Did you feel embarrassed in the past? were you a wallflower all your life? are you seeking for a little bit of appreciation but nobody can give it to you? did you get bullied in high school? did a lot of hot chicks rejected you? Don't cry like a little dweeb don't feel sorry for yourself, don't ever think that you have a crappy life, don't ever put yourself down because you can make a comeback and surprise them. Make yourself better everyday. The best revenge is to just be quiet and have peace with what happened, let go of the bitter feelings and focus on being better everyday. The right people will love you, and they will be attracted to you once you learn how to love yourself. Always be humble, stay grounded and never give up to small challenges, push yourself to the limits and always try to get to the next level. Make the people who rejected you or despise you as a motivation, work hard so that you will never experience rejection again next time.
DO IT FOR YOURSELF
Do it for yourself not for others. Do it because you want to become better and not to impress people. If you will do it for other people then you will not be yourself anymore, you will not become successful because you want to please them, and pleasing people will lead to failure. Why will you please them? they don't like you before so the will still not like you know even if you become better. The right people will come along, the right people for your life will treat you better. So you need to be at the top of your game. You need to give your very best every single day and become successful, the best thing to do is become big as you can be so you will stay busy and forget all of the people who rejected you. So when time comes and you see those people again... they will get stunned, they will be surprised of how much you grow. Yourself is your one and only true ally, you have to do it for yourself so that you will grow and evolve. Don't ever compare yourself to others, don't ever think that someone is better than you or you're better than them, just be yourself and stay humble, have that mentality of growing everyday and success will come to your life little by little.
FOCUS ON THE PUSH
Just push yourself everyday and there's nothing else to worry about. Push yourself for greatness, push yourself to improve a little bit. You don't need to become a ravishing man overnight, be ok with the slow transformation, be ok with a slow journey, what matters is you're consistent and not stopping. You have to push when it's hard, you have to push when nothing right is going on with your life. Pushing will get the job done, it will give you anything you need. It will make you a better person, you will forget all of your problems because you're pushing. Just push and never stop, keep getting better each day, keep going no matter what. Pushing will make you better, it will put you on a very good place, don't be afraid of it, don't be resistance of it, just push and enjoy it. If you need to study then study, if you need to take a bath then take a bath, if you need to exercise then exercise. Always look at yourself, make yourself a machine, you should be ashamed of yourself if you're not doing everything to make your life better. Life is simply about moving and giving your best, always remember that you only have one life, why will you waste it for nonsense things? you need to grow, you need to have a better mindset. Believe that you can become 100x better than yesterday.
IT'S A SCARY PLACE
Changing yourself is a scary place, you will get so uncomfortable. That's the price of change, you want progress right? you have to endure the most uncomfortable and stressful feelings, it is what is, there's no other way around, there's no reason to back down, there's no excuses to be mad if you really wanted to change. You have to be selfish with your time, you have to own your life and never give it to anyone. What I mean is... you need to put all of your energy to make your life better instead of trying to please everyone or supporting someone who doesn't support you back. Stop idolizing people that doesn't give any attention to you, you have to love yourself and never give your time for free because every second is crucial, you're throwing the chance of becoming great every time you waste a couple of minutes or hours scrolling in your social media account. The time you wasted for nonsense things and gossips could have been use to create a bright future. So ask yourself one more time do you really want to change?, do you really want some respect? do you really want to get on top if the answer is yes then be willing to face the pain and uncertainty, be willing to push yourself like you never push before, be willing to face the unknown and never be afraid of losing.
If you want to change the you must stop allowing yourself to do stupid things again for one more time. You must accept that you're changing every thought and every habit that is not working. You must stop allowing yourself to do one obvious mistake for the last time and promising to yourself that it's the last. If you will allow yourself to do that for one last time then you will repeat it again tomorrow. If you say to yourself that you're going to puff your last cigarette today and you will never puff again tomorrow then you're just fooling yourself. You will puff it again tomorrow, once you allow yourself to do it again then the cycle will never stop, you have to stop even if the temptation is very strong, you have to discipline yourself and take a look at the bigger picture. It's only hard for now, it's only difficult for now but you will be able to adapt and make it look easier the next few months.
Discipline is the only thing that will change you and nothing else. If you want to stun the people that belittle you before then you need to make tremendous sacrifices. You have to have a very strong self control, you have to use your willpower and stop all the stupidity that is not helping you. Discipline is the only thing that will help you, not your life coach, not some motivational bullshit, not some hot girl to inspire you, not some help from experts. You're the only one who can help yourself. So stay committed to your goal and do whatever it takes to become better than yesterday.
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