YOU SET THE RULES FROM THE VERY BEGINNING

You set the rules from the very beginning, you know what you want and you know what you don't want, as simple as that. Let them follow, if they can't follow then that's their problem, they will be out from your circle.

You set the rules to yourself and you follow it in order to become successful, as simple as that. You follow your own rules and you don't disobey it. If you really want to become successful in your life then you should be strict in following your own rules. If you will not follow your own rules then who else will follow it? your dog? you must be strict in implementing your rules, you should never break it, be serious about it if you want it to become really effective. 

Set the rules and be bold about it, implement it, be strict about it. If you will not do it then what is the use of your rules?

Always remember that you are the authority of your life, you're the highest authority, if they want to become part of your life then they should follow you or else they will be kicked out in your world.

If you will not set your own rules then you will be lost. You will be a puppy of other people, they will set rules themselves and you will be the one who will follow them, you have no choice but to follow them, do you like it?

Respect you rules and be committed to it, never let it be broken by anybody. Always make sure that you're following it because it is your guide to success. Most people don't have rules in their lives that's why they're completely lost.

Set the rules about your spending habits, set the rules like don't spend more than what you can earn, don't buy stupid things, don't lend people who are known to be not good payers. Take care of your money because you work hard for it, never buy things that depreciates.

Set the rules for your career, rules like you have to be better than last year. You work for more than 12 hours a day, you target a salary like $25,000 a month or more. Set the rules and force yourself to follow all of them.

Set the rules about friendship, rules like you never let a parasite friend enters your circle, you never let a backstabbing person get closer to you. Those rules will help you to have an easier life so you must strictly implement them.

Rules are rules, break it once and you will break it forever. Rules should be tough, there should be punishment for breaking it. There should be tough consequences or else the rules will never be respected.

Rules will make anyone discipline, it will make anyone live a more organized life. Make 2 or three rules in your life and follow them, make sure the rules will guide you to a better future. Now, once you feel that those rules are not enough, don't be scared to add more, just make sure you will follow all of them.