Feb 29, 2020

ONE MORE TIME GO HARDER THIS TIME

You've been so soft before, you take the opportunity for granted and that's why you lost. That's why you are not free and you can't elevate your lifestyle, don't worry because it's not over yet, you still have today, today is your day, today you can work really hard and make the world yours. Because if you've been exerting the same effort over and over again then you will get the same result, you need to change a little bit, go harder a little bit and be stronger than yesterday. You can do it if you will start now, forget anything else and go harder this time, because your hard is not your hardest, there is always another level and it's your duty to go and be it. So stop pampering yourself and go hard, once you have the awareness that you need to move... go hard, stop stopping yourself, stop making excuses, emotions has nothing to do with success, stop prioritizing your emotions and go hard all the time.

SMASH IT

Smash the resistance, smash your laziness, go all out and have no fear of getting exhausted. If you really want it then you will never feel tired anymore. If you really want it you will go all in and give everything you've got until you finally made a breakthrough. You go with it and smash it, you don't care about your emotions you just power through and use all of your power to work harder and make a different result this time. Use your quickness, make a move, decide fast, decide that you're going to conquer it at all cost. Go harder this time, you're in control, the funny thing is humans were only using 20% of their capabilities, they were not stretching themselves, they were afraid to go all out because they don't want to get exhausted. If you're not so tired it means you're not giving your all and if you're not giving your all you will get small results. What you can do now is not all you can do, you can smash this day, be mean, don't be soft, dominate this day and make it yours, every work is an easy work if you will change your perspective of it. Enjoy every action that you did and this day is going to be an easy one.

WHY ARE PEOPLE SO AFRAID TO GO HARDER

Because they don't want to fail, as simple as that. They will only work if the results were guaranteed, they think they just wasted their time if they go hard and get nothing. But the reality is the opposite, you still get something even if you fail. Your mental toughness and endurance elevated, your work ethic improved, you learned more, your patience grows and your braver this time. You're always in a win win situation if you go hard, you have nothing to lose here. And even if you fail a lot of times... it only made you stronger, you're no longer afraid of failing because you've already felt it a million times the result is you will no longer be afraid of taking risks and giving your all, you're a different animal this time, how good was that?

If you want some bigger results then go harder, detach from the outcome, stop thinking about it and just focus on taking one step at a time, enjoy every little step that you can make, appreciate that you can go hard because not all people can do it. Enjoy giving your best, have pride in your work, reach for excellence and repeat again tomorrow. Never get sick and tired of repeating, repeat the process over and over again. Repetition and discipline is the key, it's really going to get boring but it will become fun as you make going hard a habit, you will begin to like it everyday because it makes you feel powerful. Look at those people who were so soft and lazy... they feel weak and useless all the time, they were not happy, they were looking for something but they can't see it, the wanted to push but they don't have the willpower to do it.

Your efforts will not be wasted because you keep growing, you learn more, your wisdom level up, don't you like something like that? It is priceless, working hard will give you a good life so why be afraid of it? focus on what you want to happen and never stop until you get it.

SUCCESS IS JUST PERSEVERANCE

You persevere, you break a certain level of resistance, you face that fear and you work hard, you take risks and when you fail... you try again, as simple as that. It's too simple and easy right? what is so hard about that? if you will just follow this game plan and keep pushing then you will go further, you will become successful, you will reach a certain level, you will rise and claim what is rightfully yours. So don't complicate success, all you need to do is persevere, if nothing works now... go harder tomorrow, never stop until you finally get what you want. This is the only formula to success, you enjoy the process and try to reach the next level. It's all about finding that little space where you can operate and execute the process, it's all about looking for that small step and improvement. You will never become stuck if you persevere, there is always an improvement that is about to happen. So discipline yourself to focus and believe in what you're doing, remind yourself that you don't need to see the results for now, you just need to move and do the right thing, keep moving forward and you will never even notice how far you have come, you will become very big and it's becoming a natural thing for you because you just don't care, you only care about going hard and giving your best every single day for your dream.

Every time you fail just persevere, ever time you get frustrated... just keep moving forward and good things will happen, trust your willpower because it will show you the way, it will give you some clues that you might be able to use to become successful in your journey. 

SUBCONSCIOUS MIND CAN OVERPOWER YOUR FEAR

Be aware if the power of your mind, everything that is recorded in your mind can manifest in your reality. Your subconscious mind is where everything in the past was recorded. All the traumatic events, failures, victories, embarrassments, movements, success, love, hate, information, data, fear, memory. etc. Basically every pattern of thought that was built because you feel something towards a particular subject or event were all stored in your subconscious mind that's why it is very powerful and you can use it to make yourself victorious.

Subconscious mind is the main reason why winners keeps winning and losers keeps losing, rich becomes richer and poor becomes poorer. We are all trapped in the pattern of our subconscious mind, because every information and reaction will be triggered by something and it will come out in your reality. That's why traumas were very hard to cure, it's because it has a strong emotion attached with it in the past and it is all stored in your subconscious mind. So if a person is afraid to fail it means something in the past hurt him emotionally or physically so bad after failing. If a person is afraid to try it means there is a resistance in his subconscious mind that is preventing him from trying, maybe his parents were so expectant if him winning it all and they were punishing him every time he fail. If  person is afraid to fall in love again it means he was badly hurt in the past and he already lost his trust to other people.

So if you keep on losing and you're stuck in a mud and you don't know what to do, it only means there is something wrong in your subconscious mind and you need to reprogram it. You can do this by choosing a thought that you are willing to repeat over and over again. It can be words or images, it should be positive and will make you feel good every time you remember it. What you constantly repeat inside of your head will be your reality, it will overpower anything, it will erase all of your fears very time you feel it. Your dominant thought is the shaper of your destiny, it's the commander of your life.

And that is why some people who were talented can't win during pressure times, it's because in their subconscious mind they were so afraid of losing, and that's why they will not move and give their best because they were so afraid of making mistakes. And that is why they already lost just before they even try, their subconscious mind is in control and they don't know how to control it, they were thinking the wrong way whenever there is something that triggers their subconscious mind. For example, when a shy guy is trying to impress girl, when someone laughs at him or the girl laughs at him he will stop trying, it's because he feels he is embarrassed, he feels that he was already rejected because that's what he believed in the past or maybe a girl laughs at him in the past and he thought of it as something bad and embarrassing. He interpreted it as something bad and downing, he feels that he got rejected already even if the girl was just really laughing and thought of him as someone who's funny.

If you store a lot of frightening memories into your subconscious mind and it shows up automatically when something triggers it, you can also store a lot of motivating and inspiring memories even if it hasn't happen yet in real life. Your brain cannot determine what is real or not, it can only process information that was stored in it. So if you can just visualize an event over and over again then it will be stored in your subconscious mind forever and you can use it whenever you're in a state of fear, you can use it as a weapon to overpower your fear and make yourself courageous.

IT WILL WORK JUST MAKE SURE TO REPEAT OVER AND OVER AGAIN

It may not work for one day, a week or a month but it's already make an impact as the time goes on, all you have to do is repeat over and over again. Repetition is the key to mastery, you need to incorporate it into your lifestyle if you want it to work. You've been programmed by fear all the time, you're thinking about the past, you're entertaining a lot of traumatic events that's why it's manifesting int your life again, you are bringing it into life again and you didn't know it. Always remember that your subconscious mind is automatic, you are not aware that you are using it, and that is why it's using you, it's the one who's in control. Feed your subconscious mind with the right thoughts so that your fears will be overwritten, saturate it with ideas and events that you want to manifest in reality. Repeat your ideal self over and over again until you believe it. You will become successful, a winner, your life will change if you were able to control your subconscious mind. Remember that the more you repeat the more powerful your subconscious mind will be, just believe in the process, it will not happen overnight but the moment you start it... it's already happening little by little. All you have to do is sustain it and never stop doing it.

READ ANY EVENT, READ YOUR FEARS

Be in the moment, even if you're scared... you still need to be in the moment, that's the only time you can summon the thought that you recorded in your subconscious mind. Whenever I am scared, I stay calm and I keep repeating the phrases in my head "I don't care", "it's an opportunity for me to grow", and my fears go away, as simple as that. The resistance go away, the stress go away and I am being myself again, everything is in control again. Whenever I am in pain, all I do is stay calm because that is what I believe, that is what's embedded on my subconscious mind and the pain starts to go away slowly and naturally, I don't need to drink medicines anymore.

Whenever there is a pressure building up from a particular event... be mindful that you are scared, accept that you are scared, stay calm and summon the affirmations that you recorded in your subconscious mind that is attached with that event, use it as your weapon, use it to control yourself and the situation.

Play this like a game, experiment with yourself, experiment with your brain. You can become very powerful if you use your subconscious mind properly. For every situation there is a pattern of thought that will arise and if you didn't program your mind the right way then panic will start to kick in and you will never make good decisions. But if you will program it now for the future then any form of fear is controllable and in the end you're the one who's going to thrive. 

Feb 28, 2020

THREE THINGS YOU NEED TO AVOID TO OVERCOME DEPRESSION FASTER THAN EXPECTED

Depression is a very dangerous state, once your mind is blackened and poisoned by it... its's hard to make a comeback. You're like trapped in a quicksand and you can't find a way how to get out from it. No matter how hard you try you can't figure out how to change your state, you entertain a lot of dramas, you're looking for sympathy, you want people to recognize your pain and you are rejecting every good advises that they are giving to you because you feel that they can't understand you. You are starting to act like a drama superstar that doesn't know how to sell tickets, you want to be the center of attention but you don't have anything good to offer. You have this dark energy that makes people sick and tired of you. And even if there is a chance to move on and create something so that you will feel much better... you still don't want to move because you're so addicted to your dramas and excuses.

THERE ARE THREE THINGS YOU NEED TO AVOID TO OVERCOME DEPRESSION:

1. Rushing. You're rushing all the time to feel good, what you don't know is that every time you rush bad things happen, every time you try to make a short cut you are only putting yourself on a worse position. That's why people who take drugs and alcohol become depressed even more, they always look for the good feelings, they try to numb the pain by taking substances that are only making their case worse. They think that drugs or alcohol makes them forget their problems but the reality is they're only setting themselves up on a loop that has no ending. They repeat the same pattern over and over again and they can't escape depression.

You don't need to rush to feel good, if you are sad now... suck it up, embrace it, ignore it and remind yourself that you are ok and you don't need anything to feel good. Once you detach yourself from neediness then you are free, you will feel good in just a matter of time. Because the real root of depression is wanting something that you can't get. You don't need anything to feel happiness, once you accept this theory you will be set free.

2. Procrastinating. Procrastination is a dangerous trap, you feel like doing nothing and you're so addicted to it. You don't want to move, you just want to think. You know in yourself that there is something you need to do but you procrastinate and believe that you will do it later. The more you postpone something the stronger the depression will be. Just do something, stop waiting for the right time, stop thinking if you are right or wrong... do something now and entertain yourself by being active. Procrastination amplifies depression because a lot of things will run inside of your head, you will worry more, you will become scared even more, you will invent a lot of harmful thoughts that were not even real. The more you waste your time, the bigger your problem will be. Sometimes you don't even have a problem but because you worry too much and think too much... it turns into anxiety that leads to depression.

Run outside if you don't know what to do, draw your dog, paint your house, cook lasgana or something even if you don't know how to, apply for a job that you don't know, play with your life and give yourself a chance to succeed, pursue an impossible goal, join the triathlon even if you don't know how to swim, act like you know everything and apply for a CEO job, be playful with your life and never be afraid to fail. Remember that this is just a game and you should learn how to play and enjoy your chosen game. Movement creates improvement, stop procrastinating and make yourself busy with something positive so that you will have a direction.

3. Stopping. Stopping what made you successful before. Stopping your life, stopping your work, stopping everything because you have a self made problem. Life is all about moving, every time you stop what made you successful before... you're in big trouble, your state will change, the chemistry of your body will change, your world will stop and a sad and lazy word is welcoming your arrival. Don't stop the good momentum that you have even if you have a problem. If your work is good and suddenly your boyfriend cheats on you, don't stop your work, keep working so that something positive will still occupy your mind and it will be easy for you to move on. Never stop, keep moving forward all the time so that your mind will be on the right place.

Always choose action over reaction, stop reacting to things, choose action instead and never worry about the bad things that are happening, stop reacting to your problems negatively and choose the option of solving it. The key here it to move forward and do something positive, don't worry about what people might say, what on their minds is none of your business, you can become really happy by just enjoying yourself and being passionate on something.

PAIN IS SELF INFLICTED

Sometimes your problem is not really a problem, and even if it is a problem... it's too small but you're making it big by dwelling on it too much and looking for things and excuses that makes it even bigger. You are the creator of your life, you inflict your own pain because of your softness and being too picky in life. It is what it is, embrace what is going on with your life now and never try to change it if you can't control it, instead try to grow from it and look for the lessons that you can squeeze from it. Control your mind, change your perspective and pain will go away. Depression comes from trying to please people and you can't, trying to become a winner but you keep on losing, trying to become popular and accepted but you feel no one is accepting you, or maybe your standards were too high and you want everything to become perfect. There is no such thing as a perfect life, the best skill you can ever teach yourself is adapting and embracing any situation. You don't need anything in life, all you need is air and sunlight. Life is too simple if you will avid everything that complicates it. There is no pressure at all, no pressure to become the best, just give your best and forget the outcome, forget the external things that is outside of your control and depression will be cured. So what if you can't have it? so what if nobody likes you? if you can love and accept yourself then you don't need anything anymore, celebrate your life, be the happiest as you can be and it will only happen if you will appreciate everything that you have.

EVERY SECOND IS A CHANCE TO CHANGE YOURSELF

If you want to experience a new life then you need to treat every second as something important. Because the reason why you can't change is because you're trapped in a pattern that you created for so many years. You already knew what's going to happen today right? you've been living the same way for a very long time that's why you keep getting the same results over and over again. You need to play a new role and create a new energy if you want to experience a new life. Because you've been repeating your life for so long that you're already trapped in a system that's full of resistance. Your mind is conditioned in a way that you're always doing something that has no chance of giving you something back in the future.

BE MINDFUL OF YOUR SMALL ACTIONS

The small click in your mouse that directs to a useless website, that one press of button in your cellphone that has no direction, that one checking of your email but you're not expecting anything, that one stop because you're so bored of what you're doing. Because most of the time your subconscious in control, all of your actions were recorded, everyday you're in an auto pilot mode and that's why it's hard to change. Change will only happen if you're always in the moment and appreciating the small actions that you've been doing. Even if you don't like the task, you need to enjoy it so that you will be able to work harder and smarter. Look at yourself, you're always doing stupid things that will not make you grow, you're always entertaining thoughts that will never even make you prosper, and you're so addicted with it.

WHY ARE YOU DOING A LOT OF USELESS THINGS?

It's because it's easier, more convenient and let's admit it... it's fun. You know that it will not help you and will never give you a better life but you still do it because it's making you high, you are forgetting your problems a little bit but once the effect strikes on you... it's too late for you to change, you're already stuck in a rut that is very hard to escape from. It's really hard to stop something that you've been doing for a very long time but what's more important to you? creating a new life or enjoying something that you're so sick and tired of? I know you don't want to do those things anymore because you knew it's useless but you can't stop yourself because you've already been programmed that way. The only way to unlearn what you've been doing for a long time is to be in the moment and face the pain of not doing it. Be patient and don't rush, it will take time, it will not happen overnight but once you overcome a useless addiction... you will slowly experience a new life. 

Don't rush, take it one step at a time. Enjoy the boredom. You are in control every time you stay in the moment and watch as you evolve. Change will take place if you accept that it's going to be a slow process, it's a little bit painful but it's so manageable. Breathe, enjoy every small step, enjoy being aware of what's going on and never rush things. Focus on what you're doing, never try to escape the situation.

CONVERT MICRO PROCRASTINATION INTO A MORE MEANINGFUL ACTION

Taking a sneak peek into your favorite you tube channel, checking your cellphone even if you don't have any business transaction, letting your mind get lost, chatting with your not so close friends, watching a few episode in netflix, etc. You can convert those micro procrastination into activities that will give you a better life in the future. Watch every move that you're going to do, and avoid doing it, once you feel you are about to do it... shift your thoughts right away and look for a more meaningful activity such as exercising on your place, doing small pushups, reading a book, meditating, learning a new skill. Be good in detecting procrastination, once you detect it look for something to replace it, you can become really good in something if you are committed to transforming your life into something much better.

So don't ever feel bad if you're stuck in a mud and you can't find a way how to escape from it, every second is an opportunity to make yourself better, you can put yourself on a best position to succeed. All it takes is discipline and embracing the pain of not doing what is easy. Usually the easiest and most entertaining activities are what puts you down. All you need is time, all you need is very second to make your life a little bit better. Never lose motivation to change because every second is an opportunity. It's not too late for you, remember that anything is possible if you will take it inch by inch and stay patient until change finally happened. It's ok if you are slow, this is not a race, transformation needs a lot of time and focus.

The conclusion is use your time the right way and stop focusing on how to have fun a lot, what is fun will never create change because there is no resistance there. There is only change and growth from pain and stress. So if you're too comfortable right now and enjoying life, it only means you're not growing, and the funny thing is you think you're having a lot of fun but wait for a few days and you will see your life starting to go down. Change is not that complicated, it's not too hard, you just need to focus on what you really want in your life and go after it. Stop having a cluttered lifestyle, stop doing too much, you think you are busy but the truth is you're doing a lot of things that are not helping at all.

FOCUS ON GREATNESS, FOCUS ON GIVING YOUR BEST

Your life will change fast if you have this kind of approach. Just focus in giving your best every single day, enjoy your work and push a little bit further, go the extra mile and never settle for what you can do now, you can always do better tomorrow or later. Never sell yourself short, never think that it's the only thing you can do because you can always do more, target greatness... evolve everyday and keep on moving forward all the time. 

SACRIFICE ONE THING TO MANIPULATE THE RESULTS THAT YOU ARE GETTING

In order to get something bigger you need to let go of something, you need to reserve some space for your desires and wants. There is an energy needed to create something bigger than what it use to be. You need to sacrifice something, it's going to be hard and uncomfortable but if you manage to do this for a long period of time then you will say to yourself "glad I did it!". Sacrificing is simply stopping something to have more time and energy for something better. The more you sacrifice the more you will get more. Sacrifice is a very heavy word, it is scary because most people thinks it's pain. But the truth is it's nothing more than discipline, you discipline yourself and stop a habit that is not propelling you to move forward.

CHOOSE SOMETHING TO SACRIFICE

It is what it is, if you really want to go to another level then you need to cut something that is not serving you in your life. Something that is fun but is useless, you can only manipulate the results of your life if you're willing to face the discomfort and do what is necessary, change your bad habits or stop it so you will be able to force to do something that can produce better results in your life. You don't need to cut it away forever, you can test it today and see if you are getting better results by cutting it. It's hard to cut something that you love but you have to look at the bigger picture here, it's only hard in the beginning because its' already in your system but look at the benefits that you will get by sacrificing... you will have a much better life.

IDEAS OF WHAT TO SACRIFICE:

1. TV - Cutting at least 3-5 hours of watching TV will make a huge difference in your life. You can do a lot with 3-5 hours of work. Not all but most of the programs in television were trash and is only using you for advertisement purposes. Television is fooling you, it's eating a lot of your time and you don't recognize it.

2. Sleep - You're sleeping too much and this makes you feel tired even more. You think you're resting by trying to sleep for a very long time but the truth is you're only making your body weaker even more. If you will sleep for more than 8 hours a day then you're wasting a lot of time, your body becomes weak and it's becoming your habit to sleep for longer hours even if you don't need it. 5-6 hours of sleep is good enough. Some people makes a lot of excuses that they don't have enough sleep that's why they can't perform well. But the truth is if you really want it then you will find that energy to keep going even if you're not feeling well.

3. Social media - This is another good time waster. It's also making you attached with something that you don't like. Social media programs your mind and you don't know it. You are dealing with other people's dramas, you're becoming more negative, you're wasting a lot of time on games and gossips, the worst thing is you're becoming a hater because of this platform.

4. Daydreaming - You're dreaming too much about your crush, you want to go back in the past, you're dreaming of becoming super rich and controlling your life, you're dreaming about having a good life and dating your childhood crush. But the truth is none of those things will happen if you're just daydreaming, you've got to be taking actions now.

5. Chocolates I know this is hard to do but if you will just try eating healthy for one day or one week then you will have more energy. It's ok to eat some junks but make sure you are also moving and staying active. But if you're not moving at all and all you do is sit on your desk then you're in big trouble. You will run out of energy fast, you will become slower and weaker. You need to cut a little bit of junk in in your system, this will create a small change but will lead to a bigger change if you stay consistent and serious about it.

6. Spending too much time with your friends. If you're too much invested with the life of your friends and you love them so much then you are losing more time for yourself. You will never chase your dreams anymore because you're much more interested with their lives rather than trying to make your own life better. Your friends will never leave you if they are real friends, you don't need to see them everyday or every week, you can still be close to them even if you're just seeing them sometimes.

7. Too much hobbies. I know it's cool to learn a lot and experience a lot but having a lot of hobbies will drain your energy, you will never be able to focus on your dreams because you will get lost. A lot of things will try to eat your time and sometimes you will get overwhelmed by it. Cut some of your hobbies and focus on what you like the most. Remember that you are trying to free more space for the more important things that will get results. Even if you really like one of your hobby, you need to drop it because it's too time consuming and not giving you anything in return.

You have to be aware of what's draining your energy and eating a lot of your time, you have to have no regrets when you drop one thing in your life, don't worry because you can still pick it up later when you already have a strong momentum and were able to create a stronger foundation. You can come back on it when you're already established and strong but for the meantime you need to forget about it and create a good habit first.

Be honest with yourself, admit if something is eating a lot of your time and making you useless and not so productive. If it's a video game then it's a video game, you need to smash you game console with a baseball bat and face the pain of not being able to play with it anymore. You want to change right? so embrace discomfort and forget one thing that gives you so much joy. Entertainment is good while your life is still good, but once you get addicted with a useless entertainment... you're in big trouble, your future will be in jeopardy and it will be very hard for you to escape a hard life because you've been doing it for so long.

14 SIMPLEST AND MOST EFFECTIVE STEPS TO RAISE YOUR SELF ESTEEM

Self esteem is something you need to become successful without it you are nothing, no matter how talented or skilled you are... you will never succeed if you have low self esteem. Developing self esteem is not that hard to do, all you have to do is follow the easy steps below and apply it into your life. Self esteem is something that is not in born, you can develop it even if you have a cave man attitude, you can earn it even if you're so shy and can't even ask an ugly girl out on a date. You can have self esteem even if your mind was programmed to fail. In other words you can change, as your self esteem increases your life gets better and better each day.

1. TREAT EVERYONE AS THE SAME. If you're talking to a president, treat him the same as you talk to an ordinary person. Never give anyone an advantage. They were all the same humans as you, it's not that you are better than them, it's just that they were just also a human who makes mistakes and has flaws. Never get intimidated with anyone who has a high position in society, treat them as normal person but don't disrespect them. Don't get excited when you see a celebrity because they were all just humans like you, they will not even give you a favor so why will you go crazy when you see them? they were just humans too, you can become successful too in your own way. The more you spend your energy on praising other people... the more your confidence and self esteem will go down. Never admire a human being because they were just like you.

2. FOCUS ON HOW YOU FEEL. Don't focus on how they feel and what other people think of you, focus on how you feel. You can feel good in any kind of situation, you don't need to overwhelm yourself and feel low because a strong and loud personality is present. No matter what they say or do... you can still feel good if you choose to, you will look invincible by doing that. Staying calm and maintaining your composure is a very powerful thing. How you feel determines your self esteem, you can feel good all the time, just focus on the inside and never look outside... this is the key to feel good all the time. If you can draw the state from within and create your own emotions then your value will increase, you can feel good anytime you want, and feeling good will unleash your creative side, you will feel more motivated and that will make you very productive, the result is success and more opportunities.

3. ALWAYS THINK BIG. You will never be able to raise your self esteem if you're not thinking big, thinking small is for people who have no confidence at all. Always think big and do big. Think about millions, think about greatness, think about getting on top, think about how to become your own boss and build your own empire. Thinking is free so why not think big instead of thinking small? thinking big will make you confident especially if you're backing it up with hard work. Thinking big will make you creative, it will force you to do something special and you will feel proud of yourself because you've accomplished something that not all people can do. Stretch your mind, think big, focus on possibilities, focus on going further. Trust me, you will feel good and valuable if you are thinking big because you are having and edge to everyone.

4. WORK LIKE A BEAST. Always say to yourself that you can work hard so that nobody can just stomp on you. Remind yourself that you have the potential to be the hardest working person in the world so that you will feel confident about yourself. You can leave any boss, you can reject any ugly offers because you know hard work will help you in the end. Being a beast will give you promotion, bigger money, larger opportunities, people will like you and that is a very good confidence booster. Nobody likes a person who is so lazy as a turtle, you need to work like a beast so you will feel proud of yourself. Keep grinding and hustling, work as hard as you can and you will feel that you are something special, you will see that you are doing better than a lot of people because most of them were too slow and lazy and that's why they have very low self esteem.

5. ELEVATE YOUR MENTAL TOUGHNESS. You can do this by sticking to the problem or challenge for a very long time and not quitting. If there is a resistance... break it, if there is something threatening you... face it. Confront your fears every now and then, this is the best way to elevate your mental toughness. Your mental toughness is everything, you can face any challenge and conquer any kind of scary storm if your mental toughness is on a different level. So treat every challenge as an opportunity to thrive and elevate your mental toughness, face it, don't run away from it... deal with it and see what you can become by facing it.

6. BE FAST. Being fast will give you an edge, you will also forget that you're not good enough. Be fast in making decisions, be fast in taking actions, be fast in moving on, you need to be fast in anything because this will leave you no room for worries. Worrying is a big confidence buster, if you're fast and not thinking too much then you will have more confidence because you just knew that every time you fail... you can try again as fast as you want, you don't need tomorrow, you will never wait for the right timing, you will use your speed to thrive in anything. Because the more you overthink the more you are wasting time, you are not getting any result by doing that. You need to be fast and never let your mind think again, just do it, never care if it is perfect or not... just do it.

7. NEVER CARE ABOUT YOUR NEGATIVE EMOTIONS. Stop being too sensitive and soft, be tough. If someone criticizes you just ignore it, never feel disrespected, never feel that the world is unfair to you. It is what it is, sometimes you will really feel negative but you are only destroying your self esteem every time you dwell too much on it. Just focus on feeling good and never have self pity again. Of course you will feel bad because you're just a human being but you can replace those negative emotions with positive emotions if you will just entertain the right thoughts.

Be aware that you are feeling bad now and believe that that negative emotion will soon change. There is no permanent emotion, emotions come and go, it's up to you how are you going to go with the flow.

8. TARGET THE FIRST STEP. There is something you need and can do and it is your duty to find out what is it. The main reason why most people have low confidence is because they were having a hard time executing, they were thinking too much and worried about making mistakes and that's why they couldn't even get started. Remember that life is a journey, you don't need to look perfect here, you just need to experience life and give yourself a chance to succeed by trying. There is always a first step and you must target it, execute fast, trust me you will feel good about yourself if you're moving all the time and not procrastinating.

9. FEEL THE PAIN OVER AND OVER AGAIN. Once you got rejected... go and find another opportunity to get rejected again. Once you lose... try again and expose yourself to a series of defeats again. Once you feel the pain over and over again... it will no longer scare you, your self esteem will go high because you just knew you are alright and you only got better every time you fail and got embarrassed. Pain will give you strength, pain is your path if you want to have a mindset of nothing to lose. Because you really have nothing to lose, and once you realize it... you are free, you can do anything you want, you will become more powerful and victory will fall into your hands in just a matter of time.

10. CREATE A GAME PLAN AND EXECUTE IT. You will become more confident if you have a game plan. You will never get lost if your game plan is too bold and you are willing to execute it until it works. Even if your game plan is not working at the moment... still execute it. You will feel sure of yourself if you have a game plan, you will never feel threatened or overwhelmed if you have the tenacity to execute your game plan no matter what. Create a game plan for today and tomorrow and the following days. Having a blue print will raise your self esteem because you knew you prepare and you are willing to do whatever it takes just to make your game plan work.

11. STOP CARING ABOUT YOUR IDENTITY. Always think that you are nothing but never feel low about yourself. Destroy your ego, never care if people were laughing at you. They can laugh at you for so long but if you can maintain your composure and practice stillness... they will stop, they will feel your power, they will realize that you're not an ordinary human being. Feel free to do what you need to do and never care about your name, never care about the accomplishments and records that you have in the past, forget everything, lose your mind so that you will have an opportunity to welcome new experiences.

Never care if you look like a garbage, just do what you need to do. Never care if you look stupid and dumb... just focus on getting what you want. Because caring too much about your identity will make you conservative, you will never be able to express yourself anymore, you will feel a lot of resistance.

12. DON'T RUB ELBOWS WITH PEOPLE THAT YOU DON'T LIKE. Hanging around with people that you don't like and makes you feel bad will only lower your vibration, it will lower your self esteem because you will feel bad, you will feel that you have something to prove to them. You want to gain their respect and the more you do that, the more your self esteem goes down. The reality is you want to please people that you don't like, you want to gain their respect because you feel it is a form of revenge. The truth is you don't need them, you don't need their comments. No matter what you do, if a person dislikes you he will never like you. Let it go, give time to people who are only making you feel good.

13. PRACTICE BEING ALONE. Isolation is a gift, being alone and doing it your way will make you discover more of your strength and gifts. Don't be afraid to become a one man army. Do it for months and you will see that you don't need anything or help from other people to survive. The help will come naturally if you are working hard and showing the universe that you really wanted to win. Being alone creates self reliance, you will feel more valuable, you will never be afraid of creating your own process and finishing a difficult task.

14. TAKE RISKS. If you want to go to another level... take risks. Remember that you have nothing to lose here and you have everything to gain. Taking risk will give you another experience that will increase your self esteem. The more you face the unknown, the more you will feel good about yourself. You will feel braver, you will become happier because you were able to free yourself from fear. Why will you be scared to fail? you already won the moment you try because you give yourself a chance to succeed. And even if you lose... don't worry because it's not the end of the world, you can try as much as you want, nothing can stop you. 

Feb 27, 2020

YOU'RE CLOSER THAN YESTERDAY

If you're still taking actions now and has no plan of quitting... you're closer than yesterday, so there is nothing to be ashamed of if you're not progressing fast, just continue what you're doing because you're becoming better and better everyday. So stop thinking that nothing good is happening in your journey, if you are working today and really pushing yourself then something good already happened. It's all about the work and not the results, the results will come later for sure, you will get it but you have to work hard first and prove yourself that you deserve what you want.

Most of us think that were too far from what we desire and that's why we don't want to work hard anymore.

IT'S ALL ABOUT WHERE YOU PUT YOUR ENERGY

Where are you putting your energy? that's the big question. Are you putting it for improvement or are you putting it on different things that doesn't even serve you at all? put your energy into strengthening your beliefs and taking actions, that's the only way to become closer and closer to your dreams. Don't feel bad if you can't see any progress now, always remember that you are progressing every time you take actions, it's normal to lose and feel like a loser but always remember that you already won whenever you are making a move because that it is what it's all about... moving and making yourself closer and closer from your dreams. Are you putting your energy to something that is useless? just thinking about negative things and failure will drain a lot of your energy, it will make you weak.

BE HAPPY WITH THOSE SMALL ACTIONS

Be happy with those small actions and keep doing it, repeat, don't lose your appetite for taking actions, get addicted with those small steps and keep moving forward. If you can just work for 24 hours a day then you will become a legend. Those small actions are the real deal, it looks like it's not making an impact but the reality is it's giving you a very strong momentum that leads to success. Never take those small actions for granted because it is the key to become great. It's the key to become better. So always look for something that you can do, something that is positive and will help you a little bit to become better, once you find something... do it right away, stop hesitating, stop overthinking, you need to execute fast so that you can repeat a lot of times, the result is being productive and having a strong momentum on your side.

YESTERDAY IS GONE, WERE TALKING ABOUT THE NOW

If you want to have fast progress then forget the past and focus on what can you do now, focus on the present moment and try to make it epic. Never take this day for granted, stop dwelling on your failures and shortcomings from the past, you need to put your mind on the present moment because there is nothing in the past anymore. You can only create in the present, you can never do something in the past anymore, the best thing to do is to forget it and move on. The present moment has so much to offer, it can give you anything, it can make you something big. Always stay positive, forget what happened yesterday and keep your head up, focus on what you can do, even if you can just do small things... you are still capable of succeeding because you can move, you are not useless, push yourself every now and then and never waste any of your precious time.

ALWAYS THINK THAT YOU ARE PROGRESSING

Even if you can't see results now... still think that you are progressing. All of your actions were important, don't feel bad if you can't win right away or at least make some small success. Just don't quit, persevere until you come up with something. You may not know, you're already too close from your goals so you need to believe and keep fighting for it. Always keep in mind that you already made a progress every time you force yourself to move despite of feeling lazy, you already reach another level if you take actions instead of doing nothing. Choosing action over procrastination is a big time move so keep doing it until it becomes your habit.

REPEAT WHAT YOU DID YESTERDAY

If you don't know what to do today... just repeat what you did yesterday, repeat something that gave you progress a little bit. Repetition is the key, it will make you a master, what you're doing will be recorded into your subconscious mind, if you repeat it a million times then you don't need to exert an effort anymore, it will look effortless because it's already written in your system, your body already memorized it. Don't get tired of repeating because it's the only way to become great. It's a very simple game plan and you will succeed right? just repeat what you did yesterday, push harder, move faster and you will already go to the next level. Just do it, stop thinking and just do it. You don't need to think here, you just need to move and do the right thing. Time is fast, keep repeating and you will never even notice that you're already too good.

Keep moving forward all the time, this should be your mindset. Never get frustrated because you're working hard but you can't see any results or just even a small amount of success. It's ok, remember that you still need to work even if nothing is working. Because it will be game over for you once you become lazy and didn't take care of business. You need to work harder and harder each day, this kind of mentality will make you successful fast. Forget about the results because it will manifest in the future as you work harder, it will come automatically into your life. 

Feb 26, 2020

YOUR DREAM IS RIGHT

No matter how big your dream is, no matter how frightening it is... it is right, you're seeing it on your mind so you can see it in your reality. You just need to focus more, double your effort and do whatever it takes to succeed, stop thinking that it is impossible because you can always do something to make yourself a little bit closer from your dreams. It will only happen if you are willing to take it one step at a time. So always be willing to go the extra mile and push yourself to the limits, keep going further all the time so you can see all the possibilities for making your dreams come true. Stop thinking too much and never let people's thoughts of your dreams scare you. Of course they will always have something to say, they will try to make scary comments about you, they will say you're not realistic but all of big dreams were not realistic before until they become real. Go all in and never stop until your dreams come into fruition. It is what it is, it's not going to be easy but you can always do something about it, you can improve your situation a little bit. 

DON'T BE SCARED TO BE CALLED A FOOL

People will call you a fool, they will laugh at you and will criticize you, that's all part of the process. Remember that what they say is none of your business, you're on your own now, it doesn't matter if nobody believes in you for as long as you believe in yourself. You still have to go all in and give your full maximum effort even if you hear something not nice, don't worry about it, worry about your actions, worry if you're not working hard because your effort is the only thing that you can control, you can never control their mouths, let them speak, just ignore them and keep moving forward all the time. Go and get your dreams no matter how bad they call you, they will give you funny names, they will call you crazy but it is what it is... they were just spectators and you're a doer, you are a performer and they were just hoping that you fail so that they can call themselves right and better than you. Every great inventors, dreamers, successful people were called fool once or even multiple times but they didn't care, they keep pushing forward and follow their own guts. 

TRUST HARD WORK

If you can't trust anybody then just trust hard work, it will help you, it will give you anything you want. Just work hard and see the results flowing in. You will never lose if you're working hard, so keep focusing on the process and outwork everyone else. Hard work is they key, it will erase your doubts and fears, it will give you small progress every single day and those small progress will accumulate one day and will create one big result. So just work hard if you're not feeling right, work hard if you're doubting yourself and you will become confident again, hard work will motivate you, it will give you self esteem. Hard work is the only key, many preachers out there were preaching about not working hard, guess what? it never work, it's only for the lazy people and delusional. You can never succeed if you will not work hard. Hard work is the surest path to success, it's not too easy but it will give you something you deserve. So if you don't know how to do it... just work hard and you will be able to figure out what to do next, take it step by step, inch by inch, be patient and never give up, it's too simple, just work hard and never quit even if it is already too hard. 

DO IT YOUR WAY

Do it your way, just do it, feeling free will make you very creative, you will be able to express yourself even more if you do it your way. Forget about the rules, forget about if you are right or wrong, the most important thing here is you follow your heart and did it your way. Unleash your creative side, be confident with your skills and abilities, it doesn't matter if your own process doesn't look perfect, what matters is you are doing it your way and you are following your instincts. Because there is still a possibility that you might fail even if you follow them, so stop putting your fate into the hands of others and do it your way, take matters into your own hands, if you're going to fail then fail doing it your way, if you're going to try... fully believe in yourself. Because you are allowed to do it your way, you are allowed to make mistakes and repeat again, don't be afraid to be labeled as someone who's crazy, they don't know who you are, they can't read your heart, they don't have any idea how create you can be, they can call you anything they want but in the end you will still succeed and people will kiss your ass. 

BELIEVE IN YOURSELF AND YOUR DREAMS WILL BELIEVE IN YOU

Maybe the main reason why you can't make it is because you don't believe in your dreams hard enough, you're always hesitating, you're always doubting yourself, you're not 100 percent committed. You have to go all in if you want your dreams to believe in you, you have to give everything you've got every single day and never be scared of getting exhausted. You can regain your energy and power back so why be afraid of getting tired? you are unlimited, your power cannot be measures so keep going all the time and be fast in moving, stop thinking too much and analyzing things, stop worrying and just get the job done. Thinking will never move you one step ahead, if you want to have more results then focus on taking actions all the time and never worry about the future. 

Always believe that your dream is right, no matter how big it is... you deserve it and you will get it on the right time, just keep chasing it and never skip a day, put it in your heart, fix it in your system, never let it go. 

Whatever dream you have, you have to start chasing it now, time is fast, never waste any of your day, be useful and productive, always do something for your dream so it will be attracted into your life faster than expected. 

WITH ARMS WIDE OPEN

Embrace it, don't deny it, don't pretend that you don't see it, don't think that it's not part of your life... accept it. Acceptance is the key and moving forward is the solution. Whatever is happening with your life right now may it be good or bad... just embrace it, feel it and don't every try to run away from it because you are being coward by doing that. You have to face what needs to be face, don't be scared of any kind of emotion, don't be scared of pain and happiness, don't shy away from anything that is coming into your life, embrace it like a warrior and never back down to any challenge. Life is all about facing challenges and feeling your fears, without fear and obstacles life will become very boring and plain. So be happy if you're experiencing some difficulty right now because what lies
with it is growth and development of your character.

THE REASON WHY YOU CAN'T SHINE

It's because you're not embracing the moment. Whenever you are hot and has a strong momentum in you... you always hold back, you don't want to devour the situation, you don't want the spotlight, you don't want the moment to be your shining moment, you're acting like humble but deep inside you can push for more and be more. If you want to shine then you need to forget how you feel, put your mind into neutral and ride the momentum that is slowly building, keep the fire burning, keep the ball rolling. Forget yourself, forget the outcome, loosen up and you will shine, forget about what people say because what's on their heads is none of your business, your goal is to shine and experience greatness, feel something that you haven't felt before and allow yourself to rise above pressure and challenges.

You can shine if you will embrace any kind of emotion you are feeling right now, go further with your happiness and excitement and never care about what other people might say, if you feel good and confident... so be it, do what you think you can do and never be afraid to fail, embrace the possibility of failing, embrace the possibility that you might lose the best moment in front of you... because you can never shine to the fullest if you will not take risk, don't be afraid to miss, don't be afraid to disappoint yourself and some people expecting you to do great.

If you really wanted to shine then push yourself to do what you haven't done before, never let the feeling of avoiding tying something better because you already did well, you know in yourself that you can do more so stop holding yourself back and keep going further if you have a chance. You will only shine if you will go to the edge of your potential, there is always something better waiting for you and all you have to do is get it and avoid playing safe.

So if you're hot and there is a very strong momentum on your side... keep pushing, keep winning, allow yourself to shine and never feel guilty that you're becoming greedy a little bit, it's ok, you're in the zone so devour it, be opportunistic and take everything you can take.

IF SOMETHING BAD HAPPENS TO YOU, EMBRACE IT

The good thing about it is you're still alive and you will learn something from it if you think of it as something positive instead judging it as something negative. Embrace anything bad, it happens for a reason, it happens because you need to learn something from it. No matter how bad it looks, it is still part of your life so be happy for it, if you can't be happy then just have peace with it and never complain, do something about it. It is what it is, you have to deal with it, accept it or else it will forever disturb your mind. Because at the end of the day, something bad will happen to you in the future, you will never have a perfect life, so be happy that it happens now because you can already make adjustments, you can already move on to the next phase of your life.

Anything bad is normal, it happens to everyone so don't ever act like you don't deserve it. Stop making dramas and just go with it. Live it, have fun with it if you can, learn to play with it so that it will be easier. Accept that it is already part of your life, it's either you make dramas about it and ask the world what went wrong or you embrace it and do something that will make your life a little bit better.

ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE

Embrace every possibility, welcome every 50/50 chance with open arms, think that you can get it, believe that you will thrive. Anything is possible and will happen if you give yourself a chance to claim it. Own it, make it yours, you deserve it, anything is possible if you have faith in yourself. So increase your confidence and take risk, leave your comfort zone and go to the unknown. Because only through unknown you can discover great things in life, you can never level up with something that you already have and know, you can only take your journey to another level if you will embrace the unknown and be willing to get scared by trying. And it will only happen if you will really trust yourself and do what is needed.

IT WILL GO AWAY ANYTIME SOON

Any problem, challenge or anything that is making your life difficult will go away anytime soon. Not all the time you will stay at the bottom, time will come and everything will change, you will see the light again, you will live happier again. So if you're struggling right now, just go with it, it has an ending, you don't need to rush, you just need to deal with it.

Feb 25, 2020

MAKE UP YOUR MIND AND SEE THE CHANGE

What makes the change hard is because you can't make up your mind, you can't fix your mind into something. You say you're going to do this or do that, be like this or be like that but your mind is always changing, you can't make a stand for what you believe in, your mind is easily get influenced by a lot of things and you don't know it, you're not aware that something is manipulating you. Make up your mind and follow your heart, once your mind is fixed into something... you will get it, as simple as that. Never let anything disturb your mind because your focus can easily get destroyed if you're not aware of the thoughts that come and go in your brain. Your mind is a very powerful tool, if you can just use it right and optimize it then you will be able to go further. Focus on success and never give attention to people and things that will never make you progress a little bit. You will only make a change if you will change your mind. Once you change your mind the outcome will change, you will see a different reality. It's hard to change the mind but it is possible, you need to discipline yourself and stop thinking the wrong way, be aware if you're thinking the right way or the wrong way.

FOCUS ONLY ON WHAT YOU WANT

Don't focus on what you don't want and focus only on the things, process that is making you feel much better. Focusing on what you don't want will never create change, focus on what you want and fix your mind on it, that's how to create change. Your mind is everything, your mind will create your reality so don't ever put anything that is harmful to your mind because it will affect your reality. You can only make improvements if your mind is healthy and functioning the right way. So stop focusing on what you don't want starting today and simply think about the things or events that you want to manifest, even if it's not happening yet... still think about it and never erase i from your brain. Focus is very powerful, your mind is very powerful if you use it the right way.

Change is not that hard to do if you will just persist and embrace discomfort. A made up mind is something that will never go to a different direction than the original game plan, a made up mind will keep on persisting until change happen. 

Feb 24, 2020

HOW TO MAKE YOURSELF READY FOR SUCCESS

The answer to this question is don't make yourself ready. Just decide that you're going to become successful and do whatever it takes to take action, never do whatever it takes to succeed but just do whatever it takes to take action. Because you need to force yourself to move, you can never force success because you don't know when will it come into your life. But one thing is for sure... you can move, you can work as hard as you can despite of failing a lot of times. And the truth is.. you don't know if you're ready or not, but if you have the mentality of just facing what needs to be faced then you're almost there, you're on the right path and time will only tell when is the exact date of your success.

So don't get ready just take actions now, move now, stop wasting a lot of time because that is only pulling you down. Just be fast, never hesitate to move, even if your actions were not working... still do it, do it over and over again until you finally figure out what to do next. Because there is no such thing as being ready to succeed but there is such thing as always ready to move whenever you want to.

PEOPLE WERE LOOKING FOR ANSWERS ALL THE TIME

Don't look for answers, don't look for the missing ingredient why you are not succeeding and just move forward all the time, enjoy life and work as hard as you can. You don't need to know everything, you just need to take actions and see where your willpower can take you, that's it. If you can just enjoy your own journey and do whatever it takes to succeed then you will succeed, as simple as that. Don't look for answers, look for actions, find what it is that you can do to become successful and that's it. You don't need to complicate the process, just do the basics and go further all the time, keep going further and further, focus on your goals... that's how to become ready for success. Because you don't know when success will come into your life, it will manifest by itself, you are not suppose to go after it, you are suppose to attract it by working hard and giving everything you've got every single day. Never waste a day doing nothing, make it productive, devour each day, devour every small opportunity. Never under estimate the small steps that you can do because it can be a bridge to success, it can create a break that you are waiting for, it can serve as a dot connector from starting point to destination.

YOU DON'T KNOW IF YOU'RE READY OR NOT

Sometimes you feel ready, you do everything you can, you focus on your preparation but when the big stage is there... you will feel you're still not ready, you will still feel incomplete. It's not that you're not ready, you're just not ready to face fears, you let your fears take over and that's why you feel you're not ready. There are some people who didn't prepare but are ready to face anything and that's why they look good, they still give their best when it matters the most even if they were not physically prepared. Sometimes you really don't know if you're ready or not, sometimes it's all about the mindset. If you're ready to embrace anything then you will feel ready. But of course it's better if you will prepare but what if you failed to prepare? are you just going to quit and not even try? just show up, face the challenge, forget the outcome and give your very best... that's the best way to get ahead in life. Never judge yourself that you are not ready because that will stop you from taking actions, just do it even if you feel inadequate, always be in a state of abundance and never give up on something you want, push yourself to the limits and strive for victory even if you're not prepared.

LEARN TO EMBRACE THE CHAOS

Even if you're not in good mood... still work and move forward, still give your best even if you're feeling something. Even if the situation is really difficult, scary or overwhelming... never give up, never show them that you are about to quit, never expose your fear. Still stand straight, move calmly and never show sings of backing down to any challenge. Whatever is in front of you... face it, do it, conquer it anytime anywhere. Learning how to embrace chaos is the most ready mindset that you can ever have, it means you don't care if it's difficult and you're willing to persevere just to make some progress. Because if you're ready to face difficulty anytime and embrace the randomness and surprises of life then everything will be a lot easier to you, you will never get overwhelmed or maybe you will still get overwhelmed but you will be able to adjust easily. If you can learn how to embrace chaos and still give your best despite of fears and chaotic situations then you will become invincible, you will adapt to anything and you can still thrive, you still have a very big chance to win.

YOU CAN STILL WIN EVEN IF YOU'RE NOT READY

Never count yourself out, believe in the power of willpower, your willpower can overcome any big challenges, if you're really hungry for victory then you will do the impossible, you will move fast and never feel incomplete, you will feel powerful even if you're not, you will never feel like an underdog if you trust your willpower. Just be willing to push no matter what, forge the outcome and find a way. If there is a will there is a way, never forget this quote because no matter how old it is... it is still effective. You can win if you persevere, so forget if you are ready or not and just unleash the beast in you. 

Feb 23, 2020

HOW TO FOCUS THE RIGHT WAY

Focus is a very powerful thing, you will look faster if you are focused on one thing, you will look smarter, you will become better, you will achieve more. Time is the friend of focus, time is fast, if you're focused then you will achieve something great in just a short period of time. You will never even notice that you have what you want, you will never even noticed that you're already great. Focus erases doubts and worries, focus will give you confidence. But why is it hard to stay focus? why is it so difficult to commit? it's because a lot of information is  disturbing you.

TO FOCUS THE RIGHT WAY IS TO FACE THE PAIN

It's painful to start something, it's painful to go back on track after sleeping or eating or watching TV, it's hard to stop yourself from getting entertained by fun activities, it's really painful right? it's like pain in the ass. But you have to face it, you have to accept the fact that you need to do it. It's hard especially if your mind is looking for comfort but it is what it is, focusing on success is really hard that's why only few people get it. But if you can face the pain, if you are willing to face discomfort and do it anyway then you are already developing your focus. If it doesn't feel right and you still do it anyway, you're already on a different level. You're already doing the right thing and all you have to do is follow through and continue what you've been doing.

Your goal should always be on your mind, whether it's about getting some kind of an amount or getting better or getting in shape... it should be on your mind 24 hours a day, it should be like an obsession... that's how to focus right. It should be your life, you should feel terribly wrong if you're not doing something for your goal. Face the pain of, beat laziness and never stop working, it's not going to be easy but that doesn't mean you can't move. You can move if you want to, you can move even if you feel so heavy.

BE FAST IN STARTING, NEVER LET YOUR MIND THINK

Just do something right away and never let your mind think. Your mind is the biggest obstacle to your success. You're thinking too much and entertaining a lot of images to go through your head, your min is too crowded with different thoughts that are not even helpful at all. But if you will just start something that is related to your goal then your mind will stop thinking. Just start, even if it doesn't feel good or you don't know how to start... just start something. Sooner or later you will create a momentum and you will eventually love what you are doing. You can finish a lot of things if you're fast, you can achieve more if you're not thinking too much and simply doing it. Just do it, it doesn't matter if it is perfect or not but just do it, never care if you look like a fool but just do it. Because your mind can be very dangerous and destructive, it can fail you if you're not feeding it the right thoughts.

THE GAME PLAN IS TO TAKE ACTIONS RIGHT AWAY

Stop thinking now, thinking is nothing, if you want to make results... move now, do something. You have to be moving forward all the time if you want to become successful, never mind if your work is not working, it will work anyway someday. So whenever there is a task that you think you need to do... do it, stop watching your favorite show, stop watching Lebron James dunking on you tube, stop watching sexy clips on porn site and just do what you need to do, as simple as that. You need to know what you want to get, and ask yourself: "is what I'm doing now helping me to get to the next level?" be brutally honest with yourself because fooling yourself that everything is under control is insanity. How can you control everything if you can't even control yourself? Stop looking for entertainment and instant pleasures, let your work be your entertainment, let it make you happy because that is the fastest way to become successful. You have to believe that taking massive actions creates massive results, you should be ok getting tired and stressed because there is no growth without friction.

Trust me, you will feel good if you're moving rather than doing nothing at all. Being lazy and procrastinating all the time will make you feel weak. It will make you sick, it will make your brain sick, you will become mentally ill. That's why a lot of people become depressed because they're not moving, if they will just make themselves active then they will feel much better and they will become mentally and physically fit.

DO IT ONE STEP AT A TIME

Just take the first step and do it one step at a time. Once you start something never stop until it is done, never dare to leave your work, you already started it so finish it. Have that killer instinct, be a finisher no matter what. Just do it, never start some other works without finishing your present work yet, never shift from on activity to another, you have to stay focused on one thing then once it's done then you have the right to do another thing. You don't need to become like a Flash here, you don't need to have Godspeed ability, just be fast in starting and never think about anything else other than what you're doing right now. Don't worry if you're slow, don't rush it, enjoy it and have fun. Once you're having fun... the work will become a lot easier, you will even feel you're not working, you will feel like it's just a game. 

Feb 22, 2020

LIFE IS A GAME OF PROBLEM

You look for a problem and you solve it. You created your own problem but you should be picky on what problem to choose. Some people chooses problems that are meaningless and destructive such as committing a crime, not working, making themselves sick by having a lot of vices, fighting with other people, spending too much and getting broke etc. While some people choose a problem such as building their on house, how to win a championship, how to pay a car loan, how to finish their school, how to build a business. They pick a problem that gives them directions and something to aim for, their problems were good, it's also hard but it is good and useful.

The truth about life is every problem you have was created by you and you only. You attract it t your life by making wrong decisions. You pick the stupid choices even though you know that later it will give you a lot of trouble. So stop blaming other things for your miserable life, you created your life, you pick what problems to deal with.

THERE IS NO FLAWLESS LIFE

Even if you came from a rich family and your mama and papa loves you so much to the point where they even wipe your ass every time you take a dump... life will still hit you and punch you in your throat, you will be tested. There will be a surprise problem waiting for you and you have to deal with it like a real man. It only depends on your perspective to a particular problem. You're in trouble if you're looking for a perfect life because you will only become disappointed in the near future. There is no perfect life but you can think that it is perfect if you have the right mindset. It's impossible that you will never experience some problems in the future, so be happy if you are experiencing something now because it is only making you a better person, it's making you stronger and mentally tougher.

Deal with any kind of problem in front of you, remember that you created it so you must solve it too. Running away from it will only make the problem worse.

DON'T WAIT FOR THE PROBLEMS TO COME.. CREATE IT

Chasing goal is a problem, it will give you stress and headaches, it will test you. You will even doubt yourself if you can make it. But it's a good problem, it has a reward in the end. Create your problems rather than waiting for it to come. Problems will come if you are lazy and not taking care of your life, problems will come if you're irresponsible and not handling the business well. If you're too addicted with instant gratification such as entertainment, alcohol, shopping for no reason etc. then bigger problems will come to you in the end. Choose a problem that has a reward in the end. Develop a skill, apply for a house loan, chase something, finish a course. These things were stressful but it will make you achieve something. Rather than waiting for a problem because of your laziness, pick a problem that will make your life a little bit better.

We all choose our problems, the difference between a better person and a worse person is a better person focus on the right problems that will give him an edge in the future. People who are broke and has a miserable life doesn't know how to pick the right problems for them, they just go with the flow and follow their urge to feel good at the moment. All of their decisions were leading to an uglier life. They buy things they don't need just to feel good, they choose playing over studying, they choose instant pleasures that attracts bad problems, and in the end they will wonder why all of these things are happening to them.

PICK A PROBLEM NOW AND NEVER STOP UNTIL IT'S SOLVED

Whether it's about building a mansion or creating a passive income... never stop until you find a way how to solve it. Pick a good problem that will lead to a better life instead of waiting for a problem to come that you didn't pick. Because at the end of the day something will challenge you and test you, why not pick a test that you really want? pick the right problem now and use all of your energy and focus to solve it. Always remember that there is no life without problems, you have to accept that life is not that easy but you can make it lighter if you will have the right mindset for life. Life is a game of problem, it all depends on what game will you try to play. Problems will take too much of your energy and strength, it will test your perseverance so you better be careful on what problems are you going to pick because a lot of people already wasted their lives dealing with problems that are not even worth it.

And if you have a wrong problem in front of you... never quit and still solve it. Once you solved it then pick another problem but this time pick the right one. Because every time you hide from your problems, it gets bigger and bigger and you will become overwhelmed... that is when depression starts to kick in. People who are depressed were so afraid to face their problems, they don't deal with it that's why they are getting crazy. Instead of solving it, they choose to whine, cry, blame people and make excuses. They want to get sympathy and approval, they don't know that the only way to cure depression is to accept what is happening and try to solve it little by little.

If you don't want to become depressed then you better be ok with problems in life, don't get fazed with it, don't run away from it... face it, look it in its eyes and solve it little by little.


Feb 21, 2020

THE REAL MEANING OF WHATEVER IT TAKES EXPLAINED

It's about not giving yourself free time, it's about looking stupid but still trying, it's about embracing your fears and building your own courage to keep pushing forward. Some people are talking about whatever it takes but they really don't know what does it mean. They were just good in talking but very poor in executing. The real meaning of whatever it takes is you will risk your life, happiness and peace just to get what you want. You will use all of your power, you will sacrifice big time and never waste any single second just to make yourself successful. Can you face the pain? can you embrace boredom? can you do something you haven't done before? are you willing to take risks that are really scary and dangerous? you have to have an insane mindset here if you really want to become successful.

BE FASTER THAN TIME

There is no space for thinking too much and giving attention to things that will not help you to go to another level. If you really want it then you have to be faster than time, your time is your most valuable thing. It means so much, it can be equivalent to money, success or even love. If you're really willing to do whatever it takes then be careful with your time, don't take it for granted, never waste it for nothing because it will reward you if you use it the right way. Time can make you a beast, use it the right way and you will become a beast, you will become the best. Time can make you anything, it can make you reach, it can make you poor. It all depends on how you use it. Use it the right way and it will treat you right, use it the wrong way and you will become broke and a loser. Time is fast but you should be faster than it, you can do it. Don't use an alarm clock, don't wait for the right timing, don't wait before you can't do it anymore, never look at the clock... just do it. That's how to become faster than time, you never think, you never procrastinate, you overtake time and just do it. You do it early, you don't need to feel the rush, you come on time early, you show up early, you are earlier for 2 months than the said deadline, you're so addicted to being responsible.

EMOTIONS IS A GARBAGE

You don't care about your emotions, you don't care if you are scared or what, you don't care if something is bothering you, you don't care about your haters and most of all, you don't care if you are tired. You just do it, you don't stop, you do whatever it takes to put yourself on a best position to succeed. Because the truth is emotions has nothing to do with your success, it will only stop you, if you're always looking for comfort then you will never go to the next level... as simple as that. Whenever you feel the pain, be happy because it means you're growing, it is an opportunity to get stronger and better. So face the pain and never back down, eat it, feel it and just laugh at it because it can never make you quit, it can never make you stop or even pause a little bit. Whenever you have a chance to move... move, disregard how you feel and just move, that's how to immortalize yourself. The time for being a soft diva is over, make yourself a stone now, make yourself tough as nails because you want something right? you said you're going to do whatever it takes right? so stop stopping yourself, stop pampering your laziness and do what is hard. Do what most people can't do and that is taking massive actions and getting obsessed with your own work and life.

Most people were obsessed with other people's lives. They were so obsessed with celebrities, public figures, athletes, politicians etc. because it's giving them some type of addictive emotion, they were so interested with other people's lives to the point where they don't know why they are anymore. Stop being too emotional with other subjects and identities that were not even related to your life.

CHECK YOUR MIND

If you said you're really going to do whatever it takes to succeed then you need to change your mind. Stop being emotional with other people's activities, comments, opinions, success etc. You need to focus on your own life, make your mind stronger and tougher. The best way to do it is by embracing the moment and pushing yourself to reach your goals. If you need to throw away your phone just to force yourself to focus on what you do then do it, as simple as that. Know what you really want and cross out what you don't want, stop focusing in what you don't want, stop giving attention to something that will not help you to grow. Your mind is a very powerful force, it can turn you into something special if you will only feed it the right information. Fix your mind to your philosophy, fix your mind into your goals and your life will change dramatically. You will forget your problems, you will forget that something is hard, you will feel invincible and bold, you will go directly to your dreams and ignore all the resistance along the way.

So if you're really willing to do whatever it takes then be ready to face the pain because it's really going to be painful. Your focus will be tested here, you need to embrace boredom and forget everything that is fun but useless. Because the reality is... what is fun is useless. What is fun will never make you pass your exams, what is fun will never give you some money. You have to do what you don't want to do in order to get what you want. You have to study so hard in order to pass, you have to do everything including rubbing elbows with your abusive boss in order to get promoted, you have to train so hard and eat blood, sweat and tears in order to become a champion, it's really going to get hard but it is what it is, if you really want it then you need to turn into something tougher and faster than before. 

WORK THE HARDEST AND WORK THE FASTEST

This is a very simple game plan that works for anyone, this is a very powerful mindset that will make you very productive and take massive actions... work the hardest and work the fastest, as simple as it sounds. It's not difficult at all. All you have to do is stop over thinking, stop worrying about the future and enjoy moving, it's fun to work, working will make you stronger. Stop looking for a complicated process, all you need to do is work the hardest and work the fastest. You can dominate any field if you have this kind of mindset.

Be fast in resting and go back to work, be fast in thinking about the fast and let it go right away, be fast in healing yourself and go back to your goals. Be fast in watching TV, turn it off right way and go back to your project.

USE THE POWER OF DRAGGING

Drag your body to move, never stay in one place, make yourself productive. Destroy idleness because it's the devil's playground, you will never achieve anything if you're always procrastinating and not making yourself useful. It's only hard in the beginning, the difficult will become very easy if you do it everyday. Every time you feel lazy... SLAP YOURSELF and move right away, wake yourself up, it's time to do some actions and put some purpose into your life. You're not a useless human being, you can do something, you're not a garbage, you're not a vegetable... do something now and make things happen. Dragging yourself feels so heavy in the beginning but once you are doing everyday... it will be a lot of fun, you will feel really good especially after finishing a difficult ask, you will feel good about yourself, you will become proud and confident because you were able to do something that is hard. Because the truth is there is no really hard task, it becomes hard because you want to finish it fast, you want to reach the destination without having to to work hard, and that makes the task so difficult. You're too soft, you're not focused, you want something but you are not willing to give your everything.

YOU COULD HAVE DONE A LOT IF YOUR'E FOCUSED

It's the truth that you can't accept, you're not focused, you're always giving your attention to different things that doesn't serve your life. You can't focus because you feel you're just wasting your time especially if you can't see results, well you can't see results because your efforts were not enough, you're not pushing through, you're too passive and ok with the small things that are you are getting. You could have been the president of Africa right now if you only focus your energy to one thing that is making your life  prosper. Always checking for results is destroying your focus, you need to change now, you need to focus on the process and never mind about the results because it will come automatically, just love what you're doing and everything else will fall on the right place.

If you're not skilled, talented or rich... don't worry. If you didn't finish your college or get a degree or something... don't worry, if you don't have money now and you're lost... don't worry. All you've got to do is look for something that will give you a little bit of living and be the fastest and hardest worker on it, be the baddest man on it and you will succeed. Success is the name of the game, success loves people who are not hesitating to do something. You have to be fast now and destiny your worries and fears if you want to take your life to another level. Because thinking too much will never give you anything, trying to look perfect is for the losers, you don't need to care too much about your identity and feelings, remember that you are trying to become successful here so massive action is a huge requirement.

You don't need to become the greatest or the cutest or the cleanest, stop taking care too much of your identity and set yourself free... work the hardest and the smartest, that is what it's all about, it's a perfect game plan for you, just move forward all the time and never mind what other people thinks of you. Nothing can stop you if you have a mindset of a raging bull that has no plan of slowing down. Because time is running, you can never stop it, you can't afford to waste a lot of time if you're trying to become successful. Stop looking for results, stop trying to become the number one, stop comparing yourself to others and simply work the hardest and the smartest.

YOU'VE BEEN SLOW FOR A VERY LONG TIME

You've already wasted a lot of time, you've already squandered a lot of opportunities, it's time to take your power back and focus on your work. Be the best that you can be, be the biggest that you can be, think big and move fast. get your dream no matter what, the time for being a loser and slow is over, you need to become fast and a winner now, force yourself to move, never think about the amount of work needed to get done before you win, just keep moving forward and always take charge, take mattes into your own hands, never let life give you leftovers, be fast like a cheetah, be strong like a lion, you can do it if you will stop catering your childish attitude, unleash the beast in you, have that shark mindset of not stopping, if you stop you will die... that's what a shark mindset is. Ignore what is stopping you, throw away the thoughts that are making you slow, build a different mindset now... something that is fast and tough. Just do it, do it now, stop thinking too much and just do it now, it's time to become faster so you will get more results, just do it, work the hardest and give your best.


NEVER CARE ABOUT WINNING OR LOSING, IT'S THE PROCESS THAT MATTERS THE MOST

If you're always losing every now and then, if you can't stomach it anymore... remember that you're not in control of the outcome, the only thing you can control is your effort. Always remember that you already won whenever you give your 100 percent effort. Just enjoy the process if you can't win and victory will manifest later. It's hard because you're expecting too much, it's hard because you're so afraid of losing. But if you will just feel free and detach from the outcome then you will be able to express yourself even more. Stop caring because it's the stupidest thing that you could ever do. If you care too much about what people say then you're dead, you will freeze yourself. Because process is what matters the most, winning is just a bonus. And in real life, losing is still winning, you still gain something, you learn from it, you become tougher because you fought hard until the end, you're a better person now even if you lose because you gain a new experience and you feel some pain. Pain means growth, it means progress.

If you win you win, if you lose you lose, what's the big deal? you are still alive and you can still try again tomorrow, there is nothing to lose here. You are only losing if you'er wasting time doing nothing. So stop wishing for success and focus on the process... that's what a real winner does. Never quit and always give your best, never care if you're slow or if you're stuck in a rut, you will eventually find out what is working. Just keep pushing yourself to the limits and enjoy making small progress. Time is fast, you will even be surprised at how fast you were able to succeed, so just enjoy your journey and never quit even if it's too hard. That's what legends do... they do the impossible, they keep pushing even if nothing is working, they push and push and push until they finally become victorious.

IT'S STILL ON YOU IF YOU'RE GOING TO WIN OR NOT

Your effort is the barometer of your success, your commitment is the gauge of your victory. How committed are you? can you work until the end? can you promise to yourself that you will never quit no matter what? because it's easy to get arrogant while winning but what if you're already losing? The only thing that is left for you is your ability to move and decide of you're still going to fight or not. It's on you if you will push harder and get that victory. Always remember that the power is in your hands, it's on you if you're going to become great or not. Keep in mind that you will never win if you will not move so what are you waiting for? do the process now and make success or else you will become a loser forever.

LEGACY DON'T MATTER

So what if you won 5 MVPs? so what if you're so rich and famous and powerful? you will die one day and your legacy will die with you, you can never carry your riches with you. Winning or losing doesn't matter at all, what matter is what's happening now. You have to be in the moment and enjoy our life as much as you can. There should be no pressure on you to win, forget about winning because it will never be permanent, even the legendary players were forgotten, even the  most respected actors were disrespected. Stop thinking that winning is the only thing that matters because it's not.

Legacy is just an illusion, what's the real meaning of it? any legacy will never have an impact if you don't recognize it. So take risks and never care about your legacy, so what if you lose? so what if you didn't achieve anything? it doesn't matter at all. The most important thing is how are you going to enjoy your life and being at the present moment no matter how challenging life is.

YOU CAN ENJOY BEING AT THE BOTTOM

It all depends on how you think of it. You can enjoy losing, have fun with the process and simply give your best and there is nothing else to worry about. Being at the bottom doesn't mean you're a loser, especially if you're trying to climb your way to the top. It doesn't matter if you're on top or at the bottom, what matters is you keep moving forward all the time and you embrace every challenges in front of you. Never back down to any challenge, never stop chasing your goal. Being at the bottom is fun and challenging, the good thing about it is you can never fail anymore, the direction waiting for you is going up.

IT'S EASIER TO WIN IF YOU'RE NOT THINKING ABOUT IT

Stop thinking about it because it will add pressure on your side, focus on enjoying every second of the process. If you want it so bad then you will become more conservative of your actions, you will not become natural anymore and that is a bad thing. Taking action is better than anticipation, the more you expect for it... the harder the process will be. Stop thinking about it, if it's yours it's yours. It will come on the right time, you just have to keep working now and make sure you are doing the right ways to attract success.

DETACH FROM THE OUTCOME

It's like you don't care at all if you lose, you just want to enjoy chasing it. Just like the lions... they were enjoying the hunting more than they enjoy the feast. Because they were built for that, they love the process and that's why they always bring food on the table. Always remember that it's easier to attract success if you're enjoying the process and not expecting anything. Don't worry too much, you will get what you deserve, if you really work hard for it then success will be yours. 

Feb 20, 2020

NEVER MAKE A DECISION THAT WAS BASED ON FEAR

Everything is mental. Every result that you produced was based on your mental capacity. What you think is what you attract so if you're on a situation that you need to make a decision... don't decide fast, never let the outside influences affect your way of thinking. Never let history, intimidation, pain, suffering, defeat, crowd, threats, possibility of losing money, heartache etc force you to make a very bad decision. You have to be aware that you are being pressured, always remember that there is always a space between pressure and taking action. There is a breathing room, all you have to do is stay calm and never let anything influence your mind, you have to trust instincts and never let a poor offer deceive you. Just because it is readily available and it's easy doesn't mean it's the right decision to do.

The fear of the future is what makes you scared. But if you will just focus on the now and give your very best and also enjoy whatever situation you are in then your decision will become right. Never make any move or decision if you are scared because it will lead you to a wrong path. Fear is just a feeling, it's nothing but a feeling, you need to be aware that you're the only one who's scaring yourself by being too emotional. Stop entertaining the wrong thoughts and all of your fear will go away, remember that what doesn't kill you can only make you stronger.

PAUSE FOR A BIT AND THINK SLOW

You don't need to decide right away, you can think, use your brain. Don't get stunned with something that is not really scary, you're scared because you're thinking too much and letting your fears dominate your brain, you need to slow down and calm yourself. Believe that you can make the right decisions, have no regrets with your choice and make a stand for what you really want. The key is to not be afraid and just be in the moment. You can never control everything but you can control your mind. Be aware of the war that is going on inside of your head. If you're always in a hurry or rushing or panicking then you will lose control, you will freak out and look like a clown, you will lose your power, you will be played by whatever wants to play you. You will become their toy, no matter how hard you resist you can never escape because your mind was already poisoned. Because something will always rush, something will always try to push you to make a stupid decision and the best way to stop getting affected by any of it is to remain calm all the time and feel your feelings, it's ok to feel bad, it's ok to feel uncomfortable a little bit, just deal with any kind of negative emotion and remind yourself that you are ok.

NOTHING CAN SCARE YOU IF YOU ARE AWARE WITH YOUR MIND

Fear scares you all the time because you're not aware with your mind, you're too focused on what you can't control but the reality is the only thing you can control is your mind. So what if your situation is really bad, sometimes all you can do is stay calm and do nothing and the situation will be taken care of by itself. Stay still my friend no matter how hard the situation is because that's the best thing to do. Instead of panicking and freaking out... you're only making your situation worse by doing that. So be aware with what is going on with your mind, detach from the outcome and focus on feeling good and giving your best. Face the pain, don't be afraid to face it, don't be afraid to take charge and take full responsibility with the situation. Enjoy the discomfort, be appreciative with the moment and good things will manifest.

So whenever you are scared... go back to your mind, dissect it, find what is scaring you and stay calm, accept what might happen, take the risk and let go. Fear is nothing if you are letting go and detaching from the outcome, let it happen if it will happen but don't be scared, don't let fear be the creator of your fate.

FEAR IS A TRICK

It's a trap, you're always following what scares you but deep inside you know that you're being manipulated but you can't do something about it. Always remember that fear is a trick and that you are always ok if you will just stay calm and maintain your composure. Focus on yourself, focus on how you feel, focus on what you can control and that is your actions and thoughts. The number one antidote for fear is calmness and perseverance. If you will just make a stand for what you want no matter how difficult it is then fear will subside, what scares you will go away. Fear is getting stronger because you're always looking for comfort and you feel that believing in your fear is more comfortable and the most logical thing to do. But if you will just stay calm and focus on your breathing then what scares you will start to go away little by little. This is not a rush, take your time, you don't need to push away fear that fast, you are only amplifying it by doing that. The way to eliminate fear is to focus on what you feel and forget everything around you. Remind yourself what you really want and never let any outside influences affect your mind. Your mind is very powerful if you will use it according to your instincts and never letting anybody affect it.

IF YOU WILL MAKE A MISTAKE THEN DO IT YOUR WAY

Just keep moving forward and do it your way, don't be afraid to make mistakes. If you're going to make mistakes then do it your way and never let other people do it for you. It's your life, follow your instincts, follow your dreams and always remember that a decision that was made by your heart is always the right decision. So if you feel that you need to make a decision on your own then do it. Don't be afraid of what people might say, don't be afraid of what's going to happen next. Embrace the moment and have no regrets once you made a decision, make a stand and let them feel that you have no intention of changing your mind, make them feel that you will live and die by your decision. 

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