Some people will act like winners because they are winning with somebody, someone carried them, they don't do the work and act like a winner, actually they are just pretending. They post on social media that they are winning but the truth is they didn't even do anything. The sad news about this is what if there is nobody to carry them anymore? what if nobody will be there to help them? for sure they don't know what to do anymore, they will be stuck, they will feel weak and helpless. This is what will happen if you're dependent to something, you will never be able to do it your way, you will never feel how it feels to become great. Some people were just pretending that they are winning outside but deep inside they are losing because they feel powerless, they don't have control to anything. They don't know what to do once their source of power is gone, they can't force themselves to fight, they can't move forward because they need to wait for instructions or validation from other people. They're only confident when there is somebody to save their ass. They're last resource is to blame people and things for their misfortune. Winning means mentality, it's not about the results... it's about what you develop inside of you. If you don't have a strong mentality to adapt to anything and do something about the situation then you're a loser forever.
DO IT YOUR WAY EVEN IF IT IS HARD
Start depending on yourself, don't depend on anything or anyone to do it for you because it will only make you weak. You have to force something, you have to be brave and start taking steps that will take you closer and closer to your goals. Never let anything stop you, never let anybody tell you what to do. If something in your heart is telling you how to do it then do it. Follow your heart, allow yourself to become the director of your own life, you are the start here, you are the doer and the finisher, never let anybody do the work for you because it will only make you weak, you will lose confidence in yourself if you're not taking the risk. Even if you fail, at least you fail by doing it your way, at least you fail by pushing yourself to the limits and testing how far you can go. It's your life, nobody has the right to tell you what to do, nobody can force you to do something. Start believing in yourself now and start the process even if you don't know what to do. You will win if you use your willpower, just grind and find a way no matter what, you can make a breakthrough if you don't give up, this is just a matter of perseverance. This is just a matter of trying to be brave and testing your character. Greatness will be experience if you take the risk and allow yourself to fail.
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