TALK ABOUT REALITY

Talk about reality,talk about true numbers, talk about what you really have and not what you're planning to have. Reality is better than fantasy, if you have less then talk about it, never be afraid or shy about it... at least it is real and not a make believe story. If you can only do 10 push ups then talk about it, don't add 5 don't make it 20, don't tell them that you can do 30 if you can only do ten, talk about reality. People always think that there is something wrong in telling the truth, telling the truth is the funnest thing in the world, you are conquering your fears and destroying your insecurity. Getting addicted with reality will make you a better person, you will push harder because you don't want to talk less, you don't want to talk about your weakness so you will work super hard to make your life better, you will work hard to make your numbers go higher. Being real with big numbers is better than being real with lesser one. You will do whatever it takes to have a real but better story next time.

Don't talk about fantasy, don't talk about your goal, keep it secretly and just talk about it when it's already in real life. A lot of people who talks about their dreams can't make their dreams come true because they were already happy being arrogant. They were already satisfied of talking about it. Real things are the best things in life, people will even believe in you if you're talking about what they can see. Never talk about plans and ambitions, talk about your accomplishments, even if it is only small... talk about it and be proud about it.

Most people now are talking about their plans, they're planning to buy this or buy that but all of their plans were all screwed. They are not even starting it or doing something about it, they were just good in talking and very poor in executing. A bad reality is better than good fantasy, talk about how bad your life is but don't make dramas, admit that you're failing, people will admire you even more for being honest. But don't do it for the sake of getting sympathy, do it to display honesty. It will make you motivated even more because next time you want to talk about the improvement of your life.

Reality is the finest thing you can offer to people around you, being true, being hones and sincere and not talking just to impress people... if you're real then you will become successful faster because you can admit to yourself that you're not doing anything good in life, you can confidently tell them that you need improvements and adjustments to have a better journey, you will not feel ashamed of your flaws and weaknesses, you can walk proud with people knowing that you're struggling. You will become happier if you talk about reality and not fantasy.