ASK YOURSELF IF YOU REALLY DESERVE IT

Ask yourself if you really deserve it, be honest. If you think you deserve it then go ahead and get it or ask for it. If you think you deserve to buy yourself a shoes, an expensive shoes then buy yourself one. If you have a lot of money saved and you really work hard this month then reward yourself. But if you don't have extra cash after buying it and you're so lazy do you think you deserve it? do you think your life will be better after buying it? Your future life will be based on your decisions today so if you're doing bad decisions today then your life will become harder tomorrow, as simple as that.

You must know if you deserve something or not, you must know if you need to treat yourself. Another example is buying a box of chocolate cake, do you think you really deserve it? is your sugar level  low? did you exercise this week? did you cut weight this week? if not then why the hell are you so confident that you can eat a cake today? be real, if you will reward yourself make sure you've done something good, make sure you sacrifice. Rewarding yourself for no reason is nonsense, it will only make your situation worse because your are spoiling yourself, you will become a spoiled brat for no reason. Always practicing instant gratification will make you lazy, irresponsible and impatient.

If your asking your dad to buy you a car, what did you do? what did you accomplish? did you become a magna cum laude or something? did you graduated with honors? who the heck are you to ask for something big if all you do is stupidity? stop acting like you're entitled of something great if you haven't done great things in life. If you're asking for big things make sure the one who will give it to you will be happy because you're deserving. The giver will give it to you without hesitation because you're doing good but if not then he will think twice if he will give it to you. And stop pretending hat you deserve it if you really don't.

Stop promising that you will do better next time, stop thinking that after having the reward then you will give your best. That won't happen because you already get the reward. I'm sure you will become lazy even more because you're getting what you want without sweating for it. You need to work for something if you really want it, you must show the world that you deserve it. Practicing delayed gratification is the best thing in the world. It will make you become successful, you will become more patient and you will learn to work hard for what you want. You should sweat for everything you want, that's how life works, that's how happiness and success works. If you are getting what you want easily then your life will become very boring, you will never take care of the things that you have because you are getting them easily. Look at a kid who can't have shoes for years... once he get a new pair of shoes, he will take care of it every well, he will cherish it and appreciate it so much.