What do you want in life? what do you love in life? where do you want to go? what do you want to be? how high do you want to go? how strong do you want to be? the question is do you really love it? can you live without it? If you really want to have it then give yourself a chance to get it, it will only happen if you will make yourself vulnerable to pain, what you love may break you, let it break you, let it crush your heart. Don't reject the possibility that you may get hurt badly, be open with that, this is life... it's normal to feel the pain. Because if you will protect yourself from getting hurt then you will never win. You have to take risks, you have to chase it fast, you have to show your intention and never hide anything about yourself, you have to want it so bad and give your very best every single day.
LET IT CHANGE YOU
What you love will change you. It will change the way you speak, the way you move, the way you think everyday. Allow the change without resisting it. For example, if you really love a woman you will become a better guy, you will change yourself so that the woman may fall in love with you, you will hide your bad habits and maybe completely get rid of it in your system. You will become softer, you will become weaker, you will sometimes become obsessed with the woman and do everything she said, it's ok... be weak if you want to love, swallow your pride, show your softer side and let love change you.
Let the fire burn inside, let the passion run your life, let crazy things in your head come out.
It can also crush you, if the woman doesn't love you back you will get hurt, you will feel the pain inside. If you got rejected you will become depressed, allow that too, allow the possibility that you my feel the pain. Don't shy away from it, don't give up easily. Even if you feel that you have no chance, still go further and ask the woman if she can be yours, and if she said no... embrace it with all your heart, feel the pain and never try to resist. Don't ever think that you're not good enough that's why she rejected you, accept that life really works that way, love really works in mysterious way... sometimes you win, sometimes you lose. Sometimes you feel that the woman love you already only to find out that she rejects you later. It's ok, let it happen, feel happy that you try, feel accomplished that you say I love you to a woman and not getting the I love you back. Let it crush you, never regret anything that you did.
Just like in success, it will change you if you're chasing it. You will become a mad man, you will do everything for it, you will work harder, you will leave everything that's not helping you at all. You may also think that you will win, you are sure that you're going to become successful only to find out that you come up short.
THE GAME PLAN IS VERY EASY
Don't waste time and that's it. Put all of your effort into what you love, don't waste time, chase it everyday. Do something for it, give your all, it doesn't matter if you lose.. just give your all. Don't think twice, don't doubt yourself, don't question the process. Don't worry about the future just focus on giving your best now. Whether you're chasing a goal, a woman, money or anything that you are passionate about... always give your all and never regret anything when you fail, let it crush you, let it break your heart. Because not giving your all will give you regrets in the end, you will always have questions in your head, it will haunt you. You will always ask yourself "what if I did this, what if I did that?" you will wonder what could have happen if you only push yourself to do the uncomfortable just to win. So don't waste time, make a strategy now and execute it fast, don't wait for the right timing because it will never come, you will never be able to guess it. The right time is always now because life is happening now. Because nobody can predict the future, we only have control in the present moment. So stop wasting time procrastinating and overthinking, just do something now, get closer to what you want and use all of your resources and knowledge to get it.
IT WILL MAKE YOU STRONGER
If you gave your all, if you use all of your strength, if you become very passionate about it then it will make you stronger even if it breaks your heart, even if you lost... you're already a better man than yesterday. What doesn't kill you can only make you stronger.
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