You're insecure not because you have an ugly teeth, a lot of pimples, not smart, not popular, not one of the cool kids, not rich etc. etc. You're insecure because you're not working hard to become better. If you're focused on getting better everyday then all of your worries and insecurities about yourself will go away. Life is what you make it, you become insecure because you're not giving too much time for yourself instead you're focusing on other people, you care about what they say, you care about how they feel, you care about their reactions towards you and that's making your life even more difficult.
GET ADDICTED TO THE PROCESS
You have to feel ashamed of yourself if you're not doing something today to make yourself better. Time is running, stop wasting time, you need to wake up and do something about your situation. If you have no confidence at all it means you're lazy and wasting a lot of your time. If you will make your time valuable then you will use it to set up your life for something better, you will use it to make your future brighter. The power of taking small steps everyday is real, you have to test it for your own good, just try it and you will see an enormous difference. Go all in and see what will happen to your life, give your very best, give everything you've got and see what will happen, see how far can you go, never doubt the process, keep doin git until you squeeze something out of it. Hard work will erase your insecurities, chase something so you will never focus on your ugly face, keep winning so you will never feel inferior.
Focus on becoming better each day, master a skill, master your emotion and you will become very confident. Always think that you're just playing here, always think that you will never lose anything, you will gain a lot of things. Treat life as a game, don't be afraid to lose, don't be afraid to give everything you've got.
If you're the hardest worker in the world then you will become super confident. You will bet on yourself because you just knew that you're going to win, you just knew that opportunities will be attracted to you because hard work is very attractive. Just keep believing, keep working and never try to please people, never try to impress people, work on your craft, focus on becoming better everyday and success will come.
USE THE POWER OF BELIEF
Believe, just believe that you can do anything you put your mind to. Just believe that you can do anything if you work hard and focus on your own journey. You can't win because you're worried all the time, you can't become successful because you don't believe in yourself, but if you will believe in yourself then everything will work out, you will have a breakthrough, you will gain more confidence. Trust the process, trust your ability to persevere, trust your ability to grind, pure hustling will increase your belief. Because at the end of the day you will believe in something, why not believe in your ability to work hard. You can change something everyday and that is your power, you can make an impact, you can help someone, you can help yourself, you can grow a little bit, you can learn a little bit. That's enough to believe in yourself, you can only grow if you're willing to work like hell and forget anything that is stopping you or derailing your success.
It's free to believe in yourself so why not abuse it? why not believe in yourself to the fullest? why not give everything you've got and expect to win all the time. Because even if you fail... you still have another tomorrow when you can try, you still have another chance, you have unlimited tries, it doesn't matter how slow you get it what matters is you keep trying and there's no quitting in you. All you have to do is push forward and you will win, as simple as that.
CONFIDENCE DOESN'T COME FROM THE OUTSIDE
Some people were only confident because they're rich, they have good looks, they have a strong support, they have cool friends, they're winning, the have everything to impress other people. What if they don't have anything? what if nobody is there to help them? what if they're losing all the time? Confidence doesn't need to come from external, it should be felt inside, you just feel it, you just knew you're enough and you don't need to impose your will or make people respect you. You don't need to prove yourself, you just need to feel good about yourself even if you don't have anything. If you're only confident because a lot of people got your back or everything is going your way then you're really not confident, it's a fake confidence. Real confident people doesn't need anything to feel confident, they knew that they are enough and they don't need anything anymore.
Confidence can be develop, if you don't have it you just need to practice wearing it. Don't be afraid to talk to anyone, the key here is to stop being afraid getting rejected, if you can just put in your mind that it's ok to lose and it's ok to get laugh at then you will never be afraid anymore. The judge should be yourself, if you never feel ashamed of yourself then there's nothing to worry about. You have no confidence because you're too afraid of getting judged and get criticize that's why you're so afraid to try. Judge yourself based on your willpower and not on the results you've been getting. Feel proud of yourself if you already try because that's the only thing you need to do. Winning or losing is not in your control but trying... it's in your hands. You have the luxury to try all the time, that's your privilege but you're not using it. If you can try a million times then your confidence will soar, as simple as that.
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