Jan 29, 2018

UNKNOWN REJECTION

Rejection is one of the most painful event that may happen in your life, once you got rejected your confidence goes down easily, you will feel bad, you will cry to your mama, you will feel that the world is so unfair to you. You don't need to feel bad if you got rejected because it's all part of life, you will experience it no matter what. No matter how handsome you are, how cute you are or how kind you seem to be... people will still reject you, it's the sad part of life. But you shouldn't be faze with any kind of rejection because it can make you stronger if you take it positively, your perception about rejection is what will give you growth.

But sometimes you don't know that you're the one who is rejecting yourself, you are depriving yourself of success. For example, you didn't ask your crush to go out on a date with you... you already rejected yourself, you already lost the opportunity of your life. You're the one who bestowed the failure upon you. Another example is you have a job interview today but you choose not to go because you have a slight headache because of oversleeping, you are the one who rejected yourself because you didn't grab the opportunity. That's also another form rejection, the only difference is... you did it to yourself. You don't see it that way, you don't know it but the truth is you rejected yourself by being lazy and excuse maker. You are always rejecting yourself that you don't know, you don't mean it but you are depriving yourself of the opportunities that could have been yours if you only push yourself to move.

You are rejecting yourself, people are rejecting you that's why you are losing a chunk of confidence in your life, you need to make things right, act now before it's too late. You have to make a declaration for yourself that you will move no matter what.

If you don't want to be immune to rejection.... don't feel it, if you're not too attached with something, you will never even know that it's a rejection. Just keep trying, keep asking, if someone rejects you... move to another place, look for another chance somewhere, it's all about moving and ignoring the negative feelings that the rejection gives you. There will always be someone who will accept you, someone will give you a chance, all you have to do is keep trying and never feel bad once you got rejected.

The reality is... the world will never stop even if you got rejected, your life will still move one even if you got hurt. That's just a little pain, if your crush rejects you... move on so fast, look for another girl, play with your life, don't be afraid to love again, don't be afraid to get hurt again. If you're willing o face the pain then you will have a bigger chance to become happier. It's all about who is willing to try to have what he wants. Successful people are never afraid to face rejection time and time again.

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