HAVE YOUR OWN DEFINITION OF FUN

Amuse yourself, have your own definition of fun, look for what is fun to you and do it over and over again. You don't need others to define what is fun for you, you can pick an activity that is fun, even if it's just a simple activity... if it looks fun for you then do it, have fun with it, grow with it and never be ashamed if people think of you as stupid. You have your own definition of fun, no one can tell you what to do, no one can teach you what is fun or not. A simple reading of book is fun, a simple step for your goal is fun. You can have a lot of fun in anything that you do. It's your attitude towards your work that is the main focus here. If you can appreciate what you're doing then you can have a lot of fun on it regardless if it is difficult or not, regardless if it is small or not.

Sometimes you are doing what you think is fun because a lot of people are doing it, it's not fun at all. If you force yourself to do something because most people are not doing it then you're just faking your happiness, you are trying to fit in... that's the more deeper explanation of what you're doing.

You don't need to ask people if it is fun or not, you don't need to seek for approval. If your heart says it's fun then it's fun, have fun with it and do it until you don't want to do it anymore. Sometimes if the task is more difficult, you can have more fun on it, it's because it is challenging. Because you will learn a lot from it.

But sometimes not all fun can make your grow, sometimes you have to do what is not fun in order to achieve something. Is studying lessons fun? is listening to your boring professor fun? of course not but you have to do it so that you will have a better life. Is lifting weights and exercising everyday fun? you don't like it right, but you have to do those things in order to have a healthy body. But you can always trick your mind, you can pretend that you're having too much fun on it in order for you to always do it. Condition your mind that if you do what is hard then you will be rewarded in the end.

You can amuse yourself even if the task is hard. You can listen to music while doing it, you can think about other things while doing it but always keep in mind that you still have to give your best even if you're amusing yourself while doing a very difficult task.

Life is so fun, it is great, it is your attitude that you must develop in order to have fun in anything that you're doing. Life is so amazing, it is so great.