whole career, you can't be giving an advise to a president if you're just a garbage collector. Know your place, just because you know something doesn't mean your knowledge is right. If you really wan to become an adviser then make yourself better first, achieve greatness first, make sure you have the proper resume and history to give advise to someone.

That's why it's hard to believe in a coach who has been a failure in his career, that coach is a fraud, that coach cannot be trusted. Only trust someone who's really good and has the experience that you didn't experience in your life yet. Trust someone who has the right knowledge and wisdom to give you ideas.

So make your resume strong so you can give advise to other people, make yourself better, be someone who is trustworthy and reliable. Stop being fake, be a doer and not just a talker. Because everyone can talk, even a beggar can pretend to be something and give people advise. Anyone can pretend to be something great but people will discover your fake show in the end.

NEVER BELIEVE AN ADVISE THAT YOU DIDN'T FEEL

If you don't feel it don't follow it, trust me your instincts were much better than other people's advise. What you feel and what you want to believe is the best basis to follow. Even if an advise comes from your beloved idol... if it doesn't feel right then never follow it. You know if something is good or not, you will feel it in your heart. It's better to make a wrong decision but you follow your heart because at the end of the day... their advises might be wrong too and it will hurt more if you follow wrong advises instead of following your heart. Own your mind, it's your life, never be influence by an information that weakens you, if you feel that it is wrong then don't hesitate to reject that advise. Your heart knows what is best for you, your instincts knows the right path. 

Jan 29, 2020

A PATTERN IS STARTING TO BUILD

Are you good in watching patterns? are you good in watching your own life? if yes then you can see if you are going down or going up, you will be able to predict your future. Because every time you make a decision... a potential pattern is about to build. So every time you procrastinate and become lazy what is the result... FAILURE right? you're going down, quick sand is starting to eat you and there is no way to get out. And that becomes your destiny, you keep on failing and failing because you're always lazy, late and irresponsible. It's becoming the pattern of your life. That is why losers keep losing and winners never stop winning, the results they are getting has something to do with their habits. The pattern is building every time you make a decision or action, it's becoming your life, it's becoming your world.

If you don't like the results you are getting you better do something about it, destroy the old pattern of your life, create something new that will create a new reality. It will be a slow process but it's all worth it, your life will become better, you will experience new things that you haven't experience before.

YOU'RE THE ONE TO BUILD YOUR OWN EMPIRE

Your empire may look like a castle or a squatter's house, it all depends on how hard you work and what kind of pattern you are dealing with. Look at those poor people, no matter how hard they work they can't get out of the rut they are in, it's simple because they're just repeating a pattern that is not working, they don't dare to change. They don't change their minds, they don't change their actions, they are not forcing themselves to build a new habit that will give them different results. Usually the pattern of poor people is this... they will work hard and then they will spend everything they earned. The cycle goes on and on, sometimes they will even complain and blame the government, sometimes they will even stop working hard and they will just take their lives for granted. 

It all starts with your brain, it all starts with the pattern that you are using. If you can just build an effective pattern and use it everyday then your life will become much easier. No matter how hard you deny... your thoughts affects your reality, it creates pattern that will determine the outcome of your life.

IT'S IN YOUR SUBCONSCIOUS MIND ALREADY

You know if you're going to win or not, you know if you're going to lose or fail, no matter how much you deny it... you always knew the outcome of your life. You knew it right from the start, it;s because you know if you're going to work hard or not, you know if you did the right thing or not. Everything you do, everything you think and remember will be embedded into your subconscious mind so be aware of what you are focusing on everyday because it will affect your mind and reality. If you want a new reality then focus on different thoughts. Never say that you're weak, poor, insufficient, unlucky or not blessed. Never associate your name with weak and negative words because you may not see that it's affecting your life now but you will in the future, never joke that you're dumb or weak because people will hear it and they will believe you and you will also believe with your negative joke, that ingrains into your brain and you will remember it everyday, you're slowly becoming it and you're not even noticing it.

HOW TO DESTROY AN UGLY PATTERN AND CREATE BIGGER RESULTS?

Be mindful of what you're doing and thinking... that's how to destroy a bad pattern. Because once you repeat an action over and over again... you will be on an auto pilot mode, you don't even need to think while doing it, it becomes automatic. Just like driving a car, you don't need to think to do it. So if you want to destroy an old pattern that is not effective... be in the moment, be aware of what you're doing and once you find yourself trapped in an old pattern again... stop doing it, think about some other things, do something different. Look at those negative people... they always think negative, they always find something wrong, it's because that's their pattern of thinking... they can't stop it because they are not aware of it, they don't know that there is something wrong with them.

You will create bigger results if you can destroy a pattern that is not working, once you find a pattern that is not working at all... go to the opposite of it, do the contrast of it, it's going to get uncomfortable in the beginning but once you embrace that discomfort and make a stand to create a new pattern... your life will change very fast, you will get bigger results, you will evolve as a human being.

So always look at yourself, see what you are doing, be aware of what you're thinking. It's critical to guard yourself because once a pattern goes deeper and deeper... it will be very hard to remove it from your system... it will become your life.

Sometimes a patter is too enjoyable and that gives you an illusion that it's working, but the truth is it's not, it only means you need to accept the fact that you need to let it go and create a new pattern that will upgrade your life.

If you repeatedly experience losing in life the only thing you need to do is look for the pattern that is blocking success. Look at your habits, look at the way you think and feel, what is your dominant thought? how do you react to certain situations? what is your philosophy in life? what is that thing or person that makes you feel bad but you still keep on thinking and entertaining? It's difficult to remove an old pattern but it's possible, all you need to have is commitment and dedication. 

Jan 28, 2020

A SMALL MOMENTUM WILL MAKE YOU FEEL MUCH BETTER

Every time you cater laziness... you will go down, you will feel weak. Every time you need to do something and you didn't do it your confidence will go down, you will feel sick and not competitive, you will feel inadequate and a loser, it's a bad feeling at all. So just do something, taking actions will give you a small momentum and that small momentum will build up your confidence, you will never feel useless anymore once you go hard today. Whatever you are doing or ought to do... do it fast, do it hard, do it with all your strength and you will feel how strong you are, you will discover that there are plenty of things you can do. All you have to do is do it, stop thinking and just do it, stop thinking about the future or the results and just do it. You must have a freedom from outcome, never think that you're doing wrong, never think that you will fail. A small and cute action is much better than not doing anything at all. You want something, you want to start but you're taking your time for granted, and that is why you can't accomplish something.

RELENTLESSNESS STARTS WITH A SMALL ACTION

You have to start now if you want to become relentless then follow through and follow through, never stop taking actions, never stop pushing forward. So whatever you can do now, no matter how small it is... do it and never stop, keep going further and further until you reach the finish line, don't worry about anything else, don't worry about failing, just keep pushing forward all the time and give your very best, you will only feel good if you're moving, you will feel like a garbage if you're always procrastinating and looking for comfort. Because there is no comfort in stagnancy, there is no benefits in wasting a lot of your time worrying about the future, you can create the future now, the future that you want through hard work and dedication. People who are relentless were not talented, they just knew the play going on, the just knew that all they have to do is push forward a little bit because they believe that taking it one step at a time is the only way to reach the top, you can never make a very huge progress, there are no shortcuts in life, you have to take the ladder, you can't skip the steps needed to become successful.

YOU CAN STOP A BAD MOMENTUM BY SIMPLY DOING THE RIGHT THING OR GOING INTO A DIFFERENT DIRECTION

If your momentum is going down it means you're not doing the right thing, you need to form a new habit that will change the outcome of your journey. Go to a different direction, stay positive, keep your intentions the same and alive and do something different. If you're winning then good, but if you keep on losing then you better change a new strategy, start doing something you haven't done before. Because once you're falling down and you don't know how to stop it... you will fall at the bottom, it's better to stop what you are doing now and do nothing because the effect will become lesser. Do the right thing, if you don't know it yet then try a lot of things, keep trying something new until you find out what is working.

It's easy to create a momentum, once you see a small progress or improvement... do what you're doing over and over again, never rush, never look for something better, be patient and be satisfied of what is going on at the moment. Once you master something or you're confident that you can get more results by changing something then that's the only time you are allowed to tweak the process a little bit.

IF YOU'RE GOING THROUGH HELL KEEP GOING

Sometimes you quit too soon, sometimes you think that it will not work, but in the end you will find out that you must have already won if you didn't quit. So don't give up when it's hard, give up when you're already successful. Nothing is easy here but if you have a mindset of just doing it even if it's hard then that's the time you will be able to escape hell, you will have a breakthrough, you will see heaven in a while. So keep pushing, you will never win if you stop, rest is in the end and not in the middle, the reason why you're so slow is because you're always looking for a rest, you're always looking for comfort, you want to pamper yourself even though you haven't done anything yet in your life. Remember that all you need is a small momentum and you can create something big from it so be patient pushing forward, be patient in taking small actions, one day is going to be your day.

Feeling good can only be found by working hard and pushing yourself. Because you will always feel weak if you're trapped in a box doing nothing and always over thinking. If you want to feel free... free yourself by doing something, as simple as that. So if you don't want to get stuck in life... allow yourself to take massive actions. Focus on something and make yourself good on it, make yourself one step closer towards your goals all the time. So keep going if you want to feel good all the time, there's a sense of feeling accomplished if you're moving and doing what is needed, your confidence will go up the momentum will rise, you will see the right path and you will figure it out slowly and consistently. Just keep going, it's a very simple play, once you created a momentum... make it bigger and stronger, never let it die, just like a fire that you keep feeding some woods and dried leaves, just like a plan that you keep watering everyday... never let the momentum die, make it alive and stronger, make it stay forever. 

Jan 27, 2020

CREATE YOUR OWN MIND

Your mind was not created by yourself, it was created by your environment, it was programmed by the people and events surrounding you. The news manipulated your mind, your parents thought you how to think, your teachers thought you how to do things, your friends installed some fear inside of your head telling you you can't do it. You didn't create your mind, they created it. The traumatic events that scares you, it was all recorded inside of your brain and it destroyed your confidence. The embarrassments that destroyed your self esteem because you take it personally, the unwanted lessons that your school taught you. The ideas that were put into your brain were not chosen by you, they chose it for you. It's time to become a rebel now, it's time to create your own mind and put all the information that you really want and not the information that you think were real but is not helping you at all.

They manipulated your mind, they choose what to put inside of your head, you have no choice before but to accept all of their inputs because you don't know anything. But things are different now, now that you know that thoughts creates reality then you will become more observant of your thoughts not, you will become very selective and strict of the thoughts that you are putting inside of your head.

Because you're not a kid anymore, you can choose the right thoughts that will give you a better life, you can block unwanted thoughts and shift your focus into something better. Own your mind now or else it will be owned by others. Be aware if an idea or information is not making you better. Always be mindful of what you are thinking of and never let any fun subject fool you.

IS IT POSSIBLE TO ERASE ALL OF THE UNWANTED INFORMATION INSIDE OF YOUR HEAD?

It's possible but it's hard to do it because it's already on your subconscious mind, there is a feeling paired with it that's why it's hard to erase. That's why traumas were very powerful and hard to get rid of, the person who experienced it is so afraid of the feeling associated with the subject, he doesn't want to feel that feeling again because it leaves a big scar in his heart.

The best thing to do is to think about what you want over and over again until it saturates your mind, this method will make you forget the traumatic events that happened to you, you will still remember it every once in a while but you can stop thinking about it easily because there is a new thought that is dominating your brain.

If an athlete got injured and he can't forget that career ending injury because he dreamed about it everyday... it will only stressed him if he tries to forget it, the best thing to do is keep thinking what he can do, keep thinking the best memories of his career and only think about his dreams. He will remember that injury again but he can stop the thought easily because he already trained his mind to keep thinking about the images that are making him feel much better.

STOP EXPOSING YOUR MIND TO NEGATIVITY

The more you expose your mind to negativity... the more it will become negative, you don't own your mind anymore, it was owned by other people and other things. The thought that controls you owns you, so if a new keeps on running inside of your head every single day then it owns your mind. If your enemy's image keeps on showing inside of your head then that enemy owns you. Fill your mind with positive thoughts only, train your mind to be mindful, you can only create a new mind that was built by yours if you will think consciously and patiently repeat the images that makes you feel good inside of your head. Refrain from watching news, stay away from negative people, stop gossiping, stop wishing someone to fail, stop getting interested with arguments or debates or fight. And if there is no way you can't block the negative subjects because it's already in front of you... just ignore it or never take it seriously, never talk about it nor give any attention. It's always your choice if you will let negativity poison your mind, you always have the choice, you can stop entertaining negative thoughts even if they are enjoyable.

REPEAT THE THOUGHTS THAT YOU WANT TO HAPPEN IN REALITY

Your thoughts are your reality, so if you want to experience a new and better reality... only entertain the thoughts that makes you feel good and you want to happen in real life. Stop entertaining the thought about lack, scarcity, sickness, failure, violence, fights and any other negative things that you don't want to experience. It's all about the repetition, you can reprogram your mind by being conscious of the thoughts that you want to happen in reality until it goes into your subconscious mind. It will work one day, your mind will change, repeat affirmations that you want to happen. It will not happen in an instant but your life, actions and habits will change slowly. Patience is the key here, don't rush the process, trust that it's going to work one day. Never get tired of repeating it, repeat it a million times if you need to, the more you repeat it the more it is likely to happen, it will become stronger and stronger every time you repeat it, it's just like strengthening a muscle through repetition of a drill, one you made it a habit and you automatically repeat it... you're on your way to success.

So repeat the thoughts that you want to get. Think about money, prosperity, good health, luck, hard work, success etc. Think about the things that you are dreaming of. Your mind will find a way, your mind will be like a magnet that attracts the best things in life. 

Jan 26, 2020

IT'S NOT GOING TO BE HARD FOREVER

Every suffering has an ending, every race has a finish line, every process will come to an end. Those sleepless nights that you chase your goals, those hard times when you're feeling the pressure too much... it will end. You will feel relieved, you will feel good, you're going to become successful. So embrace the difficult times now because you will even miss it when you're already on top. It's hard for now but if you keep working then it will become easier and easier. Just keep moving forward and stay positive... good things will happen to you. If you're going through hell right now... keep going, you will see the heaven later. Your situation will only change if you're willing to face your responsibilities and pending tasks, it will change if you're willing to push and make your situation a little bit better. Always remember that your situation is just temporary and you can always change it if you just stay hopeful and always do the right actions. Just focus on what you're doing, ignore the painful feelings that you are feeling right now, have the mindset of just moving forward all the time and you will be able to change your situation very fast. It's not going to be hard forever so stop panicking and stop cursing your own life, there will be a change.

TIME IS STRONGER THAN PAIN

Believe in the power of time, believe that time can heal any wounds, it can change any life if you use it the right way. Sometimes you don't even to try so hard and time will change your life, all you need to do is trust and give your very best. So trust time, everything will be alright in just a matter of time. Just be patient and stay positive, appreciate life, appreciate your pain because it is there for a reason, it is there to make you stronger and better. You will forget your bad past with time, you will become stronger and tougher with time, you will overcome all of the odds if you will just let time pass by without resisting and complaining about your situation. Keep in mind that the process is not going to be hard forever, time will come and the easier parts will show, the process will become much easier because you've already grown and evolve. Time can be your most powerful weapon, learn to trust it, learn to wait and be patient. You can grow with time, you can grow with pain, it's all about loving every second of the moment and not being too overly dramatic with what is going on.

JUST LIVE YOUR LIFE

Don't quit, don't die, don't waste your life, just live and everything will be alright. Everything will become much easier soon. Keep persevering, not all the time you're at the bottom, not all the time life is hard, if you have faith in yourself and with the process that you invented... you will taste success and relief soon. Because sometimes you really have to feel the pain, life will test you and if you're not ready for it then you will have a harder time. Just deal with it. Just have fun while going with a difficult process, because the truth is you can have fun in any kind of situation, it all depends on what attitude you have towards it. Because sometimes all you can do is live your life and have fun with what you have, be happy with anything surrounding you, just smile and give your best. If you can't do anything about it anymore then it means you have nothing to lose, all you need to do is move forward and try to become a little bit lucky, work hard and let everything take care of itself. Just live your life, do what is needed and stop focusing on negative things and people.

ANY PROCESS WILL BECOME EASY ONCE YOU FACE IT AND DO IT

It becomes harder because you are delaying it, you are being more impatient because you don't want to face the pain, you want to feel comfortable now but it's not going to happen. You cannot shortcut your way to comfort, you have to face every challenge and obstacle along the way. Because it will become harder and harder every time you procrastinate and let your focus be destroyed by things that are not even worth it. For example if you are finishing your project and you're letting a news or an email or text from not so close friends disturb you then you're in big trouble, the process will become much difficult and you will get lost, your momentum will be broken and it will be very hard for you to get back on the right track. Every time you need to do something... just do it, keep doing it, keep making yourself better, keep evolving and solving problems, keep inventing solutions that will make your life better.

TAKE IT SLOWLY AND CONSISTENTLY

It's ok if you are slow for as long as you are not stopping, don't worry because every step is taking you further and further, it is making you closer from achieving success and living a much better life. It's ok if you are slow, just take it step by step, inch by inch just make yourself closer from what you want. Because this is not a race, it is a marathon. It's not how fast or strong you are, it's how enduring you are, it's how strong your mental stamina is. Be slow but never stop, you don't need to become the fastest or greatest right away, I've known a lot of people who made it fast but cannot sustain their success, a lot of them were lost, most of them were freaking out because they don't know what to do next anymore. Never compare your progress, never compare your life, don't be proud of your pain, everyone has his own problem, just keep moving forward and never stop, one day is going to be your day. 

THE MOST POWERFUL SOLUTION TO DEPRESSION

Depression is in demand nowadays, most people are looking for it, most people don't know that they created it themselves, some people are not even depressed but they are seeking for attention. They don't have problems but they keep on insisting that there is something wrong in their lives. I will not make it any longer and I will reveal the most powerful solution to depression. Are you ready? here it is.... NEVER THINK THAT YOU'RE SPECIAL. That's how simple it is, never think that you deserve respect because it's not in your control if they're going to respect you or not. Never think that you need appreciation because you're good, people will decide if they will like you or not, never think that the world is fair, never expect anything from other people or else you will become disappointed and that will be the root of your depression.

THE WORLD IS UNFAIR, THE WORLD IS MEAN

The world is not so nice, and if you're too soft and emotional... you're dead. You need to accept that there is a lot of people who were so cruel and mean. They will bash you, criticize you for whatever reason. And if you're thinking that you're a good person so that they must be good to you too... you're just wasting your time. Be a good person but never think that the whole world will be good to you too. It is what it is, that's how the game of life plays, get use to it or else you will try to change a lot of people and in the end you will only get disappointed. Never expect anything from anybody, if they treat you good they treat you good but if they don't... just deal with it, ignore it and keep moving forward all the time. You need to be focusing on your feelings and not with the feelings of others.

WHY ARE MOST CELEBRITIES DEPRESSED?

It's because they think they were too special, they think they people should admire them forever, they think that they should have a special treatment all the time. And when they feel that people were no admiring them... they freak out, they get depressed, they turn into drugs and alcohol. N matter who you are in this world, no matter what your occupation is... stop feeling special, because one day you're going to die too. One day you will fade, one day they will no longer respect you or appreciate you because your time has passed, your peak was forgotten and you already lost your edge. So while you are still strong and living... just enjoy life. Never expect anything, take away the pressure on your shoulders by thinking that you're not special and it's ok to get disrespected or feel a little bit sad. Life is not perfect and you have to accept that. Most celebrities' happiness was purely based on the reactions of other people that they don't even know, they feel bad if they can't get any attention, they were so weak if they're not getting talked about.

LEARN TO LET GO OF ANYTHING

If someone or something is making you feel bad... let it go. Don't dwell on it, don't cry about it, don't make it a big deal. If you cannot control something and there is no way of controlling it... let it go, it is useless especially if it is making you really feel bad. You can let it go, don't be afraid to let go of any subject that is making you feel bad, sometimes you don't know that you really like it because if not then why in the world are you always thinking about it? you're addicted to it and even if you don't admit it... it's making you feel something even if it's negative, try letting it go, you don't want to feel the same way right? let go and feel not guilty about it. You don't need people to respect you or like you, you don't need appreciation from other people, real happiness comes from the inside, you can create it without anything.

FOCUS ON YOURSELF INSTEAD OF HOW PEOPLE THINK AND FEEL

Focus on feeling good, you can do it by creating something. Create an art, chase a goal, spend time with your family and real friends and if you don't have anyone... just live, keep making art, chase greatness, challenge yourself, do something different and make yourself busy instead of wasting your time thinking about what other people are thinking of you. You will never feel depressed again if you will learn how to love yourself and you can only do that by trying to become better each day. Evolve mentally and physically, train your mind to stop thinking about subjects that makes you feel bad. Because the number one reason why you feel so jailed and sad is because you want to look good to the eyes of other people, you want to look perfect, you want to look great and that's why you can't live freely.

LOVE WHERE YOU AT RIGHT NOW

No matter what you're going through, no matter how you feel, no matter how bad your situation is... always love where you at right now, love the moment... this is the best way to kill depression. Because you can never change your situation so fast, feelings will never change so fast especially if you have a big problem. All you can do is embrace it and appreciate life, feel happy that you're still alive, feel blessed because you are still experiencing life. Love will heal you, loving your life and everything about your situation will make you feel much much better. Appreciation can change any situation, spreading the love or simply feeling the love will help you solve any kind of negative emotion. Because it's the easiest and lightest thing to do... love your life and your situation, you have no choice but to do it if you want to make it easier for yourself. 

Jan 25, 2020

THE ABILITY TO MOVE AND BELIEVE

There are only two skills you need to master and you will become successful. It's not complicated, it's not for the genius only, it's simply about having the ability to MOVE and BELIEVE. It's too simple right? anybody can do this. Anyone can move and believe yet why most people can't do it? if it's the formula to success then why people can't simply move and believe? It's because they don't train themselves. They don't have enough practice. You can't just be believing whenever you want to, your brain will trick you, the situation will blind you. Because the only requirements that success needs is taking actions and confidence. The more you take actions the more confident you will become so if I were you I've got to be moving now because time is gold, you don't know how much progress you can make today if you stop procrastinating and stay productive all day. If you can just force yourself to move anytime you need to then you will go further, you can become really successful and do something great, sky is the limit for you. Just do it, believe that you can do it, and even if you're doubting yourself a little bit... just take actions and never stop until you're done, go further as much as you can. Never think that you can only do so much, push yourself to the limits until you can't push anymore. Life and success is simply about taking massive actions if you want to know who you really are, you will never scratch the surface and discover your full potential if you keep on stopping yourself. So don't ever hesitate, if you need to take actions now... stop procrastinating and face your responsibilities.

FACE THE DISCOMFORT

Embrace the pain, embrace the discomfort. You can only level up if you can act fast. Decide that you're going to move now and face the discomfort. Don't worry because you will feel good in the end, you will feel much better once you accomplished what needs to be done. Embrace the difficulty, embrace the challenge. Draw the first blood, don't look for perfection instead look for progression. You will never become perfect if you're always thinking that there is something wrong, you will never be able to take the first step if you're always worried about how you look and how are you doing. Just push forward, take it one step at a time and embrace boredom. Because it's going to get boring every now and then, you will not love it, you will even get sick and tired of the process. But is is what it is, if you're not going to face the resistance then you will never change you will never level up. Because you are soft if you can't face the discomfort, you're a loser if you're afraid of pain, you have to be moving now before it's too late.

THE MORE YOU MOVE, THE MORE CONFIDENT YOU WILL BE

So if you're lacking some confidence in your life then it means you're lazy. It means you want to do something but you're stopping yourself. Hard work pays off, hard work will increase your self esteem, it will give you power. If you're working super really hard for something then you will become great, you will become a different beast. So if you want something... look for the process that will give you an edge or advantage and the work super hard on it. For example, if you want to become a great basketball player... just practice everyday, practice some moves, invent a technique that you think will work and work super hard on it. Never stop until you see some results. And if it doesn't work look for another process again, try again, practice again, this is an endless process but you will discover lately that you are becoming better and better and your confidence is increasing. So move now, do something, never stop yourself, never hold yourself back or else you will never evolve. If you really want to make a progress, if you want to experience a new life then you need to be moving all the time. Stop procrastinating because it will only put you on a worse position. Taking action should be you priority, if you feel you need to so something do it even if you're doubting yourself a little bit. Doubts will be destroyed through actions, you will find the answer if you're working super hard.

LACK OF SKILLS AND SUPPORT IS NOT AN EXCUSE

Again, it's all about hard work and self belief. It doesn't matter if you don't know what to do, it doesn't matter if people doesn't believe in you. You need to focus on what you can control and that is your belief and actions. You can believe in yourself, you can work hard... those things are enough to become victorious in life. You will only lose if you will not try and not believe in yourself. You need to give yourself a chance. The skills will be develop later if you're working hard, some people will support you if they see that you are serious and making small progress every now and then. And even if they don't support you, so what? it's ok, you need to take matters into your own hands. Just focus on what you want, keep working on it and keep believing in yourself. Stop making excuses, this crap will only bring you down, you need to be pushing forward all the time, you need to go all out if you really want to see the best version of yourself and life.

Believe in yourself now, once you decide that you're going to believe in yourself... move fast, take massive actions, move forward all the time and never give up. And even if you don't know how to win, even if you're getting overwhelmed... never stop taking actions. Sooner or later you will build a momentum, you will gain more confidence and everything is falling into your hands, you are slowly figuring out what needs to be done and all dots are connecting. It's only hard in the beginning, it will be a lot easier in the end especially if you're serious about your work and you're going all out. 

CHASE IT WITH YOUR HEART

If you're chasing something... you need to go all the way, you need to chase it with all your might and all your heart, you can't be doubting yourself here, you can't be exerting a poor and weak effort here. You need to go all the way, stay focused and be insanely serious about it. Because if you will not give yourself an edge then you will never win, you should always have an edge and you can only have it by working super hard and being fast in making decisions. Stop procrastinating, stop wasting a lot of time, it's ok if your game plan or process of becoming successful is not perfect for as long as you're really pushing yourself to the limits and going the extra mile. Because you will regret it if you don't use everything you have, you will feel so bad about yourself, you will never be proud of yourself because you always knew you can do more and be more but you choose not to. So if you have a goal, just chase it, just get it no matter what, find a way how to become very close from it, do something you haven't done before so you will get a new result.

DON'T BE AFRAID TO GET DEPLETED

It's ok if you get tired, there's nothing wrong about that, what matters is you stay calm and you keep pushing a little bit, you keep trying and you have no intention of quitting anytime soon. Always remember that your only game plan is to go all the way and give everything you've got, show them who you really are. Because at the end of the day... you will get tired even more if you do nothing, you will get stressed even more if you're lazy because you will have a split energy, your mind wants to do something but your body can't move, that's one of the most stressful situations you can feel. And even if you didn't get tired now because you sleep all day, you will still get tired in the future because you have to work double hard because you're already on a bad situation because of being lazy all the time, you will get punished if you get lazy, you just don't see it now but eventually you will next week or next day. Laziness is the most dangerous thing, you feel you are enjoying your life but the truth is you are going down very fast you will never even notice it.

REASONS WHY YOU DON'T WANT TO GIVE YOUR BEST

1. You want to finish the task fast, you don't want to enjoy the process, you want shortcuts.
2. You don't want your efforts to get wasted. You think you will still fail even if you already gave your best and that's why you don't want to give time for your dreams anymore.
3. You think it's hard. Of course it will be hard, there is no freebie in this world.
4. You don't want to fail, you don't want to get judged by other people. You think they will laugh at you if you push so hard and yet still fail. The truth is they will even admire you because you go all in, only few people can do that.
5. You listen to what other people say. You believe them that you can't do it, you believe them that it's impossible. It's only impossible if you will not try, everything is possible if you will give your best shot.
6. All you want is easy victory, you want freebies, you want handouts, you want assistance, you want comfort. You must accept that it's not easy, it's not a walk in the park, it's going to be a lot of chaos if you're really serious in becoming successful.
7. You don't want to live in the moment because you want to go to the future where success is already happening. You know that it's hard starting, you know that it's going to be a lot of actions if you have plan of giving your best.

USE YOUR HEART

It's all about the heart, how big is your heart? do you crumble during pressure times? do you quit when the going gets tough? life is all about how tough you are and how big your heart is, it's simply about facing the pain and forgetting how big the challenge is, it's simply about moving even if you have no idea how are you going to win. The most successful people in this world didn't use their brains... they use their hearts, they go all out and push themselves until they win. How far are you willing to go? how much pain and frustration can you take? because this is not going to be easy. It's going to be tough so you need to be tough as nails. This is not a fantasy nor about rainbows and butterflies, this is about how are you willing to face hell and keep going. Everyone is good while the situation is good but how are you going to react if you're tested? Most people will quit when they're tested but if you really believe in yourself and the power of your dreams then you will chase it with your heart, you will never stop until you win, you will move despite of pain, you will never quit, you will not even think about quitting just for a second.

DON'T QUIT

Don't ever quit and that's it. You will win if you don't quit and that's guaranteed. Quitting is for the losers while moving is for the winner, as simple as that. Face the discomfort, embrace the struggle, don't quit now, you're almost there, all you have to do is keep pushing, it's too simple. Just look at yourself... are you still pushing or not? don't quit because it's only just a matter of time before you reach the finish line, just keep going no matter what. Don't stop, don't rest... just keep moving forward all the time. Because you will regret it forever when you quit, you will go back to zero again when you quit, why not give your very best now and give everything you've got? it's possible to use all of your energy and faculty resources, it's possible to become unstoppable if you will not stop yourself. 

Jan 24, 2020

KISS YOUR OWN ASS

You've been kissing a lot of other people's ass nowadays and that's the main reason why you're lost and not happy. You're idolizing people that doesn't even love you back, you're giving away your time for free which is the stupidest thing that you ever done because your time is so precious, you can change your life by using your time wisely. It's just a matter of thinking right and enjoying every moment of your life, enjoy every process that you can do and try to reach your own goal, not a goal that people set for you, something that you really want from the bottom of your heart.

STOP PLEASING OTHER PEOPLE

Stop pleasing other people because you think they're the solution for your problem, stop being nice to them because you think they're they key to your own happiness. The key for your happiness is yourself and the things that you do, you can simple become happy by chasing your own goal and living your life to the fullest by trying to become better each day and spending your time with the people who really loves you. Because if you keep pleasing people then you will lose confidence in yourself, and in the end you will never become happy because if that person you are trying to please didn't show you any form of respect or kindness in return then you will only get disappointed, you will even get mad without knowing that you did that hurt to yourself. If that person hurts you it's your fault because you rely on them for you to become happy. The only person who can give you true happiness is yourself by loving yourself and enjoying something that you can do.

Other people will only disappoint you every time you trust that your success and happiness were coming from them. You should believe in yourself by loving yourself and trying to improve each day, you will find real happiness by trusting your guts and instincts.

NEVER LOOK FOR AN APPROVAL

Stop looking for an approval, if you need to do something and you think it is right then stop asking someone if you're right or wrong. Believe in yourself and don't be afraid to make mistakes. Just do it, start it and finish it, never get cautious of what you're doing, release your creativity and enjoy doing it your way. Always remember that you are free to do anything you want anyway you want it. Always being conscious of what people say will destroy your creativity. Because you don't need a permission just to do something. Feel free all the time, never think about what people think of you. You don't need to beg from them, you can do something or create something great by simply trusting yourself. Your success and happiness doesn't depend from anything so shut down the idea that you need everyone's approval because the truth is you don't. You can live your way, you can become successful your own way by working hard and believing in yourself. If you want to become fast and get success fast... don't look for approval, so what if you're wrong? you can still correct your mistakes anyway.

IDOLIZE YOURSELF

The best person to idolize and praise is yourself. Why will you idolize other people? are they going to feed you? are they going to help you where you at? you're the only one who can feed yourself, you're the only one who can help yourself and change your life. It's better to idolize yourself because by doing that you will gain more confidence, you will enjoy your life even more. It's not being narcisist or something. You only have one life why waste it for other people, you don't know that other people were benefiting with your life and you don't benefit with your own life, they are using you and you don't know it because you're too entertained with their journey that you already forgotten to take care of your own life and make it prosperous and successful. There is nothing wrong if you're confident about yourself, at least you have some confidence, it's better than no confidence at all. Love yourself and be proud of what you can do, don't be arrogant but don't hesitate to express yourself whenever you have a chance, don't be afraid to chase your own dreams and create your own path.

WHY ARE PEOPLE PLEASING OTHERS?

1.They lack the confidence in themselves, they think that they were no good and they just want to rely on the strength of others to gain something. But in the end they will learned that they didn't gain anything because they were only used as an accessory for the success of other people. They have a hidden agenda why they are pleasing people but they can't get what they really want because they don't have the power to speak, all they can do is please people and that's it.

2. They don't want to work hard and do it their way that's why they think that some people will save them and do the work for them. But in the end they will find out that the person they are pleasing doesn't even care.

3. They don't want to risk, they don't want to get embarrassed, they think that they can't do something great too. They were satisfied of being a follower or a pleaser, they can't make decisions on their own, they don't want to make a stand for something.

4. They don't want confrontations, they were submissive, they want the person they are pleasing to become nice to them too. But this will not happen, because once you please a person that doesn't like you... you're in trouble, you will become a subject of abuse, you will be used, you will lose your power and you will become a follower forever.

LOSE OR WIN YOUR WAY

If you're going to lose, lose your way. If you're going to go down... do it because it's your fault. Accept that your fate is in your hands and nobody can take you to the higher ground other than you. If you will please other people because you think they can make you happy or successful then you're in big trouble. Stop kissing their asses because they will take over, you will become powerless and you will lose control. Their victory is not your victory, if you want some power then learn to kiss your own ass and be the follower of yourself. Follow your dreams and intuition, once you have an idea... execute it. Be a doer not just a watcher. Because your knees were not made to kneel for someone, your knees were made to make a stand and walk your way. Move forward and don't just take actions because something is making you do so. Move because you want, move because you need to. 

Jan 23, 2020

THAT'S NOT ALL YOU CAN DO

Stop selling yourself short, that's not all you can do, you can do more and be more, you're just not allowing yourself to work hard and take risks, you don't believe that there is still more waiting for you, you have to see what is possible by trying to do the impossible. So stop believing in your exhaustion, stop believing that you can't move or make any progress anymore, you have to believe in taking small actions one day at a time, be closer and closer from your dreams. take baby steps and appreciate your small progress. Push yourself, force yourself to take massive actions and you will see how good you are, you will be able to scratch the surface, you will discover your full potential.

The reason why you're not succeeding now is because you think that it's all you can do, you are stopping yourself from taking actions, you don't want to fail and that is why you will never win. You need to stretch yourself and experience all the negative emotions that you are resisting in the past. You need to feel scared, exhausted, overwhelmed, humiliated, embarrassed, rejected, you need to feel the pain now and still move forward despite of those negative emotions. This is the only way to take your life to another level, this is the only way to evolve.

FORGET YOUR PAST

I know your past is ugly, I know your past is not that beautiful and it's full of mediocre memories. It's time to forget all of it and do something spectacular now. If you keep on thinking about your past then your reality will never change, you have to do something different not, think different now and push yourself to the limits. Because your past is not connected with your present life anymore, you're just ruining your life. Your past is like a nightmare, it is affecting your decisions for today, it is scaring you and destroying your confidence. You need to forget it if you want to experience a new life. Forget your failures, forget your mistakes, forget the embarrassment that happened yesterday. Feel something different today, feel great, feel confident even if you don't know what to do. Face the pressure like you never did before, do whatever it takes to go to the next level and never quit when it's hard. Take matters into you own hands and express yourself, give your best even if the challenge in front of you looks so difficult to overcome.

DOUBLE OR TRIPLE YOUR EFFORT

Never underestimate the power of hard work, if you can double or triple your effort then you will become a force to reckon with, you will attract success, opportunities will come to you automatically. You can always do more but you choose not to and that's why you're getting lesser results than you expected. You will never get tired if you will always look at your dreams and vision, have fun with the process, have fun working hard and going the extra mile. Stop looking for comfort because the exchange of that is nothing, you will never evolve or succeed if you're always looking for an easy life.

WHY ARE YOU SETTLING WITH A MEDIOCRE LIFE?

You are settling for a mediocre life because you're too lazy, you don't want to be reliable for every results that you have. You're always making excuses, all you want is comfort and you don't want to face the pain. You can have a wonderful life now if you will stop exerting weak effort, stop being lazy, shift yourself from being a watcher to a doer. Do it, do it, do it, stop watching other people's lives and focus on your own life. Always see to it that you are giving your best and forcing yourself to become better than yesterday.

You have a choice, life is fast, don't waste your life for nothing, don't ever think that you have a lot of time, pressure yourself to give everything you've got every single day because that is what you are suppose to do. You are not here to just watch your life pass by doing nothing, always remember that you can be more, you can double or triple our results if you are willing to multiply your effort. Destroy all of your excuses and begin to work.

FEEL FREE TO EXPAND

Look for something you can do, look for a room for growth, you can expand anywhere and anytime, all you have to do is feel free to take actions anytime you need to. You know in yourself that you're not giving your best, it's time to wake up and do the right thing, it's time to give your very best every single second. Because if you're not growing then you're dying, you're going down and you don't know it. You will find a way how to become better, it's just a matter of forcing yourself to move and do what you don't want to do. Expand now, do something that is hard, do something that you don't like but has some benefits, you can do it if you will free your mind. You will only expand if you will feel the pain, face the friction, face the resistance, there is no other way to evolve but to face the difficulty, don't ever back down to any challenge, never put off till tomorrow what you can do today, stop procrastinating and start moving.

WORK MORE EXPECT LESS

You are expecting too much but you are working less and that's why you've wasted a lot of time doing nothing, you're always checking for results, you're always asking yourself why you are getting less. It's time to think differently, it's time to change your mindset and focus your energy into working. Work more and never complain why you are getting less. Just keep working because it's a lot better than not doing anything but expecting something. Don't expect too much if you're not doing anything because you're simply wasting a lot of your time.


Jan 22, 2020

3 BEST MENTAL TRICKS TO BOOST YOUR CONFIDENCE

Confidence is what you need to become successful, if you pair hard work with confidence then you will become super unstoppable, you will be able to conquer the impossible and you can reach the highest mountain. Because at the end of the day... it doesn't matter if you're confident or not, what matters is you try and you didn't take anything for granted. Because if your'e confident you can ignore anything, you can block the ideas and information that is not helping you at all. You will simply think that you're going to win no matter what, you will become single minded, all you think is how to become victorious, nothing negativity is playing inside of your head, you just have this gut feeling that you deserve it and you're going to have what you want. Being confident is only in the mind, if you can feed your mind the right thoughts then you will become confident, rehearse everyday what it feels like to become confident, see yourself thriving in difficult situation, imagine that you already have that confident and act like it.

HERE ARE THE 3 BEST MENTAL TRICKS TO BOOST YOUR CONFIDENCE:

1ALWAYS THINK THAT YOU HAVE NOTHING TO LOSE. 

If you can just let go of all the pressure and stop thinking that you have something to lose then you will feel free, you will become more expressive, you will never think that there is a criticism waiting for you, you will never care about the eyes of the people waiting for you to fail, you will never become insecure anymore, you will have fun doing the process and you will become a risk taker. Keep trying, keep doing what you need to do and forget what the outcome may be. You have nothing to lose here, you have the power to express yourself and take actions they way you want to do it. It's your life, you are always free to do anything. Allow yourself to move and become confident all the time, the more you take actions the more you will become confident. So be happy if you are moving because it means your confidence keeps soaring high, it keeps on going to a different level.

People were afraid of someone who has nothing to lose, it's because he is so free, he is unpredictable and he can do anything. So if you have a nothing to lose mindset then you will be able to move faster, decide better and you will never waste your time thinking and procrastinating, you will just do it, you will never care about the outcome, you will detach from any idea that is not helping you at all.

2. FORGET ABOUT YOURSELF. You care too much about yourself and that is why you can't move anymore, you care too much about your identity, you are not willing to destroy what you have in the present moment in order to create something bigger. Forget yourself, always think that you are nothing, let go of your ego so that you won't be afraid to get rejected, humiliated or laugh at. Once you forget yourself and forget your feelings then confidence will start to kick in, you will feel invincible, you will feel unstoppable and you will always be yourself. You don't have to try hard anymore if you forget yourself, you don't need to pretend anymore. Never care if you will look bad, you just have to do what you need to to. In order to become confident you must forget how you look and feel, you will feel good later once you're on the process of becoming successful.

Sometimes the only thin that stopping you is yourself, you think too much about yourself, you are pampering yourself and that is why you don't take risks, you don't look for an opportunity to become successful and get what you want, you're so scared to feel something negative.

Never feel bad if you got rejected, never feel sad if you lose or you get embarrassed, forget about your emotions, forget yourself... this is the key to destroy all the resistance that is stopping you from taking actions, this is they key to feel loose and experience real freedom.

3. THE MINDSET OF NOT LETTING ANY OPPORTUNITY SLIP AWAY. If you want to become really confident then never let any opportunity slip away, you have to devour every opportunity even if there is no guarantee that you're going to win. Do it, get it, give yourself a chance to win. Devour any chances that you have because it might not come again, be mindful of the blessings, always be present and active... never let any opportunity slip from your hands. Because the more you take chances, the more you experience you have and the more experience you have... the more wiser you will be, your confidence will go to another level.

So if you want to date a girl ask her, if you see a good job opening apply for it, if you have an idea for earning more... execute it. Never let any idea die, never let fear take over, embrace your fear, welcome the idea that you might fail if you try and once you fail... look for another opportunity, it's all about the numbers, it's all about trying over and over again until you become successful. Remember that the more you try... the better you become, you will master yourself, you will gain a lot of confidence. Speed is the name of the game, fast mind and fast body creates confidence. Forget about making mistakes and just execute, take risks, never mind if you are scared and just do it. That fear will turn into courage, just move and do what you want to do, allow yourself to shine, you will feel much much better if you're taking actions. Giving yourself a chance should be your number one priority.

REMEMBER THAT IT'S ALL IN YOUR MIND

It's not about your past, it's not about how you look or what your skills are, it's not about how big your money is... it's about the content of your mind. Always take care of your mind and filter all the negative thoughts inside of it. Just believe in yourself even if it's hard to, believe in yourself even if you can't see a reason why you need to. practice taking risks all the time, practice humiliating yourself all the time... this kind of mindset will make you experience a lot of negative feelings, and sooner or later you will never feel it anymore because you already felt it a lot of times, this results to confidence taking over your system, you will realize that i's not really a big deal if people were laughing at you or doesn't believe in you, the big deal here is you giving yourself a freedom to take over of your life and overtake all of your fears that are stopping you to express your true self. 

Jan 21, 2020

FAIL NOW BECAUSE YOU WILL STILL FAIL LATER

Let's accept the truth... you can never succeed without tasting the bitterness of a defeat first. You will fail no matter what, even if you're the smartest or strongest man in the world... you will still fail, you will fail a lot of times that is why you need to try a lot of times. Failure is a prerequisite for success, you will never succeed if you will never fail. You have to accept that failing is inevitable and there is no way you can refuse to experience it. You have to deal with a lot of failures, you have to endure the bitterness of trying over and over again until you succeed, it is what it is, you are dreaming big right? so stop being delusional that there is a shortcut to success and just do what is needed now. Failing is nothing, it's just another experience, you have to experience it now because the more you refuse to fail... the bigger your regrets will be. It's true that you have to fail over and over in order to succeed, so if you just failed once or twice and you don't want to repeat anymore then you will never get anywhere. Feel nothing after failing, your motivation must increase stronger. Your hunger must become worse when you fail, you must take actions right away and never stop until you finally succeed.

WHY ARE PEOPLE SO AFRAID OF FAILING?

Because they think that failing is bad, they never think that there is a lesson behind failing. They were so afraid of being labeled as a failure, they prioritize the expectations of others even more rather than enjoying the journey and trying to grow from it. They were so afraid of what people say and that is why they don't give themselves a chance to at least even try. People were so afraid to fail because they don't want to try again, they were so afraid to feel bad, they were so afraid of being sad after failing and that is why they will not even try. But if you're not afraid of any kind of emotion then you will try, you will give your very best to succeed.

GET ADDICTED TO TRYING AND SUCCESS WILL GIVE UP

Once you get addicted to trying and you are showing the world that you have no plan of giving up... success will give up on you, it will submit itself on you, success will give way and it will stop resisting, the goal that you are trying to get so hard will fall into your hands. Try a million times if you have to, fail until you don't know what failing is, work hard until you feel that hard work was already easy. Break your heart, get frustrated, embarrass yourself, fail big time until you're no longer afraid of feeling those emotions again. The only thing that is stopping you is yourself, you already felt that you're not going to win so you are thinking that you're just wasting your precious time. The truth is you are wasting your time even more if you're just thinking and not even forcing yourself to take actions. Hard work will always prevail in the end. The idea of working smart and not working hard is not true, you have to work hard first before you learn how to work smart, you have to fail numerous times first before you learn how to succeed.

IF YOU'RE NO LONGER AFRAID OF FAILING THEN YOU ARE FREE

You will be free to do anything you want, you will become loose and creative, you will give yourself the authority to try what you haven't done before, you will never be scared of what people say anymore and you will jut laugh at their comments and criticisms. You will do it your way, you will no longer be afraid of getting tired, you will push yourself to the limits. Because the only thing that is jailing you is your fear about failure. Why fear it? it is nothing, people will not even remember you if you failed, nobody remembers a failure so stop being scared of it, detach from the idea that you are a lesser of a man or a woman if you failed. Because at the end of the day... you will only feel regretful if you didn't try, you will still feel like a winner if you give your all even if you fail. So give your very best now, go all in and never overthink, just take actions no matter what.

YOU REALLY HAVE NOTHING TO LOSE HERE

You will never lose anything after failing because you really don't have anything from the start, you were born with no money, no success, no name, no nothing, why are you so afraid to lose or fail? your life is a blank canvass in the beginning so never be afraid to try because you have everything to gain. So take away the pressure you are putting into yourself by realizing that you have nothing to lose, and that is the reality, nothing is permanent here, you must enjoy the process of trying while you are still alive. Enjoy life, enjoy failing and standing up again. The beauty of life is not about winning everyday, it is about standing up whenever you fail, you have unlimited tries, don't waste your time whining and making excuses why you can't win, you have to take matters into your own hands now and try to change your life by giving your very best.

YOU'RE NOT CONSIDERED AS A FAILURE IF...

If your'e still trying, if your'e still giving your best then you're not considered as a failure. You will only fail if you quit, it won't be over until it is over. So while your'e still alive... keep failing, keep trying, one day is going to be your day. So if you don't want to be labeled as a failure... keep trying while you still have a chance, everyday is an opportunity to try, you can give your very best every single day, it all depends on your willingness to push forward and do whatever it takes to succeed. 

Jan 20, 2020

MONEY IS EVERYWHERE, IT HAS UNLIMITED SUPPLY

What most people don't know is money is everywhere, it has unlimited supply, it is psychology, the more you think of it the more it will be attracted to you, as simple as that. You can have a lot of it if you will believe that you deserve it. Think about it and do something to get it... it will be attracted to you. Just feel free, feel that money is coming to you and it will come to you. Just work hard and enjoy the process... there are plenty of money waiting for you. All you have to do is fix your mindset about it, don't be afraid of it, think of it as something that is easy to get and don't forget to always work hard and have fun with the process... that's how to attract money easily.

PEOPLE BECOME BROKE BECAUSE THEY DON'T HAVE THE PROPER MINDSET

When we say abundant mindset there should be balance. It's all int he mind, keep thinking about the amount that you want, dream about it even though you don't know how to get it. See it going into your pocket, the harder you believe and the harder you work... the faster it will fall into your hands. Money is everywhere, you can get it anytime you want to, all it takes is effort and dedication. If you can see it in your mind then you can bring it into reality. So keep believing and keep working, that's the only thing you should do. The right mindset will give you money, never think that you are running out of money, just maintain that abundant mindset and never get discourage if you can't earn anything at the moment, you will be able to have a breakthrough no matter what. That money will fall into your hands, that money will go straight into your bank, all you have to do is push yourself to the limits, look everywhere and focus on getting it. Never think about anything else, just focus on getting it and you will get it.

DON'T BE SCARED OF BIG MONEY, EMBRACE IT

The reason why you can't get big money is because you're so scared of it, you feel guilty thinking about it, you get overwhelmed, you are selling yourself short. You need to think that you deserve big money too. If other people can have it so you can have it too. Allow yourself to earn more and get more, get comfortable holding big money, be confident in visualizing huge amount of money and really believe that it's going to be yours one day. Sky is the limit when getting money, you can bit more than you can chew, you can even have your own bank, it's just a matter of believing and being relentless in working for it. Once you get comfortable in asking for bog money, looking for big money and saving money then you will become a millionaire one day. Don't be too humble, don't be too conservative, you need to embrace the role of becoming a millionaire and that includes being bold with your decisions and not feeling guilty for all of your actions. If you really want big money then you need to embrace it, you need to vibrate with it and never stop.

FOCUS ON IT 24 HOURS A DAY

Instead of watching news or engaging in gossips or doing something stupid... why not focus on getting money 24 hours a day? it is possible, all you have to do is close your mind from other things and detach from any activities or ideas that doesn't include money. What you see is what you will get so if you keep on seeing money then you will get money, even if you don't have any idea how to get it... you will get it if that's the only thing that occupies your mind. Because at the end of the day you will think about anything, you will feel something... why not think about money and feel abundant? Stop thinking about poverty or difficulty, stop thinking about anything that makes you feel bad, you need to feel good all the time, you need to be vibrating with money.

WHAT IF I CAN'T EARN MONEY TODAY?

Then it means you blink, it means you lose your focus, it means you didn't work hard enough. You will get what you want if you're too engage with it, you will have money if it is the only thing that consumes you. So stop making excuses that it is hard that's why you can't make money today. You will get something if you really want it. Stop using lame excuses because the more you believe in your excuses the more you will lose money.

Some people say that they don't have money because it is hard to earn but the real reason is they're not giving their best, they always entertain their excuses, they never push themselves to the limits.

STOP WASTING YOUR TIME, EVERY SECOND IS AN OPPORTUNITY

Jan 19, 2020

ALL IN NO MATTER WHAT

The mindset that you should have and should never forget is to go all in no matter what. Give your very best every single second and never be afraid to get tired. Because if you're not going all in then you're simply wasting your time, you will never get anywhere. To ensure success you must go all in every single second. You can do it, all it takes is discipline and the willingness to face the pain, focus on what you really want and go all in with it. This is the only way to avoid regrets in the end, to use all of your power and time for something that you can't live without. Because the best way to live your life is to see what your real potential is. It's to see what you can do by believing in yourself and working super hard. Just try it, focus and go all in... you will see wonderful results, you will become faster and better, your success will come faster than expected. Just all in, every time you wake up... go back to work, go back to your goal and go all in no matter what. Even if you're having a bad day, even if you don't feel good... just go all in and do whatever it takes to succeed, use all of your power, be tenacious enough to face the challenges.

ALL IN EVEN IF IT'S NOT WORKING

Even if the process is not working at all... go all in, even if you can't see the way and right method... still go all in. Trust that everything will work out in the end, all you have to do is exert the effort now and take massive actions. Go hard all the time, go hard every single second and never entertain the thought of exhaustion. Fatigue is only in the mind, if you really want it then you will go all in for it. Because one day it will work, the universe is just testing you today if you really want it or not. Or maybe it's not working yet because your effort is not enough.  Some people were only good when everything is working but once they are tested... they will crumble, they will feel the pressure and look for an easy way out. But if you have a mindset of just going all in no matter what then you will never quit, you will still try, you will find a way how to succeed.

ALL IN EVEN IF IT'S NOT FUN AT ALL

It's not going to be fun all the time... that's the reality of it. It's not going to be fun at all, if you're going to all in then you will face a lot of pain and challenges in life, you're going to make sacrifices and disregard fun... that's what it is all about. If you think that chasing success is simply all about working and enjoying your work then you gotta be kidding me, stop fooling yourself and face the pain right now. Face it now and do what is needed. You still need to trust the process, you set a goal right? Going all in means the ability to embrace boredom and pain. It's forgetting your emotions and still pushing forward no matter what. Your emotions is stopping you from going all in. You stop whenever you feel bad, you quit whenever you're scared.

Some people will just move because it's fun but success doesn't work that way. Success will only be yours if you're going to all in even if it's not fun at all.

ALL IN EVEN IF YOU'RE ON A BAD SITUATION

Even if you're hurt, even if you're in huge debts... you still need to go all in. Even you're in hell right now... you still need to go all in. Because being on a bad situation doesn't mean you cannot move. It doesn't mean you can't go all in.  There is no excuse here. You should give everything you've got even if no results were coming in. Any bad situation is just temporary, all you need to do is weather the storm and situation will become better again.

Just keep moving forward and you will find a way, as simple as that.

STAY LOCK IN

Focus all the time. Never let go of your vision. Stay lock in no matter what. Just think about what you want to happen and do whatever it takes to get it. It's really going to get boring or whatever but you have to stick witht the process if you really wanted to win. So brace yourself because there will always be a temptation to test you and if you're not strong enough to resist all of it them you will lose your focus and suddenly be defeated. It's all about not giving up, it's all about pushing forward and staying committed no matter what.

GET READY FOR ANYTHING

Get ready for any challenge. Because obstacles will show and you will be surprised. No matters what shows on your way, may it be a monster or a hurricane... get ready, get ready to fight and get ready to move forward, life is all about moving forward and doing whatever it takes to win. Don't be surprised with any kind of problem that might show in your life... it's normal, it's part of your life, you have to deal with it like a real grown man or else you're dead. Just having a mindset of being ready with anything will make you survive. So whatever shows on your way... embrace it, deal with it and enjoy it even if not's fun at all.

DEVOUR EVERY OPPORTUNITY

Once theremis an opportunity... grab it even if you're not sure that it's the you've been looking for. Opportunity comes once in a life time you have to roll the dice while you still can because time will and you will lose your edge.

Jan 18, 2020

BEST TIP ON HOW TO ATTRACT MONEY TODAY

You don't create money, you attract money, if you can't have money today then it means your mind is not right, it means you're not doing the right thing or your focus is placed on different things or subjects that is making it difficult for you to attract money. Money is not that hard to get, all you need to do is focus. Focus on money, think about it every single second, think that you are getting it and of course take actions to attract it. The more you think about it and work right away... the faster it will come into your life. The reason why you can't get it is because you're not vibrating with it, you want it but you're thinking about some other things, you want it but you don't believe that you're going to get it.

DESTROY ALL THE MENTAL BLOCKAGE

Destroy all the negative ideas inside of you head, stop believing that it's hard, stop believing that you can't do it. It's all about believing that you can get it and you will get it. Even if you don't know what to do, even if you can't see yourself holding that money... still take actions and force yourself to believe later. Just work, once you are moving good things will happen to you. Money is purely psychology, it's all in your mind, the more you think of it and believe that it's going to be yours... the more you will get it. Just think that you will get it and you will get it, never mind if the process is hard, just push forward even if you're in a difficult situation right now. You will only get money if you will believe in yourself. Destroy all the negative thoughts, never think that you don't have the skill to attract money, of course you do have. Just think positive all the time and set your state into abundance. It's all in the mind, watch yourself if you're thinking about negative things, you need to get rid of negativity from your mind right away.

SET A GOAL AMOUNT TODAY AND NEVER STOP UNTIL YOU GET IT

It can be millions, it can be billions... set a goal, set an amount that you are dreaming of and do whatever it takes to get it. Focus is what you need, if you really want that amount and you're willing to do whatever it takes to get it then you will get it, as simple as that. The reason why you can't attract money is because you don't have a target, you're lost, you don't know where you are headed to. You must be bold and specific, you can't be saying "I want more money" without knowing the specific amount, you can never get what you do not know, if you know what you really want and you're doing whatever it takes to get it then you will get it. You can get the money through business or working or any kind of hustle, you are free to become very creative here. It's ok if you're dreaming about millions for as long as you're really working hard for it and you don't make excuses to avoid taking actions.

WORK HARD

As simple as it sounds... work hard, do the work, you need to be grinding everyday, every single second. You will only get lucky if you work hard, there's no other way. If you work hard then you will get what you want, you will create opportunities, you will create money. If you can't work hard then don't expect to get lucky at all, you've got to be moving all the time. Enjoy working hard, enjoy the process and never stop until you have what you want. Make hard work as your foundation, let it be your guide, let it be your number one entertainment. If you can really really work hard and never complain about it then nothing is impossible to you.

ALWAYS THINK THAT TIME IS MONEY

You can earn money every second, you can earn a lot of money. It's all up to you if you're going to waste your time or not. So if you're wasting a lot of time then it means you are ignoring the opportunity to become rich. 

Jan 17, 2020

7 SIMPLEST AND MOST EFFECTIVE WAYS TO HAVE A POWERFUL MOTIVATION

Motivation is what you need to become successful, motivation can do the impossible, if you are motivated enough then you will do whatever it takes to become successful. If you are highly motivated then you will never stop taking actions, you will work 24 hours a day, you will push yourself to the limits and forget about losing, you're all about business now, you're all about putting yourself on a best position to succeed. Look at those people who were highly motivated... they're not stopping, they're doing whatever it takes to succeed, they don't know how to quit, they're motor is too high. If you're addicted to taking small actions then you will have motivation automatically because small actions creates good feelings, it will give you a direction, it will put you to the place where you want to go. Some people were laughing on motivation and thinking that it's not real but they do not know that it's the only thing they need in order to succeed, motivation is power, it can make you powerful and unstoppable, it can give you anything you want. Motivation is easy to feel, all you have to do is follow these ways to keep you motivated all day.

Here are the seven best ways to have a powerful motivation:

1. START NOW WHERE YOU ARE. If you need to jog in a mall do it. If you need to write in a comfort room do it. If you need to sell on the dessert then sell. The idea here is to just start, you may not succeed right away from the pace where you are in but the good thing is you are moving, start when it's uncomfortable and stop waiting to feel good before you start. If you can just start without thinking about anything then you will become unstoppable, you will make progress if you will start right away and do something. You will be able to figure out what to do next. Just start now and do what is needed, look for what is possible. Never wait for the right timing because that will never come, it's just an illusion. And the truth is... you're not really waiting for the right timing, you're just waiting for the good feelings, you want to feel comfortable and confident first before you start, you don't want to force yourself and do something that will make your situation a little bit better. And that is why you're stuck in a mud... you're addicted too much with comfort. You think that you need to feel really good first before you take actions, you want everything to be perfectly laid out but that thing will never happen, you have to move now and make your life a little bit better. So start where you  are and forget if you're right or wrong... just do something, shut your mouth, destroy all of your excuses and pull the trigger... just pull it.

2. GO CRAZY. Do whatever it takes, dare to do the impossible and never stop. Go crazy, don't be afraid to look like a fool. Remember that you want to become successful here, remember that you need to feel a little bit motivated. So go crazy, do whatever you think will give you a little improvement, try everything, experiment and never stop until you're done, go crazy and do everything in your power. Because after all, people will label you as someone who's crazy if you're not creating any success, but if you become successful a little bit... those people calling you crazy will kiss your ass in the end. Express yourself, create your own process, get crazy but still in control. What I mean by getting crazy is you allow yourself to do it your way and you're not thinking about what people may say against you.

3. FORGET ENTERTAINMENT. Forget TV, forget sports, forget video games... forget everything that is fun, what is fun will never give you anything. Entertainment is for the losers, it is for the lazy people. Because entertainment is only eating a lot of your time, you don't know how much hours you spend for watching TV, chatting with your friends, facebook, netflix, shopping for nothing, you love entertainment so much that you already become weak. You're not doing anything to make your life better anymore, you're completely addicted with instant gratification that has a big effect on your life. It's ok to amuse yourself every once in a while but never get addicted with it. You have to entertain yourself by working hard and seeing what is possible for your life.

4. NEVER CARE. Never care if you're failing, never care if you're not making any progress at all. Just keep moving forward, you will never see results right away but if you're consistent with your actions and you really want it... you will see results in just a matter of time. You will become more motivated if you don't care because nothing is bothering you, all you want is to take actions and do something that will give you a little progress. Never care if you're losing, never care if nothing good is happening... just move now. Trust the process, trust that everything will work in the end. Allow yourself to just do it. Stop thinking too much, stop worrying if people were laughing at you and just do it. Not caring is power, it will make you feel invincible.

5. ENJOY BEING SLOW.  Be in the moment, it's ok if you are slow for as long as you're moving consistently. Enjoy being slow, this is not a race it is a marathon. It's ok if you're just making slow progress. Just like a fat kid who's trying to get slim... he need to enjoy being slow, he need to do it everyday and never rush the process. You need to get patient, patience creates confidence and motivation, patience will make you see more things in your life. Because being slow means you really want it no matter what, being slow means you are willing to wait for a very long time just to get it. People who made it fast lost their motivation too fast, they can't sustain the success that they have. So never mind if you're the last person on the race, for as long as you're moving forward... you will be fine.

6. NEVER MIND WHAT PEOPLE THINK OF YOU. This is another big reason why you can't take action and make decisions... you care too much of what people might think of you. You care too much, you're so invested with their comments, you're so affected by their critics. And that is why you feel so demotivated. You need to stop caring about what people say and simply do what you think is best for you. After all, it is you life, you can do whatever you want to do with it.

7. APPRECIATE THE SMALL PROGRESS. Any small progress... appreciate it, love it. A small progress is still a progress, it will increase your motivation. It's ok if you're not making huge strides to success just keep moving forward and you will never lose your motivation again. 

I NEVER QUIT

I am the one who will never quit, I will keep believing myself. I will keep trusting myself and push myself to the limits... that's what will I do. That's the game plan from the very beginning and I will never change it. Just don't quit and that's it. Just move forward and that's it. It's too simple, it's too easy to understand. If you feel like quitting... just don't, look for the easiest thing that you can do that is related to what you want to happen and simply do it. Just deciding not to quit and simply take a small action will make you stay on the game. Because quitting is for the losers and I am not one of them, losers will always make excuses they will look for an easy way out, they will not even dare to try for one more time, they will build an excuse and will make themselves believe it.

So see yourself if you're already quitting. Remind yourself that you need to move forward. People can't think anymore when they feel tired, they can't think the right way, they will take the easiest option available but that option is not the path to success, it's the path to failure.

I'm so lucky that I started to realize that most people who quit never made it in life, they were all losers in the end, their lives were filled with regrets and they wish that they can turn back the clock but they can't do it anymore, it's already too late for them. All they can do is watch the world go by without doing anything, the sad thing is they can't force themselves anymore because they don't have enough willpower to move.

THE ABILITY TO FEEL FREE AND STRONG

Feel free all the time, you need to just do it whenever you need to do something. It's like freeing yourself from something, you do whatever it takes to pull the trigger, you feel nothing when you make mistakes, you feel nothing, you just move forward and take the next step. You can feel free now if you will move, you can feel strong now if you will just do it and ignore the pain, feel free all the time. The more you ignore the future... the more you will move faster. Forget about what's going to happen next, forget if you're failing or not and just feel strong all the time. So if you wanted to feel free... take one small action and always follow through, you don't need to feel super excited and motivated right away, just start and never stop. You can feel strong only by taking matters into your own hands, just do it, just start it, decide that you're going to do it and do it... as simple as that.

Look at yourself, you feel weak whenever you're procrastinating, you feel worried and insecure if you're not taking actions at all. But if you're a man on a mission then you will feel good all the time, win or lose... you will feel good because you just do it, and if you just do it then your doubts will all go away, you will see the answers to your questions.

PAIN IS THE BAROMETER OF THE NEXT LEVEL

If you can face the pain and go all out even if you're losing... then you will go to the next level. Go hard all the time, stop thinking and just go hard, there is no time to waste your time, if you really want to go to the next level then look for the next step and the next one and the next one, there is no shortcuts here. Face the pain, it's the only way to become free, it's the only way to progress a little bit. Because there is a pain in any kind of process, the only way to reduce pain is to feel it. Don't be afraid of pain because there is always a progress after feeling it, you immediately become a different and better person once you didn't give up.

So keep feeling the pain and just do what you need to do, as simple as that. Don't be afraid to bleed, don't be afraid to get depleted... you will never die, you will only grow stronger. If you really want to go to the next level then face the pain and feel it, enjoy it, keep moving forward while it runs on your mind and body.

YOU DON'T NEED TO LOOK BEAUTIFUL HERE

You don't need to look perfect while trying, you don't need to look beautiful and pure. It's better if you look like a garbage and still trying, disregard the mud on your face, ignore the sweat on your armpit and just keep going, keep moving forward all the time. If you are not afraid to destroy your identity then that is the time you're going to make a progress. Don't be afraid to embarrass yourself, don't be afraid to try over and over again even if the whole world is already stopping you. If you will always try to look perfect then you will never succeed, you will never be able to move yourself one step ahead. Don't be afraid to look ugly, don't be afraid to lose over and over again, just try for one more time, you will be surprised because that is the break that you're waiting for. So keep looking ugly, keep embarrassing yourself, look stupid as much as you can, look like a fool but never stop moving.

Forget you identity, forget that you need to look perfect, just do what is needed and never stop pushing, never stop grinding... do whatever it takes to win.

DO WHATEVER IT TAKES TO MOVE 

All you need to do is take the next step, take the next action and that's it. Just move, just hope to win, just take one small action that will create a small momentum. You will arrive on the finish line, you will get there if you will not stop moving. Use our willpower, it will never run out, you think you'r weak, you think you don't have enough energy anymore but that is all a lie, you can do something if you will just force your body to do something. Take a deep breath, pause if you need to and start moving again. Never look to finish fast, just focus on the next step, focus on the previous step and be in the moment. 

INSTEAD OF LOOKING FOR SOMETHING... BE THE SOMETHING

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