FACE THE TENSION. Face what scares you, there is another level of confidence waiting for you that will go into your system if you face the tension, face what is uncomfortable. A lot of people were not confident because they are so afraid of humiliation, they are so afraid of judgement, they think that people are judging them.
Don't be afraid of embarrassment, don't be afraid to get rejected, once you overcome those feelings... you will become very confident. Don't be afraid to fail, the more you fail... the more you will become confident. People who are successful are willing to fail as much as they can just to become successful, they don't care if their efforts will be wasted, they just don't care at all.
KEEP TAKING ACTIONS. Just move, if you will move and do something then you will get a momentum, you will become very confident especially if you're making little results. Moving is free, moving will set you free so why are you so scared to move.
Don't be afraid to look funny, at some point people will judge you, people will criticize you but the key here is to always keep moving forward even if you're making a lot of mistakes. Don't be scared to look stupid because you can erase that impression from other people once you become successful in your own way.
Do it your way and make a stand, if it fails it fails, if you succeed you succeed, as simple as that. People will be impressed with you even more if you will do it your way and do it until the end. Don't be scared to be alone, don't be scared to look weird. People will follow you once they see that you are becoming successful.
IGNORE EVERYTHING. Ignore the bus driver horning you, ignore the people laughing at you, ignore the eyes judging you. Just keep moving, always give your best and focus on how you feel. You can feel good even if you're making mistakes, you can have fun doing it differently. Just keep moving forward and feel free. Use your own style, don't be scared to look ugly.
BREATHE AND RELAX. Don't rush, if someone is pushing you to move fast... don't let them be. Just move according to your pace, never use a speed that will rattle you, you will only make wrong moves by doing that. Always stay cool and keep moving forward, you have all the time in the world. Don't be afraid to look slow. Give yourself the authority to use your own speed and judgement on how to handle things.
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