Jan 31, 2018

YOU'RE NOT THE ONLY ONE WHO'S WRONG

Don't be afraid to make mistakes because you're not the only one who is wrong, some people are wrong too, even millionaires are wrong, they make mistakes, it is normal, never make it a big deal because it is only making you feel bad and weak. Still move forward even if you made a big mistake, it's nothing, people will forget it, it's nothing but a single scene. Even if you embarrassed yourself too much... just keep on moving on, there is nothing wrong with you. You need to keep moving forward or else you will become stuck in a mud. If you're so focused on your past and the wrong things that you did... you will become slow, you will get depressed, you will not be able to move. The best thing to do is to look for the next executable step and do it. Forget about the outcome, you must have freedom from outcome and just keep moving forward as much as you can. You're not the only one who is imperfect, all people in this world are imperfect, they have flaws, the are also some incidents that they look stupid. Sometimes it's better to just ignore your mistakes, flaws and weaknesses and just do your thing, it's better to do it because you will be able to focus more on the task ahead of you if you do it.

And even if you commit a terrible mistake... just laugh at it, it's nothing, what you need to do is to keep moving forward and welcome the better experiences in life, welcome the better opportunities to become happy and successful. There are even some people who are so confident that even if they made a mistake they were still able to get out of it, it seems like there is no bad thing that happened, they can simply ignore it and move on to the next sequence of their lives, they can forget it in just a matter of seconds. That is what you need to do... if you made a mistake, forget it fast and try to become better next time, try to do the right thing next time. It's always moving, improving and changing something... that is how your life should be.

If you're wrong now it doesn't mean that you're going to get wrong again next time, it doesn't mean that you can't correct it anymore, of course there are some adjustments that you can do and you have to focus on it instead of making dramas about mistakes and convincing people that you don't mean it. Of course you mean it, you did it, no on forces you to do it. If you're wrong you're wrong, as simple as that, don't cry and whine about it. Move on so fast and go to the next chapter of your life.

There are plenty of chances where you can redeem yourself, even if they got mad at you or hate you, what else can you do? it happens, your intention is right, it's not your fault if the result is not perfect.

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