You're excited with your new goal, you're pumped up, you're telling everyone how great it is going to be, you start with passion and desire but after a few days without getting any result... you quit and make excuses, you blame the recession, you blame other people, you blame the problem that it's giving you. A hard situation changed your mind, you're not pumped up anymore because you can't see results, you decided to quit without trying harder the next time. Did you give everything already? did you really try hard and use all of your knowledge, resources and energy? did you commit to the process and execute the plan? is your timeline enough to call it quits? Never let a small or big problem discourage you, when the going gets tough... keep going and never stop, fight fire with fire, fight pressure with calmness, fight laziness with hard work. Just try for one more time before you quit, give everything you've got and always believe that you will win no matter what.
SOMETIMES ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS PERSEVERE.
Keep pushing, keep finding a way how to move and that's it. It's not that hard, you're just making it hard because you're always seeking for comfort. But if you will accept that everything is not easy in life then your life will become easy. Accept that you need to work for something you want, accept that it's a never ending process. You have to constantly remind yourself that life is not easy and don't ever think that there is a magic pill to solve your problem. You're the only one who can solve your problem, you're the only one who can find a way. Once you start something.. never stop until it's done. Stop pausing a lot, stop being a pussy, you're better than that. All you need to do is take actions and that's it, there's nothing hard about it. All you need to do is move forward and you will be fine. Never waste time making dramas and complaining that life is unfair. Of course life is unfair, who the hell told you that it's a walk in the park? life will kick you in your ass if you allow it. So stop acting like a weak clown, stop playing around all the time and do whatever it takes to succeed.
There is no magic game plan here, there is no secret formula... just perseverance and patience. Start right away when you can and never wait for something before you wake up, you have to stay alert all the time, you have to be on a sense of urgency all the time. It's easy to win if you will persevere, its easy to get back on track if you will just stop being lazy. Be he hardest working person in the world and let's see if you still fail.
Never change you goal because the situation was so overwhelming, never change the process because a lot of people are saying that your chosen path was too impossible. You have to believe in yourself and never let your mind be poisoned by anything that is not helping you to become more confident. Confidence is the key, you will become more confident if you stay focused and keep moving forward all the time.
NEVER CARE ABOU WHAT'S GOING ON
You're having a hard time with your life because you care too much about what's going on instead of focusing on the process. Never care about what's going on with the world and just focus on yourself. Never care if your neighbor's dog died of Covid, never care if your ex crush got impregnated by a tomboy, never care your idol was jailed because of battery. You have to protect your mind from different information and images that are not helping you to grow. Some information and news were interesting but lacks the real content to improve your life. The hard truth about success is you need to stay away from entertainment, stay away from fun because they're destroying your discipline, they're trying to make you lazy and weak all the time because they eat a lot of your time, they're making you entertained but they're also making your life miserable, they're setting you up for a failure in other words those are traps.
Be aware if a random information on the internet or on the television is trying to occupy your mind because it will mess up your mentality, it will stop you from taking actions, you will be thinking about it all day long especially if it's getting into your emotions. So stop getting interested with attractive information that talks about celebrities, gossips, latest trends etc. You have to stay on your line and bulletproof your mind from any negativity and distraction.
ANY HARD WILL MAKE YOU HARD
Any difficulty, any hard times, any challenges or problems will only make you harder and stronger. It's objective is to make you stronger not weaker. It's goal is to test you and build your character. So when a situation is hard... embrace it, never try to hope that it will change, embrace it and do something to solve it or just move forward and focus on bigger things.
The reality is... it's really not that hard, it's your perception that's making it hard. It's not hard if you will embrace it and feel it, it's not hard if you will accept it and carry on with your life. Remember that time is fast, if you will focus on taking one step at a time then you will never even notice that you already solved your problem.
Be happy if something is hard, be happy if there is a challenge trying to make you quit because these are blessing, these are the things that will make you tougher and stronger. You have to pus yourself to go all in whenever you're having a hard time, you have to stay committed to the process and never give up. It's only just a matter of time before you win in life.
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