May 31, 2020

9 TIPS ON HOW TO STOP CARING ABOUT WHAT PEOPLE THINK OF YOU, BULLETPROOF YOUR MIND

Are you always conscious or cautious of what other people think of you? are you having a hard time expressing yourself because you think that they might not like your actions? if your answer to this question is yes the probably you have a sad life, your confidence is low but don't worry because just a few adjustments will make your life great again. 

1. Keep in mind that they don't care

They don't care, they really don't. Who are you to get insecure? who are you to stop yourself from expressing? you are nothing, they don't even know your name, they don't even know what you do so why get insecure of what they think? If you embarrassed yourself today with your silly and awkward actions and they laugh so hard and you feel like shrinking because your ego was badly hurt, don't worry because they will forget it tomorrow. Especially if the people who witness the event doesn't know you. And even if you know the people who witnessed the event... so what? People don't even care about you so don't be afraid to speak up or do what you want, they don't care if you're right or wrong. You're the only one who's creating an illusion that all of your actions were being guarded or criticized. 

2. They will forget what happened so don't be afraid to try.

They will forget that you lose, they will forget that you come up short, they will forget that you looked like a fool on that moment. An event that is not worth remembering will not be remembered, people will never treasure a mediocre memory. So don't be afraid to try and express yourself because you have nothing to lose here. Losers will never be remembered. So if you're losing now, if you're struggling or in a rut... enjoy it, don't be afraid to try and win because they are not counting how many times you lost. Try again because you only need to win once, and once you win... they will forget every embarrassing moments about you. 

3. Focus on the most important things in your life.

Focus on your goals, focus on your family, focus on the people that loves you back. If you know what really matters in your life then you will never give attention to things or people that doesn't resonate with your purpose. You will allow them to laugh or criticize you but it will never even make an impact to your emotion. So what if you got embarrassed in front of a lot of people, you don't know them, they're not important in your life so forget about looking stupid, there is nothing to be ashamed of. 

4. Embarrass yourself all the time. 

If you fail again and again, if you got rejected by a girl again and again, if you feel anxious again and again but you fight it... you will no longer be afraid of what people say. It's because your mind was hardened by ugly circumstances. You already felt the pain a lot of times, you know how it feels and you were able to discover that it is nothing, it doesn't lessen your manhood, it doesn't even hurt you in real life, you're the only who one who's giving it a bigger meaning. Your interpretation about what happened is what's hurting you. 

5. Remember that you're just a human being.

You're just a human, you are allowed to fail, you are allowed to look ignorant or weak. Being weak, inadequate, ugly or looking like a loser is forgivable. You are not perfect so don't try to be one. You're just a human being and your flaws or weakness is part of who you really are. All humans make mistakes, even the most intelligent and modest person makes mistakes, you're just a human being, you're allowed to look like a fool and stupid. And when most people criticize or laugh at you... just ignore it, it will soon pass, don't give it any attention, don't let it bother you. It's their problem if they can't forget what happened, they're just wasting their time and that is already your revenge. While they are wasting their time thinking of you, you are moving forward and living your life with no regrets at all. 

6. JUST BE YOURSELF

If you're ugly so be it, if you're not smart so be it. But don't ever stop yourself from asking for what you want. You are allowed to ask, don't be afraid of what people might say that you don't deserve what you're asking for. Remember, you're just trying, there is no harm in trying, it's ok to ask for more than what you deserve. And you really don't know what you deserve, sometimes the word "deserving" is only coming from the judgement of people. If you can get it, if you get lucky having it then you deserve it. Be yourself, show your true colors, and even if some people won't like you... so be it, you are not here to impress them, you are not here to please all people. You are here to enjoy life and feel free all the time, and you can only achieve freedom if you stop thinking about what other people say. 

7. Always remember that there is always tomorrow. 

There is always a tomorrow so don't be afraid to fail now, don't be afraid to look stupid now. Tomorrow you can try again, tomorrow might be your day. Don't be afraid to lose, get humiliated, get rejected because tomorrow is another day where you can win. You have unlimited number of tries and that is your biggest leverage. If you got rejected by a girl now, try again tomorrow, look for another potential victim. If you got laugh at today because of making a mistake and it makes you feel so bad, don't worry because there is a tomorrow. Good things may come to your life tomorrow so forget about what happened today and just move on.

8. Stop thinking that you're so special. 

You're not a star, they don't even know your name, you're nothing, you don't even have a followers on you tube so who are you to think that you don't have the right to make mistakes. And even if you're a little bit popular... forget you name, your name is nothing, forget about your reputation, you will never be able to move and express yourself honestly if you're always taking care of your name. If you can just stay humble and forget your identity then you will be able to express yourself to the fullest. Stop thinking that you deserve a special treatment, you're just a human being, don't think that you're so special because that's stopping you from taking actions and risks. 

9. Don't focus on perfection, focus on execution.

It's not that you will act like a fool or clown and just do stupid things, it's not that you're going to mess up everything and just show up. Of course you still need to give your best but don't ever look for perfection, give your best but be ok with making mistakes.  People who focus on making it perfect never achieved anything, it's because they can't start. They were to focused on what people are going to say instead of focusing on giving their best. 

WHAT IF I GOT INSECURE AGAIN?

Very simple, in your mind... think that everything is nothing. Because it really is, nobody owns something forever. Everybody will die, everyone will never take with him his millions. So why get insecure of someone who is not invincible at all. If you got insecure with someone, always think that he is just another person who is decaying one day at a time, because he really is. No matter how rich you are, you're dying one day at a time, no matter how rich you are... you will never escape death. So why get insecure with someone who is not even a God? Treat everyone with respect but never treat everyone as someone who is higher or lower than you, always think that they're just another human being with no special powers. So never mind what they think because it doesn't matter at all. 

May 30, 2020

11 SIMPLE WAYS ON HOW TO REINVENT YOUR LIFE

Reinventing your life is possible, it's not that hard if you will make it simple. If you will just follow the tips below then you will be able to reinvent your life in just a matter of time, all it takes is patience and discipline. Keep going, keep persevering, you have to use your willpower, you have to focus on your goal and never let any distraction make you slower and frustrated. 

1. Change the pattern.

Look at your behavior, it is all connected to a thought. You are doing something because a thought triggers it. If you want to reinvent your life then you need to be mindful of your thoughts. Your thoughts is the one in control of your life. Basically all of your actions was triggered by your subconscious mind. You're doing something because it was recorded in your brain. You're always in an auto pilot mode, that's why it'so hard to get rid of a bad habit, it's because you've been doing it for a very long time and it's already hardwired in your brain. Look at those drug addicts... Most of them want to change, they don't want to do drugs anymore but they feel that's it's impossible to change because they always feel weird and uncomfortable whenever they try stop taking drugs. 

The pattern of your thoughts will only change if you're aware of your stupidity, you must feel everything. People who were stuck in a mud for a very long time can't feel anymore, they just go with the flow, they let their thoughts and addiction to delayed gratification control them. If you want to reinvent yourself you need to feel the pain, you need to realize that it's hard but you have to keep going, keep pushing until you finally control your thoughts and build the discipline you needed to become successful. 

2. Leave some of the toxic people in your circle

There are some people in your circle who are contributing to your life getting rotten even more, you know them you just don't have the strength to leave them. I'm not saying that you have to ignore them and make them feel that you're no longer interested in hanging out with them, you can little by little get cold with them or you can reject them simultaneously by making excuses or dramas that they're also using on you before. It's time to leave the people who are not making you feel motivated, don't think about them, ignore their messages but don't be rude, just treat them cold and they will go away, they will feel it. And when they ask if there is something wrong just pretend that there is nothing, leave them thinking about what went wrong. And feel no guilt by doing it, remember that you are reinventing your life and part of the process is getting rid of people that are only making you feel weak and useless. You have a value, it's just that your value is getting smaller every time you hang out with people who are toxic, users and cry babies. They have no place in your life, they're only using you, its time to man up and pick the right people to your life. Take care of the people who are making you feel motivated, only hang out with people that really cares for you. 

3. GO harder than yesterday.

You need to go hard, I mean really hard, not like a soft teddy bear that is so frail and useless. You have to make yourself stronger, more productive, you have to increase your value by not wasting time and focusing on things that are giving you some progress. Go hard even if results were not coming yet, go hard all the time, you can do it. Once you develop a habit of working hard all the time... it will be easier for you to conquer obstacles, you will no longer be afraid of any process, your endurance and focus will become much better. Start fast and go hard, never think, stop caring about how you feel, stop caring if you're badly exhausted... just keep moving forward all the time. Don't worry about resting because you can rest anytime you want to once you become successful. The rest is in the end and not in the middle. 

4. Go for what you want relentlessly.

Go for it, attack it, have no conscience in getting it, do whatever it takes to make it yours. The reason why you can't reinvent your life is because you know what you want but you're not aiming for it. Don't be afraid to lose over and over again, you only need to win once but you have to try as many as you can. Trying is free, the number of trials you are allowed is unlimited so take advantage of that privilege. There is something you can do, there is an action waiting to get started, you have to keep pushing the pace, be a relentless lion that hunts for his prey all the time, it doesn't matter if you're not getting anything for now... just attack relentlessly and viciously. 

5. Reinvent your thoughts

Give other meaning to different things, give it a better meaning. For example if today is not your day, think that tomorrow is going to be your lucky day. most people will lose hope when they fail today, reinvent your thoughts and always think that everything that is happening is giving you a favor. If you failed today, think that it's just a learning curve, think that it's purpose is to make you a better person. Your thoughts is what make you, your thoughts is the creator of your reality, you better think the right way, you better fill your mind with positive thoughts if you want to have a very good transformation. It's hard to think positive but if you can make it a habit to practice it everyday then those negative thoughts inside of your head will be replaced by the positive ones. Take time to practice, take time to know yourself , tame your mind and stop focusing on the things that you don't want to attract into your life, focus only on the thoughts that makes you feel better and motivated. 

6. Be patient in learning the skills you needed.

There are some skills that you need in order to become a better person, and it's your duty to learn those skills. Don't rush, it will take time, enjoy the learning process. You don't need to learn everything in one day, be fast in moving but don't panic when you can't get the information you needed, you will learn it naturally if you will love the process. Don't be afraid to apply the skills you learned right away, don't just think about it... apply it, execute and don't be afraid if you can't get it right on the first try, you will learn even more every time you fail so don't be afraid to endure he bitterness of failure because you're headed to the right direction every time you take the risk. 

7. Be a doer not a procrastinator. 

As simple as it sounds, be a creator, be a doer, do something instead of watching other people succeed. Stop talking and just do something, this is not hard, all it takes is the discipline to stay committed. Watch yourself, are you a doer or a watcher? are you a commentator or an executor? Always guard what you are doing, always be aware if you're not doing something that will make you evolve. Doers evolve everyday and that is why they keep succeeding and growing and winning. While procrastinators simply watch other people perform and get jealous with it, they were more interested in talking about what other people are doing instead of focusing on their own lives and try to grow a little bit by taking actions and working hard. You can reinvent your life by simply being a doer, do something. It doesn't need to be fast, flashy or great... just do something and never stop, make it a habit to be the one performing and not watching. If you are a doer then you're in control, you can control the outcome of your life but if you're just a watcher then you're the one being controlled by the things that you are watching. You are hoping to see something differently but you can't because you're not part of the show, you're just an audience wishing to see the perfect ending of other people's stories. 

8. Stop looking for a change.

Be the change, stop looking for improvement and just practice improving. You're always looking for an improvement in your life even if you haven't done anything massive yet, you're always checking for results even though you only give a little effort. Stop looking for a chance and just change everyday, be the change you want to happen. Focus on the process and not on the results. There is no such thing as a fast or big transformation, great things doesn't happen in just one night. You have to grind, stay committed and push as much as you can, there is no shortcuts to reinvent your life. You have to undergo every process, you have to take every step required to achieve the life that you want. 

9. Work even if you don't need to. 

Just because your papa gave you 500 gran doesn't mean you don't have to work anymore. Remember, if you're too comfortable with your life then your life will go down later. You have to keep working because you can only produce growth thorough working. If you want to reinvent yourself then make yourself uncomfortable even if you have the luxury to not work. Working will be your obligation if you want to have an evolution. Because grinding and forcing yourself is the only way to change your life or produce a different outcome, you will never be able to reinvent your life if you're chilling too much and not doing some hard things. Work even if you don't have to, work hard now because it is easier to work hard while you don't need to, it's harder to work hard if you are being forced to do so just to have some money. Work hard now and build your own empire, build a strong foundation now so you won't be forced to work hard in the future. 

10. Learn to enjoy every moment of your life. 

For you to get out of the rut you are in... you have to enjoy your life. Enjoy every second of it, enjoy the process, enjoy the struggle. Enjoy your stinky life, enjoy your boring and hard life... that's the only way to have a right state of mind. It's easy to evolve and improve if you're appreciative of what you have. Stop comparing what you have with what other people have, stop looking at other people's lives and getting jealous with them. Be happy with your own life and learn to enjoy every second of it. Having fun will make you do more, it will keep you motivated and aggressive. Enjoy every moment of your life even if you're on a bad situation. 

11. Give nothing but your best

Stop exerting a mediocre effort because you are not stretching your skills by doing that, always give your best. You can do better than that, there is always a room for improvement, you can always give an extra effort, you can always work longer than you normally do. Show your best, chase greatness. How to know if you're giving your best? if you're making the process a little more difficult than what it used to. Make it a promise to give your best no matter what. Just give your best, don't look for perfection but always give your best, you know if you're pushing yourself or not, you know if you're exerting a poor effort. 

May 29, 2020

YOU'RE ALREADY IN PAIN, MOVING FORWARD IS THE ONLY OPTION

You're already in pain, you already suffered a lot, why give up now? Keep going maybe the process needs a little more time for it to work. Maybe you need to push harder in order to succeed, so don't give up yet and just keep doing what you're doing because it's only just a matter of time before you become successful. You have nothing to lose anymore, you have everything to gain. Avoid having a self pity, avoid doubting yourself because you're only making your situation worse by doing that. Your pain is only temporary, it's there to teach you a lesson or make you grow. So don't be afraid of feeling the pain again and again, it is only painful in the beginning. Once you realize that it is necessary to make you better then it will never make you feel bad again, you will learned that it is normal and it is not there to make your life harder, it is there to make you a better person. 

MOVING FORWARD IS THE ONLY OPTION

What else do you know? what else do you think will work? moving forward is the only option, you have nothing to lose if you keep moving forward so if I were you I will start working now, start pushing yourself and see what you can get. You can't make a progress by stopping, you can't make a progress by going backwards, going forward is the only option. So embrace the process, take massive massive actions and never stop. Don't look for shortcuts, don't look for fast turn around, this kind of mentality is only making your life harder. Don't feel bad if you're working hard and yet you can't see major improvements. It will take time, you will really struggle but what else can you do? the only way is to  keep working because being lazy and hoping will only add frustration. So look at yourself, you're not moving now right? you're only procrastinating, stop that habit, you need to slap yourself to wake up, don't be too soft and slow, you need to go hard all the time because it's the only path to success. 

Stop fooling yourself that you can't make any progress, there is a way, use your willpower, find a way out of no way, if you can't see the way then create your own way. Never give up, keep hustling until you finally get the answers to your questions. 

PAIN WILL SUBSIDE

Don't be afraid of pain because it will subside sooner or later. You will no longer be afraid of it, it is temporary. It is only making you harder, it is molding you to become a different animal, it is taking your level to a new height, it's making you a beast. So embrace the pain and do what is needed. Just like in taking the first step, just like in studying a lesson that you don't like. You have to do it or else your life will become harder. It's only hard in the beginning but once you started, you will feel much better. Focus on taking actions and you will never feel the pain again, it's painful because you feel stuck and can't see results. But if you're focused on the process then the results will com naturally. All you have to do is keep moving forward and keep giving your best, do it everyday, time is fast, you will never even notice that you're already on the top of the mountain. You will never die from pain, it is self inflicted, it is mental, you will die if you're not doing anything and simply hoping that your life will change. 

Pain is just another feeling, it can never kill you, it can never make your life bad, it's just a test, it's just a challenge, once you faced it... all you your worries will go away. You will see yourself as someone who is strong and unbreakable. 

FORGET ABOUT THE ACTIONS YOU NEED TO DO

Forget about time, forget about the million steps you need to do and just start. Time is fast, stay consistent for one year and you will see that you're already big. Forget that the universe is unfair and not rewarding you for the hard work you did, stop that kind of mentality. Because if you can enjoy what you're doing then you will never think of it as a hard work, you will think of it as a blessing. You really need to work hard regardless if you will get results or not, stop holding yourself back, stop looking for guaranteed results because there is no such thing as that, you will have to take risk, you will really have to use your time, you can't be asking for something if you didn't work hard for it. 

Because at the end of the day, you really need to work, you really need to give yourself a best shot. Don't be afraid to waste your time working hard and giving your best, you will still become happy by doing that because you will witness greatness, you will see yourself improving day by day and it will really make you feel good, it will give you a lot of confidence. 

START FAST, START QUICK AND NEVER ENTERTAIN NEGATIVITY

Don't think about failing, don't think about losing your money, don't think about your time being wasted, don't think about the actions being wasted... just go, stop thinking, stop worrying and just go. Be fast, speed is the name of the game, success loves speed. If you're fast and productive then you will attract success, as simple as that. So stop being slow and lazy, you need to move now. Forget about sleep, forget about rest and just do it. Take it one step at a time, level up one day at a time. Your time will come if you persevere, it's just a matter of who wants it more, who will go to the extreme? who will do the impossible? that's the million dollar question. Are you willing to give everything you've got for your dream? are you willing to face the pain and push forward? the choice is yours and will always be yours. 

May 28, 2020

HAPPINESS IS MOVING FORWARD ALL THE TIME

If you don't want to become sad again, just keep moving forward, don't think, don't worry and just move forward... that's it. Depressed people are not moving and that's why they are so sad, they are lost, they don't know what to do. It's because they were lazy, their habits is to procrastinate, they choose waiting over creating. It's simply moving forward and enjoying what you do what makes you happy. Your life was designed for moving and not for worrying in the corner hoping that things would be better. Take it one step at a time, just like dismantling a cake... you destroy it bite by bite, don't think about the whole process because it will make you overwhelmed, just enjoy taking it one step at a time and never stop.

IT'S FOCUS, THE MISSING INGREDIENT

Focusing on what you want and ignoring what you don't want. Focusing on how you feel and trying to make it better and better each second. Thinking about what you want and bringing it into life, manifesting it little by little. Focus is a very powerful force, it can make you or break you. If you're focused on what you hate then you will have a miserable life, you will become a loser. But if you're focused in improving and entertaining happy and motivating thoughts... life will become a new experience. Just stay dedicated to that thought that serves you, stay lock in. If you want money focus on thinking about money, focus o doing everything to get that money. If it's about health or success then focus on that subject. Never do anything else outside of the things that you desire. You have to have faith, you have to believe that it's going to be yours. It is what it is, it's not going to be easy but you can enjoy it if you will force yourself to enjoy it. What else can you do? you really need to do something, you really need to sacrifice. If you will not do it then nothing will happen to your life, as simple as that. If you're moving forward then good things will happen, you will be able to make a progress, you will at least see something positive. Once you start, it's your duty to follow through, it's your duty to push further as much as you can. Don't worry about winning or losing, just focus on your goal and never quit... as simple as that. 

YOU WILL BECOME REALLY HAPPY IF YOU'RE MOVING NOW

Sadness will subside, smile will show on your face if you're moving now. You will forget your problems, you will have a very strong momentum towards happiness. So every time you're depressed... just move, stop thinking and just move. Thinking will only make you sick, it will make you weak and useless. Stop thinking and just do something, feel creative enough to do something that will make your life a little bit better. Unleash your imagination, never belittle yourself and always think that what you're doing is right. Because even if it's wrong... it will still work because your intention is right. So go ahead and feel free to do something, never hold yourself back, never stop until you finally make a strong foundation that will lead to your desired destination. Frustrations, depression, sadness and anxiety will all be erased if you're moving now, so never stop hustling, never stop trying... you have what it takes to be a winner. So just do it, repeat if you fail, keep pushing and never make excuses, there is something you can do and you have to do it now. Be relentless, make yourself a monster in taking actions. Every time there is an idea that pops out... execute it, never hesitate nor procrastinate, you will get it if you really want it. Maybe it's hard for now but it will become easier in the long run. You just need to push and push and push, believe in yourself even if it's really hard, never quit, never stop in the middle... stop when you're already done. Don't rest, don't chill... keep pushing forward and create greatness on your own. It's hard work that will make you happy and satisfied, not laziness and useless entertainment. Because if you keep on looking for comfort then your life will go down, comfort is for losers, comfort is for soft people... you will never get anything from comfort, it will just make you weak and slow. So be happy if you're struggling, be happy if you're having a hard time because it only means you're doing the right thing, you're on the right track. 

ANYBODY CAN WORK HARD AND MOVE

Look at the happiest people in the world... they were so busy, they were so passionate and moving all the time. Anybody can work hard, you can work hard too and do something positive with your life. Yet, why most people were so lazy? it's because they didn't program themselves the right way. They were so afraid of discomfort and pain, all the want is an easy life. If you want to become hard worker then you must start now, work hard now and work hard again tomorrow then repeat... as simple as that. It's the repetition that will make you a hard worker and a fast mover. Keep repeating until your body and mind remembers the pattern and hard work was finally ingrained into your system. Feel ashamed of yourself if you're not working because it means you're wasting your life. Start now and feel the grind, feel the pain of forcing yourself to work hard, once you get used to it... it will never be hard anymore. Repetition makes it easy, repetition will make you a master of it. Never label yourself as something lazy and useless, never think that you can't finish something, you have the power to become a finisher if you will just be patient and enjoy every action that you do. Be in the moment and never rush, this is not a race, this is a marathon. Stay consistent and you will get tremendous results in your life. 

May 27, 2020

BE HARD

There's no time for being soft nowadays, this is a survival era, only the strong survives. This is the era where you need to become the most powerful you can be mentally and physically. There's no time for trying to be a cure, there's no time for laziness and procrastination because you will be eaten alive by the competition. You need to squeeze what you can squeeze, you need to be the best that you can be and stop pampering your emotions too much, push harder and be better. You can't be complaining too much in this world nowadays because it's crisis, it's pandemic era, you have to force yourself to be the best that you can be or else you will have a miserable life. Take care of your health, take care of your body, stay safe and earn as much money as you can, work hard. You can't trust the government now, they will never help you forever, you have to strengthen your ability to endure, you have to take your mental game to another level... that's the only way to survive. 

It's survival of the fittest era, if you don't have the necessary skills or strength to survive then you will die, as simple as that. So be hard, if you're not hard now then do everything in your power to train yourself to be hard. Never stop, always hustle, always keep pushing forward and do whatever it takes to win, stop playing the victim mentality because it will never help. You can complain all day long but how does that help you? you are only making your life even more difficult every time you open your mouth and complain about what's going on. Everybody is so sick and tired for no reason, everybody is complaining, everyone is a cry baby, don't be like them, you have to take a different path, you have to make yourself something special by going hard every single second, that's the only way to increase your value, that's the only way to make something out of nothing and stay on the game. 

So stop doing what soft people do. Stop complaining, stop being lazy, work even if you don't have a job, hope even if you don't have money, believe even if there is nothing else to believe to. What plays on your mind will play in your reality so be careful where your thoughts are going because it will manifest into your life. You have to take care of your mind and never let any poisonous thought ruin it. Look at yourself... you're better than that, you can always get better but you're not doing it, why is that? maybe it's because you're too addicted with too much comfort, maybe it's because you want to be spoon fed like a baby that can't live without support. But you're not a baby anymore, you're a grown ass man, you can hustle, you can grind, you can push yourself to the limits and destroy every limit you place upon yourself. Be different, 90 percent of the population were full of complaints and stupidity, they want something without even have to work for it. You're better than that, you can be better, you can be something else. Why not try to create a new reality by forming a different habit that will lead to success. You are what you do, if you keep on watching porn movies then you're a stupid maniac, if you keep on playing video games then you're just a video game bum, if you keep on talking about other people then you're just a commentator or a critic... you are nothing.

BE A DOER, JUST DO IT NOW

Just do it, serve your family, serve your wife, serve your kids, serve the community if you can. Do something that will help people or will help your life. Just being a better person and not being a lazy asshole is already a good contribution to the world. Do it now, if you need to clean your house then clean it now, if you have to earn money then look for a job now, be a hunter, never stop, never hesitate, you can only set yourself free by moving forward and looking for possibilities that may happen in your life. Don't look for fast results and be patient, don't look for approval before you do it... just do it. Make it happen, do it with all your might, use your willpower, if you can just trust your willpower and perseverance then you will become victorious. So stop being  a watcher and start being a doer, stop wishing because it will never bring riches into your life, start doing and see your whole world transform. Because it feels so weak being a watcher, do you want that feeling? do you want to feel weak and sick and useless? if you don't want to have a low life the you need to work hard as much as you can, you need to take your life seriously. Look for something you can do and execute, stop thinking and over planning... just execute. 

YOU CAN ALWAYS EVOLVE

Stop judging yourself, stop thinking that you're wrong and just push, just do it now, just create something, be a creator. You are evolving and improving every time you create something, you just can't see it for now because it will take some time to notice some major improvements. But the reality is you're really growing every time you stop procrastinating, so make yourself productive, do something positive, do something that may help your life or other people's lives a little bit better. It's on you, it's your duty to make your life amazing, because you only have one life... why waste it for nothing? why spend time with people and activities that are not even helping you to grow? The choice is yours if you want to evolve or not, stop acting like a powerless victim, focus on your evolution and growth, take it one day at a time, be patient and tenacious... great things are about to come. 

May 26, 2020

THE IMPORTANCE OF HAVING A PURPOSE IN LIFE

You only have one life, are you going to use it to make the people around you happy? or are you going to just waste it like everyone else does? Are you going to use it for a purpose and serve as an inspiration? The choice is yours, there is nothing wrong in having no purpose in life but for me it's just a waste of life, you didn't even go hard and test your limits, you didn't even reach your full potential. There is something you can achieve, there is a greatness hiding inside of your body, all you have to do is unleash it and make every second of your life useful.

CHASE A GOAL

You must have something to aim for. Having a goal will give you a direction. It will force you to do the right things. You will be able to create good habits that are very helpful for achieving the goal that you set. You will be obligated to take actions that will make you get your goal faster than expected. if you have a goal you will have the right mindset, you will have a very high emotional intelligence, you will be able to endure failures and heartaches, you will become a very strong person. Just chase it, whether it's a big or small goal... chase it, believe that you are deserving of any kind of goal, believe that you can get it in just a matter of time.

You will be forced to work hard if you have a goal, you will be able to get rid of your bad habits, you will have a clear direction in life, you will have more confidence in yourself.

HAVING A PURPOSE IN LIFE MEANS SERVING

It's whether you serve people or you serve yourself, or simply serving  a belief. It's up to you, having a purpose means giving your time and energy, you use your resources, you do whatever it takes to serve what you want to serve. It means you have a guidance, you know your path, you're on your journey and nothing is breaking your will to serve. It's a much better way of life than a life without a purpose. If you don't have a purpose you're completely lost, you don't know where to go, you do something you don't want, you let people kick you in the ass, you're like a trash getting kicked around or getting played around. You will become depressed, you will have a lot of regrets in the end, you will lose your power because you're just wandering every now and then trying to get lucky, you're simply dependent of something that makes you comfortable a little bit, your mind was poisoned by a wrong hope and information.

ANYTHING YOU ARE PASSIONATE ABOUT IS A PURPOSE

If you are passionate in painting, helping, building a business, loving your family, taking care of yourself, giving a little inspiration to people, inventing something then that's already a purpose. Stay committed, stay dedicated and do it for a long as you can. You don't need your purpose to become very flashy or popular, just simply loving your dog is a purpose already. You feed the dog, you take care of it, you clean it, you give time to it, you are passionate on loving it. It's already a purpose, it's already a goal. You can have any passion that you want, just make sure you take care of it, you give time for it and you don't take it for granted. Passion means commitment, it means giving time and love for something.

TOP 4 REASONS WHY MOST PEOPLE DON'T HAVE A PURPOSE IN LIFE?

1. The just go with the flow, they don't have a blue print or a philosophy in life. They just want to enjoy life, they want to have fun, they think it's cool. But later it will backfire on them. Life is not all about having fun, it's ok to have fun but there should be a balance. You should sacrifice too, it's not simply about going out and acting like "You Only Live once". There is a misconception about the word YOLO, it's not all about having fun. It's also pushing yourself and reaching your full potential, it's also about giving back to people that you love.

2. Their minds were easily manipulated by wrong information. Social media, news, what's hot today, what's trending today. People want to belong, they don't want to get left behind, they don't want to disobey the trend. The thing is this, if you're doing what other people are doing because it looks cool and trendy then it means you don't believe yourself, what if you don't like it? what if you are just forced to do it because people will think that you are a kill joy if you don't do it? you have to follow your heart, if you don't like it then don't do it. Don't believe in news, turn of your TV, you have to investigate if first if it's really right. Stop consuming a lot of information. Just use the information that serves you or make you grow.

3. They don't want to get criticized. They want to impress people, they want to follow the herd, they don't want to do it their way. And that makes them lose their own purpose in life. They don't want to try what their hearts are telling them. They simply want to play it safe because they think it's the most logical thing to do. They were s afraid of critics, harsh comments and raised eyebrows. They don't want to get embarrassed. The were faking themselves out just to get accepted by the society.

4. They don't want to experience some pain. If you have a purpose in life you will feel some pain. You will do something even if you feel lazy or sick because you are committed of doing it. You will sacrifice your time and happiness, you will push through even if it's difficult. Just like in taking care of your child, if you really love your child you will try to give him everything, and that is already a purpose. You will sacrifice your time and happiness, you will sacrifice your sleep. It's painful sometimes, there's a lot of aggraviation because you can't do what you normally do, but because you love your child... you will face the pain and do whatever it takes to give him a good future.

So of you are lost in life... find your purpose, find something where you can give your time, love and energy . Purpose means dedication and commitment, it means being serious, it means giving everything you have because you know it's the right thing to do. 

May 25, 2020

7 SIMPLE AND EFFECTIVE WAYS TO BECOME UNLIMITED

Do you want to become unlimited? do you want to achieve greatness? Well, it is possible. Greatness can be achieved by anyone but only if he is willing to take actions and go the extra mile. Being unlimited simply means being unstoppable, it's being relentless and doing whatever it takes to succeed in life.

1. Be yourself

If you can be yourself you will have more ideas and energy, it feels like nothing is stopping you. You are so free, you are doing it your way, you are using your instincts. You are not afraid of what people say and you don't follow orders from others. You will become unlimited if you will just be yourself because all of your ideas and actions has no resistance, it is all natural, you are not pretending so you will have more energy. You will become more inspired if you're doing your thing. You will become more creative and independent, you just feel powerful in your own way. How to be yourself? just stop pretending, show your true colors, express yourself even if people will hate it, give yourself a chance to do it your way. Never follow an idea that doesn't make you feel good. It's hard to be yourself because you're thinking about other people too much, but if you will focus on yourself and your own journey, if you will go back to your self mad philosophy then you will get the strength to do it your way, you will never be afraid of losing or getting judged by other people.

2. Choose positivity or negativity

Feeling negative will make you feel weak, thinking about negative things will make you sick, you are powerless every time you choose negativity over positivity. If you are positive and optimistic then you will have more energy and inspiration, you will be able to move faster, you are motivated and the fire inside of you doesn't die fast.

You don't let any destructive thoughts poison your mind, you are focused on becoming better than yesterday, you're focused on building yourself and putting yourself on a best position to succeed. Be aware if you're being positive or negative. Be aware if you're jealous, mad, envy, depressed for no reason, be aware if you're pulling somebody down. You have to choose positivity over negativity because you will have more strength if you're not being an asshole. Focus on raising people up and stop pulling down people.

3. START ASAP

Don't wait for a wake up call before you start. Start now, I know there are some things or dreams that you want to start but for whatever reason something is stopping you. Look no more, nothing is stopping you, you're the only one who's stopping yourself. You created that fear inside of your head, you created that illusion, It's time to wake up and do something about your life. Push yourself, stop acting like it's ok because it's not, it's not ok to become lazy the whole day and just watch TV, you have a dream... you have to take care of it like a plant, water it, feed it, give some sunlight and hope. Nothing will happen if you will not start now, don't ever think that you can go harder tomorrow and make up for your laziness today, it will never happen, real life is happening now. Stop thinking about tomorrow and just start your journey today. Whatever you can do... do it, stop hesitating, start even if your start is ugly, start even if you're having a rough and slow day.

What are you waiting for? start now, start with what you have and make it big. Start even if it doesn't feel right, stop making excuses and just do it. Start even if you lack something, start even if you're overwhelmed, you will see later that it's not that hard, you will see hope, you will find the motivation to finish strong.

4. Don't be afraid to make mistakes

Not being afraid to make mistakes, not being afraid to get judged, not being afraid to get rejected or repeat again... this is what your mindset should be. You're in a state of abundance if you're not afraid to make mistakes simply because you know that you can try again, you know that this is just a game and all you have to do is keep trying. Never hesitate to throw yourself out there, jump in to the opportunity right away, don't be afraid to navigate the territory of wolves and lions. Making mistakes is all part of the design, it's ok to commit a lot of it because you're only getting better, stronger and wiser.

5. Forget time

Time is liming your actions, time is adding pressure to your journey. Thinking about your age, thinking that you're old already that's why you don't have the right anymore, this is stupid, age doesn't matter, if you have the heart to keep pushing and trying then you will still win even if you're already old. Your willpower will hide your age. Time has nothing to do with your victory, you can win early or you can win late, the most important thing here is you try and you give yourself a chance to become triumphant.

Forget the time remaining, forget if the clock is ticking, forget if it's almost over, forget if there is no more time... just keep pushing, thinking about time will make you pressured even more. Just relax while moving forward, be fast but don't panic, remain cool and act as if you can make it on time no matter what. Time will pass anyway, don't ever let it affect your decisions and actions. But make no mistake about it, I am not saying that squander your time, what I mean is... just keep moving forward even if time is running out, stay cool under pressure and focus on winning.

6. Ignore your feelings

Your feelings are wrong most of the time. You feel you can't do it, you feel you have no chance, you are scared and lost, you are overwhelmed, you feel you don't deserve it, you fee you are not enough. Ignore your feelings to become unlimited, just focus on what you want and never entertain any other emotions. Focus on moving forward, your feelings will change if you will stay tough and committed to your ambitions. Your feelings is nothing, it's just a hindrance, be like robot... feel nothing and move a lot.

7. Stop comparing yourself to others.

Every time you compare yourself, every time you feel so low and sorry for yourself because you're not winning while other people are getting fast... you are kicking your own ass, you are making your life miserable. Your power go away every time you get jealous, believe in yourself even if you're down or badly beaten, keep pushing, time will come and you will become a winner too. It's just a matter of persevering and doing whatever it takes to win in life. You may not be winning now but if you really want it then you will find a way how to get it. So stop comparing yourself to others and just give your best. 

May 24, 2020

ALL IN FOR ONE THING

all in for something - rugged breed

All in for one thing, give your all, use all of your time and effort for this one thing that you want. Don't be afraid to give your all, it's just a test... you can still try again if you fail. All in, stop being conservative, never hold yourself back. Look for something you can try, look for something that will take you one step closer from becoming successful. Because that is what it's all about... destroying your limits, improving everyday and being happy taking it one step at a time. One day all of your hard work will pay off, one day you will get what you want, it's just a matter of staying dedicated and determined, never let something stop you, never let your scary thoughts block you. You have to push forward like a freak rhino, be fearless and relentless... don't worry about anything else, just focus on taking actions and doing something for your dream. All in, no stopping, no worrying, it's all about taking actions, stay with the grind and never stop until you finally bring home the bacon.

FASTER THAN YOUR NORMAL PACE.

You are faster than your real speed, the only problem is you're pretending to be weak and slow. You can do a lot but you're doing less, and that's what making you a failure. You have to move fast, get addicted to taking actions. Take it one step at a time, step by step... do it and don't be afraid to get tired. Get serious of what you want and never rush anything. Be fast but still give your best, never rush to finish fast because that is not being fast that is being lazy because you don't want to work anymore. So give everything you've got for that one thing, push yourself and try to do the impossible, you can work as hard as you can if you will make it a mindset. Stop pretending that you are slow, stop pretending that you can only do less. You need to wake up and use your time wisely.

YOU HAVE A TURBO. You just need to use your speed, all it takes is the willingness to push further and make yourself a little bit uncomfortable. Don't be afraid of a little pain. Pain is your friend, pain will make you grow, don't feel bad about it... It's something that will make you evolve, it will turn you into a different beast, use pain to grow, use it to get better and better each day.

BELIEVE IN YOURSELF

Believe in your power to create, believe that you can do something big. It's just a matter of believing it and working hard, as simple as that. If you can believe in yourself and really work hard then you're already on a different level, success will be guaranteed to you, you don't have to doubt yourself anymore. Attractions will come, opportunities and great things will come. Just keep believing and keep working, you need to separate yourself from the pack and do something they haven't seen before if you want to win. You have the ability to believe in yourself, you have the ability to stay confident all the time, just throw away all the frightening thoughts, look for something that will make you motivated all the time. The more you take actions, the more you will become confident. You will feel invincible if you will work hard and trust the process. You have the power to believe, it is one of your greatest asset. Believing in yourself means you're taking actions, you can never believe in yourself if all you do is wait, that is some fake confidence. If you really believe it then you will start something and never stop, you will dedicate your life for it.

DISCIPLINE YOURSELF TO THE EXTREME

You have to be strict, you have to be insanely serious about what you want. You need to do the impossible, you need to have a laser focus. Like an ant that keeps going and going, you will never stop, only death can stop you. Because you have no choice but to take massive actions, it's the only way, if there is another way then what was it? don't get fooled by a lot of gurus out there telling you that just work smarter, it will never happen. You can only work smart if you can work hard, you can never shortcut the process, you have to give your all. Time and effort plus belief, never back down to any challenge, never entertain something that is not related to your goal. Discipline is power, discipline is the only way to get things done. If you're disciplined you can do everything, nothing can stop you, your mind is fixated to your goal, you will get more and have more... you will become something else, something better than yesterday. Your skills will become superb, your personality will become stronger, you don't need motivation anymore because you're already programmed to win, your mind and body was programmed to succeed... nothing can stop you, you will never make excuses anymore, you will push yourself to the edge and see what is possible for your life, you will be able to reach your full potential.

THIS IS NOT FOR EVERYONE

Going all in is hard, it's simple but hard, this is not for everyone because most people will brag once they get a little success, most people will stop once they win a little bit. Most people want entertainment, appreciation and fun. You need to embrace boredom if you really want to go all in, you will stop partying and forget all the stupid and fun activities that will never take you to another level. So if you're having trouble studying, working hard, sacrificing... you better just quit because you will only go crazy. But if you really want it then start now, start disciplining yourself, it's just only a matter of days before you were able to create a system that will work. Just be consistent and face the pain, face the boredom... you can have fun later once you see small results building up. So ask yourself if you really want it or not, because you can never go back anymore once you start, this is an all or nothing situation... you have to go all in or just go home. 

THE CONSOLATION PRIZE FOR LOSING

Do you always feel bad every time you lose? Do you feel like the whole world turn its back against you and there is nothing left for you to work on? It's ok. That's part of the design. Don't be afraid to lose again and again, there is a little bit of wisdom you will get after losing so you really didn't lose, you just didn't get the prize. The prize is nothing, you can live without it, people were too much blinded by the prize, but the real prize here is the person that you become. You will become tougher and smarter by losing so much, it will turn your heart into metal, you will feel free because you already felt the pain a lot of times, it's nothing new to you anymore so you will be able to express yourself more and you're no longer afraid of losing again.

HARD WORK IS THE CONSOLATION PRIZE

Just work hard and that's the prize already, win or lose... you've got your prize. It's because hard work will mold you into a different animal. Hard work will teach you something, it will show you your power and capabilities, it will show you what is possible for your life. So don't be afraid of hard work, it will give you everything. It will give you good feelings, it will make you better than yesterday. It feels good to be working hard, it feels better if you're doing something that will contribute to your growth and evolution. So forget about the results, it's because you can never control it, you can only control your effort and thoughts. Entertain good thoughts while working hard, feel happy giving your all, feel proud of yourself because you're doing something right and not wasting your time for nonsense and invaluable activities. If you have the ability to enjoy hard work then you will become a big time winner one day, sky is the limit for you, you will reach heights that looks impossible to reach, you will become relentless and unstoppable, you will be able to find solutions to any problem.

So whenever you lose... ask yourself, did you work hard? have you ever wonder why are there some people who can manage to smile despite of losing? it's because they work hard and gave their all, they experienced what it feels like to become great. Because greatness is not only about winning... it's having the ability to push yourself to the limits and give your all, greatness is simply using all of your power and skills, you didn't get conservative... you go all out.

If you want to feel like a winner... work hard, never give an effort that is weak and lesser than your real capabilities, give an A+ effort and you will get an A+ results.

FOCUS ON YOUR WORK AND YOU WILL FORGET YOUR PROBLEMS

You feel that you have a lot of problems because you're not working, you're simply bumming around like time is not that important. If you're wasting a lot of time then you're wasting your life, as simple as that. Your work should be your source of happiness, you should be happy about it. Even if you're just a janitor or a street sweeper or a blood sucker... feel happy about it because it's the only way to see other better opportunities. You can only grow if you will learn how to appreciate what you have and take it to another level. Your work will entertain you, time will become faster if you're working, you will even forget that you're inside of a big challenge. Work and work and work, that's how to get the job done. Some people were buried with their problems and feels dead forever because they're not even trying, they were focused on what they can't control instead of focusing on what they can do. So every time you are depressed or frustrated... just do something positive, don't be afraid to start and get nothing, don't be afraid to lose, once you're doing something to make your life better... you will never feel like a loser again even if your'e not gaining anything.

DON'T BE AFRAID TO LOSE, JUST WORK HARD

Focus on working hard instead of focusing on losing. Hard work is fun if you will learn to enjoy it. Stop thinking that you will need a lot of time in order to finish something or succeed. Forget time, it will pass anyway. Just focus on taking it one step at a time and feel happy about it. Feel so good working hard because that is the key to work harder than yesterday. Your hard work should always be evolving. Just because you work hard today doesn't mean that's all you can do. Of course you can do more and be more. Because you can never escape the pain of losing, it will happen to you no matter how much you resist it, it's all part of the process. But if you're always focused on working hard then you will never even notice that you are losing. So every time you lose... go back to hard work again, it's a never ending process. Once you're focused on working hard hen winning will become much easier, you will even feel that you can get anything you want, that's what power of hard work can do to you... it will give you supreme confidence and belief in yourself.

It's not about the money, it's not about getting a little praise after losing... it's hard work and nothing else, did you try to outwork everyone? did you try to become the hardest worker in the world? if you can work hard and exhaust yourself, if you can destroy your boundaries and become something else... you will feel like a real winner. You will feel like a legend, because this is what real legends do... they push themselves and deplete their energy just to win, they never stop until they get what they want. 

May 23, 2020

NEVER STOP YOURSELF... EVER (WAKE UP)

You are the only one who's stopping yourself and the sad thing is you don't know it. No matter how you look at it, no matter where angle you look at it... you're the one who's destroying your life and setting yourself up for failure. It's not the government, economy, neighbors, parents, frenemies etc. It's you and only you, you have to admit that you're the one who's putting yourself in trouble. Stop feeding your ego and do the right thing, make adjustments, admit that you're going down because you're doing a lot of stupid hings and entertaining a lot of useless thoughts. It's time to become real now, stop clowning around, stop playing too much, you need to be serious because you're running out of time. Stop wasting a lot of energy thinking if you will do it or not... just do it, enjoy the journey, enjoy the process of doing it. Because that's what you need to do in order to become unstoppable... just do it no matter what.

TAKE ACTIONS EVEN IF YOU'RE NOT INSPIRED.

Just move, do what you think is right, never let your mind stop you. You have to be aware if you're procrastinating. Trust me, it feels really good to be moving all the time, stopping is weakness, it feels like useless if you're not doing anything. You may not feel good now because you're uninspired, but who needs inspiration? inspiration will never get the job done... action does. So regardless if you're inspire or not... START and keep moving forward. You have to realize that you need to work hard, there is no such thing as something for nothing. Don't wait because you're only wasting your life by doing that. You have to take charge, you have to take over.

Focus on what you want to accomplish. Stop focusing on how you feel because most of the time you feel lazy. You're always looking for an excuse. Stop dwelling with your emotions and just do what you need to do. Execution over procrastination, this is the best formula that will help you to succeed. Stop thinking that it's hard, stop thinking that you can't make it and just do it... As simple as that. Because if you will not move then nothing will happen into your life. Start and go hard, start and set yourself free. Because you will always feel like a garbage whenever you're not moving. 

STOP SLEEPING

STOP pretending to be asleep. Wake up now and give your best. Start now and just do it. You're fooling yourself if you're wishing to become successful but just waiting and being lazy all the time. Wake up now, don't wait for your alarm clock to ring before you wake up, don't wait for something good or bad to happen before you execute. The execution must be done now, whether you like it or now... the show must go on. Wake up now before it's too late, sleeping will never do something good for you, it's only pulling you down and making your life harder. Open your eyes and see the limitless opportunities around you, you just have to look at in and claim it. Realize that time is running and that you need to do something about it. Sleeping is what everybody does, that's why most people are failing, you have to take matters into your own hands and do something about your situation, don't take your opportunities for granted, never waste your free time because it will never be free anymore in the future. Time will come and you will run out of time, you will become checkmate, you have nowhere to go, you have no more resources and strength. So do what you can do now with the best of your abilities and never give up, keep pushing forward until you finally win.

BE HUNGRY ALL THE TIME

Be hungry for success, be hungry for action, make it a mindset to treat action as the only thing that is covering up your starvation. Always think that you're going to die if you will not move now. You have to be fast, you have to do the impossible, do what most people can't do and you will get something that they can't get.

You're not hungry, you're not starving and that's why you're not in a sense of urgency to take actions. You're so comfortable with your life, you're so confident that everything is going to be fine. Is that a real confidence or a fake confidence? which is true, you can fool the public but you can never fool yourself, you know that you're going down so you need to do something about it. The best time to move is when you don't want to move, you have to keep pushing and forcing yourself, stop babying yourself too much, stop being soft and weak... you're better than that. You have to become hungry like a beast so that you will see no obstacle, you will just move forward and push like a raging bull that knows no boundaries or limitations. Because there are really no limitations, limits are what you place inside of your head. You have the chance to win, you have the chance to become victorious if you will just do it your way and stop holding yourself back.

IT'S YOUR TIME NOW

Devour every second because it's your time now, it's your time to shine, it's your time to get the throne. And even if you don't know what to do... just do something, take chance and make it happen. The golden opportunities are waiting for you, you just need to claim it and do whatever it takes to get it. The time is now, make it happen or else it won't happen. Stop focusing on things that doesn't matter at all, focus on improving yourself, focus on giving your full maximum effort. So stop stopping yourself, stop thinking that you can't do it because you can do it if you will just set your mind free from limitations. You are enough, start with what you have and make everything a little bit better. Keep leveling up, keep pushing forward, little by little... get it. 

May 22, 2020

EXECUTE A RANDOM IDEA

Sometimes there will be a very attractive idea that will pop out from your head. For whatever or unknown reason it showed up. And it's your duty to execute it right away. Stop hesitating and belittling yourself that you can't do it. Just try it and see if it will work, see what can it give to you. Because your intuition is always right, it can never go wrong, if it's an inspired idea then it is a right idea. If you feel good about it and you're hopeful that it will work then it will work, as simple as that.

Work on it as fast as you can. Never let your laziness stop you. You have to do it now if you want to experience a new life. That is what it's all about. Be a fast starter and a strong finisher. This is not about trying to look perfect and great. This is not about being successful that fast. You have to grind like there's no more tomorrow, hustle like hell so you will see heaven later, execute the idea you have right now may it be a small or big idea. Stop doubting yourself, stop worrying if it will work or not, just execute it now and forget what may happen next. 

WHY IS IT SO DIFFICULT TO START? 

Because your not in the present moment. You want to finish fast, you want to become successful fast. And that kind of thinking makes you overwhelmed. Stop judging yourself, stop comparing yourself to others and just hustle. Forget about making it fast and just give your very best every single day. Once you start stay committed and never stop, never quit when it's hard. Stay focused and keep pushing all the time. Remember that it's only just a matter of time before you win. You can make it if you will push yourself to the limits. Go to the point where you're almost breaking down... That's how to jump to another level. Remember that it's only hard in the beginning, once you start something... you will create a very powerful momentum that is a very good tool to finish what you've just started. So just start and forget about how you feel, forget about how long it takes to finish it, you can do it, you can start it and finish it all. Time is fast, if you will not start now then it will be harder for you to start later. Never believe in the word tomorrow, if you will always think that you can do it tomorrow or tomorrow is a perfect time to start then you're just fooling yourself. You're just making an excuse, there is a 99 percent possibility that you will never do it tomorrow. Because tomorrow is more inconvenient, there will be more distraction or responsibility tomorrow, the task will become harder tomorrow. So you have to do it now, you have to force yourself to start because it's the only way to get ahead in life. You have to keep moving forward all the time, you have to be relentless and aggressive. Forget about how you feel, forget if you feel lazy or sleepy, stop pampering yourself, you're not a baby anymore, it's your duty to work as hard as you can.

JUST KEEP PUSHING FORWARD EVEN IF YOU CAN'T

Even if you feel that you are wrong, even if you feel that nothing good is happening, even if you feel that nothing right is happening, even if you feel that you're not going to win... still move and make something happen, its they only way to avoid regrets, it's the only way to put yourself on a better position to win. There will always be a random idea that will show up and you have to grab it, start it, bring it into life, stop waiting and procrastinating because it's putting you down, you have to take matters into your own hands, make a move, keep moving forward even if it's hard. Always remember that every action is the right action, do something now because it's much better than doing nothing at all, one is always better than zero, produce something now and never hold yourself back... that's how to become a winner in life.

You will always have the energy to move forward, you will find the strength to move and make your situation a little bit better, it's just a matter of embracing the grind and not minding if you're always struggling. struggle is part of the game, it's part of your journey, don't complain about it, enjoy it and try to see the positive effect of it. You are getting stronger if you're struggling, you're becoming a beast, you are making yourself stronger than yesterday. If there is a resistance there is an improvement, you are only growing if you're always trying to break the boundary that is stopping you.

THAT RANDOM IDEA MAY GO AWAY

Start now, stop thinking because that random idea my go away, you may lose the inspiration, you may lose the good feelings about it, or maybe you will forget it tomorrow, you may remember it a little bit but not all the details. So you have to be fast, you have to have no conscience when making decisions. That's why stop wasting time, stop wasting a lot of seconds because every second counts, you have to start fast and be the hardest worker that you can be. Because not all the time you will remember what you think, sometimes a memory goes away so fast so you need to execute now before it's to late. 

WORK HARD WITH NO REGRETS

Some people will work hard and will feel bad and get frustrated if they can't see results. This is a bad attitude, you have to work hard and expect nothing from it. Just feel happy every time you work. That's the key to success. Some people are getting results but they are not happy working hard. They were stressed and hating their work. So if you can just be happy while working then you will feel like a winner already. Just do the work and don't feel sad, it's ok. If you can't become successful now just don't give up because success will come in the near future... As simple as that. It all depends on how strong your belief is.

HOW TO WIN AT ANYTHING

Being a winner is what we desire in our lives, who wants to become a loser? nobody wants it. Some losers will make excuses that they are satisfied with their lives but the truth is there are some bitterness, there are some regrets. If you want to become a winner, may it be in sports, business, politics etc... you have to give your all, that's it. GIVE YOUR ALL, never leave anything, never get conservative, never have any reservations.

FACE THE TRUTH

If you want to win in life then you need to face the truth, you need to accept the fact that you're too lazy and not doing anything good in life. If you need to work harder then accept it, you can't be wishing for success and waiting for it while doing the same thing over and over again, you have to take your work ethic to another level. And you can only do that by sacrificing little joys, sacrificing things that entertains you but are not giving you any gains in life. Things like watching TV a lot and spending too much time on social media will never get you anywhere, you have to be mindful if you're wasting a lot of time because that's the only way to change. Face the truth, Face the hardship, stop thinking that it's hard and just do it. Because at the end of the day... all you need to do is take actions and that's it, you can never escape the process. You have to become a doer, an action taker if you want to become a winner. 

May 20, 2020

4 EFFECTIVE HACKS TO STOP DOUBTING YOURSELF AGAIN

Are you always doubting yourself? Do you find yourself being scared of winning? it's ok, it's ok to become scared. It's part of who you are, it's part of being a normal person. Doubting yourself, thinking that you're not good enough was experienced by every great person in the world. You are not normal if you're not scared just for once.

HERE ARE THE FOUR MOST EFFECTIVE HACKS TO STOP DOUBTING YOURSELF AGAIN:

1. Don't think for a second and just do it.

Your mind is the number one source of your doubts, it is feeding you lies. The more you think, the more you worry. Stop overthinking and you will stop over worrying. Just do the work. The more you work hard, the more you will gain confidence. Just start, you will lose confidence if you will procrastinate and wait for the perfect timing, why? because there will be a lot of information that you will absorb as you wait. Other people will influence your mind, the pressure will become bigger, fear will start to take over. Because at the end of the day... you really want to do it, why not do it now? waiting will kill your self esteem, it will make you frustrated. Just don't think, be in the moment and do it now.

It is possible to just do it now, it's fun, you have to give it a try. Your worries and anxiety will instantly go away if you do it now. It's not hard, just be ready to adapt and accept anything that may happen. You may fail, you may look like a stupid fool but that's just the part of it. Remember, you are trying to kill your doubts, non of their comments doesn't matter at all.

2. Live with the results.

For as long as you work hard and giving your best, there is nothing else you can do about it anymore. Live with the results. If you fail you fail, if you win you win. Live with the results, have a mindset of having no regrets. If you screwed up everything, if you fail big time... so be it. Results should never make you feel bad at all. Live with it, you will never die if the result is not that nice. Results doesn't matter at all, what matters is you work hard and you did your best. Results is just an illusion, it's just another judgement from people. Because the truth is... you can still feel good even if you didn't win, and that is if you really believe in yourself and did it your way. So what if you lose? so what if you got rejected by a girl or got shouted by a coach? so what if your life is falling apart? you are still alive. Remember that every pain is molding you into a warrior, you are becoming a beast every time you feel bad because of losing. You are slowly going to the next level so don't be afraid to take risks because that is the key to riches and glory.

3. Never compare your skills, life, achievements with anyone. 

You have to appreciate everything that is happening in your life. Every time you compare yourself with others... you are disrespecting yourself. You know you can work hard, you know there are greater things waiting for you, comparing means you're insecure, you will doubt yourself even more every time you do that. Appreciate what you have, don't try to copy other people's path, be content of what you have and just try to make it grow, try to make it bigger bigger than what it was before. You are a unique individual, you don't need to compare what you have to what other people have. It's shame to look at other people's achievements and feel bad because you don't have the same type of victory. You need to understand that your path is different from theirs and that you need to focus on your life because success will come in your life too in just a matter of time, be patient and never feel bad if you're not winning now. Enjoy your life, enjoy the journey, so what if you're losing or struggling? that doesn't mean you can't win later.

4. Preparation kills doubts.

Get a lot of information, practice, get ahead by preparing to win. Prepare for the worst, prepare for any kind of situation. Preparation will make your mind tougher. If you prepare so hard and do the necessary work... you think you own the future. Just like a basketball player who practice 1 million shots before the game, that player's mind is unbeatable, he knew he can shoot anytime he wants, he knew he put in the hard work so nothing can stop him. His skills already evolved, his mind got stronger, he is so sharp, it's hard to destroy his confidence, because his mind was hardened and conditioned to succeed. If you can just be the hardest worker in your craft, if you can just focus on yourself then it will be very hard to put you down, you will never doubt yourself for a second, you just knew that you're going to win because you have the hardest preparation, you have what it takes to take over.

CONDITION YOUR MIND THE RIGHT WAY

Never think about frightening thoughts, never think about failing or not making it. You have to say to yourself a million times that you're a winner and can make it. Mind can be conditioned through constant repetition. Reshape your mind with powerful affirmations and visualizations. Think of what you want and see it happening in your life, if there is a negative thought that is sneaking through your brain... get rid of it immediately by thinking about the powerful thoughts again. Plant the most attractive images into your head, you have to reshape your mind if you want to gain confidence. It takes time but it will work 100 percent guaranteed. Be patient and fall in love with repetition, your mind will become unbeatable if you condition it the right way. 

May 19, 2020

FAILING TO SUCCEED

Failing is a bitter pill to swallow, everyone is afraid of failing, everyone is afraid of embarrassing himself. Me too, I am afraid of it but I found out that every time I fail it makes me closer and closer to success. It's reshaping my mind, it's giving me some kind of a hunger to keep going even if the process is so hard. I also found out that it's really not a big deal, it's making me stronger so why would I be afraid of it?

Failures means you are getting closer and closer to what you want. It's the right path to success. Don't be afraid of it because it's only making you better and better. Failure is part of the process, it's part of your journey, you will never succeed if you will refuse or avoid failing. It will only give you sadness, it will only make you a little bit sick, once you get over it... you are strong and hungry again, you are ready to try for one more time, but this time you're much better and wiser because you already gained some experience.

WHAT IS REALLY THE SOURCE OF YOUR FEAR?

The real source of your fear is not the failure itself, it's the people. You are afraid to fail because you're so afraid of what people might say. You're afraid of your coach spanking your ass when you miss the shot, you're afraid of your parents saying bad words to you if you fail the exam, you're afraid of critics if you don't hit the expectations.

You will become free if you don't care about what people say. You will become more creative, confident and aggressive. You will do everything you want. You will have that absolute freedom to express yourself and do it your way. If you will learn how to detach from what other people think then you will become more confident and fearless. You will do what your heart is telling you, you will act naturally and you will never be afraid to fail. If you will just stop looking at the people around you then you will become more artistic, you will be able to move freely, you will feel like a free bird that can soar to the highest sky. Your source of fear is not the failure itself, it's what people are going to say. Those people means nothing to your journey, they are just a small particle, they can say whatever they want but just keep going, keep pushing for your dream and do whatever it takes to win, it's up to you. Are you going to mind what they say and hold yourself back? r are you going to try with all your might and see what you can achieve by fully believing in yourself?

FAILURE OVER PERFECTION

Don't strive for perfection, just try. If you're not afraid to fail then you will be able to take massive actions. You will grow everyday, but if you will always strive for perfection then your actions will become conservative. The idea of being perfect will freeze you, it will immobilize you and make you worry all day long without even starting something. You have to fail over and over again in order to succeed. Perfection is just an illusion, nobody will achieve it. There will always be flaws, there will always be adversity, there will always be something wrong with your work. And even if you're almost close to perfection, you will still feel that you miss something, you will still feel that there is something wrong with. That's part of being a human, we never get satisfied, we always compare ourselves to others, we always criticize ourselves. What if you stop criticizing yourself and start believing in yourself? what if you just do it? what if you just work hard every single day and be happy with the results? I'm pretty sure you will be able to do more. The idea about being perfect is ok but don't let it consume your mind to the point where you can't take actions anymore.

FAILURE OVER RESULTS

You will not always get the results that you want. That's the reality, you will never get it on the first try. You have to focus on failing, keep failing again and again until you figure out what is working. You will discover the right process for you. Just do it, don't be afraid of what may happen. Focus on taking actions, focus on failing because you only get better every time you fail, you have nothing to lose here. And the truth is, you're really not failing every time you lose... you're just gathering details, you're just improving, you're already on a different level every time you fail so never get sick and tired of it. Because you will only get frustrated, you will lose your motivation, you will run out of patience every time you focus on the results. Results doesn't matter at all, it will come if it will come, what you need to focus on is giving full maximum effort, give everything you've got and never feel sorry for yourself if you can't make it. Your time will come, it may not happen now but who knows? maybe you're only one step away from winning.

STAY FOCUS, STAY SHARP, NEVER QUIT

Stay aggressive all the time, be happy if you're trying something new. Be appreciative that you can try for one more time. Never waste your time for useless activities, be aware that time is gold and that you need every second to become successful. Time is money, time is opportunity, time is your most valuable asset. So don't whine and cry like a little kid every time you fail, face it, endure it and try again. Never stop, never quit. Winners never quit and losers never try again. It's not how smooth or flawless your journey is... it's how you remain strong despite of adversity and you show up until the end, it's not how you start, it's how you finish. It's not how perfect you are, it's how dirty you are but you still keep pushing to get that victory. 

May 18, 2020

YOU DON'T NEED TO LOOK AT SOME DETAILS

If you're so damn thirsty and there is a glass of water on the table, it's the only water available in your house, you can't go out anymore because it's already 3:58 AM but the thing is this... the water have some ants on it, will you still drink it? if you're going to ask me I will drink it without a doubt, I'm so thirsty, I need to quench my thirst. It doesn't matter if it has an ant or shit on it, I will ignore the other details and just drink it, as simple as that. There are some details that you can ignore, there are some details that you must be alert of.

If your mother is always scolding you because she wants you to do the right thing and become a good person... ignore that part, ignore that detail, don't take it personally and just look on the benefit you will get from it. She's guiding you and caring for you, that's what you should be focusing on. Don't focus on the hurtful words that are coming out from her mouth. Focus on her intention and that is to give you a better future. Sometimes you're looking on something that is making you feel bad. Ignore the details that doesn't make you feel good and focus on what is useful. Just like appreciating your girlfriend, your girl is not perfect, sometime she is grumpy, sometimes she is fast, you don't need to look at her ugly traits, just focus on the best traits that she have so you will appreciate her even more.

If you're on a process of developing you will not love every step of the way. There are some steps that makes you feel bad or uninspired. You need to ignore those things and just focus on what makes you feel better. If you really need to do it then just do it, ignore the emotions that you're feeling from it. Life will become much easier if you will not look at the details that are making you feel bad and uninspired. The key to feel better and live an easier life is to focus on the details that are serving you and not that is making you feel bad, as simple as that. It's all about how strong your appreciation for life is, stop looking at some details that are not attractive at all. I'm sure you can appreciate something about something, I'm sure you have the ability to do that. So practice appreciation more so that your life will become easier and happier. It's all about focusing on what is good and not on what is bad, that's the trick to make your life easier.

IGNORE THE LOSSES 

For example in business, there are some employees that are not productive, you can simply ignore them and focus on the your gains. If your gains is larger than the losses then just keep the business running, if you're still earning money and the losses are acceptable then there is nothing to worry about. You only need to worry if you're not earning anymore or if the losses are not acceptable anymore. There is no need to worry if you're still winning.

Just like in stock market, there is no need to panic if you have a lot of losses, stay cool, don't worry. The money is still there, you don't need to freak out because one day you will have gains again, one day the price of your stocks will rise again. Just be happy that you were still able to survive despite of economic crash. The losses will be erased by the wins that are about to come in the future, just wait and be patient, there is no need to look at the losses because it will only make you feel worse, there are some things that can make you happy, focus on the subjects that will give you a hope.

And so what if you're losing now? you can still win in the end, it's up to you if you will adapt a victim mindset or adapt a mindset that gives you hope and motivation. It's all in your mind, what dominates your mind will become your reality.

LIFE IS NOT PERFECT AT ALL

Your life is not perfect, your work is not perfect, your parents are not perfect, your friends are not perfect. Stop looking for a perfect life because it is not possible, you're only wishing for nothing if you keep thinking that way. There will really be a lot of things that you don't like and will never like, it's up to you if you will choose to become appreciative or not. The power is in you, nothing can make you feel bad if you have the right mindset. If you can just accept that life is not perfect then you will feel much better. Be happy that you're still alive and can still witness some good things that are happening or about to come. There are many things were you can be happy at so never take this day for granted and don't focus on the details that are not attractive to your eyes.

Your old shoes, the scratch in your car, your noisy neighbors, the hard process of the project, your not easy to work with client, the disrespectful people around you... these are nothing, you can still become happier and live better despite of these things. All you need to do is change your perspective towards something, just appreciate that you still have a lot of things where you can be happy with, all you need to do is open your eyes and be grateful of what you have. Stop disliking a lot of things because it's not good for you and will never be good for you. Focus on the little things that makes you happy, focus on the tiniest details that makes you feel better and your negative emotions will soon go away.

May 17, 2020

THE NUMBER ONE REASON WHY YOU'RE BROKE AND DON'T HAVE MONEY ALL THE TIME

Are you always asking yourself why you don't have money all the time? are you so sick and tired because you can't provide what your family needs? is the bank always calling you and threatening you that they will kick you out from your house? it feels bad right? it sucks. It sucks being broke, it feels so low, even if you convince yourself that money can never make you happy your worries and troubles for not having money still find you. There is a reason why you're broke and don't have money all the time and that is... YOU'R WASTING A LOT OF YOUR TIME FOR NOTHING. 

THE STORY OF MY BROKE NEIGHBOR

I've been watching this neighbor of mine because I always see him everyday by just looking outside of the window of my room. It's not that I am interested at him but I just love studying behaviors of people and dissecting down the details why they are getting the results that they have. I don't know this guy, he is just a new in our community. Upon watching his actions every time I see him... I found out that he is a driver, his occupation is taking people to wherever they are going and getting paid for it. When the lockdown started because of Corona Virus this guy doesn't know what to do anymore. He seems to be so upset. He loves to talk to other guys on our neighborhood, he seems to look friendly. Their hangout place is just a few steps from our house that's why I can hear what they are talking about. I found out that this guy is always complaining and whining like a kid. He blames the government, the lockdown, he has millions of excuses inside of his pocket. Had he use his free time for hustling and looking for some ways to make money then his family would be eating some turkeys and fine bread now. But this bum is using his time relaxing and talking all the time. He doesn't want to look for an alternative. I know it's hard to hustle because of the lock down but if you really want something then you will find a way.

The funnier thing is... this guy is borrowing money just to buy some cigarettes. If you're a righteous man then you will never prioritize your vices over your family. His children were getting hungry but he still manage to puff some cigars. And that has been his story everyday, always talking and complaining, always wishing for relief goods from the government. He is wasting a lot of his time that's why he is broke and miserable.

BE AWARE IF YOU'RE WASTING TIME

The number one reason why you're wasting a lot of time is because you're not aware of it. You think you have a lot of time, you think your time is bottomless. But the truth is sooner or later your time will run out and if you haven't done enough for your dreams yet then you will have a lot of regrets. You should be ashamed of yourself if you're wasting a lot of time, it's a mortal sin, sooner or later you will be punished for it, your life will become miserable, you will be stuck in a mud because time is fighting back. So stop abusing your time, use it to make your life better, use it to make your mind and body better so that you will have stronger tools to attract success into your life. Use every second, every minute, every day of your life to get what you want. Don't be afraid to get bored, forget your emotion, forget everything that entertains you. Entertainment is for the losers, grinding is for the real men and big boys. If you're always looking for comfort and relaxation then hustling is not for you, you better just watch your favorite fantasy movie and imagine you're the star there.

Your time is your valuable asset so don't ever waste it for nothing, use it to get an edge, use it to put yourself on a better position to succeed.

TIME IS DOLLARS

Time is money, imagine how much money you are losing because of wasting time. The time you use for playing video games or watching stupid movies that doesn't even help at all, it's ridiculous. The time you wasted for thinking about your enemies, the time you wasted for gossips. Did it make you grow? did it give you some money? You don't need to become smart to become rich, just have that money mindset all the time. Think about how can you make dollars, and once you have an idea... go and execute it even if you feel that it will not work. Work hard and you will become smarter later, work hard now and everything will become easier later. The experience you will get will make you smarter and better, it will be easier for you to make more money.

There are millions of ideas on how to make money, you can even become a professional even if you didn't go to school. Just go to you tube university and follow some techniques that you think will work, try it for weeks or months and see if it will give you results. Use the trial and error process. If you're patient and believe in yourself then you will get money, as simple as that.

THROW AWAY ALL YOUR EXCUSES OFF THE WINDOW

Destroy all of your excuses and you will have a new life, as simple as that. It will be easier to create money if you will not create images on your mind why you can't do it. Of course you can do it, have you give everything you've got yet? I'm pretty sure you just use 50 percent of your skills and strength or maybe lower than that and that is why you are failing. You must go all out and use your time, energy and everything you have to get some money. Never give up when it's hard, just keep pushing and you will find a way out of no way. 

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