THAT THIRST WILL SOON GO AWAY

Don't feel so bad if you can't have that girl or that car or that dream right away. Not getting it is not the problem, the problem is that you don't know that it's not about having it, it's about you not knowing that it's just a feeling. You feel you will become happy once you have what you want, you feel you will become happy forever but the reality is you will not. Ever wonder why there are some men who keep telling about the girl of their dreams that they will marry not girl but once they have that girl and have romance for months or years they will leave that girl or file for a divorce. It's simply because emotions change all the time, don't ever think that what you feel now will stay forever, it never will, you will feel differently for the next few days, be mindful that emotions come and go so don't feel bad of yourself if you feel sad or depressed... that feeling will go away anytime soon, all you need to do is survive and you will be alright.

YOU THINK THAT DESIRE WILL STAY FOREVER?

No desires will stay forever, once you get what you want... your emotions will go down. Your hunger for it will go away, that's why people fall out of love... they didn't take care of their emotions anymore, they didn't work for their relationships anymore, if you're no longer working for the emotion that you wanted to stay... it will go away on your system. It's easy to forget an enemy if you will stop thinking about him, same as love... if you don't think about your partner anymore then that love will go. That's why don't ever think that what's not in your life is the only thing that will make you happy because once it's in your life... you will treat it as ordinary because you can hold it everyday, you can use it everyday. 

Another good example is a man badly longing for his sexy crush, he wants to undress her, he wants to marry her, he wants to be with her forever. But his crush doesn't like him so he feel so bad and depressed, he can't function normally because his crush is consuming a lot of space in his mind. He feels like he can't forget his crush anymore. But sooner or later that thirst will go away if he focus his attention to something that is not related to his crush. He feels that all he want is that girl but the truth is that thirst will soon go away especially if he stay busy doing some other things. 

So if you're also struggling in love, if you can't get the love back from the person that you want... don't worry about it. You don't need that person, it's not about that person... it's about how you feel. 

IF YOU WANT SOMETHING BAD ENOUGH

If you want something bad enough, let's say a shoe or a shirt or something but you can't have it because you don't have money... don't worry because you will forget it anytime soon. You think you need it because you want it but the truth is what you have for now is enough, you don't need anything anymore. Everything else is just a bonus if you can have it, who you are and what you have is enough, you don't need to long for something and cry about it if you can't have it. If you want something bad enough and there is really chance that you can have it then just let it go, don't long for it, don't dream about it everyday because it's just a waste of time and energy... let it go ad focus on what you can really have. Focus on the reality because sometimes you're dreaming about marrying a celebrity or having a yacht, these things are possible but you have to give your whole life to get it. What if you're not willing to die for your dreams? what if you're just weak like everyone else? the solution for that is stop dreaming and face the reality, focus on what you can achieve today, focus on where you are and simply enjoy the process of evolving little by little. Because the truth is you can never have these luxuries the moment you want it, you have to wait for a very long time, are you willing to do that? 

So don't get jealous with other people who has everything. Don't compare yourself to them because they already don't appreciate what they have, they're not happy with what they have and they want to have more, they want to have some new things and accomplishments. People are like that, they never get satisfied. You can be happier than a millionaire if you can appreciate what you have honestly. 

YOUR THOUGHTS IS CONTROLLING YOUR LIFE

Whatever you're thinking of is controlling how you feel, it's your mind that is creating your feelings. Fear and happiness was created through thoughts. If you want to be scared then worry all the time, think about the scary things, people and situation, think about your life falling apart. Bu if you want to feel happy and courageous then focus your thoughts on the things and images that motivates you. Focus on seeing a beautiful life. Focus on what makes you happy, never think about negative things for a second. Stop worrying, stop predicting an ugly future and start controlling your thoughts now. It's all about the focus, what you're focusing on will create your reality. It may sound absurd but try testing it... think money everyday and you will attract it, think about negativity everyday and you will attract it. 

So if you're not happy right now it means your thoughts were all negative, you need to watch your mind, you need to think differently. Stop being on a negative cycle, stop being fearful and worried all the time, stop being depressed and overly dramatic... control your thoughts and you will be able to control your life.