The reason why you're struggling so bad is because you expect everything to be perfect. You're not in the moment. You wanted to go back to the past, you wanted to go back to the future especially when you don't want the present moment. Always wanting everything will make you miserable because you will never get it. Being greedy, being too materialistic and wanting what every other people have will make you crazy and depressed. Wanting a perfect condition all the time, being hurtful and dramatic when you're hurt, overreacting when you're in pain.. this will make you weak even more. Stop wishing for a perfect friend, partner, friend, neighbor, clothes, home, car, relationship or even life. It is not real, you can never have a perfect life, stop hoping for another situation that you think is better because nothing is better than your situation right now. You have what you need in life right now, the universe will give you what you need, you can survive any given day, you can become happy by having less or having an imperfect life. The key is to stop looking outside and focus on the inside, stop comparing yourself, stop leaving your present life in exchange for another life that you think will make you happier. You can become happy now simply by being appreciative and present. Stop wanting to go back to the past, stop anticipating the future and just enjoy the process. What you have right now is alright, it is your riches, it is our resources, appreciate all of it and just try to make it big and richer as much as you can. I am not sayin that just live like a bum and never hope for an upgraded life, what I mean is you can become happy now even without the things you are aiming for. If you really want something new then chase it, try to get it, give your best but never let it control you, never let it the basis of your happiness. Your life now is really good, you are very blessed if you are appreciative and not complaining at all. Just be happy, be satisfied of what you have and never complain of what you don't have, never get jealous of other people's lives, stop making dramas, stop blaming something for your unhappy life. Happiness is a state of mind, you can become happy anytime you want, train your mind to become thankful despite of the struggles and pain, train yourself to have that state of abundance, what you need is already inside of you. If you want more then get it but never complain if you can't have it. A perfect life is nothing but an illusion, even the billionaires feel less, even the richest man in the world is lacking something, he still want something that he can't get like winning in politics, respect or an individual award. Life is not perfect at all and it shouldn't be, who told you to have a perfect life in order to become happy? You can become happy now if you will change your state of mind, if you will just change how you interpret things, this is not becoming delusional rather it is loving yourself because you are doing something that will make your life easier. Lessen your expectations, don't expect anything, you can dream but never let your expectations make you feel sad all the time. Focus on what you can control and that is your mind, once you realize that nothing can control your mind then you will feel powerful than ever.
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