Any sacrifice that you need to do that will give you benefits in the future is the best thing to do, it is the right direction for you. So what is the small sacrifice that you need to do at the moment? if it is about calling a client or simply washing your clothes because you don't have anything to wear tomorrow or maybe you need to do an exercise because your health is really bad, do it because that will give you a better life, it will put you in the right position, it will give you the momentum to become successful.
So if you are lost... just look for the little sacrifice that you can do because it will put you on the right track. A little discomfort will give you benefits. Do what is hard so your life will become easier.
A lot of people can't make sacrifices that is why they are having a hard time with their lives, all they want is comfort and easy but even if you are experiencing a lot of comfort now... it will not last for so long if you will not make sacrifices, sacrifices gives balance, it is the best guide that you can ever improvise if you don't have any guide at all.
Because after pain is comfort, if you are experiencing a lot of pain now because you are sacrificing... you will experience a lot of comfort later. So don't be mad, don't be sad if you are sacrificing because it has a reward in the end.
So if you have to choose between sacrifice and instant pleasures.. always choose sacrifice, it is the right thing, it is the best thing for you. You may look boring but at least you're on the right path. And after all, you can enjoy any sacrifice if you can control your thoughts and emotions. You can enjoy anything you do if you have the proper mindset.
WHY PEOPLE NEEDED TO SACRIFICE?
Because life is simply designed that way, you can't change it, you can't make shortcuts, you can't hack it if you want to become successful. Have you ever seen a successful man who didn't sacrifice at all? have you ever seen a strong person who all do is be lazy in life? it is what it is, you need to work hard or else life will be hard to you.
So if you have an exam tomorrow or a simple business meeting, choose preparation over watching TV or trolling around in social media. You will feel a little uncomfortable but when the test is there, when the challenge is there... you will feel good because you are prepared. You will never look like an idiot, you will never have a hard time. It is because the suffering was already experience so good times is the next.
A small sacrifice when repeated over and over again can make you big, it can make you someone that not all people can be. It can take you to another level, it can take you to a new height that cannot be experience by everyone.
Jun 30, 2017
WHY TIME MANAGEMENT WILL NOT WORK?
Time management will not work because you always think that you have lesser time that is why you want to manage your time. You think that you are experiencing a time scarcity, you want everything to be under control but the truth is... you can't control everything.
You need to be spontaneous with your time, you don't need to rush but you need to keep on working towards your goals. You just need to decide what you're going to do today and then do it no matter what, do it anytime, do it even if there are lots of obstacles from doing it. 1am, 2pm, 12, pm... time doesn't matter, just do it and never sleep until you're done. Use priorities instead of time management because managing time is like depriving yourself from enjoying your freedom. What if you still want to work on your project and it is already 8pm and you need to do some other things because it is written on your "planner" that you need to do this and that? of course you will feel bad, you have a momentum going on but you need to cut it because you are forcing yourself to do some other things.
Just have a spontaneous ride, prioritize what you need to do and just do it anytime, the time for doing what you need to do will come. You don't need to make a time management. You need to create time for things, you just need to know the things that will give you results and just do it everyday. Stop managing your time... just create time for the things that are very important.
A lot of people who have a busy schedule can't follow their schedule because it is really impossible to follow a lot of things. There are lot of random things that will happen and you should be ready to accept it. You need to create time for things to work, it doesn't matter if you're tired or over fatigued, once said you will do it... just do it and stop running thoughts inside of your head that will only make things difficult for you. Just show up, do your best to avoid being late and don't worry about the time. You will have a lot of time if you're not worried about it.
Time management will only give worries to you. You will always look at the clock, you will always check the tasks that you need to do, you will always rush, basically it feels like someone is choking you because there are lot of things on your list that you need to do and you feel like your time is running out. You feel suffocated, you feel you're running out of air. More stressed, more frustration.
Don't worry about time, just create time, you can do it if you really want it. Stop following your busy schedule, just give time for important things and you will be able to live an easier life.
You need to be spontaneous with your time, you don't need to rush but you need to keep on working towards your goals. You just need to decide what you're going to do today and then do it no matter what, do it anytime, do it even if there are lots of obstacles from doing it. 1am, 2pm, 12, pm... time doesn't matter, just do it and never sleep until you're done. Use priorities instead of time management because managing time is like depriving yourself from enjoying your freedom. What if you still want to work on your project and it is already 8pm and you need to do some other things because it is written on your "planner" that you need to do this and that? of course you will feel bad, you have a momentum going on but you need to cut it because you are forcing yourself to do some other things.
Just have a spontaneous ride, prioritize what you need to do and just do it anytime, the time for doing what you need to do will come. You don't need to make a time management. You need to create time for things, you just need to know the things that will give you results and just do it everyday. Stop managing your time... just create time for the things that are very important.
A lot of people who have a busy schedule can't follow their schedule because it is really impossible to follow a lot of things. There are lot of random things that will happen and you should be ready to accept it. You need to create time for things to work, it doesn't matter if you're tired or over fatigued, once said you will do it... just do it and stop running thoughts inside of your head that will only make things difficult for you. Just show up, do your best to avoid being late and don't worry about the time. You will have a lot of time if you're not worried about it.
Time management will only give worries to you. You will always look at the clock, you will always check the tasks that you need to do, you will always rush, basically it feels like someone is choking you because there are lot of things on your list that you need to do and you feel like your time is running out. You feel suffocated, you feel you're running out of air. More stressed, more frustration.
Don't worry about time, just create time, you can do it if you really want it. Stop following your busy schedule, just give time for important things and you will be able to live an easier life.
7 THINGS THAT CREATES LAZINESS
Are you sick and tired of being lazy? do you want to change your life and see what is possible for you? The truth is... being lazy is harder than working hard. If you are lazy you will feel bad, you will feel even tired, you will feel useless and worthless. A lot of people who were lazy wants to end their life because they don't know what to do. They want to do something but they can't because the habit of laziness already ate them for a very long time. Laziness will destroy your life, you think it was fun in the beginning but in the end you will find out that laziness is already controlling you and you can't do anything with your life anymore no matter how bad you want.
1. Wanting the finish product right away. This will make you lazy because you want to finish fast, you want to become successful fast but once you learned that it takes a lot of work... you will not commit with the process anymore, you will lost motivation, you're thinking about how long the time you needed to get the results that you want .Stop looking for an ending so fast because it will make you very lazy, you will think about the hard challenges and boredom. Remember that it is not the destination that will make you happy, it is the journey.
2. GETTING INTERESTED WITH OTHER PEOPLE. You want to know what is happening with the celebrities, well know people, politicians, your friends and even your enemies. You are so interested with the life of other people, you study them, follow them and that avoids you from taking actions that you needed to make your life better. You are more interested with other people than your own life. That results to laziness and a lot of time being wasted.
3. DOING THE THINGS THAT YOU ARE NOT PASSIONATE ABOUT. That is why there are lot of lazy workers in this planet... they are doing the things that they don't like just for the sake of money. They go to the office doing something that they don't want and that leads to laziness and poor production, they just want the payday, they don't want to work, they were only forced to move so they can earn something. If you want to become a hardworker... choose the job that you want and you will see the difference. You will work harder if you are happy with what you're doing so stop doing things that doesn't give happiness to your heart.
4. STRIVING TO BECOME PERFECT will also make you lazy because you will have a lot of plans, you will use your imagination a lot because you don't want flaws in your work, you want a smooth sailing and that will avoid you from taking actions and risks. You will be stuck in your fantasy that everything will become perfect and you will not even take a single step.
5. DOING THINGS THAT HAS NO BENEFITS IN THE END. You know what are these things, these are the things that will give you instant pleasures but will ruin your discipline and work ethic. Things such as gossips, TV, drinking, gambling, reading useless materials etc. These things will only make you lazier because it is hypnotizing you, it is controlling your life, eating a lot of your time and then you will see that you are not progressing, you will feel bad about your life, you will become lazier even more.
6. EXCUSES. Excuses will avoid you from taking action, it will create a belief that it is alright to not do things on time, excuses will give you a lot of reason to become lazy and it is all lies. Excuses will never get anything done, it is only making your situation worse.
7. BELIEVING THAT YOU CAN DO IT LATER. You will prioritize unimportant things first because you believe that you can do it all later. You will waste your energy for unimportant things and then later you will feel sleepy, you will feel tired so you will decide to just do it tomorrow.
1. Wanting the finish product right away. This will make you lazy because you want to finish fast, you want to become successful fast but once you learned that it takes a lot of work... you will not commit with the process anymore, you will lost motivation, you're thinking about how long the time you needed to get the results that you want .Stop looking for an ending so fast because it will make you very lazy, you will think about the hard challenges and boredom. Remember that it is not the destination that will make you happy, it is the journey.
2. GETTING INTERESTED WITH OTHER PEOPLE. You want to know what is happening with the celebrities, well know people, politicians, your friends and even your enemies. You are so interested with the life of other people, you study them, follow them and that avoids you from taking actions that you needed to make your life better. You are more interested with other people than your own life. That results to laziness and a lot of time being wasted.
3. DOING THE THINGS THAT YOU ARE NOT PASSIONATE ABOUT. That is why there are lot of lazy workers in this planet... they are doing the things that they don't like just for the sake of money. They go to the office doing something that they don't want and that leads to laziness and poor production, they just want the payday, they don't want to work, they were only forced to move so they can earn something. If you want to become a hardworker... choose the job that you want and you will see the difference. You will work harder if you are happy with what you're doing so stop doing things that doesn't give happiness to your heart.
4. STRIVING TO BECOME PERFECT will also make you lazy because you will have a lot of plans, you will use your imagination a lot because you don't want flaws in your work, you want a smooth sailing and that will avoid you from taking actions and risks. You will be stuck in your fantasy that everything will become perfect and you will not even take a single step.
5. DOING THINGS THAT HAS NO BENEFITS IN THE END. You know what are these things, these are the things that will give you instant pleasures but will ruin your discipline and work ethic. Things such as gossips, TV, drinking, gambling, reading useless materials etc. These things will only make you lazier because it is hypnotizing you, it is controlling your life, eating a lot of your time and then you will see that you are not progressing, you will feel bad about your life, you will become lazier even more.
6. EXCUSES. Excuses will avoid you from taking action, it will create a belief that it is alright to not do things on time, excuses will give you a lot of reason to become lazy and it is all lies. Excuses will never get anything done, it is only making your situation worse.
7. BELIEVING THAT YOU CAN DO IT LATER. You will prioritize unimportant things first because you believe that you can do it all later. You will waste your energy for unimportant things and then later you will feel sleepy, you will feel tired so you will decide to just do it tomorrow.
HOW TO PLAY THE NUMBERS GAME?
You can always produce numbers anytime you want. You can produce it anywhere, anytime. One is always better than zero. It is better to produce something than to produce nothing. Numbers will guide you, numbers will make you evolve. If you were so addicted to making your numbers high then you will become successful, you will evolve in a different way, you will reach the top. all you have to do is choose something to do and try to produce numbers for it as much as you can. Big numbers will attract big numbers too, that is one of the basic rules for success.
If you are an aspiring you tuber, of course you want to have a lot of subscribers so you can earn a lot of money. A lot of people wants a million subscribers or more, but what if you can't do it? what if no one is subscribing to your channel? don't worry there is a solution for that... PRODUCE A LOT OF VIDEOS, produce as much videos as you can. Produce a million videos if you can, make sure that your video is not just a bullshit video, make sure that it has a topic and some people will watch it. It doesn't need to be an amazing video, just make sure it has sense. Play the numbers game, produce as much as you can... you will see that some people are watching it, little by little you will gain progress. You just need to be patient and you will get there. The point here is you can produce numbers on a different area, if no one is subscribing to your channel then just produce videos, watch your number of videos grow instead of watching your subscribers grow. Just keep doing it and you will see that your number of views are growing. It is impossible that you can't get any result if you are doing something massively.
The numbers game is all about producing numbers, it's all about being better than yesterday, it's all about beating your own records. I'ts all about having the mindset to evolve and evolve until you become great. So if you do a 100 pushups yesterday and you want to become stronger then just do 101 pushups today then do 102 pushups for the next day, make it evolve as much as you can. You need to be consistent and committed. The more it gets harder, the faster you will evolve.
You can produce unlimited numbers, numbers are infinite. You can always reach another level, there is no stopping here. The more numbers you produce, the more you will become successful. It's all about repetition and falling in love with the process. It may not work in the beginning but once you produce numbers that are unbelievable... you can succeed in life, you can conquer anything. Keep producing numbers until you win, don't get frustrated if you are tired because even if you are tired... you can still produce a little number, you can still evolve in small ways.
If you are an aspiring you tuber, of course you want to have a lot of subscribers so you can earn a lot of money. A lot of people wants a million subscribers or more, but what if you can't do it? what if no one is subscribing to your channel? don't worry there is a solution for that... PRODUCE A LOT OF VIDEOS, produce as much videos as you can. Produce a million videos if you can, make sure that your video is not just a bullshit video, make sure that it has a topic and some people will watch it. It doesn't need to be an amazing video, just make sure it has sense. Play the numbers game, produce as much as you can... you will see that some people are watching it, little by little you will gain progress. You just need to be patient and you will get there. The point here is you can produce numbers on a different area, if no one is subscribing to your channel then just produce videos, watch your number of videos grow instead of watching your subscribers grow. Just keep doing it and you will see that your number of views are growing. It is impossible that you can't get any result if you are doing something massively.
The numbers game is all about producing numbers, it's all about being better than yesterday, it's all about beating your own records. I'ts all about having the mindset to evolve and evolve until you become great. So if you do a 100 pushups yesterday and you want to become stronger then just do 101 pushups today then do 102 pushups for the next day, make it evolve as much as you can. You need to be consistent and committed. The more it gets harder, the faster you will evolve.
You can produce unlimited numbers, numbers are infinite. You can always reach another level, there is no stopping here. The more numbers you produce, the more you will become successful. It's all about repetition and falling in love with the process. It may not work in the beginning but once you produce numbers that are unbelievable... you can succeed in life, you can conquer anything. Keep producing numbers until you win, don't get frustrated if you are tired because even if you are tired... you can still produce a little number, you can still evolve in small ways.
Jun 29, 2017
THE BEST DECISION IS TO FOCUS ON WHAT YOU NEED
If you are so confused and you can't find a clue what to do in life, the best decision is to focus on what you need, as simple as that. If you need some money then focus on money, don't do anything else other than making money. Look for a job, sell some things, provide some service, apply a loan, borrow some money from your closest ones but make sure you will return it. Because if money is what you need then why are you so focused on things that will not give you money? is watching a lot of TV series going to give you money? is talking about your problems going to give you money? is complaining in life going to give you money? you have to focus on getting it and not on why it is not there.
If what you need is happiness then just focus on being happy. Find the activities that gives you happiness, associate your life with people who makes you happy. Never join the company of people who is making you feel bad, you have to focus on what you need and stop going the other way.
What do you need at the moment? look for it and focus on it. If you need is peace of mind then stop watching news, focus on meditation, focus on strengthening your spirituality. Getting interested with gossips will never get the job done because it is the opposite of what you need. You don't need to complicate it, just focus on what you need at the moment and you will have an easy life.
If you are so stressed and you need a rest then why are you drinking a lot of beers with your friends that will just give you a hangover tomorrow, you will be stressed even more. Just go home and take a rest, don't think about anything else, just close your eyes and sleep as much as you want until your energy comes back.
Focus on what you need and do something to make it happen... that is they key to a more lighter life. If you need to study for your exams then just focus on reading your books and studying your lessons. It is easy as 1, 2, 3. No sweat if your focus is right.
If you need to eat then just eat, if you need to drink then just drink. It is all about making your life simple and doing things one at a time. If you need to finish your task then finish it, don't stop until it is finished. Stop watching at you tube, stop texting your friends, just focus on what you need and you will have an easy life.
Don't entertain any other things other than what you need. If you need confidence then stop entertaining thoughts that are making your self esteem go down. Stop engaging with activities that will never level up your confidence. Just do the things that will make you confident.
HOW TO EARN MONEY TODAY
There are millions of ways how to earn money, your skill is not the question, your education either.. it is your tenacity and perseverance. You just need to look for it and never stop until you find it. There are millions of job openings you're just too picky and lazy to go there and pass your resume, you care so much about how you feel, you feel like the job should be the one coming at you. You're using a lot of useless excuses that is why you can't make things happen.
Look on the internet, ask your friends, walk around in your neighborhood, simply walk at the corporate world and look for job openings, you can find something if you seek hard. There is something waiting for you. It's all about trying and hoping that you can get some money, never get tired of trying because that is what it is all about. Because money will submit to you anyway, it will come to you once it sees that you are deserving of it and you are confident to get it.
The key here is to keep on trying until you find one. If you're lazy then it's game over for you but if your perseverance is on a different level then for sure you will win. Earning money is not that hard, all you have to do is expect for it, never get disappointed with rejections and work hard as much as you can, as simple as that. If you love the process of getting it then you will get it.
Every idea that comes into your mind... do it, try it, execute it. Because if you will not take actions then you will not produce results, the equation is very simple.
Look on the internet, ask your friends, walk around in your neighborhood, simply walk at the corporate world and look for job openings, you can find something if you seek hard. There is something waiting for you. It's all about trying and hoping that you can get some money, never get tired of trying because that is what it is all about. Because money will submit to you anyway, it will come to you once it sees that you are deserving of it and you are confident to get it.
The key here is to keep on trying until you find one. If you're lazy then it's game over for you but if your perseverance is on a different level then for sure you will win. Earning money is not that hard, all you have to do is expect for it, never get disappointed with rejections and work hard as much as you can, as simple as that. If you love the process of getting it then you will get it.
Every idea that comes into your mind... do it, try it, execute it. Because if you will not take actions then you will not produce results, the equation is very simple.
THERE'S ONLY ONE DIRECTION
There is only one direction that you need to follow and that is moving forward. Not backward, not sideward... just forward.
Life will be very easy if you keep on moving forward, it is very simple. You just do what you know and make sure every action that you execute will make your life better, make sure it will make you a better person. The direction is always forward, never look backward, never think about restarting.
And even if you made a mistake.. if you have the option to not repeat it then don't repeat it, just keep on moving forward and be one step closer to your goal. Be aware if you are moving forward or stopping, the moment you find yourself being stagnant... move right way, find what it is that will put you on a better position. You don't necessarily need to make a fast progress or make a long jump, just take a baby step and you will be fine.
Moving forward is very simple, you will just shut down the fear that is stopping you and then forget about what will happen next. Just do it and do it and do it. Don't stop, don't listen to the silent voices in your heard that is telling you to stop. Even if you are slow, even if you feel tired and heavy... you still need to keep moving forward and do what is necessary. Willpower alone can take you there, just find what is working and stick with it no matter what, stick with it until the end.
FIND WHERE YOU ARE GOOD AT
Find where you are good at and keep doing it, find your strength and focus on it. Never focus on your weakness, never focus on what you can't do. There is always something you can do and you have to focus on it, do it everyday, produce results from it. You are enough, your resources are enough, you just need to trust yourself and trust the means available. Never underestimate your skills and knowledge.
When things go hard, don't entertain the thoughts of going back, remember that there is only one direction you know and that is moving forward. Regardless of the circumstances, keep moving forward. Moving forward is the only way to discover the unknown, it is the only way to make a progress so keep taking baby steps and never stop until you're done.
STOP STOPPING
You can rest but only for a very short time, never let your momentum die, never stop, never think about hiatus or something. You can regain your energy in just one sleep, once you feel that you can move again... move forward as fast as you can. fatigue is only in the mind, it happens if you don't want what you are seeing so don't look for what is happening around just focus on taking actions and push forward until you become successful. It's easy to become relentless, just don't think and make a small move every now and then.
Life will be very easy if you keep on moving forward, it is very simple. You just do what you know and make sure every action that you execute will make your life better, make sure it will make you a better person. The direction is always forward, never look backward, never think about restarting.
And even if you made a mistake.. if you have the option to not repeat it then don't repeat it, just keep on moving forward and be one step closer to your goal. Be aware if you are moving forward or stopping, the moment you find yourself being stagnant... move right way, find what it is that will put you on a better position. You don't necessarily need to make a fast progress or make a long jump, just take a baby step and you will be fine.
Moving forward is very simple, you will just shut down the fear that is stopping you and then forget about what will happen next. Just do it and do it and do it. Don't stop, don't listen to the silent voices in your heard that is telling you to stop. Even if you are slow, even if you feel tired and heavy... you still need to keep moving forward and do what is necessary. Willpower alone can take you there, just find what is working and stick with it no matter what, stick with it until the end.
FIND WHERE YOU ARE GOOD AT
Find where you are good at and keep doing it, find your strength and focus on it. Never focus on your weakness, never focus on what you can't do. There is always something you can do and you have to focus on it, do it everyday, produce results from it. You are enough, your resources are enough, you just need to trust yourself and trust the means available. Never underestimate your skills and knowledge.
When things go hard, don't entertain the thoughts of going back, remember that there is only one direction you know and that is moving forward. Regardless of the circumstances, keep moving forward. Moving forward is the only way to discover the unknown, it is the only way to make a progress so keep taking baby steps and never stop until you're done.
STOP STOPPING
You can rest but only for a very short time, never let your momentum die, never stop, never think about hiatus or something. You can regain your energy in just one sleep, once you feel that you can move again... move forward as fast as you can. fatigue is only in the mind, it happens if you don't want what you are seeing so don't look for what is happening around just focus on taking actions and push forward until you become successful. It's easy to become relentless, just don't think and make a small move every now and then.
Jun 28, 2017
WHAT PEOPLE DON'T KNOW ABOUT BUSINESS
A lot of people thinks that business is just about passive income, once you build it.. you don't need to work anymore, you will just sit down on your couch watching TV and money will come naturally. This is what most people think about business that is why any business that they build is not clicking.
Yes, business is a passive income, it will give you money even if you're not employed but you still have to work really really hard for it to work. You can't just be investing some money and money will work for you. That is a traditional thought, it won't work trust me. I have a friend who is very good in business and of course he is super rich. I thought that he is having an easy life because he have a very strong business but later I found out and I was in complete shock that he is working for 11 hours a day, excluding the time he is spending while traveling back and forth from their home to the business area. I learned that even the richest people are working hard. They were also suffering, they were also dying to survive their business.
So if you think that just investing thousands of bucks for a specific business and doing nothing will make you earn money... you better think again because you will just waste your money. Your business will go down in just a matter of time. You still need to guard your business, focus on it, take are of it and treat it like your bread and butter. Never get lazy or else you will get bankrupt easily.
Any kind of business should be taken seriously, it is not some kind of a game that you can quit whenever you want. You should treat it like your life depends on it so that you will become successful for sure, so you can do the impossible things.
Any kind of business will succeed if the right amount of hardwork and dedication was exerted. There is no way you can't succeed if you really give everything you've got. You will only fail if you are making excuses. You will only fail if you didn't do the right thing.
You can't just be relaxing forever if you establish your own business, you still need to work like an animal if you want to succeed. It is what it is, even Bill Gates and Elon Musk work like hell.
A lot of people wants to establish a business so they don't have to work anymore but they end up working for more because of that kind of mindset. If you are wishing to cut your work, it means you are already setting up yourself for failure. It means you want to take shortcuts.
Business is something to die for if you want to survive it and make it successful, at first it is difficult, really really difficult but in the end you will have an easier time but it doesn't mean you don't need to work anymore.
Yes, business is a passive income, it will give you money even if you're not employed but you still have to work really really hard for it to work. You can't just be investing some money and money will work for you. That is a traditional thought, it won't work trust me. I have a friend who is very good in business and of course he is super rich. I thought that he is having an easy life because he have a very strong business but later I found out and I was in complete shock that he is working for 11 hours a day, excluding the time he is spending while traveling back and forth from their home to the business area. I learned that even the richest people are working hard. They were also suffering, they were also dying to survive their business.
So if you think that just investing thousands of bucks for a specific business and doing nothing will make you earn money... you better think again because you will just waste your money. Your business will go down in just a matter of time. You still need to guard your business, focus on it, take are of it and treat it like your bread and butter. Never get lazy or else you will get bankrupt easily.
Any kind of business should be taken seriously, it is not some kind of a game that you can quit whenever you want. You should treat it like your life depends on it so that you will become successful for sure, so you can do the impossible things.
Any kind of business will succeed if the right amount of hardwork and dedication was exerted. There is no way you can't succeed if you really give everything you've got. You will only fail if you are making excuses. You will only fail if you didn't do the right thing.
You can't just be relaxing forever if you establish your own business, you still need to work like an animal if you want to succeed. It is what it is, even Bill Gates and Elon Musk work like hell.
A lot of people wants to establish a business so they don't have to work anymore but they end up working for more because of that kind of mindset. If you are wishing to cut your work, it means you are already setting up yourself for failure. It means you want to take shortcuts.
Business is something to die for if you want to survive it and make it successful, at first it is difficult, really really difficult but in the end you will have an easier time but it doesn't mean you don't need to work anymore.
FALL IN LOVE WITH CHAOS
The greatest key to have a very easy life is to fall in love with chaos, it's not that you want it, it's not that you are looking for it. It just means that you will set your mind being ok with randomness and out of nowhere events that will give you a lot of stress. It means you are upgrading your ability to adapt to any stressful things that will come into your life. It means taking full responsibility of your emotions and handling them like a real grown man. It means petty things doesn't bother you anymore because your focus is on the greater things in life.
If you're too busy working at your home and you don't want any disturbance but suddenly your "not so close" friend visits you and asking for a favor... don't worry too much, don't feel bad. It is what it is, random things happen and you should embrace what is happening in front of you. Put a fake smile on your face because that fake smile will still somehow make you feel better. Entertain your friend and give him the warmest welcome. Just deal with it and never treat him bad. Later you will feel happy because despite of being annoyed at him... you manage to control your emotions and you will somehow compliment yourself for being patient.
If suddenly your aircon was not working and the weather is so hot... don't feel bad about it, don't whine, don't destroy your day by frowning a lot. Lean to adapt with the situation, learn to feel ok not being ok. Because you will only feel badder if you complain in life, you will only become stressed even more if you will not control your emotions and burst in anger. Accept that life is full of unexpected jokes and if you're not a good sport... you will become a loser forever.
If you can learn how to just be ok with anything that you cannot control then you will be fine, you will become happier, you will fee more secured and less pressure. It is your reaction towards different things that defines your happiness and stability. Sometimes you're just over reacting, sometimes you feel like someone is disturbing you and you cannot go back to your work.
Life is very boring without distractions, it is a challenge. Distractions will test your willpower and discipline. It is still up to you how to finish your day, if you will finish it with bad feelings then you're the one who lost but if you will finish it being happy even though there are some things that you didn't like then good for you... it means you're mentally strong and you're ok with different random things that is touching your life.
Just let it be. Don't focus on what you can't control, focus on your emotions, learn how to manage it and tame anger and explosion. After all, the one who is more patient is the one who will become successful. So never let small things bother you, never let chaos destroy your day.
If you're too busy working at your home and you don't want any disturbance but suddenly your "not so close" friend visits you and asking for a favor... don't worry too much, don't feel bad. It is what it is, random things happen and you should embrace what is happening in front of you. Put a fake smile on your face because that fake smile will still somehow make you feel better. Entertain your friend and give him the warmest welcome. Just deal with it and never treat him bad. Later you will feel happy because despite of being annoyed at him... you manage to control your emotions and you will somehow compliment yourself for being patient.
If suddenly your aircon was not working and the weather is so hot... don't feel bad about it, don't whine, don't destroy your day by frowning a lot. Lean to adapt with the situation, learn to feel ok not being ok. Because you will only feel badder if you complain in life, you will only become stressed even more if you will not control your emotions and burst in anger. Accept that life is full of unexpected jokes and if you're not a good sport... you will become a loser forever.
If you can learn how to just be ok with anything that you cannot control then you will be fine, you will become happier, you will fee more secured and less pressure. It is your reaction towards different things that defines your happiness and stability. Sometimes you're just over reacting, sometimes you feel like someone is disturbing you and you cannot go back to your work.
Life is very boring without distractions, it is a challenge. Distractions will test your willpower and discipline. It is still up to you how to finish your day, if you will finish it with bad feelings then you're the one who lost but if you will finish it being happy even though there are some things that you didn't like then good for you... it means you're mentally strong and you're ok with different random things that is touching your life.
Just let it be. Don't focus on what you can't control, focus on your emotions, learn how to manage it and tame anger and explosion. After all, the one who is more patient is the one who will become successful. So never let small things bother you, never let chaos destroy your day.
JUST THINK ANYWHERE IN THE BOX
It doesn't matter if you think inside of the box, outside of the box, side of the box, top of the box or bottom of the box. The term "outside of the box" is not real, thinking is nothing if you're not moving. So whether if you think outside of the box, if you're not taking actions then that thinking means nothing.
A lot of people are saying that they think outside of the box but they only produce mediocre results. They just say it for the sake of being told that they are great and unique. There is no such thing as outside of the box. It is just a metaphor and over exaggerating things. If you really want to become unique, if you really want to gain some advantages... just be yourself, do what you do best and forget about what people say.
If you will keep on worrying if you are thinking outside of the box or not... you will not progress. You will be stuck somewhere forever. The best approach in pursuing a goal is to stop thinking and just moving.. move outside or inside of the box. As long as you're moving you will be alright.
People are analyzing too much, they were so conscious in what they do, they are thinking if they're doing the right thing. And that is the main reason why they fail. Success is not about thinking, it is about moving. Don't think just move and feel.
You can start anywhere, you can do anything for as long as it is related to your goal, every step is the right step. And even if you are wrong, you're still right because you will learn a lesson.
There is no such thing as a perfect step, there is no such thing and the best idea. You just need to be consistent, you need to keep pounding until you find the right process for you.
Just follow your heart and never worry about anything else. Set yourself free, avoid thinking too much, don't worry if you're not thinking outside of the box because that is irrelevant, it doesn't matter if you're too basic for as long as your desire to win and will to become successful is always there. It is not your way of thinking that matters, it is your willingness to take massive actions to achieve huge results.
You have to start now and do whatever it takes to win in life, every start is the right start. Don't seek for approval because people will always see the wrong in you, they will always give you advise that you will not like or will just demotivate you. Follow your instincts, follow your gut, you can make anything successful even though your're not thinking outside of the box.
Success loves movement and little progress, it doesn't care if you're thinking right or wrong for as long as you're moving and your doing something to achieve your goals... you will attract it, you will win in life. Always count the actions, never count the thoughts.
A lot of people are saying that they think outside of the box but they only produce mediocre results. They just say it for the sake of being told that they are great and unique. There is no such thing as outside of the box. It is just a metaphor and over exaggerating things. If you really want to become unique, if you really want to gain some advantages... just be yourself, do what you do best and forget about what people say.
If you will keep on worrying if you are thinking outside of the box or not... you will not progress. You will be stuck somewhere forever. The best approach in pursuing a goal is to stop thinking and just moving.. move outside or inside of the box. As long as you're moving you will be alright.
People are analyzing too much, they were so conscious in what they do, they are thinking if they're doing the right thing. And that is the main reason why they fail. Success is not about thinking, it is about moving. Don't think just move and feel.
You can start anywhere, you can do anything for as long as it is related to your goal, every step is the right step. And even if you are wrong, you're still right because you will learn a lesson.
There is no such thing as a perfect step, there is no such thing and the best idea. You just need to be consistent, you need to keep pounding until you find the right process for you.
Just follow your heart and never worry about anything else. Set yourself free, avoid thinking too much, don't worry if you're not thinking outside of the box because that is irrelevant, it doesn't matter if you're too basic for as long as your desire to win and will to become successful is always there. It is not your way of thinking that matters, it is your willingness to take massive actions to achieve huge results.
You have to start now and do whatever it takes to win in life, every start is the right start. Don't seek for approval because people will always see the wrong in you, they will always give you advise that you will not like or will just demotivate you. Follow your instincts, follow your gut, you can make anything successful even though your're not thinking outside of the box.
Success loves movement and little progress, it doesn't care if you're thinking right or wrong for as long as you're moving and your doing something to achieve your goals... you will attract it, you will win in life. Always count the actions, never count the thoughts.
Jun 27, 2017
THE TRUTH IS...
The truth is.. you don't want to admit the truth, the truth is you are fooling yourself that you really want it but you don't really want it bad enough. If you really want it then you must be dying for it. The truth is.. you're just joking around, you hate to admit that you are wasting your life. You keep on telling everyone that you're changing, that you're working hard but the truth is you're bot doing anything to change your life. You're a bum, that is the truth but you hate to admit it for whatever reason.
The truth is... you're protecting your identity so much. You want to become perfect, you want everything to become perfect that is why you can't even move, that is why you're not taking any risk that will make your life better. The truth is.. you know the truth, you know what to do but you're pretending to be blind just to avoid taking actions.
It's hard to handle the truth but the truth is the only thing that will set you free, it is the only thing that will make your life better than yesterday. If you can accept the truth that you're not doing anything, that you're lazy, that you're an egoistic type of human being then you will have a bigger chance to change your life. Truth is very hurtful, it is very hard to accept it but you must learn to embrace it so that you can put your life on a better direction. Truth hurts but at the same time it is a life changer, it is an important ingredient to success.
Just accept the truth, accept that you are taking your life for granted, accept that you're wasting your time so that you will be able to make some adjustments to your life.
The truth is... you have a lot of time, you're still capable of succeeding, you just can't find that motivation and sense of urgency to take action. You need to accept the truth and change it, you need to make you present truth false, you need to reverse the course.
The truth is.. you're still pretending up to now that you are less fortunate, you are pretending that the world is unfair and the world owes you something, you feel like they should give you more even if you are willing to give less. It's time to wake up and do the right thing. It's not too late for you, you can still turn things around. You can make a big come back.
The truth is... you don't have the heart to fight for your dreams, you're making a lot of excuses, I don't know if you really believe your excuses or you're just using them to avoid feeling guilty for your failure and lack of effort.
If you will just accept the harsh truths in your life and have the courage to change them... you will be able to change dramatically, you will get that break that you are waiting for a very long time.
The truth is... you're protecting your identity so much. You want to become perfect, you want everything to become perfect that is why you can't even move, that is why you're not taking any risk that will make your life better. The truth is.. you know the truth, you know what to do but you're pretending to be blind just to avoid taking actions.
It's hard to handle the truth but the truth is the only thing that will set you free, it is the only thing that will make your life better than yesterday. If you can accept the truth that you're not doing anything, that you're lazy, that you're an egoistic type of human being then you will have a bigger chance to change your life. Truth is very hurtful, it is very hard to accept it but you must learn to embrace it so that you can put your life on a better direction. Truth hurts but at the same time it is a life changer, it is an important ingredient to success.
Just accept the truth, accept that you are taking your life for granted, accept that you're wasting your time so that you will be able to make some adjustments to your life.
The truth is... you have a lot of time, you're still capable of succeeding, you just can't find that motivation and sense of urgency to take action. You need to accept the truth and change it, you need to make you present truth false, you need to reverse the course.
The truth is.. you're still pretending up to now that you are less fortunate, you are pretending that the world is unfair and the world owes you something, you feel like they should give you more even if you are willing to give less. It's time to wake up and do the right thing. It's not too late for you, you can still turn things around. You can make a big come back.
The truth is... you don't have the heart to fight for your dreams, you're making a lot of excuses, I don't know if you really believe your excuses or you're just using them to avoid feeling guilty for your failure and lack of effort.
If you will just accept the harsh truths in your life and have the courage to change them... you will be able to change dramatically, you will get that break that you are waiting for a very long time.
MADE IN SILENCE
Success is much better if you will make it in silence. Stop talking about it, stop bragging about it, stop being proud about it... just keep quiet and do the work. Because you will have a lot of haters if you're so loud and proud. There is nothing wrong with that if you can handle it, but what if you are so sensitive and you are barking at anyone who is making a nasty comments against you? you will only get distracted if you're too loud, too much people will join the noise, too much people will ride the hype but none of them are true, most of them were also wishing for you to fail.
You will feel lesser pressure if you're not that loud, you will have peace if you're working on your craft, pursuing your goal and making success as the noise maker itself. Don't let your mouth run your show, let the results and success silence the people. Let success be the noise, granted that it is a true success and not just a hyped success.
It is lovely if people were counting you out and not giving you any attention but in the end they will be surprised that you are winning and making it n life. It is like you're a darkhorse and then you keep on shining in the end and surprising people how big you've finally become. Be ok being an underdog, be ok not getting all the attention and hype because at the end of the day... even if you're making a lot of noise, it's the results that matters and not the noise that surrounds you.
There are lot of people who are making hype for themselves, they are telling the world about what they're doing. They are telling the world how big they will become but in the end... they were all about talk, they didn't accomplish anything. They fall short, maybe because instead of making themselves better... they were focus on looking good and impressing people that is why their efforts were not good enough to become successful.
Being silent will never attract enemies. It is hard to work on your game and become better if you have a lot of haters, if a lot of critics is bothering you. So the best thing to do is be quiet, even if you're gaining a small amount of success already.. stay quiet and just focus on becoming better each second.
There is a time for celebration, there is a time for being loud and that is... if you already became successful. So if you haven't prove anything yet... keep quiet and just focus on your work.
But if you're this type of person who really can't shut his mouth... then go ahead and make noise, go ahead and tell your plans, go ahead and expose what you're doing, just make sure that you will win in the end because if not... every noise that you created will back fire at you.
You will feel lesser pressure if you're not that loud, you will have peace if you're working on your craft, pursuing your goal and making success as the noise maker itself. Don't let your mouth run your show, let the results and success silence the people. Let success be the noise, granted that it is a true success and not just a hyped success.
It is lovely if people were counting you out and not giving you any attention but in the end they will be surprised that you are winning and making it n life. It is like you're a darkhorse and then you keep on shining in the end and surprising people how big you've finally become. Be ok being an underdog, be ok not getting all the attention and hype because at the end of the day... even if you're making a lot of noise, it's the results that matters and not the noise that surrounds you.
There are lot of people who are making hype for themselves, they are telling the world about what they're doing. They are telling the world how big they will become but in the end... they were all about talk, they didn't accomplish anything. They fall short, maybe because instead of making themselves better... they were focus on looking good and impressing people that is why their efforts were not good enough to become successful.
Being silent will never attract enemies. It is hard to work on your game and become better if you have a lot of haters, if a lot of critics is bothering you. So the best thing to do is be quiet, even if you're gaining a small amount of success already.. stay quiet and just focus on becoming better each second.
There is a time for celebration, there is a time for being loud and that is... if you already became successful. So if you haven't prove anything yet... keep quiet and just focus on your work.
But if you're this type of person who really can't shut his mouth... then go ahead and make noise, go ahead and tell your plans, go ahead and expose what you're doing, just make sure that you will win in the end because if not... every noise that you created will back fire at you.
AFTER 20 YEARS, THE FUCKING COMPANY WILL JUST GIVE YOU A FAKE WATCH
The truth is... there is no secured job in the world. The company may close anytime, they may fire you anytime if they saw someone better than you or if they think that you are getting old and not productive anymore. Stop pretending that any company will give you security. Stop thinking that just by working for a company for more than 20 years will make you look successful. Because the moment you reach 20 years of service for a specific company.. all they will give you is an ugly cheap watch, with your name embedded on it. Is that a compliment or an insult?
You will be even stressed if you work for a company that requires more of your time but will give you lesser money. But of course you have to do it if you want to stay in that company for so long. There is nothing wrong in working for a company but if you feel that you are not getting what you deserve then why are you still working? you have the power to leave, you have the power to create your own business or even find a better company.
But don't ever think that you are secured if you are a regular employee in a specific company because nothing in life is secured, it is full of randomness. And if you are so sensitive and cannot handle surprises... you're in big trouble, you will freak out, you will be out of your mind.
If you really want to live and experience life... stop working for a company that is not competitive and is not willing to give you everything in life. You can work for a company or create your own company, as simple as that.
Because any company will treat you like a garbage if you're not productive anymore. They will cut you in the line up once you show them that you are slowing down. And what if you're too old and no other company will accept you anymore? what will you do? just cry and complain? those tears will not bring food on the table.
So while it is still early, learn how to make money on your own, be independent and innovative. Be ok with the random things in life, be ok with doing a new process everyday. Be ok not being ok because that is what life and success is all about... it is about embracing every moment that is happening and still finding ways how to make your life better.
If you don't want to receive an ugly watch when you grow old... learn to step up your game now, learn to take massive actions now and find ways how to build your own personal economy. Because when it's all said and done... you are the one responsible for your success or failure. You can't blame the company for using you because you allow them to use you. You are the one who made the decisions, no one ever did it for you.
You will be even stressed if you work for a company that requires more of your time but will give you lesser money. But of course you have to do it if you want to stay in that company for so long. There is nothing wrong in working for a company but if you feel that you are not getting what you deserve then why are you still working? you have the power to leave, you have the power to create your own business or even find a better company.
But don't ever think that you are secured if you are a regular employee in a specific company because nothing in life is secured, it is full of randomness. And if you are so sensitive and cannot handle surprises... you're in big trouble, you will freak out, you will be out of your mind.
If you really want to live and experience life... stop working for a company that is not competitive and is not willing to give you everything in life. You can work for a company or create your own company, as simple as that.
Because any company will treat you like a garbage if you're not productive anymore. They will cut you in the line up once you show them that you are slowing down. And what if you're too old and no other company will accept you anymore? what will you do? just cry and complain? those tears will not bring food on the table.
So while it is still early, learn how to make money on your own, be independent and innovative. Be ok with the random things in life, be ok with doing a new process everyday. Be ok not being ok because that is what life and success is all about... it is about embracing every moment that is happening and still finding ways how to make your life better.
If you don't want to receive an ugly watch when you grow old... learn to step up your game now, learn to take massive actions now and find ways how to build your own personal economy. Because when it's all said and done... you are the one responsible for your success or failure. You can't blame the company for using you because you allow them to use you. You are the one who made the decisions, no one ever did it for you.
STOP CARING ABOUT WHO'S WINNING OR LOSING
Your neighbor just bought a brand new car, you feel jealous, you feel like maybe he is doing something illegal that is why he manage to buy a brand new car. Your focus was already destroyed, you are focusing on other people again that is why you can't win too.
You saw at facebook that your enemy is winning in life, he bought a brand new house, you immediately felt bad and got jealous. You think that he is not deserving to have those things and you are more deserving of it. That is why you can't focus on your work, that is why you are having a hard time winning is because you are so focus on negativity. Forget if your enemy is winning, it's his life, you have your own life. It is your duty to win in your own life and you can only make it happen if you are focused on yourself. Your focused will be destroyed if you are so concern about who's winning or losing. It doesn't even matter if the person who annoys you the most is winning, you will be annoyed even more if you will get mad at his victory.
Same as who is losing, you're so happy if the person you dislike is losing in life. Is that how low your confidence is? you're happiness is based on someone's failure, is that how low you live your life? If you're a real winner then you shouldn't care if your enemy is losing because that won't even help you, it won't motivate you. You will become even lazy because you became satisfied after hearing that your enemy is losing, you feel somehow victorious with that happening and that won't force you to take actions.
ANOTHER SCENARIO: Your so angry because your idol didn't win the MVP award or your favorite actress didn't win the best actress award. You are bleeding their case at the social media and making a protest about who is the more deserving. Another useless move by you, you just wasted your precious time again, you are trying to prove that your idol is the more deserving but he won't even do the same for you, he didn't even know you.
Only losers care about who's winning or losing because they don't have time for themselves, they don't even have the idea how to win in their own world so they are focus on other people's victories and failures. They can't even take actions so they just watch other people's lives.
If you really want to win in life... stop being updated about who is winning or losing because that's a complete waste of time. You will only get mad, you will only get jealous, negativity will rise, you will lose focus on your own journey.
Just put yourself in the best position to become victorious in your own definition. It doesn't matter if you are winning big time or small time, what matters is you are winning and you are so happy succeeding in your own life.
You saw at facebook that your enemy is winning in life, he bought a brand new house, you immediately felt bad and got jealous. You think that he is not deserving to have those things and you are more deserving of it. That is why you can't focus on your work, that is why you are having a hard time winning is because you are so focus on negativity. Forget if your enemy is winning, it's his life, you have your own life. It is your duty to win in your own life and you can only make it happen if you are focused on yourself. Your focused will be destroyed if you are so concern about who's winning or losing. It doesn't even matter if the person who annoys you the most is winning, you will be annoyed even more if you will get mad at his victory.
Same as who is losing, you're so happy if the person you dislike is losing in life. Is that how low your confidence is? you're happiness is based on someone's failure, is that how low you live your life? If you're a real winner then you shouldn't care if your enemy is losing because that won't even help you, it won't motivate you. You will become even lazy because you became satisfied after hearing that your enemy is losing, you feel somehow victorious with that happening and that won't force you to take actions.
ANOTHER SCENARIO: Your so angry because your idol didn't win the MVP award or your favorite actress didn't win the best actress award. You are bleeding their case at the social media and making a protest about who is the more deserving. Another useless move by you, you just wasted your precious time again, you are trying to prove that your idol is the more deserving but he won't even do the same for you, he didn't even know you.
Only losers care about who's winning or losing because they don't have time for themselves, they don't even have the idea how to win in their own world so they are focus on other people's victories and failures. They can't even take actions so they just watch other people's lives.
If you really want to win in life... stop being updated about who is winning or losing because that's a complete waste of time. You will only get mad, you will only get jealous, negativity will rise, you will lose focus on your own journey.
Just put yourself in the best position to become victorious in your own definition. It doesn't matter if you are winning big time or small time, what matters is you are winning and you are so happy succeeding in your own life.
RUN YOUR OWN EMOTION, USE THE STATE THAT WILL HELP YOU
Emotions plays a big role into your life. So if you continuously feel a lot of negative emotion.. there is something wrong with you, your life is not in balance and you better do something about it. It is how you feel at the moment that defines you, if you feel bad towards something even if it is just a small thing... you are just wasting your precious life,
The main goal everyday is just to feel good, excited and motivated. The rest will happen naturally if you are pumped up and ready to go. You can always choose to be happy even if you are feeling tired, sick and scared. You can always overwrite a negative emotion and replace it with good ones. And it is true, most people are so bothered by the negative feeling that they have, they don't know that sometimes you don't need to force to feel good, you just need to feel the negative emotion, don't cry about it, don't complain about it and it will go away sooner than expected.
You can summon any emotion that you want, it all starts in your thoughts. If you can just think about the good things in your life, if you can remember the happy moments of your life... then you will feel good a little bit, your negative emotion will start to weaken.
Any negative emotion will not help you, you must realize it before it's too late. If you were always being controlled by a negative emotion then you will have a miserable and ugly life. You must develop the ability to create a state that you needed in order to make your life better than ever. It is possible, you can summon a state that will make you think clearly and move calmly, if you can summon the best state available... you will be able to make better decisions in life, you will become more free and enjoy life to the fullest.
Run your emotion, don't let emotions run you. It is your life, it is your thought, it is your body, it is your spirit. You have total control of your life. You're just too lazy and unaware of the things that is going on around you. You must have the ability to feel and choose the state that is best for you.
Do you think that anger and impatience can get the job done? if your answer is no then why the hell are you still engaging with those emotions? do you think that being hotheaded will make you successful and live a better life? You always knew the answer, you always knew what to do but you're not doing it... that is your biggest problem.
The state of laziness, the state of arrogance, the state of being passive and taking things for granted... those shits will never help you, you can always do better, you can always think the right way. You can always create the emotions needed to become successful.
The main goal everyday is just to feel good, excited and motivated. The rest will happen naturally if you are pumped up and ready to go. You can always choose to be happy even if you are feeling tired, sick and scared. You can always overwrite a negative emotion and replace it with good ones. And it is true, most people are so bothered by the negative feeling that they have, they don't know that sometimes you don't need to force to feel good, you just need to feel the negative emotion, don't cry about it, don't complain about it and it will go away sooner than expected.
You can summon any emotion that you want, it all starts in your thoughts. If you can just think about the good things in your life, if you can remember the happy moments of your life... then you will feel good a little bit, your negative emotion will start to weaken.
Any negative emotion will not help you, you must realize it before it's too late. If you were always being controlled by a negative emotion then you will have a miserable and ugly life. You must develop the ability to create a state that you needed in order to make your life better than ever. It is possible, you can summon a state that will make you think clearly and move calmly, if you can summon the best state available... you will be able to make better decisions in life, you will become more free and enjoy life to the fullest.
Run your emotion, don't let emotions run you. It is your life, it is your thought, it is your body, it is your spirit. You have total control of your life. You're just too lazy and unaware of the things that is going on around you. You must have the ability to feel and choose the state that is best for you.
Do you think that anger and impatience can get the job done? if your answer is no then why the hell are you still engaging with those emotions? do you think that being hotheaded will make you successful and live a better life? You always knew the answer, you always knew what to do but you're not doing it... that is your biggest problem.
The state of laziness, the state of arrogance, the state of being passive and taking things for granted... those shits will never help you, you can always do better, you can always think the right way. You can always create the emotions needed to become successful.
BELIEVE IN HARDWORK IF YOU CAN'T BELIEVE IN YOURSELF
If you can't find something to believe in, if you feel like you have no chance anymore, if your confidence is going down and you can't figure out what to do... just believe in hardwork, Trust that hardwork will give you results. Because hardwork is the surest way to change your life. It is really hard to believe in something especially if you can't see the results that you are expecting, it is hard to believe in yourself anymore if you are always failing but hardwork is different, it will make you believe once again especially if you are really serious in what you do.
Just believe in hardwork and keep working hard, that is how to do it. You can lose your confidence, you can be totally discouraged but never stop working hard. Because if you keep working hard, you're still on the game, you're still on the right track, you still have the biggest chance to win. Just do something that will somehow give you a little advantage, it may work or not work but the point here is... if you believe in hardwork... you will never quit in life, you will keep on coming back no matter what the odds are.
Sometimes it is really hard to believe in yourself because frustration will start to set in once you feel lost and not progressing. So the best thing to do is trust hardwork instead and entertain yourself by continuously grinding. Hardwork will make you feel good, it will keep your mind away from negativity. Your busyness will make you forget all of your problems, it will put you in a place where you feel so secured, positive and hopeful. If you trust hardwork all of your worries and fear will go away.
So don't worry anymore if you lost your confidence and drive, it will come back again once you trust hardwork and keep pushing until you produce results. Hardwork is the answer, it will show you the way. A lot of people were so scared to work hard because they are thinking about "what if's". "What if didn't work?", "what if I am just wasting my time?" and any other stupid thoughts that are making them stuck and insecure. Once you work hard... trust it to the fullest and never question the process.
Once you trust hardwork... you don't need to think about anything else, actually you will never be able to think because your body is moving consistently, you don't have time to think about failing anymore, you don't have time to over analyze that will make you paralyze.
HARDWORK WILL GIVE YOU A LOT OF FUN.
It may sound scary in the beginning because you will think that it's a lot of work and you will become very tired. Actually, hardwork is really fun especially if your body and mind is already conditioned to work hard. You will discover a lot of things, you will discover your real strength, you will be able t produce a lot of results. You will feel stronger than ever because you will be able to achieve things that you thought were not possible.
So continue to trust hardwork and never doubt it, never be discouraged if you are not seeing results yet because most of the time... results will come out in the end, it will touch you once you are truly deserving of something.
Just believe in hardwork and keep working hard, that is how to do it. You can lose your confidence, you can be totally discouraged but never stop working hard. Because if you keep working hard, you're still on the game, you're still on the right track, you still have the biggest chance to win. Just do something that will somehow give you a little advantage, it may work or not work but the point here is... if you believe in hardwork... you will never quit in life, you will keep on coming back no matter what the odds are.
Sometimes it is really hard to believe in yourself because frustration will start to set in once you feel lost and not progressing. So the best thing to do is trust hardwork instead and entertain yourself by continuously grinding. Hardwork will make you feel good, it will keep your mind away from negativity. Your busyness will make you forget all of your problems, it will put you in a place where you feel so secured, positive and hopeful. If you trust hardwork all of your worries and fear will go away.
So don't worry anymore if you lost your confidence and drive, it will come back again once you trust hardwork and keep pushing until you produce results. Hardwork is the answer, it will show you the way. A lot of people were so scared to work hard because they are thinking about "what if's". "What if didn't work?", "what if I am just wasting my time?" and any other stupid thoughts that are making them stuck and insecure. Once you work hard... trust it to the fullest and never question the process.
Once you trust hardwork... you don't need to think about anything else, actually you will never be able to think because your body is moving consistently, you don't have time to think about failing anymore, you don't have time to over analyze that will make you paralyze.
HARDWORK WILL GIVE YOU A LOT OF FUN.
It may sound scary in the beginning because you will think that it's a lot of work and you will become very tired. Actually, hardwork is really fun especially if your body and mind is already conditioned to work hard. You will discover a lot of things, you will discover your real strength, you will be able t produce a lot of results. You will feel stronger than ever because you will be able to achieve things that you thought were not possible.
So continue to trust hardwork and never doubt it, never be discouraged if you are not seeing results yet because most of the time... results will come out in the end, it will touch you once you are truly deserving of something.
THERE IS ALWAYS A LIGHT AT THE END OF THE TUNNEL
No matter what you're going through... keep plodding, keep moving because there is always a light at the end of the tunnel. Your suffering will only end if you keep moving, you maybe experiencing a lot of difficulty right now but it will end if you will never stop. The challenges in your life will not stay there forever. You will be able to find a solution, there are opportunities that will come into your life. So stop thinking and keep moving, be the best that you can be and always stay positive. All the suffering will end, it will not stay in your life if you keep on thinking positive and doing positive actions.
It's all about weathering the storm, wait until it's over. The sun will come out again and show you better opportunities in life. Keep your thoughts in check, be aware if you are thinking negative, you better correct your thoughts immediately.
How many people who are experiencing a tremendous difficulty in life but they still manage to stand up and do what is better for their life. There are many survivors there, there are many unsung heroes who made a difference. You too an survive a very hard situation, you too can make your life better by persevering and enduring the toughest moments of your life.
No matter how tough the challenge is, no matter how hard the goal is, no matter what you're going through... you can always overcome it if you will never quit and keep your hopes alive. Nobody said that it is going to be easy so don't be surprised if you are having a hard time dealing with your situation. Nobody promised you an easy life, just deal with it and wait for the storm to go away.
Your perspective is everything. If you think that you're so unlucky, cursed and treated unfairly by life... you will never be able to change your situation, you will be trapped in a rat race forever, you will never win because you think that you already lost in life. But if you think that what happening is just a part of life then you will have a big chance, you will be able to take positive actions that will put you in a best position to succeed in life.
JUST DO THE SMALLEST STEP THAT YOU CAN DO. Everyday, every second, every minute.. if you can find a small step that you can execute... do it. Make sure that step is helpful, make sure that step will bring you one step closer to your goal. It is about who can stay on the journey forever, it is about who is willing to take it one step at a time and be patient while working hard.
It is very simple yet people can't do it because they were so hot headed and they want a change right away, they want it fast but they are not willing to die for it. Just always remember that there is a light at the end of the tunnel, you can will experience success if you are willing to move forward forever.
It's all about weathering the storm, wait until it's over. The sun will come out again and show you better opportunities in life. Keep your thoughts in check, be aware if you are thinking negative, you better correct your thoughts immediately.
How many people who are experiencing a tremendous difficulty in life but they still manage to stand up and do what is better for their life. There are many survivors there, there are many unsung heroes who made a difference. You too an survive a very hard situation, you too can make your life better by persevering and enduring the toughest moments of your life.
No matter how tough the challenge is, no matter how hard the goal is, no matter what you're going through... you can always overcome it if you will never quit and keep your hopes alive. Nobody said that it is going to be easy so don't be surprised if you are having a hard time dealing with your situation. Nobody promised you an easy life, just deal with it and wait for the storm to go away.
Your perspective is everything. If you think that you're so unlucky, cursed and treated unfairly by life... you will never be able to change your situation, you will be trapped in a rat race forever, you will never win because you think that you already lost in life. But if you think that what happening is just a part of life then you will have a big chance, you will be able to take positive actions that will put you in a best position to succeed in life.
JUST DO THE SMALLEST STEP THAT YOU CAN DO. Everyday, every second, every minute.. if you can find a small step that you can execute... do it. Make sure that step is helpful, make sure that step will bring you one step closer to your goal. It is about who can stay on the journey forever, it is about who is willing to take it one step at a time and be patient while working hard.
It is very simple yet people can't do it because they were so hot headed and they want a change right away, they want it fast but they are not willing to die for it. Just always remember that there is a light at the end of the tunnel, you can will experience success if you are willing to move forward forever.
Jun 26, 2017
7 REASONS WHY I QUIT MY JOB?
I already have a regular job before but I quit for several reasons:
1. I feel like my boss is disrespecting me. The boss is lazy, very negative and is not respecting his co-workers that is why I quit. I work harder than him and I know I can be something else. The boss is arrogant and I don't like his attitude. He feels like he's better than anybody else but the truth is... his life sucks, he can't even finish his goals, he is very good in talking but poor in executing. I don't like people like that. The boss is like a clown, he's a joke, his ego is too high but he can't even make awesome achievements. I feel like I am following someone who is not deserving.
2. I feel like I'm better. I know I can do better and be better that is why my life is better now when I quit that job. Good thing I found the courage to believe in my self and follow my own unique path. A lot of people were so scared to quit their job because they knew they can't find something else. They were so scared, they don't want to take chances and that is why they can't change their lives. What people don't know is you can still take chances even if you feel that you don't have the right skills yet.
3. The salary is low. I feel like i'm being paid like a rookie or an intern. I feel like I can earn more so I look for another way to earn money and I found it. My decision was right, I learned in life that if you feel like you can find something better... you are right and you must go for it. Don't settle for something low because it is the only available. Life is full of abundance and you must get your own big slice of cake, don'ts settle for a thin slice of cake because there's always much bigger than that if you will only look for it.
4. I don't have the freedom. I can't decide on my own, have a rest on my own. I can't live on my own terms, the company always know what is better for you even if you don't like it. I always feel being suffocated because I'm like a puppet that will just follow what they want even though my feelings is against it.
5. I see something others can't see. I have a dream, I have a vision. Other people can't see it but I can see it clearly for myself. I can see my self succeeding on other things. Even if they are doubting me and stopping me to resign because they keep on telling me that I am already lucky because I have a regular job... I still follow my heart because I am seeing something, I feel like I can do the impossible. I feel like even if it is hard... I can still find a way how to make things work for me.
6. I believe in hardwork. I just believe that if I keep on pounding, searching and grinding my ass.. I will be rewarded someday, and it happened. I was able to learn how to make money for myself without being belittle by other people. I was hardened by circumstances, I begin to become so independent that not any single person can tell me what to do in my life.
7. Just follow my heart. I just follow what my heart tells me to do so. A lot of people were being called, ideas were running inside of their head but they don't have the courage to follow their heart and that is why they fail and have a lot of regrets in the end.
So if you feel like you need to quit your job because you're not happy anymore... do it because it is the right thing to do. Just make sure that you will not come back again to that job. It's a win or go home situation, it's a do or die, it's an all or nothing... grab the opportunity and make it happen.
1. I feel like my boss is disrespecting me. The boss is lazy, very negative and is not respecting his co-workers that is why I quit. I work harder than him and I know I can be something else. The boss is arrogant and I don't like his attitude. He feels like he's better than anybody else but the truth is... his life sucks, he can't even finish his goals, he is very good in talking but poor in executing. I don't like people like that. The boss is like a clown, he's a joke, his ego is too high but he can't even make awesome achievements. I feel like I am following someone who is not deserving.
2. I feel like I'm better. I know I can do better and be better that is why my life is better now when I quit that job. Good thing I found the courage to believe in my self and follow my own unique path. A lot of people were so scared to quit their job because they knew they can't find something else. They were so scared, they don't want to take chances and that is why they can't change their lives. What people don't know is you can still take chances even if you feel that you don't have the right skills yet.
3. The salary is low. I feel like i'm being paid like a rookie or an intern. I feel like I can earn more so I look for another way to earn money and I found it. My decision was right, I learned in life that if you feel like you can find something better... you are right and you must go for it. Don't settle for something low because it is the only available. Life is full of abundance and you must get your own big slice of cake, don'ts settle for a thin slice of cake because there's always much bigger than that if you will only look for it.
4. I don't have the freedom. I can't decide on my own, have a rest on my own. I can't live on my own terms, the company always know what is better for you even if you don't like it. I always feel being suffocated because I'm like a puppet that will just follow what they want even though my feelings is against it.
5. I see something others can't see. I have a dream, I have a vision. Other people can't see it but I can see it clearly for myself. I can see my self succeeding on other things. Even if they are doubting me and stopping me to resign because they keep on telling me that I am already lucky because I have a regular job... I still follow my heart because I am seeing something, I feel like I can do the impossible. I feel like even if it is hard... I can still find a way how to make things work for me.
6. I believe in hardwork. I just believe that if I keep on pounding, searching and grinding my ass.. I will be rewarded someday, and it happened. I was able to learn how to make money for myself without being belittle by other people. I was hardened by circumstances, I begin to become so independent that not any single person can tell me what to do in my life.
7. Just follow my heart. I just follow what my heart tells me to do so. A lot of people were being called, ideas were running inside of their head but they don't have the courage to follow their heart and that is why they fail and have a lot of regrets in the end.
So if you feel like you need to quit your job because you're not happy anymore... do it because it is the right thing to do. Just make sure that you will not come back again to that job. It's a win or go home situation, it's a do or die, it's an all or nothing... grab the opportunity and make it happen.
JUST BELIEVE IN YOURSELF THAT YOU CAN DO IT
Don't think about anything else, don't think about your situation,
don't think about how far you still need to go. Forget about what people say,
forget about what people might say, just believe that you can do it and you
will be able to do it. You are worrying a lot, you are so focused on other
things that is why your belief is not that strong. What if you just think about
your dreams and do everything you can to do it? what do you think will
happen?
Be a single minded person. Once you set your mind into something...
don't think about anything else. Don't let the distractions distract you. Just
stay focus and never complicate the process. Once you decide what steps to
take... take it and take it, don't change it, don't doubt it... trust it to the
fullest and see the results coming in naturally.
Because if you keep on changing
your process then you will never achieve anything. You will go back from the
very start and you will experience the same stress, doubts and confusion.
You have to make it no matter
what, even if the process seems not working... you still have to process it,
just believe in yourself that you can do it. If your belief is weakening just
keep moving and it will become strong again. Because if you will not believe in
yourself... you will not be able to make it. You will quit in the long run
because you will think that you're just wasting your time.
Stop believing anything else,
stop believing other people, stop believing something that will make your
belief weak. Only believe in yourself and keep taking actions even if there is
no progress that is showing.
BELIEVING THAT YOU WILL
SUCCEED WILL MAKE YOUR LIFE SIMPLE.
You will just do it, you will
just move, you will never look for results anymore. You will never entertain
weak and negative thoughts. You will just keep moving forward and never think
about failing... just for a second. You forget about the details, you forget about
how are you going to make it, you just do what you can do at the moment and you
push forward until the end.
You will have a peace of mind
if you simply believe that you will succeed. You will never entertain worries
anymore, you will never look for results. You will just stay with the process
and wait for your turn to become successful. You will become more patient, you
will become more focused, you will establish your own pace and you will never
care about other things that do bother you.
Because there is nothing wrong
in believing in yourself for as long as you keep on taking actions. You have
the right to believe in yourself, you have the capacity to make your dreams
come true. It is better to believe in yourself rather than contradict yourself and
believing what other people say. Just believe in yourself that you can do it,
forget about anything else... always keep moving forward, that is the best game
plan that you can ever have.
Jun 25, 2017
7 REASONS WHY EXCUSES WILL DESTROY YOUR LIFE
1. It is because you are building the habits of laziness. People who makes excuses are the laziest people in the world. They are delusional and they are making themselves believe that they are right. Never make excuses, it is either you do it or not. It's all about priorities, you need to choose what you need to do and that choice must be the best for your life. If you will keep on making excuses... you will never become productive, you will always be last on the line.
2. Excuses creates worries. "What if my excuse was not accepted?", "what if my boss got mad?". You will feel like a psychotic if you are always making excuses, you will never have a peace of mind. You will never be in the moment because you are always thinking about something. If you don't want to have worries in life... never make excuses. Just do it, taking actions will destroy your bad thinking habits, making a move will kill all your worries. So if you want to erase all the problems in your life... keep taking actions. Problems are all in your head, the only way to forget your problems and solve it is by keeping yourself busy.
3. Your mental toughness will become weak. Your ability to push will fade. Just a little discomfort will control your life, you will feel weak, you will feel like there is something stopping you everytime you want to take actions. In other words, you're already a bum, you become so lazy and confused.
4. You will become stressed even more. You are not enjoying your life anymore because you simply don't want to take actions. You wanted to do something but you can't do it because there is a war inside of your head that is going on. You wanted to do it but your excuse making ability is thriving in your system, it is controlling your life and there is nothing you can do about it.
5. You will get sick. Excuses will make you sick, everytime you need to exercise... you will just invent excuses such as... it is raining outside, your stomach is aching you're not feeling well, you have other things to do. Part of you wants to do it but your excuses is stopping you, you will get stressed, you will become sick because you are not moving. Inaction will make your body weak, it will make your body malfunction.
6. Your relationship with other people will be affected. A lot of people will get mad at you because you keep on promising something but you will never do it. People will lose interest in you because your credibility cannot be trusted. Even your closest friends... they knew that you cannot be trusted so they will never ask something from you anymore.
7. You will lose confidence in your abilities. You know you can do something but you know in yourself that when things gets difficult... you will make excuses to not continue anymore. You always knew from the very beginning that you can't finish something because you will always make excuses to not finish strong.
2. Excuses creates worries. "What if my excuse was not accepted?", "what if my boss got mad?". You will feel like a psychotic if you are always making excuses, you will never have a peace of mind. You will never be in the moment because you are always thinking about something. If you don't want to have worries in life... never make excuses. Just do it, taking actions will destroy your bad thinking habits, making a move will kill all your worries. So if you want to erase all the problems in your life... keep taking actions. Problems are all in your head, the only way to forget your problems and solve it is by keeping yourself busy.
3. Your mental toughness will become weak. Your ability to push will fade. Just a little discomfort will control your life, you will feel weak, you will feel like there is something stopping you everytime you want to take actions. In other words, you're already a bum, you become so lazy and confused.
4. You will become stressed even more. You are not enjoying your life anymore because you simply don't want to take actions. You wanted to do something but you can't do it because there is a war inside of your head that is going on. You wanted to do it but your excuse making ability is thriving in your system, it is controlling your life and there is nothing you can do about it.
5. You will get sick. Excuses will make you sick, everytime you need to exercise... you will just invent excuses such as... it is raining outside, your stomach is aching you're not feeling well, you have other things to do. Part of you wants to do it but your excuses is stopping you, you will get stressed, you will become sick because you are not moving. Inaction will make your body weak, it will make your body malfunction.
6. Your relationship with other people will be affected. A lot of people will get mad at you because you keep on promising something but you will never do it. People will lose interest in you because your credibility cannot be trusted. Even your closest friends... they knew that you cannot be trusted so they will never ask something from you anymore.
7. You will lose confidence in your abilities. You know you can do something but you know in yourself that when things gets difficult... you will make excuses to not continue anymore. You always knew from the very beginning that you can't finish something because you will always make excuses to not finish strong.
Jun 24, 2017
HOW TO SAVE MONEY EFFECTIVELY
This is what most people hate... saving money, they just want to spend right away because they feel good while spending but what they don't know is that good feeling never last for so long, it only lasts for a few hours or even just minutes. You need to save money in order to have more freedom in life, you need to make sure your life is in check.
Saving money is not that difficult even if you have a low paying job. You just need to keep some and then don't spend it no matter what. Discipline is needed, you have to make a commitment that you will save money now and save money again in the future once you have the chance. The saving should never stop, it should be your routine. The key here is to fall in love saving money, Once you learn how to enjoy it... saving money will be very easy, you will become rich. Your life will be secured and you will enjoy a lot of options.
1. Don't buy sale items. Most people, once they say a sale item at the mall... they will immediately buy it. The "buy one take one" slogan is very powerful but you must not be persuaded but it so easily. Be smart in spending your money. Keep it and spend it for more important things. Remember that things are only nice when it's new but once it become a little old... you will not even touch it anymore. Don't be fooled by those slogans that will make you believe that you save money by buying it. "sale items", "buy one take one"... these slogans will not make you save money because you are still spending.
2. Starve yourself. Don't eat outside, just eat at your home so you will be able to save more money. Not only the food in your home is cleaner... you will also be amazed at how money you can save once you endure starving and just eating at your home.
3. Don't be jealous. You are force to buy a new cellphone because your office mates have nice cell phones. You are also forced to eat in a fancy restaurant because you saw in faebook that the food in a newly open restaurant is great. You want to try what other people is experiencing. You are so jealous that is why you can't save money. Just appreciate what you have and don't try to spend your money because you also want to have what other people have. Be smart, don't be fooled by your emotions.
4. Open a bank account. Open a bank account and save money as much as you can. Never touch the money you save, just use it when there is an emergency. If you don't want to open a bank account then use a piggy bank instead. Watch yourself money grow, it is fun. Once you see the numbers on your passbook growing or your piggy bank getting heavier... you will become more motivated to save money.
1. Don't buy sale items. Most people, once they say a sale item at the mall... they will immediately buy it. The "buy one take one" slogan is very powerful but you must not be persuaded but it so easily. Be smart in spending your money. Keep it and spend it for more important things. Remember that things are only nice when it's new but once it become a little old... you will not even touch it anymore. Don't be fooled by those slogans that will make you believe that you save money by buying it. "sale items", "buy one take one"... these slogans will not make you save money because you are still spending.
2. Starve yourself. Don't eat outside, just eat at your home so you will be able to save more money. Not only the food in your home is cleaner... you will also be amazed at how money you can save once you endure starving and just eating at your home.
3. Don't be jealous. You are force to buy a new cellphone because your office mates have nice cell phones. You are also forced to eat in a fancy restaurant because you saw in faebook that the food in a newly open restaurant is great. You want to try what other people is experiencing. You are so jealous that is why you can't save money. Just appreciate what you have and don't try to spend your money because you also want to have what other people have. Be smart, don't be fooled by your emotions.
4. Open a bank account. Open a bank account and save money as much as you can. Never touch the money you save, just use it when there is an emergency. If you don't want to open a bank account then use a piggy bank instead. Watch yourself money grow, it is fun. Once you see the numbers on your passbook growing or your piggy bank getting heavier... you will become more motivated to save money.
Jun 23, 2017
DOUBLE THE EFFORT, DOUBLE THE RESULTS
If you can't get the results that you want it means your effort is not enough. It means there is something that you need to do that you're not doing. It means you're a little lazy and you're taking things for granted. Success is not about a little effort there and a little effort here. It is all about consistency, dedication and outworking your work yesterday. You need to double your efforts if you need to because that will make you one step closer to success.
Don't be afraid to exert more effort because for sure it will give you success and progress. What's wrong with getting tired a little bit? There is nothing wrong in working for a few more hours than your usual number of hours of work. You need to find that little advantage and you can gain it by doubling your effort. Double the hustle equals double the money, as simple as that.
A lot of people wants to create results but they are only willing to offer a minimal effort that doesn't even stretch them for a bit. You have to go further, you have to feel a little bit of discomfort in order to put yourself in a better position.
How to double your effort?
1. Associate yourself with people who are working hard too. If you will join the company of lazy people then for sure you're going to become lazy too, you will not be able to develop the habits of an effective person. You will absorb their lazy habits that will lead to failure. You must associate yourself with people who have strong desire to win so that you can copy their energy and habits to win in life. Get rid of the lazy person in your circle because he is not a good influence in your life.
2. Put an evolutionary pressure in yourself. Pressure yourself to work hard, you need to push yourself in order to stop being lazy. Find some crazy thoughts that will scare you and will enable you to take some actions. Thoughts such as you're going to fail or you're going to become broke. The higher the pressure, the more effective you will become.
3. Just focus. Forget about what is going on outside of yourself, just focus on what you're doing and try to bring it to the highest level. Never think about anything else other than the task that is infront of you. If something is bothering you... forget about it and just focus on your work. You don't need to confront anything that is bothering you, take a look at the bigger picture. Focus on what you want and not on what you don't want. If you are focus on what you're doing... you will forget everything that is not important.
4. Always be aware of your thoughts. Your thoughts are playful, it may go anywhere, it will make you do the things that you don't need to do. Always be mindful of the thoughts that are running inside of your head and immediately strike out what is not helping you to move forward. Replace it with more productive thoughts so you can become more productive. Always entertain the healthier thoughts.
Don't be afraid to exert more effort because for sure it will give you success and progress. What's wrong with getting tired a little bit? There is nothing wrong in working for a few more hours than your usual number of hours of work. You need to find that little advantage and you can gain it by doubling your effort. Double the hustle equals double the money, as simple as that.
A lot of people wants to create results but they are only willing to offer a minimal effort that doesn't even stretch them for a bit. You have to go further, you have to feel a little bit of discomfort in order to put yourself in a better position.
How to double your effort?
1. Associate yourself with people who are working hard too. If you will join the company of lazy people then for sure you're going to become lazy too, you will not be able to develop the habits of an effective person. You will absorb their lazy habits that will lead to failure. You must associate yourself with people who have strong desire to win so that you can copy their energy and habits to win in life. Get rid of the lazy person in your circle because he is not a good influence in your life.
2. Put an evolutionary pressure in yourself. Pressure yourself to work hard, you need to push yourself in order to stop being lazy. Find some crazy thoughts that will scare you and will enable you to take some actions. Thoughts such as you're going to fail or you're going to become broke. The higher the pressure, the more effective you will become.
3. Just focus. Forget about what is going on outside of yourself, just focus on what you're doing and try to bring it to the highest level. Never think about anything else other than the task that is infront of you. If something is bothering you... forget about it and just focus on your work. You don't need to confront anything that is bothering you, take a look at the bigger picture. Focus on what you want and not on what you don't want. If you are focus on what you're doing... you will forget everything that is not important.
4. Always be aware of your thoughts. Your thoughts are playful, it may go anywhere, it will make you do the things that you don't need to do. Always be mindful of the thoughts that are running inside of your head and immediately strike out what is not helping you to move forward. Replace it with more productive thoughts so you can become more productive. Always entertain the healthier thoughts.
4 EFFECTIVE WAYS HOW TO FEEL BETTER DURING HARD TIMES
Of course everyone of you wanted to feel better, who doesn't?. It is the number one needs of a human being... how to feel happy and feel good everyday. But it won't happen, you must understand that there is a random thing, event or person that will annoy you one day. There is a sudden experience that will make you feel sad and hopeless. That is life, not everyday you will feel better. You have to accept that life is a roller coaster of emotions. One day you are happy, the other day you are sad. but the key to enjoying life even more is to minimize sadness by trying to take full control of your emotions. There are some things you can do to feel a little bit better when things gets hard.
1. Go to your favorite hobby. Sometimes you just need to take a break, you just need to entertain yourself to feel better again so that you can think clearly, your favorite hobby will make the time fast. You will forget anything bad that you are feeling. Did it ever happen to you when you were just a kid where you are feeling a little bit sick but when you go out and play with your friends, your sickness is miraculously gone? and when you come back at home you're feeling sick again? it is so funny right? Go to your favorite hobby to feel better so you can go back to your normal state again. It will help, just make sure that your hobby will not eat all of your time because it may backfire at you.
2. Look at all the blessings in your life. You're so lucky, you just didn't appreciate some of the blessings in your life. Take a look at all of your properties, the people around you and the position that you are in that a lot of people wants to have. There are millions of reasons to feel good, just look around and you will see that you have everything you want.
3. Move slowly but consistently. Sometimes you just need to move in order to build a new emotion in your system. If you feel so heavy, tired or sick. You will feel better if you are moving, walk slowly if you can, find something that will make your body move and do it slowly. You will find joy while moving, you will feel alive and great so keep moving. Always keep moving forward, find that little progress that you can produce. Don't stay on that rut forever because you will only feel worse. keep moving and find the happiness in every motion that you create.
4. Try to remember the good old days. Find the memory that makes you excited again, find a thought that will put a smile on your face. I am very sure that you have a very happy memory even if you're the maddest man in the world. Happiness is just a state of mind so rewind that memory that makes you smile over and over again so your body will feel better and all of the stress will be gone.
1. Go to your favorite hobby. Sometimes you just need to take a break, you just need to entertain yourself to feel better again so that you can think clearly, your favorite hobby will make the time fast. You will forget anything bad that you are feeling. Did it ever happen to you when you were just a kid where you are feeling a little bit sick but when you go out and play with your friends, your sickness is miraculously gone? and when you come back at home you're feeling sick again? it is so funny right? Go to your favorite hobby to feel better so you can go back to your normal state again. It will help, just make sure that your hobby will not eat all of your time because it may backfire at you.
2. Look at all the blessings in your life. You're so lucky, you just didn't appreciate some of the blessings in your life. Take a look at all of your properties, the people around you and the position that you are in that a lot of people wants to have. There are millions of reasons to feel good, just look around and you will see that you have everything you want.
3. Move slowly but consistently. Sometimes you just need to move in order to build a new emotion in your system. If you feel so heavy, tired or sick. You will feel better if you are moving, walk slowly if you can, find something that will make your body move and do it slowly. You will find joy while moving, you will feel alive and great so keep moving. Always keep moving forward, find that little progress that you can produce. Don't stay on that rut forever because you will only feel worse. keep moving and find the happiness in every motion that you create.
4. Try to remember the good old days. Find the memory that makes you excited again, find a thought that will put a smile on your face. I am very sure that you have a very happy memory even if you're the maddest man in the world. Happiness is just a state of mind so rewind that memory that makes you smile over and over again so your body will feel better and all of the stress will be gone.
AVOID KEEPING SOMETHING HANGING ON THE AIR
Leaving something hanging on the air creates tension, arguments and it makes you unable to progress. Never create a pending work. It is ok to put it tomorrow if you really can't do it and you already work for long hours but if you will just leave it for the sake of being lazy... common, grow up and do the right thing. You will have a slow and heavy life if you are a believer of pending.
Laundry, dishes, small projects, small tasks, just simply calling a friend because he's waiting for your answer and any other pending things that needs to be done right away... you keep on leaving it hanging on the air. Have you notice that the more you put your works on pending, the more it gives you bad feelings? you feel heavy, tired and stressed isn't it?
Just do the first step, it will feel better once you take the first step and finally get the momentum rolling. Because if you will not do the tasks that you are suppose to do.. you will lose credibility, people won't trust you anymore. A lot of people will get mad at you, your life will become a complete mess because deep inside you want to do it but you can't. The habit of being lazy and slow is already embedded into your system that is why you can't even take a small action.
I was scammed by a car painter before, that bum was suppose to do the finishing of my car paint but what he does is he keeps on telling me that he will just do it tomorrow. Then I finally got sick and tired of his promises and go for another service. The later I found out that the car painter was finally got fired from his job. See, that's what will happen if you keep things hanging on the air... your life will become a complete mess, you will have no direction. Your life is full of shit and it seems like you're stuck in mud and you can't get out of it.
You will become happier if you will do it right away. It's like the thorns in your throat will be removed, it's like the big rock that you are carrying at your back will be gone. In other words, the burden will totally be gone once you do the right things.
So create the habits of doing it right away now before you become a lazy ass person. Do it even if you don't feel like doing it. Because that is the only way to get ahead in life... taking massive actions and doing it fast. Trust me, you will never regret it once you did it even if it feels so heavy. You will feel really good once you finish a task that you don't want to start.
Forget about the time, forget about finishing it fast. Just start it and enjoy doing it, that is the key how to become a hardworking person... you just start it and let the momentum carry on.
Laundry, dishes, small projects, small tasks, just simply calling a friend because he's waiting for your answer and any other pending things that needs to be done right away... you keep on leaving it hanging on the air. Have you notice that the more you put your works on pending, the more it gives you bad feelings? you feel heavy, tired and stressed isn't it?
Just do the first step, it will feel better once you take the first step and finally get the momentum rolling. Because if you will not do the tasks that you are suppose to do.. you will lose credibility, people won't trust you anymore. A lot of people will get mad at you, your life will become a complete mess because deep inside you want to do it but you can't. The habit of being lazy and slow is already embedded into your system that is why you can't even take a small action.
I was scammed by a car painter before, that bum was suppose to do the finishing of my car paint but what he does is he keeps on telling me that he will just do it tomorrow. Then I finally got sick and tired of his promises and go for another service. The later I found out that the car painter was finally got fired from his job. See, that's what will happen if you keep things hanging on the air... your life will become a complete mess, you will have no direction. Your life is full of shit and it seems like you're stuck in mud and you can't get out of it.
You will become happier if you will do it right away. It's like the thorns in your throat will be removed, it's like the big rock that you are carrying at your back will be gone. In other words, the burden will totally be gone once you do the right things.
So create the habits of doing it right away now before you become a lazy ass person. Do it even if you don't feel like doing it. Because that is the only way to get ahead in life... taking massive actions and doing it fast. Trust me, you will never regret it once you did it even if it feels so heavy. You will feel really good once you finish a task that you don't want to start.
Forget about the time, forget about finishing it fast. Just start it and enjoy doing it, that is the key how to become a hardworking person... you just start it and let the momentum carry on.
ITS OK TO HAVE SOME BAD HABITS AS LONG AS YOU ARE PROFESSIONAL
You're not perfect and you will never become. I know you have some bad habits that you can't remove in your system even if you know that those habits are not helping you. It's ok if you really don't want to get rid of those habits, just make sure you're a professional so you can support your bad habits.
If you're a drinker, of course you need some money to buy those drinks. But you can only have money of you have a decent job. So if you don't want to give up your drinking then go and look for a job. Make sure it will support your vices. Because if not... your life will suck, you will become very poor, your life will be misaligned. It's ok to drink but make sure you will do your job tomorrow on time, make sure you will still manage to give your best even though you have a hangover. Because it is not your vices that is the issue here, it is can you still do your job despite of not feeling well.
If you have a bad habit of staying awake at night because of doing a lot of useless activities... ok do it but make sure you will still come to the office tomorrow on time, make sure you will still be productive and your boss will not experience a problem from you. You still have to focus on your work and give your best to avoid losing your job because what gives you income will be your backbone for doing all the activities that you wanted to do.
It is better if you can remove those bad habits or at least try to minimize them because you will really have a hard time balancing your work and your bad habits. But some people, despite of having bad habits... they are still good in their work which is a good thing. Sometimes their bad habits fuels them and gives them energy... I don't know how they do it but it looks like they are very effective with their vices.
Professionalism should be your number one focus, you must act like a real professional if you want to stay on the game. You must do all of your responsibilities because if you got kick out of your job or your client back out because of your unwanted behavior... you will have a very hard time in your life. You will not be bale to do the things that you wanted to do. Your actions will be limited and you will be lost.
HOW TO MAINTAIN YOUR PROFESSIONALISM
1. Always be on time. Even if you feel bad, even if your body is not on good condition because of being tired because of your useless activities... still work, still give your best and act like a normal person who is capable of doing something great. Endure the bad feelings because you are the one who created it for yourself.
2. Never complain. Never complain about the tasks that you think is hard. It looks had because you're not feeling well. Just do it until it is done and never try to slow down in work.
3. Be a strong finisher. Always finish fast with high quality of work. Never make an excuse that you didn't sleep well or you have a hangover. It is your choice to do your bad habits so you have the price to pay. Finish strong and amaze the people around you.
If you're a drinker, of course you need some money to buy those drinks. But you can only have money of you have a decent job. So if you don't want to give up your drinking then go and look for a job. Make sure it will support your vices. Because if not... your life will suck, you will become very poor, your life will be misaligned. It's ok to drink but make sure you will do your job tomorrow on time, make sure you will still manage to give your best even though you have a hangover. Because it is not your vices that is the issue here, it is can you still do your job despite of not feeling well.
If you have a bad habit of staying awake at night because of doing a lot of useless activities... ok do it but make sure you will still come to the office tomorrow on time, make sure you will still be productive and your boss will not experience a problem from you. You still have to focus on your work and give your best to avoid losing your job because what gives you income will be your backbone for doing all the activities that you wanted to do.
It is better if you can remove those bad habits or at least try to minimize them because you will really have a hard time balancing your work and your bad habits. But some people, despite of having bad habits... they are still good in their work which is a good thing. Sometimes their bad habits fuels them and gives them energy... I don't know how they do it but it looks like they are very effective with their vices.
Professionalism should be your number one focus, you must act like a real professional if you want to stay on the game. You must do all of your responsibilities because if you got kick out of your job or your client back out because of your unwanted behavior... you will have a very hard time in your life. You will not be bale to do the things that you wanted to do. Your actions will be limited and you will be lost.
HOW TO MAINTAIN YOUR PROFESSIONALISM
1. Always be on time. Even if you feel bad, even if your body is not on good condition because of being tired because of your useless activities... still work, still give your best and act like a normal person who is capable of doing something great. Endure the bad feelings because you are the one who created it for yourself.
2. Never complain. Never complain about the tasks that you think is hard. It looks had because you're not feeling well. Just do it until it is done and never try to slow down in work.
3. Be a strong finisher. Always finish fast with high quality of work. Never make an excuse that you didn't sleep well or you have a hangover. It is your choice to do your bad habits so you have the price to pay. Finish strong and amaze the people around you.
Jun 22, 2017
TOP 7 MOTIVATORS OF ALL TIME (NO SPECIFIC ORDER)
There are lot of motivators out there, they will tell you what to do, some are fraud, some just want to become popular or get some money. But a real motivator is not someone that can force you to move but someone who will show you the reality and another dimension in life. He will give you some inputs that you can use and is very effective. Anyway, enough of my shitty intro, I just wanted to move and finish this article, but these people are really good and will give you some advises or information that you can use in your life. Just search them in you tube or something and you will see their names.
RSD (Real social Dynamics) - Talks about reality, fighting your emotions, tricking your brain, speaks the truth, their main focus is to simply make yourself move and stop being lazy. They don't care about getting rejected, all they want is for you to take actions that will put you in a better position. Sometimes they use harsh words but it will wake you up. They don't care about making mistakes, they want you to become confident and have the authority over your fears. They also give dating advise. They were so unique and can really make you feel guilty about not taking actions.
Tony Robins - Brain programming, peak state, massive action. He is one of the most successful motivators in the world. He is a millionaire, he also have great materials and references. He can inspire you. He is the real deal because he is rich, successful and known by many. His voice alone can make you believe, he has a very nice tone that is full of boldness and deepness.
Jim Rohn - Law of attraction, law of averages, has biblical touch, he is funny too. He mix spirituality with success. He is also very successful that is why a lot of people believe him, he has the life to back up all of his teachings. Tony Robins know him well, this guy can make you take actions and reflect on your life.
Abraham Hicks - Easeness and flow, not trying hard, focus. She is funny, for other people who can't get what she's saying... she will look weird but it is proven that her words are effective and can be use in your daily life. She is so unique, she talks about vortex and momentum a lot which is really true if you will apply them in your life .
Elliot Hulse - More of your body, strength, mental toughness. He knows all the solutions in life, he will even answer your questions if he accidentally picked it in the section comment on his you tube channel. He is very entertaining and can inspire you too. He is one of the modern motivators that can give you wonderful advises in life.
Eric Thomas - Talks about pain, sacrifice and dedication. He is so energetic, he has a lot of powerful words that was not heard before. He is so charismatic and has a lot of powerful quotes, listen to him and you will see how weak you are.
Les Brown - He has a very nice voice, very powerful motivator, talks about his experiences in life. He is so successful too, if you listen to him once, you will never say that it is the last.
RSD (Real social Dynamics) - Talks about reality, fighting your emotions, tricking your brain, speaks the truth, their main focus is to simply make yourself move and stop being lazy. They don't care about getting rejected, all they want is for you to take actions that will put you in a better position. Sometimes they use harsh words but it will wake you up. They don't care about making mistakes, they want you to become confident and have the authority over your fears. They also give dating advise. They were so unique and can really make you feel guilty about not taking actions.
Tony Robins - Brain programming, peak state, massive action. He is one of the most successful motivators in the world. He is a millionaire, he also have great materials and references. He can inspire you. He is the real deal because he is rich, successful and known by many. His voice alone can make you believe, he has a very nice tone that is full of boldness and deepness.
Jim Rohn - Law of attraction, law of averages, has biblical touch, he is funny too. He mix spirituality with success. He is also very successful that is why a lot of people believe him, he has the life to back up all of his teachings. Tony Robins know him well, this guy can make you take actions and reflect on your life.
Abraham Hicks - Easeness and flow, not trying hard, focus. She is funny, for other people who can't get what she's saying... she will look weird but it is proven that her words are effective and can be use in your daily life. She is so unique, she talks about vortex and momentum a lot which is really true if you will apply them in your life .
Elliot Hulse - More of your body, strength, mental toughness. He knows all the solutions in life, he will even answer your questions if he accidentally picked it in the section comment on his you tube channel. He is very entertaining and can inspire you too. He is one of the modern motivators that can give you wonderful advises in life.
Eric Thomas - Talks about pain, sacrifice and dedication. He is so energetic, he has a lot of powerful words that was not heard before. He is so charismatic and has a lot of powerful quotes, listen to him and you will see how weak you are.
Les Brown - He has a very nice voice, very powerful motivator, talks about his experiences in life. He is so successful too, if you listen to him once, you will never say that it is the last.
DON'T BE HARSH TO SOMEONE, YOU DON'T KNOW HOW HE FEELS
You don't know how someone feels, you do not know what is holding him back, you don't know how difficult it is for him to make the first move, you don't know the real story so don't be harsh on him if he can't move. It's his life, he will be the one to suffer if he keep on acting like a scared puppy. And one more thing, you have your own life so just focus on your life and forget about the problems of others.
If you keep on pushing someone to move and arrange his life, the tendency is that person will not act. He will be scared even more, he might even shit on his pants. He is already scared so don't force him to do it, let him do it naturally. What if you're the one on his position, how will you feel? Let the guy be scared for his own good. Let him destroy his own life because of not taking actions, you don't know how he feels, you don't know how terribly scared he is so don't judge him. There is nothing you can do to motivate him. The more you push someone, the more he will not follow you.
Sometimes you want to make someone's life better by giving him the advise that you think is right for him, what you don't know is you are only making life more difficult for him. He is getting confused even more, he is feeling the pressure, don't blame the guy if he has a weak guts. All you can do is let him be what he wanted to be, after all he owns his life, he knows what is best for him.
Any man knows what he needs to do, he just don't want it because he is so lazy, scared and thinking too much. A man who can't take actions is suffering from "wishing I could restart my life" syndrome. He is full of regrets, he is thinking about past or maybe he want to fix his life right away but he knew it won't happen, he wants fast fix too without undergoing any kind of process that is why he is stuck in a moment and he can't get out of it.
The best thing to do is just give the person who is so scared the freedom that he needs. Let him make decisions on his own because he is peeing on his pants everytime he feels that he needs to take some action. He is so scared to death, he may have a heat attack right now so let him breathe some air. After all, he is the one who puts his life into that ugly position so let him solve it on his own.
There are some instances where you need to get hard to someone so that you can force him to take actions but sometimes it also won't work. You can't teach a scared dog some new tricks, just let him be because if he really wants to change his life then he will do something about it.
You also have your own problems so it is best to just focus on your own life and do what is best for you. Stop thinking about other people's situation because your problem will only doubled. It is better to inspire him naturally by being successful, it is better if you will wait for him to ask some help from you but if not... don't offer because he will only get annoyed, he may even get mad at you even if your concern is to help him.
If you keep on pushing someone to move and arrange his life, the tendency is that person will not act. He will be scared even more, he might even shit on his pants. He is already scared so don't force him to do it, let him do it naturally. What if you're the one on his position, how will you feel? Let the guy be scared for his own good. Let him destroy his own life because of not taking actions, you don't know how he feels, you don't know how terribly scared he is so don't judge him. There is nothing you can do to motivate him. The more you push someone, the more he will not follow you.
Sometimes you want to make someone's life better by giving him the advise that you think is right for him, what you don't know is you are only making life more difficult for him. He is getting confused even more, he is feeling the pressure, don't blame the guy if he has a weak guts. All you can do is let him be what he wanted to be, after all he owns his life, he knows what is best for him.
Any man knows what he needs to do, he just don't want it because he is so lazy, scared and thinking too much. A man who can't take actions is suffering from "wishing I could restart my life" syndrome. He is full of regrets, he is thinking about past or maybe he want to fix his life right away but he knew it won't happen, he wants fast fix too without undergoing any kind of process that is why he is stuck in a moment and he can't get out of it.
The best thing to do is just give the person who is so scared the freedom that he needs. Let him make decisions on his own because he is peeing on his pants everytime he feels that he needs to take some action. He is so scared to death, he may have a heat attack right now so let him breathe some air. After all, he is the one who puts his life into that ugly position so let him solve it on his own.
There are some instances where you need to get hard to someone so that you can force him to take actions but sometimes it also won't work. You can't teach a scared dog some new tricks, just let him be because if he really wants to change his life then he will do something about it.
You also have your own problems so it is best to just focus on your own life and do what is best for you. Stop thinking about other people's situation because your problem will only doubled. It is better to inspire him naturally by being successful, it is better if you will wait for him to ask some help from you but if not... don't offer because he will only get annoyed, he may even get mad at you even if your concern is to help him.
IT'S BAD WHEN IT'S AFFECTING YOU
Some people will tell you that taking a bath after exhausting yourself is bad. I don't know if it is true, some people say it's bad, some people say it's not. But the truth is... it is only bad if it is affecting you. If it is not hurting you then it is not bad for you. Sometimes you have to see it for yourself, sometimes you have to take the risk in order to know something because at the end of the day... you will never know unless you try.
Some people say that it is useless to keep going if there are no results that are showing. But how you will know if you will not keep going? How will you know if you will not go to the extreme? sometimes the result will only show at the last try, at the deepest place, at the most frustrating day. You have to keep trying because it is not bad if it is not affecting you, if you're life is still in good place, if you can still eat 2 or three times a day, if you can still find that hope to keep going... you need to pursue that dream, it is only bad if it is killing you but if it is not... then you have to keep continue doing it.
A lot of people were very good in judging a situation, a lot of people knows what is best for you but they don't know what is best for themselves. If you want to try something because you need to try it for some reason... try it. Don't ever think about the traditional information that will stop you from doing what you need to do. You will only know that it is bad if it hurts you in some ways. But if you feel like it will not affect you and your life will become better after trying it then try it. don't hesitate, don't think about anything else. You will only know it after trying it so go ahead and do what you need to do.
The truth is... if it is bad to other people it doesn't mean that it is going to be bad for you either because your life is different from them. Your body, mind and energy is unique. What works for you might not work for them vice versa.
So go ahead and try, follow your instincts, follow your heart that is telling you to do it. There is no harm in trying unless you're harmed. There are lot of mysteries that you need to solve, you need to conquer your fear if you want to experience life even more.
Have the courage to try it but make sure that you will not get disappointed if you didn't like the results. The key here is prepare yourself to not get disappointed once you try something risky. It's a 50/50 ball game, nobody really knows what will happen unless you push yourself and take chances.
And even if your decision is wrong... you will not regret it because you try and you didn't take things for granted, you did your best to get what you want and you didn't hold back.
COLLECT THOSE MINUTES
Time is your most valuable tool if you want to become successful. You cannot buy time, all you can do is use it and if you will not use it the right way... you will rush in the end, you will have regrets, you will not see what is possible in your life. In other words, you will ran out of time and you will become a failure.
Collect those minutes of chatting with your fake friend in facebook and use it for a more productive activity. Collect those minutes you use in stalking somebody in social media and use it to make your life better. It is just a matter of using your time the right way and putting yourself in an activity that has more benefits in the future. Discipline is the key to success, not talent, not connections or luck. If you can collect the minutes that you wasted and use it to make your life better then you will succeed.
The power of little by little is so strong. You think you're just wasting a few minutes now, you think that it is ok to just relax a little bit and do something stupid but if you will sum up those minutes that you've wasted.. you will learn that it's unacceptable, you will learn that if you only use it for something productive then maybe you're a little bit successful now.
I'm not saying that totally forget everything and become a weirdo focusing on success. The point here is you should minimize the time wasting activities that you are engaging with if you really want to achieved an improvement. It's hard but once you see the small benefits that it is bringing into your life... you will love it, you will become obsess with the little progress that you are making.
DO A TEN DAY EXPERIMENT.
For at least ten days, become the most productive that you can ever be, everything that you do... it should have an equivalent success that is waiting in the future. Don't do something stupid or time wasting acts that only gives you temporary pleasure but misery in the future. During the ten day experiment, give our best, push yourself. That is the starting point where you build your habits and forge some momentum that will make you attract success. During that time span, you will discipline yourself like you never did before, endure all the boredom and misery that changing yourself gives to you. While doing something, never stop it until you're done, build the mental toughness that will make you refrain from being tempted to do something useless.
After that ten day experiment, you will notice a different change in your life, you will feel better, you will feel stronger, smarter and confident. It is simply because you are using your life the right way, you are extending your limitations and you keep expanding like never before. 10 days is very short, you can do it because time is so fast, you better start now and just simply enjoy the process.
Collect those minutes of chatting with your fake friend in facebook and use it for a more productive activity. Collect those minutes you use in stalking somebody in social media and use it to make your life better. It is just a matter of using your time the right way and putting yourself in an activity that has more benefits in the future. Discipline is the key to success, not talent, not connections or luck. If you can collect the minutes that you wasted and use it to make your life better then you will succeed.
The power of little by little is so strong. You think you're just wasting a few minutes now, you think that it is ok to just relax a little bit and do something stupid but if you will sum up those minutes that you've wasted.. you will learn that it's unacceptable, you will learn that if you only use it for something productive then maybe you're a little bit successful now.
I'm not saying that totally forget everything and become a weirdo focusing on success. The point here is you should minimize the time wasting activities that you are engaging with if you really want to achieved an improvement. It's hard but once you see the small benefits that it is bringing into your life... you will love it, you will become obsess with the little progress that you are making.
DO A TEN DAY EXPERIMENT.
For at least ten days, become the most productive that you can ever be, everything that you do... it should have an equivalent success that is waiting in the future. Don't do something stupid or time wasting acts that only gives you temporary pleasure but misery in the future. During the ten day experiment, give our best, push yourself. That is the starting point where you build your habits and forge some momentum that will make you attract success. During that time span, you will discipline yourself like you never did before, endure all the boredom and misery that changing yourself gives to you. While doing something, never stop it until you're done, build the mental toughness that will make you refrain from being tempted to do something useless.
After that ten day experiment, you will notice a different change in your life, you will feel better, you will feel stronger, smarter and confident. It is simply because you are using your life the right way, you are extending your limitations and you keep expanding like never before. 10 days is very short, you can do it because time is so fast, you better start now and just simply enjoy the process.
IT'S NOT HARD YOU'RE JUST PROGRAM THAT WAY
Some people are programmed the right way that is why they can do things easily, they make the hard things looks easy as 1 2 3. They can work things out, they can find solutions to any problems. Because they were programmed that way, they have the habits, they have the mindset that makes them successful at anything.
Some people are very good in sports because they came from a sports family, their parents trained them to become an athlete, they were supported by their parents. It is already on their blood, it is their life that is why they are so good. They are program that way, their beliefs were already strengthen since they were young, their skills were already sharpen since day one, their environment is basically about athletics that is why they were so good and everything looks easy for them.
So if you find yourself having a difficulty in something and you're so jealous at other because they can do it easily effortlessly without sweating... don't feel sad because you're just not programmed that way. You are programmed differently, you can do other things easily, there is a skill that is matched with your DNA.
But don't worry because it is not late for you, you can also program your DNA the way you want it to be programmed. You can practice, you can work hard in anything that you want to be good at. You can visualize and work for it everyday until you become great at it. Everything that is hard in the beginning will look easy in the end if you are consistent enough and serious at your work. It is just a matter of dedication and relentlessness. The more you focus on something, the more you become better at it.
Don't be scared to try, even if you are overwhelmed,... still try it, try and try until become a little bit better. Getting better is all about practice and pushing yourself a little bit than yesterday. You will not notice that you are getting better because it is really a slow process, you will notice it in the long run.
So forget about how good other people were, forget about if you're behind and you're on the last line. It's not how you start, it's how you finish. Start fast and finish strong. You better make yourself better now because every second counts, every effort will make a huge contribution to your success.
HOW TO PROGRAM YOURSELF?
1. Think about what you wanted to be and take massive actions to become it.
2. Consistency and patience. You need to endure a lot of tough challenges and stressful situations while you're on the process of programming yourself. Again, forget if it is hard, just do it and never care about what may happen next.
3. Always be closer to what you want, you need to vibrate with the same energy of your dreams.
4. Take risks, always find a way how to level up, even if it is just a small progress... take it.
Some people are very good in sports because they came from a sports family, their parents trained them to become an athlete, they were supported by their parents. It is already on their blood, it is their life that is why they are so good. They are program that way, their beliefs were already strengthen since they were young, their skills were already sharpen since day one, their environment is basically about athletics that is why they were so good and everything looks easy for them.
So if you find yourself having a difficulty in something and you're so jealous at other because they can do it easily effortlessly without sweating... don't feel sad because you're just not programmed that way. You are programmed differently, you can do other things easily, there is a skill that is matched with your DNA.
But don't worry because it is not late for you, you can also program your DNA the way you want it to be programmed. You can practice, you can work hard in anything that you want to be good at. You can visualize and work for it everyday until you become great at it. Everything that is hard in the beginning will look easy in the end if you are consistent enough and serious at your work. It is just a matter of dedication and relentlessness. The more you focus on something, the more you become better at it.
Don't be scared to try, even if you are overwhelmed,... still try it, try and try until become a little bit better. Getting better is all about practice and pushing yourself a little bit than yesterday. You will not notice that you are getting better because it is really a slow process, you will notice it in the long run.
So forget about how good other people were, forget about if you're behind and you're on the last line. It's not how you start, it's how you finish. Start fast and finish strong. You better make yourself better now because every second counts, every effort will make a huge contribution to your success.
HOW TO PROGRAM YOURSELF?
1. Think about what you wanted to be and take massive actions to become it.
2. Consistency and patience. You need to endure a lot of tough challenges and stressful situations while you're on the process of programming yourself. Again, forget if it is hard, just do it and never care about what may happen next.
3. Always be closer to what you want, you need to vibrate with the same energy of your dreams.
4. Take risks, always find a way how to level up, even if it is just a small progress... take it.
Jun 21, 2017
NEVER TRY TO EQUAL SOMEONE'S SUCCESS TRY TO BE THE RECORD BREAKER
CHOOSE FREEDOM OVER COMFORT
What do you want comfort or freedom? you cannot choose both because they contradict one another. You know why? because you can only achieve freedom by being uncomfortable. Experiencing a lot of discomfort is the price you pay by choosing freedom. Poor people always gets comfortable everyday, I don't know why they are always complaining but the truth is they are so comfortable drinking everyday, watching TV for 12-16 hours, doing stupid stuffs that doesn't contribute to their growth yet they still manage to complain. They didn't even experience some pressure in life because they were so comfortable.
And when they don't have money anymore... they will borrow it from someone else like their boss or a friend, and that makes them lose their own freedom, they were tied up with something that makes their cycle repeat over and over again. That is why they can't leave their shitty jobs even if they don't like it, their job gives them freedom, it gives them some money to give them comfort.
But if you will choose freedom, a freedom of having no boss, having no strict schedule to follow then you have to get uncomfortable, you have to establish your own business or empire that will give you so much freedom and flexibility. Yes, it is uncomfortable because you don't know when will the money come, you don't know when will it blossom but the good thing about it is... no one can command you, no one can force you to do things that you don't like. You can take a vacation anytime you want to.
Look at a bench player in some popular sports... he is not having the freedom to play but he is so comfortable sitting on the bench, he will not experience any pressure in life because he is just a spectator, no one will blame because he is not even playing. He is so comfortable getting his monthly salary but he doesn't have the freedom to play, his coach will only use him if he is in a good mood, he might even be traded anytime the president of the team wants to. What a poor life, comfortable but not being treated right.
So if you want freedom... work hard, be the best that you can be so people will treat you right. always choose freedom because you can make the decision that you want, no one will decide things for you. You can take matters into your own hands. No one can tell you what to do. But of course, you know the price to pay to achieve freedom, it's a lot of hardwork and sacrifice, it's a lot of stressful situations that will turn into beauty in the end. So don't be afraid to get uncomfortable, don't be afraid to get tired and establish your own business or empire. Having freedom is what a lot of people wants to get but they are not willing to work for it. The formula is very simple... work super hard and become better until people can't deny you anymore.
And when they don't have money anymore... they will borrow it from someone else like their boss or a friend, and that makes them lose their own freedom, they were tied up with something that makes their cycle repeat over and over again. That is why they can't leave their shitty jobs even if they don't like it, their job gives them freedom, it gives them some money to give them comfort.
But if you will choose freedom, a freedom of having no boss, having no strict schedule to follow then you have to get uncomfortable, you have to establish your own business or empire that will give you so much freedom and flexibility. Yes, it is uncomfortable because you don't know when will the money come, you don't know when will it blossom but the good thing about it is... no one can command you, no one can force you to do things that you don't like. You can take a vacation anytime you want to.
Look at a bench player in some popular sports... he is not having the freedom to play but he is so comfortable sitting on the bench, he will not experience any pressure in life because he is just a spectator, no one will blame because he is not even playing. He is so comfortable getting his monthly salary but he doesn't have the freedom to play, his coach will only use him if he is in a good mood, he might even be traded anytime the president of the team wants to. What a poor life, comfortable but not being treated right.
So if you want freedom... work hard, be the best that you can be so people will treat you right. always choose freedom because you can make the decision that you want, no one will decide things for you. You can take matters into your own hands. No one can tell you what to do. But of course, you know the price to pay to achieve freedom, it's a lot of hardwork and sacrifice, it's a lot of stressful situations that will turn into beauty in the end. So don't be afraid to get uncomfortable, don't be afraid to get tired and establish your own business or empire. Having freedom is what a lot of people wants to get but they are not willing to work for it. The formula is very simple... work super hard and become better until people can't deny you anymore.
REDEFINE YOUR LIFE
If you want a new life then you should redefine your life. Change they way you look at your life, change your behaviors, perceptions, habits and initial thoughts about different things.
If change can't be done then you should completely wash away your past, summon a different perspective and different type of energy that you haven't experience from the past. It's all about reprogramming your mind and traveling a different path. If what you're doing in the past is not working, if you're so frustrated in your life then it is time to redefine your life. You can change the people in your circle if you want to especially if they are not helping you out to become a better person, you can change job, change home, you can change everything. Your life will change if you change 90 percent of it, that includes behaviors, routines, thoughts and the people in your circle.
Because if you will not do it now then when? when will you redefine your life and experience the better things? time is running out, you thought that you can change next month or next year huh? how many times you told yourself that lie before?
Become the director of your life, don't let others direct it for you because you will not like the result. You have the power to change, you can always make something happen. You just don't have the work ethic and tenacity yet to change but you can have those qualities if you are willing to commit.
Do some harder and more exciting things, push yourself, become the best that you can be. You can be someone else, someone who is a winner and succeeding in life. It is just a matter of wanting it so bad that you don't consider any adversity as a problem anymore. You consider everything as a challenge that you must overcome in order to reach another level.
If your past is bad.. forget it, what matters is today, what matters is what you're doing today. You can always make a dramatic change in your life, forget everything bad that happened to you, forget your mistakes and shortcomings.
CHANGE YOUR SELF IMAGE
Project a self image that you really want in your life and never change it. Live with it forever, don't be afraid of what people say because they will always have something to say no matter what. Even if you're the kindest person in the world... they will always say something nasty about you. Just live yourself image and let the transformation happen.
MAKE A ROUTINE THAT WILL BRING YOU TO ANOTHER LEVEL
Be disciplined, you know what habits and actions that will make you successful, you know what type of pace and cycle that will give you the best things in life. If you wanted to change you must have rituals and habits that will at least improve your current situation, you can make it happen, discover the flow, redefine your life now. It is only difficult in the beginning, once you repeated it a lot of times... things will become very easy.
If change can't be done then you should completely wash away your past, summon a different perspective and different type of energy that you haven't experience from the past. It's all about reprogramming your mind and traveling a different path. If what you're doing in the past is not working, if you're so frustrated in your life then it is time to redefine your life. You can change the people in your circle if you want to especially if they are not helping you out to become a better person, you can change job, change home, you can change everything. Your life will change if you change 90 percent of it, that includes behaviors, routines, thoughts and the people in your circle.
Because if you will not do it now then when? when will you redefine your life and experience the better things? time is running out, you thought that you can change next month or next year huh? how many times you told yourself that lie before?
Become the director of your life, don't let others direct it for you because you will not like the result. You have the power to change, you can always make something happen. You just don't have the work ethic and tenacity yet to change but you can have those qualities if you are willing to commit.
Do some harder and more exciting things, push yourself, become the best that you can be. You can be someone else, someone who is a winner and succeeding in life. It is just a matter of wanting it so bad that you don't consider any adversity as a problem anymore. You consider everything as a challenge that you must overcome in order to reach another level.
If your past is bad.. forget it, what matters is today, what matters is what you're doing today. You can always make a dramatic change in your life, forget everything bad that happened to you, forget your mistakes and shortcomings.
CHANGE YOUR SELF IMAGE
Project a self image that you really want in your life and never change it. Live with it forever, don't be afraid of what people say because they will always have something to say no matter what. Even if you're the kindest person in the world... they will always say something nasty about you. Just live yourself image and let the transformation happen.
MAKE A ROUTINE THAT WILL BRING YOU TO ANOTHER LEVEL
Be disciplined, you know what habits and actions that will make you successful, you know what type of pace and cycle that will give you the best things in life. If you wanted to change you must have rituals and habits that will at least improve your current situation, you can make it happen, discover the flow, redefine your life now. It is only difficult in the beginning, once you repeated it a lot of times... things will become very easy.
HOW TO WEATHER THE STORM
Weathering the storm is all about waiting, sometimes you don't have to do anything, you just need to wait for the problems to go away by itself. But of course it is much better if you will take positive actions, the storm will go away faster if you will take actions that will put you in a better position.
A lot of people quit because they are not patient, they think that the problems will stay there forever, the truth is... no problem can destroy you if you don't let it to. Just endure it, enjoy it if you can and just laugh at life. Tough times never last, tough people do. Make solutions and take actions. Problems are there to strengthen you and not to weaken you.
Stay positive and keep moving forward, life is a roller coaster. It will surprise you, it is full of randomness and if you don't have the ability to adapt... you're in big trouble, you will lose your power and you will be lost.
Don't let emotions ruin you, just feel it but don't dwell on it too much and make it a big deal. It will pass, any storm in your life will pass, anyone can survive any problem if he is not willing to give up. A problem may it be small or big is still only a problem, don't make it a big deal, it is part of your life. You need to process the pain and do something about it, you can even just ignore it if you like to.
Don't try to escape the storm, just let it pass, don't try to force it to go away because the more you resist the more it will persist. Just find the little things that will make you appreciate life even more. Keep entertaining yourself with small activities that will keep your mind in check. Guard your mind, don't let too much negative thoughts enter it because you might go crazy. Don't dwell on dramas, don't look for sympathy. Just maintain a strong image and be mentally tough for yourself and for other people that is counting on you.
It's ok to get sad, it's normal but never let your problem destroy you and put you in a dark room that you can't escape. Destroy your problems by simply feeling it and reminding yourself that it will pass in just a matter of time. Stay hopeful, stay active.
Sometimes even if your problem is there, if you don't feel anything about it anymore... it's like it's gone. Have you ever seen someone who has a big problem but can still afford to smile? maybe they don't feel about it anymore, that makes it very easy for them to forget their problems.
If you are always positive and you know that any storm in life is just normal... you can cope up easily, you can move on so fast and you can let the better things in life visit your door again.
A lot of people quit because they are not patient, they think that the problems will stay there forever, the truth is... no problem can destroy you if you don't let it to. Just endure it, enjoy it if you can and just laugh at life. Tough times never last, tough people do. Make solutions and take actions. Problems are there to strengthen you and not to weaken you.
Stay positive and keep moving forward, life is a roller coaster. It will surprise you, it is full of randomness and if you don't have the ability to adapt... you're in big trouble, you will lose your power and you will be lost.
Don't let emotions ruin you, just feel it but don't dwell on it too much and make it a big deal. It will pass, any storm in your life will pass, anyone can survive any problem if he is not willing to give up. A problem may it be small or big is still only a problem, don't make it a big deal, it is part of your life. You need to process the pain and do something about it, you can even just ignore it if you like to.
Don't try to escape the storm, just let it pass, don't try to force it to go away because the more you resist the more it will persist. Just find the little things that will make you appreciate life even more. Keep entertaining yourself with small activities that will keep your mind in check. Guard your mind, don't let too much negative thoughts enter it because you might go crazy. Don't dwell on dramas, don't look for sympathy. Just maintain a strong image and be mentally tough for yourself and for other people that is counting on you.
It's ok to get sad, it's normal but never let your problem destroy you and put you in a dark room that you can't escape. Destroy your problems by simply feeling it and reminding yourself that it will pass in just a matter of time. Stay hopeful, stay active.
Sometimes even if your problem is there, if you don't feel anything about it anymore... it's like it's gone. Have you ever seen someone who has a big problem but can still afford to smile? maybe they don't feel about it anymore, that makes it very easy for them to forget their problems.
If you are always positive and you know that any storm in life is just normal... you can cope up easily, you can move on so fast and you can let the better things in life visit your door again.
WATCH YOUR WORK ONLY
If you want to have a very fast progress in life, if you want to make sure that success will come into your life... watch your work only. Don't watch the work of other people, don't watch the work of celebrities or any other popular personalities... watch your work only. You are your own idol, you are your own spectator. That is what most successful people do... they are only concern about their work and progress. They never bother looking at other people's business. Because that is very time consuming, if you will watch the most awaited game, grand finals of american idol, the State of the nation address of your president, the latest gossips etc. then you will lose your focus. That time you spent watching other people's lives is insane, you are wasting a lot of time that is why your progress is very slow.
It is ok to watch some TV but not for so long, just watch to relax but don't make it a hobby. Your focus should be at least 90% about your life and growth, don't use your other time watching other people's work because it will not even give you something. If you can earn from doing it then why not? but you can't so stop doing it.
Living life to the fullest is about focusing on yourself, improvement and growth. It is about celebrating your skills and making it grow as much as you can. It is about pursuing goals and sticking to it no matter what... that is how you should live your life. Because your time is limited, if you will waste your time a lot then you will have a lot of regrets in the end. You will never even see your prime, when you grow old, you will think about the time you wasted and you will wish that you can bring it back but it will never happen.
IT IS ONLY BORING IN THE BEGINNING
Of course it is hard to leave your old habits and focus mainly on your life, it is very boring in the beginning. You might even last for only 1 or two hours straight and you would love to check other people's lives again. You would love to watch sports, showbiz, tv series, open the facebook to gather the latest trend etc. There is nothing wrong with that but if you can limit those useless activities as much as possible then you will have greater results in life. It is only boring in the beginning, once you find the joy in anything that you do and you feel the progress... you will be addicted to your own activities and you will not care about other people anymore.
Look at the most successful people in the world... they only care about their work, they don't know any other activities that is not related with their journey. So if you want to become successful, focus on you work, watch your work and watch it grow.
It is ok to watch some TV but not for so long, just watch to relax but don't make it a hobby. Your focus should be at least 90% about your life and growth, don't use your other time watching other people's work because it will not even give you something. If you can earn from doing it then why not? but you can't so stop doing it.
Living life to the fullest is about focusing on yourself, improvement and growth. It is about celebrating your skills and making it grow as much as you can. It is about pursuing goals and sticking to it no matter what... that is how you should live your life. Because your time is limited, if you will waste your time a lot then you will have a lot of regrets in the end. You will never even see your prime, when you grow old, you will think about the time you wasted and you will wish that you can bring it back but it will never happen.
IT IS ONLY BORING IN THE BEGINNING
Of course it is hard to leave your old habits and focus mainly on your life, it is very boring in the beginning. You might even last for only 1 or two hours straight and you would love to check other people's lives again. You would love to watch sports, showbiz, tv series, open the facebook to gather the latest trend etc. There is nothing wrong with that but if you can limit those useless activities as much as possible then you will have greater results in life. It is only boring in the beginning, once you find the joy in anything that you do and you feel the progress... you will be addicted to your own activities and you will not care about other people anymore.
Look at the most successful people in the world... they only care about their work, they don't know any other activities that is not related with their journey. So if you want to become successful, focus on you work, watch your work and watch it grow.
9 WAYS TO KILL DEPRESSION
1. Stay away from alcohol, food or drugs. Instant pleasures won't solve your depression, they will only worsen it. Food will make you fatter that will make your more feel bad about yourself, alcohol and drugs will only numb the pain but it will give you a lot of side effects. It will ruined your mind, you will be attracted to wrong direction which will only make your problems bigger. Those things will only make your forget your problem for a little time but it will make you depressed even more. Look at those celebrities who use drugs and alcohol as a problem solver... they freak out and they can't come back to their old life anymore.
2. Action. Just take action, take micro steps to entertain yourself and forget your problem. Any positive action that will give benefits will make you forget your problem easily. Taking action will make your heal fast because it will make your time faster, if you are so busy... you will forget your problems and you will be able to recover faster than expected.
3. Exercise. Just run or walk or jog. If you are sweating you will feel good, the level of depression will go down. You will feel lighter, everytime you push yourself and sweat... good feelings will come out, try it to see for yourself. Exercise is the best medication to any kind of pain emotionally and physically.
4. Meditation. Just breathe and meditate, basic meditation is mainly focusing on your breathing. Inhale and exhale, this will clear your mind from negativity. You will feel better, relaxed and sometimes you will even appreciate life even more. You will appreciate that breathing alone is a blessing.
5. Talk about it to the closest people in your life but not a lot. It is better if you will be able to express yourself and let your feelings out. Tell it to the closest people in your life, they will listen and might give you some good advise that you can use. But don't talk to it a lot because they might get annoyed at you. Just talk about it for just once or twice, release it and move on.
6. Find something where you can grow. It can be anything that you can place your focus. It can be arts, sports, business, etc. Find something that will make you forget your past. Be good at it, become the best so you will feel good about yourself and you will see your real value. Pick something and use your time and energy to get better each day.
7. Join a contest that requires endurance. You can channel your anger into contests like marathon, triathlon, survivor, body building or anything that requires persistence. This will make you mentally stronger. You will feel how strong you are, you will see that you can defeat any challenges in life, you will discover your real power. It will also allow you to forget the problems you have because you are so focused on the challenges. Stay competitive, you will find happiness while competing.
8. Strengthen your spirituality. Go to your religion, pray. It doesn't matter what kind of believe you have, you should feed your spiritual energy so you will never feel alone and your hope will never die.
9. Make yourself good looking. Ugliness can strengthen your depression so if you are not taking care of yourself and people are noticing it.. you will become depressed even more. The more you look at the mirror and you don't like what you are seeing... you will become more emotionally hurt. You will feel bad about yourself, your confidence will go down. Groom yourself, make yourself more appealing so that you will feel good about yourself and it will be easier for you to forget your problem. There are some people who have problems but still manage to take care their looks.
2. Action. Just take action, take micro steps to entertain yourself and forget your problem. Any positive action that will give benefits will make you forget your problem easily. Taking action will make your heal fast because it will make your time faster, if you are so busy... you will forget your problems and you will be able to recover faster than expected.
3. Exercise. Just run or walk or jog. If you are sweating you will feel good, the level of depression will go down. You will feel lighter, everytime you push yourself and sweat... good feelings will come out, try it to see for yourself. Exercise is the best medication to any kind of pain emotionally and physically.
4. Meditation. Just breathe and meditate, basic meditation is mainly focusing on your breathing. Inhale and exhale, this will clear your mind from negativity. You will feel better, relaxed and sometimes you will even appreciate life even more. You will appreciate that breathing alone is a blessing.
5. Talk about it to the closest people in your life but not a lot. It is better if you will be able to express yourself and let your feelings out. Tell it to the closest people in your life, they will listen and might give you some good advise that you can use. But don't talk to it a lot because they might get annoyed at you. Just talk about it for just once or twice, release it and move on.
6. Find something where you can grow. It can be anything that you can place your focus. It can be arts, sports, business, etc. Find something that will make you forget your past. Be good at it, become the best so you will feel good about yourself and you will see your real value. Pick something and use your time and energy to get better each day.
7. Join a contest that requires endurance. You can channel your anger into contests like marathon, triathlon, survivor, body building or anything that requires persistence. This will make you mentally stronger. You will feel how strong you are, you will see that you can defeat any challenges in life, you will discover your real power. It will also allow you to forget the problems you have because you are so focused on the challenges. Stay competitive, you will find happiness while competing.
8. Strengthen your spirituality. Go to your religion, pray. It doesn't matter what kind of believe you have, you should feed your spiritual energy so you will never feel alone and your hope will never die.
9. Make yourself good looking. Ugliness can strengthen your depression so if you are not taking care of yourself and people are noticing it.. you will become depressed even more. The more you look at the mirror and you don't like what you are seeing... you will become more emotionally hurt. You will feel bad about yourself, your confidence will go down. Groom yourself, make yourself more appealing so that you will feel good about yourself and it will be easier for you to forget your problem. There are some people who have problems but still manage to take care their looks.
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