BAKE THE FORMULA

Try it, tweak it, add new ingredients... make sure you are baking it right, make sure you are giving your best to get the best out of it. All you have to do is look for the formula that works for you and that's it, you can find the process that fits you, you can find something that will give you everything.

Working hard and being consistent is all you can do. That formula is out there, it is waiting to be used by you, you can only discover what is right for you through trial and error method. Keep trying, keep making mistakes, one day you will discover the magic that will grant your dreams. 

The formula that works for others may not work for you, the formula that is working for you may not work for others. Everyone has his own formula so stop copying someone's path because doing that will give you a bigger chance of failing.