Being a perfectionist, trying to control everything, trying to make everything perfect... this mindset is the main cause of procrastination, you are pretending that you know something, you are pretending that you are planning but the reality is you're not going anywhere because you haven't execute a single step yet. It's all about taking actions, it's not about the details, it's not about being the rightest person in the room... it's about who can work the hardest and stay consistent. So if you feel so weak because you're not making any progress... don't worry, just work hard everyday and give your best... you will get something for sure, you will also know what it feels like to become successful. So stop thinking that everything should be fine before you take an action, stop having that analysis paralysis mindset, you have to pull the trigger now and take risks, you have to execute as much as you can.
WORRYING ABOUT THE SMALL DETAILS WILL MAKE YOU STUCK
All you need to do is give your best, take your work seriously and passionately and you will succeed. You will win, you will become stuck if you will always look for what is missing, focus on what you can do and not on what you haven't done. Stop judging yourself because you are enough, always think abundantly, always feel free, never allow yourself to become slow or stuck just because of a one small detail. Because the more you worry about the small details that you can't do... the more you will become crazy, you need to let go of the small details that are out of your control, let it go, just do it. Never strive to become a perfectionist, strive to become a fast mover and a fast decision maker. You have to decide now if you will do something even if the cards on your hands are not good, you have to decide that you're going to take actions even if there are lot of imperfections in your life.
You feel stuck, you're always stuck because you're worried about everything instead of believing in yourself. Why not try to believe in yourself just for once. I mean really believe in your work and never judge yourself whenever you're not making any results. Why not just keep moving forward and do whatever it takes to succeed?
CONSISTENCY IS BETTER THAN EVERYTHING
If you're doing something everyday, if you're working hard everyday and your mindset is to become better... you will get better. If you are consistent enough then you will prevail, you will win, as simple as that. You don't need to become perfect, scientific, technical or talented. You don't even need to study the smallest details, you just need to stay consistent and the right knowledge or skills will be developed. You must have that strong intention to become better, relax and never put pressure on your shoulders because you don't know a lot of things. Just pick a process, pick something to develop and do it everyday, do it even if it's storming, do it even if you're dehydrating, you have to stop making excuses if you want to make a progress.
Do something for your dream everyday without thinking about having a rest. Never stop even if it's holiday, never give yourself a cheat day. Greatness is all about moving forward, it's all about not letting the momentum die.
PULL THE TRIGGER ALL THE TIME
Every time you need to move... just do it, don't think about anything and just do it, never mind how you feel and just do it. It doesn't require much strength to pull the trigger, resistance becomes stronger if you will think about the future too much, it's getting harder if you feel bad that you are not progressing. Just do it regardless of what the outcome will be. Doing it is 100 million times better than not doing it. Avoid hesitating all the time, if you have to choose between not doing it or doing it... choose doing it. Worrying about the small details will make you stuck and slow, you need to focus on what you need to do and do it anyway no matter what. Never stop yourself just because it's too risk and scary, never stop expressing yourself just because the whole crowd is watching doesn't mean you're not going to go all in because you're so scared of embarrassing yourself. Just because you don't have enough experience doesn't mean you're not going to pass your resume. You have to pull the trigger all the time and never stop. Just do it, give yourself a chance to become successful because it's all worth it.
CHECKING FOR THE OUTCOME MAKES THE RESISTANCE STRONGER
Don't check for the results, just keep working harder everyday and let the results be drawn to you automatically. If you really believe in your work then you don't have to check for results anymore. Feel happy that you are working, feel abundant by working hard and never be needy of any results. Promise to yourself that you will just work hard and do whatever it takes to succeed. Be patient and never look for a reason why your work is not working, don't look for the tiniest details that are making you fail, just work and follow your heart. The smallest details doesn't matter, don't sweat the small stuff. Focus on working and you are good, there's nothing else to worry about.
Don't look for victories, don't look for improvements, don't look for progress. Just focus on hard work and always believe that you don't need to worry anymore because you are getting better and better everyday. Believe that hard work pays off all the time, believe that you're on your way to the top. Free yourself from the outcome, so what if you're struggling? so what if you're failing, just do whatever it takes to win and never quit, as simple as that.
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