You think you need a bike before you exercise, you think you need a motivation before you take the first step, you think you need a college degree before you become successful, you think you need a life coach before you make your life better, you think you need a new shoes before you jog, you think you need a sexy and kind wife before you arrange your own life, you think you need a help before you get things right, you think you need a huge amount of money before you start your own business, you think you need this and need that before you make your life better. Well you know what? everything you need was just an excuse, you are only trying to avoid actions that's why you're always looking for what is lacking in your life, you're only trying to make a validation that you're not successful because you don't have what you need.
DON'T LOOK FOR SOMETHING BEFORE YOU START
Don't look for a new bike, don't look for a new treadmill, don't look for a new girlfriend, don't look for a new inspiration, don't look for a new start, don't look for someone to help you, don't look for approval, don't look for appreciation, don't look for an evidence that you're going to win, don't look for what you don't have, just start it. You yourself is all you need, you don't need a spark plug to keep you going, you don't need any motivation at all, you don't need a guarantee that you're going to win.. just keep moving and that's it.
IT'S NOT GOING TO BE PERFECT ALL THE TIME
Your journey will never become prefect all the time, you will never get anything you need, all you can do is outgrow the problem, adapt and improvise, use what you have and start were you are. You will always feel imperfect, uncomfortable, scared, hesitant, uncertain, unsure, doubtful, low, heavy, lazy and sick. It's because your mind will always look for comfort, it will never try to leave the comfort zone. But the comfort zone is the most dangerous zone because there is no growth in there, you have to push yourself to take actions even if you don't like it because miracles only blossom on the darkest place. You will only create an opportunity if there is no opportunity, you will only manage to grow a little bit when you're in pressure or struggling. You have to face the resistance and make it weaker and weaker through your actions, break all the limits, break all the negative patterns, push yourself to the place where you haven't been before. Because it's the only way, if there is other way then what was it? you can't tell right. You have to accept that all you need to do is work harder, finish faster, do more, become more efficient, be professional and always give your very best.
Remember that it's not going to be perfect all the time and there's nothing wrong with that, embrace the imperfections and just do whatever it takes to win in life. It is what it is, it's not going to be easy but so what? that doesn't mean that you can't do something, that doesn't mean that there is no chance to succeed. Decide to just don't stop and see what you can get in your life, decide that you're just going to push yourself to the limits and never mind some other things that are outside of your goal, lock in until you finally made it.
AT THE END OF THE DAY...
You will have to ask yourself if you really did the work, you will ask yourself if you really give your very best. And that's the only thing that is important... did you really give your all? did you push yourself to the limits? did you fail as much as you can? You can use all the excuses in the world but if you didn't give your A game then you can't blame anything, it's you that made yourself fail. Your excuses will only fail you, no matter how right you are if you can't make results then you're still wrong. It's better to be moving and doing something rather than making excuses and being stagnant because of looking for a scapegoat. Don't point fingers on anything, you are the one to blame for your failure. You fail yourself, you didn't push enough to put yourself on a better position to win.
YOU WILL BE ABLE TO FINISH IT FASTER IF YOU'RE NOT RUSHING
Having a hard time starting something? it's because you want to finish it fast right before you even started. You're having a hard time enjoying your work because you're always looking at the clock. You always feel that it's hard and heavy because you're always looking for the finish product, you're not trying to enjoy every movement that was happening. Don't rush for the finish line, don't rush to finish it, enjoy the process and you will be able to forget what time it is. Stop looking at the clock, stop trying to make shortcuts and simply have fun. This is not a race, it's a journey, you have to remind yourself that you don't need to compete with others, you don't need to compare what you have with what they have. Just focus on your life, you can't make excuses here.
JUST DON'T GIVE UP AND THAT'S IT
If you don't know what to do, if you're struggling so bad, if the whole world turn its back against you... just don't give up, better things are coming, just keep pushing and you will find a way, as simple as that. Stay positive and just believe that you will be able to have a breakthrough one day. Be patient and just take it one step at a time, never mind if you're losing, never mind if you're the last on the race, be ok with the struggle because after that is a relief. All sacrifices have an equivalent reward, you just need to stick with the process and keep moving forward even if nothing good is happening in your life.
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