HOW DO YOU WANT IT TO MAKE YOU?

Any type of disappointment... how do you want it to make you? do you want it to make you or break you? It all depends on your perspective, it all depends on how you handle things accordingly.

Ever got rejected? does it make you feel bad? or did it make you feel stronger? it should make you feel confident because once you got rejected now... there is a possibility that you might get yes the next time you try. It's all about trying and trying again, never attached your feelings with anything. Once you got rejected... move on so fast, never think that you're ugly or something. Never think that you lack something, always remember that once you got rejected and you forget it easily... you become a totally different person, your level goes higher and higher, you're no longer afraid of getting rejected next time. And another best thing about it is... you never care anymore. Any try is just another try, it is nothing, it shouldn't make you feel bad, give it no meaning.

So if you got rejected by a girl... just laugh at it, always think that she doesn't bite the trap, she's lucky because if she say yes then she will lose her virginity, as simple as that. Just laugh at it and give it another meaning... a meaning that will make you confident. Never take it seriously, always remember that you're just playing. Think of yourself as a salesman and the product that you're selling is yourself. GO and try asking the next girl and another and another without losing the enthusiasm every time you got rejected. It's all about the numbers, you don't need a dating coach or something. The more you ask a girl, the more you learn. You will learn what to do next time, you will be able to develop some techniques for yourself that will work next time. Every time you got rejected... learn the lesson, never think that you got rejected because you have a bad breath or something. Never think negative about yourself. Always think positive and always think that next time you will win.

It's up to you how will you handle disappointments, if you will think of it as something that's bad then it is really bad. But if you will think of it as something that will make you a better person then it already made you a better person.

If you fail now, how will you respond with it? how will you react? are you going to take it personally or are you going to work harder so that you will never fail again next time? Your perception about something will mold your character. It all depends on you if you're going to stay motivated and try again next time or will you take it as a bad thing and never try again. The big key here is to try again no matter what, try as much as you can, try again and again until you become successful... as simple as that.