The number one reason why you can't succeed is because you're so afraid to lose. And when you're afraid to lose it also mean you're afraid to win. You're so afraid to work hard and push yourself because you're thinking that your time and efforts might only be wasted for nothing. You have to be happy if you're losing because it means you're evolving and trying, it's making you grow, it's only just a matter of time before you win. So be patient and never give up, keep losing everyday, welcome defeats with all your heart. Never stop trying, never stop taking actions because you will be able to catch success one day. Because you will never be a failure forever, you just need to keep taking actions, take the next step, execute as fast as you can and never stop for a second, make yourself a relentless beast, keep attacking the goal and never ever stop.
WHY ARE SO PEOPLE AFRAID TO LOSE?
Because they thought that losing makes them look worse, they thought that they are being judged, they thought that losing feels so bad. But if you will come to think of it... losing doesn't feel bad, you feel bad because you're trying to live up with the expectations of others, you don't want to look like a loser. But the real losers in life are the ones who didn't even try. You're already a winner if you're trying, you're already going to the top if you're trying all the time. Because one day success will get tired of hiding from you, it will get tired of running away from you. Time will come and you will be able to hit the jackpot.
If you're not afraid to lose then you will be able to work harder, move faster and be more creative.
DON'T BE TOO HARD ON YOURSELF WHEN YOU LOSE
Whenever you fail, go back and try again, work right away and never mind if you lose again. Be proud of yourself because you're giving your best. Treat it like a game, never take life seriously, be serious with your work but never feel too bad because you're losing, just remember that you can try again for one more time, your number of tries will never run out, there is a huge possibility that you will win next time. Dust yourself off, stand up proud and try again for one more time. Don't well too much on why you lose, never criticize yourself, be happy that you're still on your journey and always enjoy every step... that's the key, enjoy the process and try harder the next time.
TAKE RISKS ALL THE TIME
It's risky to put a lot of time on something that has no assurance of becoming successful, it's too risky to try something that you haven't done before, it's too risky to give your heart and soul to something that might destroy your confidence if you fail but the point here is... you will never grow if you don't take risks, your mindset will never evolve if you don't fail. You have to be ok going at the rock bottom, allow life you break your heart and build yourself again. This time you will comeback stronger and better so don't be afraid to get heartbroken, allow the process to crush you because you can always fix yourself. You have nothing to lose here because you will get better every time you taste a defeat.
And the truth is there is really no risk here because you have nothing from the very beginning, you're just enjoying life now and squeezing whatever you can squeeze. You have to feel nothing every time you lose because life is not all about winning or losing, it's trying everything you can and giving your very best. Don't feel too much attached with the outcome because results can never make you happy, the process will, the journey itself is the one that will make you happy if you can teach yourself how to enjoy it.
NEVER LOSE YOUR BELIEF
Even if you keep losing money, even if you keep losing opportunities, even if you keep losing on a game or something, even if you keep failing on your business... never lose your confidence. If your intention is to win and you're really working hard everyday then time will come and success will come. Never lose your belief on yourself, trust yourself with all your heart, believe that you deserve to win and you have what it takes to get on top. Believe that you are enough to create something great. It's all
about moving forward and not stopping trying, try for one more time even if you know that there is a big chance that you will lose again. Your belief is the most important thing here, never disbelief yourself for a second, believe in yourself like success was destined for you.
HOW TO BREAK A LOSING STREAK
It's too simple, believe more and work harder. This is the only way, sometimes you don't need to change anything in the process, you just need to see yourself winning and double your effort. Increase the intensity of your focus, double your belief. See it everyday, believe that it's happening and work harder than yesterday For sure you will make a progress that will lead to success. If you're feeling stuck it's because your mind was stuck, you're not letting your mind evolve because you keep on thinking why are you losing. You have to see things differently, change your perspective about losing.
Start again and go all in. Never think about the past, never think about the future, detach from the outcome and go all in. Give your very best effort, always believe in yourself and in anything that you do, ignore all the struggles, ignore that you're in pain... just push yourself to the limits and see what will you attract, this is how to break a losing streak, this is how to win again.
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