You are pressured because you want people to like you. There is a chip on your shoulder because you don't want to fail. But if it's ok for you to fail then you will be free, you will feel no pressure anymore, you will become more creative, faster, stronger and meaner. You will do everything you want. Attachment causes you to feel the pressure too much, you're too attached to something. You're too attached to winning, you're too attached with the outcome, you're too concerned about what people are going to say.
IT'S NOT YOUR LOST IF THEY DON'T LIKE YOU
No matter how hard you try, no matter how much you sacrifice, no matter how hard you please others... you will still get judged, somebody will still unlike you. You have to accept that you can never please everyone. What's the point of pleasing someone if there is no chance that he will like you? what's the point of pleasing people because at the end of the day if you commit just one mistake you will still be judged?
SO WHAT IF YOU LOSE
If you have nothing to lose then you have everything to gain. Don't be afraid to try something new. Nobody loves a loser but you can still love yourself, you can still play the game, you can still become great. It's just a matter of trying again so fast, go back to your work so fast and still believe that one day you're going to become a winner too.
THERE IS REALLY NO PRESSURE TO WIN
Never please people including your parents, friends and partner. Because if they really love you then they will appreciate your effort alone, they don't need to look for results, they should be happy that you're trying and not wasting your life like others.
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