Don't wonder why you are losing, don't blame anything for your miserable life, don't feel jealous with people who are making it, don't ever feel entitled of something big, you are losing because of one reason only... you're a spectator and not a doer. You're a watcher and not an action taker, as simple as that. You love watching other people's journey rather than focusing on your own life.
Every time you look at them, every time you talk about them, every time you react with something not really related to you... you are losing your power, you are wasting time that could have been use for your own growth, you are getting weaker and weaker every time you focus on things that you don't have control over with.
Why will you get mad because a lot of people were bashing your idol in politics? why will you get jealous if the person you hate is winning? why will you try to control what other people are doing? why will you wish that things could be better if you're not doing anything? why will you feel bad because your wish has not been granted? why will you choose to watch your idol winning instead of making yourself better? why will you focus on other people's business? why will you get insecure with other people who are working hard? why will you try to act that you also deserve to win even if you haven't done anything impossible yet? The reason why you keep losing and losing is because you're not focused on your own work, you're too focused on watching other people, hating other people, wishing for other people's success, idolizing a politician, fighting for a known personality that's not even blood related to you. You're wasting your time and life absorbing the information, entertainment and news that will not even give you money or growth.
MAKE YOURSELF THE INSPIRATION YOU'RE LOOKING FOR
You're always looking for someone or something to inspire you, you're rooting for someone with rags to riches story, you're following someone who was underdog before but a popular star now, you're always looking for someone to motivate you, why not make yourself your own inspiration? why not be the one who come from the bottom and rises to the top? why not be the one who's working hard to become successful? why not create your own inspirational story and be the one who's the leading role of that story? you're always looking for someone to motivate you, why not be your own spark plug and idolize yourself? the reason why you can't win is because you don't believe in yourself, you believe others more than you believe in yourself. You admire them, you ask advices from them, you follow their story and that's why you already forgotten that you too can create stories like that.
If you don't want to become a loser forever then make yourself a winner, you will only do that if you focus on trying to get better everyday. Always bet on yourself, always give your very best every single day and disconnect from what other people are doing. So what if they're becoming successful and you're not? so what if your idol has an STD? so what if the person that inspires you is a fraud? so what if your enemy is suffering? you don't need those information, it's only poisoning your mind and messing up your mentality. You have to have a laser focus if you want to win in this thing called life. Stop acting like you have all the time to change and start whenever you want to, it's necessary to start now, you have to wake up from the nightmare that you get addicted to. You're too obsessed with those information, happenings, people and entertainment that's only making your life worse. Turn off the god damn tv, turn off your cellphone, close all your social media accounts and simply focus on trying to make yourself better each day. Chase a goal, master a skilled, look at yourself, enjoy yourself and be mindful of your actions. Stop yourself immediately if you're doing or thinking something that is useless.
Focus on what you can control so that you will feel more powerful. Because focusing on the problems of other people, focusing on the lives of other people will only make you weak and powerless. You have no power over them, you can't control them, all you can do is wish for them, wish for things to change and wishing means weakness, it means you will never take actions you just want a miracle. And speaking of miracle, it will never happen if you will not exert a very strong and deep effort. Your prayers will only be answered if you're doing your responsibility and that is to work hard as much as you can and give everything you've got for what you want.
You will only feel like a winner if you will focus on your own life, it's not about being narcistic or a loner, it's about trying to reach your full potential and trying to see what is possible for you.
WHAT DOES THE GREAT ONES HAVE THAT YOU DON'T HAVE?
They have lesser friends, lesser doubts, lesser bullshits in life. They only focus on honing their craft, they don't have a lot of things going on with their lives, they have a very strong mentality because they're only focused on one thing and that is winning. What they have is discipline and the ability to choose the right decisions. They're too mindful and aware of what they're doing, they know if they're already doing something that is not helping them to evolve. They know if they need to stop something that is not helping them to make a progress. There is nothing special to them, they just knew the right recipe, habits and mindset to become great.
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