Jan 27, 2018

THE 7 QUALITIES OF A REAL MENTALLY TOUGH PERSON

Are you mentally tough? really? how can you prove that you're mentally tough? sometimes you know that you're tough until a tragic moment happens in your life, you think you're good enough until a big problem is slowly making your mind crazy.

1. He has no regrets. Once he did something... it is really done, he will not feel anything about it anymore. Past is past for him and he will no longer focus on what he can't control. A mentally tough person has no regrets and will never have any regrets. He may feel bad about something but he can forget it easily. If he made a mistake... he can forgive himself so fast and move on to the next stage of his life. He knows that having regrets will only make him slow and unproductive, he keeps on moving forward and his traumatic experiences from the past cannot bother him at all. He stays positive and hopeful, he has no regrets or whatsoever. He is focused on the bright future ahead of him and he is willing to forget any past if needed.

2. He can go solo flight.  He is not afraid to do it solo, he doesn't need any companion at all. He knows that he alone is enough and he can get the job done. He knows what he wants and he doesn't even bother if no one is there to join him. He is always ready for anything, he can go solo flight, he is not afraid to get lost he is not afraid to fight alone. He is a doer and not a help seeker. He knows that he can thrive even without any connections at all.

3. He will not stop until it's over. He always wanted to see what is possible for his life, even if it's so obvious that he already lost... he will still fight, he won't stop until it's over. He will keep on trying and trying again... that's his identity. Not any single adversity can make him stop, nothing can make him discouraged. He always have high hopes in himself and he is willing to do whatever it takes just to win,

4. He remain calm during pressure situations. No pressure can make him crumble, he is relaxed and clam when everything else is falling apart. You will not even see him panicking. He always know what to do even if he don't know it exactly. He is not afraid even if he doesn't know all the details. He loves pressure situations because he knows that it will make him a better person.

5. Not afraid of getting rejected at all. He loves getting rejected because he knows that it will make him tough, he knows that the moment endured it... he's already a better person. He knows that rejection is just part of the game and it can never make his confidence go down. rejection is nothing to him because he knows that he can always make a come back.

6. Not afraid to reject something, not afraid to make someone feel bad. He is also not afraid to reject a bad idea, if he doesn't like what is being presented... he will reject it. He will make sure that everything is playing out according to his advantage, he can always walk away from a bad deal or person without having any remorse from it.

7. He can accept that he already lost. He is a gentleman, if he lost he lost. He will not make excuses, he will not point finger to anyone. He loses with pride and sportsmanship.

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