WAITING IS DIFFERENT THAN BEING PATIENT

Waiting is different than being patient, if you're waiting then you're simply waiting without doing anything. Being patient means you're taking actions but you're not getting frustrated, you're taking actions while waiting for the results. Never play the waiting game because it's the game of the losers, it's the game of people who are making excuses. It will never give you anything, are you just going to wait for the blessing without working for it? you're simply wasting your life by doing that. Or are you going to wait for the result while doing something to force it to come? which path is the right path. Just like two aspiring overseas workers who wants to work on abroad, the both passed the applications and requirements needed, all they need is their working visa to be approved. The first one is waiting without doing anything, months have passed and his money already run out, he don't know what to do anymore, he is getting frustrated, all he does is blame the company and the agency because they cannot give him the job. The second one is different, he is patient, he find a work while waiting for the visa, he knew that worse things may happen so he find an alternative that will give him some money to support his family while he is waiting for his working visa. The one who is patient always wins because it doesn't mean you need to be patiently waiting, it means you still need to do something while waiting, it means you still need to work. Patience is a virtue, it really is, if you have a lot of it then there is a big chance that you will become successful in life.

Some people who are standing in the grocery line wait for their turn but they are not patient, they were talking a lot, nagging a lot, they were complaining about the slowness of the service, they wait because they don't have any options, they do it even if they don't like it. But some people are patient, they wait but they never complain, they knew that it is normal and it's nothing damaging or destructive. They knew that nothing will happen if they get mad so they just enjoy standing on the line and wait for their turn.

Being patient will give you happiness, waiting will only give you frustrations. Stop waiting and do something to at least entertain your mind and free it from frustrations. Do something that will make you hopeful again, something that will motivate you.

You need to be patient while doing something, you need to enjoy it or else you will fail. The key here is to always have fun doing the difficult things, it will make your patience grow, it will make your mental toughness really tough, you will be able to withstand any difficulty in life. Waiting will make you weak and rusty, you have to do something productive and be patient while waiting for something big.