Jan 21, 2018

IF LONELINESS IS ALL YOU HAVE BE HAPPY WITH IT

If loneliness is the emotion that is running in your system right now... be happy with it, at least you still feel something, some people can't even feel at all. It's just another emotion, be happy with it, be satisfied with it. Sooner or later you will become happy again, you'll just have to be patient and wait for it, it will come in just a matter of time so don't worry.

A lot of people are complaining that they are not happy, that they are miserable. So what? all people have their own problems, all people is experiencing something. The only thing that separates real happy people with dramatic ones is real happy people are not afraid of loneliness, they knew that life is just like that, they knew that they can't be happy everyday. They just deal with it until they become happy again.

So what if you're lonely now? so what if you have problems? is it the end of the world? can't you make your life a little bit better anymore. You can amuse yourself through simple things, just be appreciative and you will become happy, never take anything for granted because it will only build regrets.

Loneliness is the starting point of happiness, if you're lonely now you will become happy later, all you need to do is endure it and face it. Stop making dramas, stop trying to get sympathy from other people.

If you're lonely so be it, you're just a human, it's normal, you will experience it anytime soon so be happy if you're experiencing it now. There is nothing wrong in being lonely, people make it a big deal if they see someone as lonely, they judge him and mock him. It's normal, being lonely means you're only human.

If you feel loneliness now, don't make dramas, just live it to yourself. If you will be needy of somebody's attention then you will only look like a fool, people will even make fun of you.

They don't care about your story, even if you have the most tragic story in the world... they still don't care about it. Maybe they will listen to you for just a few hours but they will forget the whole detail of your story tomorrow.

Making dramas is just a waste of time, of course you will feel something, of course a negative emotion will run in your body but everyone experiences it, you're not the only one who suffers.

So stop acting like a kid now and just be happy being lonely, be happy that you're still alive because you can experience happiness tomorrow.

Always remember that there are people who are suffering more than you but they're not making dramas, there are people who wants your life and they feel that you'r so blessed so who are you to complain? who are you to act like the world is unfair? Being lonely is part of being a human, it's just a feeling, it's no big deal.

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