Not bein g afraid to fail means you're willing to try everything and do everything, unlike being confident, you're just confident until when? There are some people who were really confident but only when they are winning. They feel great, they feel dominant, they were arrogant but when they are not sure that they are going to win... their confidence was shattered, they don't want to try anymore, they don't want to take risks, they suddenly look like a dog without a teeth or a lion without a claw. Their confidence goes down and it seems like all they can do is hope that everything goes back to normal.
WHY PEOPLE ARE SO SCARED OF FAILING?
Because they're so afraid to get laugh at. They're so afraid of being labeled as a failure. The real definition is failure is someone who gave up already, it's not someone who's still trying. So if you're still trying and giving your best, if you're still fighting then it means you're not a failure. People were so scared to fail because they're always thinking about the future. They're thinking about how bad their lives will be after failing. But the truth is... nothing happens when you fail, you're still the same person, your body is still complete, you can still think right and the most beautiful thing about failing is you become a better person, you become tougher and mentally stronger. Failing will make you a beast so don't be afraid of it.
People wants entitlement, they want legacy, they want a good image that's why they were so scared of failing. As Theodore Roosevelt once said "the great ones are the ones who are on the arena fighting even if it's so obvious that they're going to lose". Don't be afraid to destroy your image.
THE MORE YOU FAIL THE MORE YOU BECOME CONFIDENT
Ask your crush to go out on a date with you right now if she rejects you then ask her again next week or next month, keep asking and if she still rejects you then go find another girl that you can victimize. Keep getting rejected until somebody finally agrees to have sex a date with you. Don't be afraid to try over and over again because it will take your mentality to another level. You will no longer be afraid of failing and that's scary, you will feel invincible because you already felt the bitterness of failing, it doesn't threaten you anymore. Deep inside you know that it's only just a matter of time before you win, you know in your heart that the girl will come, the money will come, the big break will come for as long as you're trying.
If you can't find a job then it means you're not failing too much, you're not really looking for it. Maybe you will pass your resume for a few companies let's say 5 or 7 then when you learned that nobody wants you then you will quit already. You will never try again, what if you pass your resume to a thousand companies do you think not even one company will not hire you? it's impossible. Someone will hire you. It's simply about the numbers, ask one thousand girls for a date and at least 10 will agree with you no matter how ugly you are. Someone will agree to go on a bed with you even if you're too damn ugly like a butthead. Don't be scared to ask, don't be scared to fail, that's the important lesson that you must apply into your life.
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