DON'T LET OTHER PEOPLE DO THE MISTAKES FOR YOU

The reality is... in your life you're not the only one who is making mistakes for your life, a lot of people were making mistakes for you too. They were making decisions for you even if you can make the decision by yourself. For example, your parents decided for you to take medicine, they want you to become a doctor but you want to become a construction worker, you let them decide for you that's why you become a failure. You didn't do well in your studies, you don't love the subjects that's why you fail, if you made a decision by yourself and start being a construction worker then maybe you're successful now. They made the mistake for you, you didn't do it yourself.

The reality is... the people who are making the decisions for you will make mistakes too, they are not perfect so as you, why not make the mistakes for yourself because it is your life.

Don't let other people do the mistakes for you because you will really feel bad if at the end havoc happened. You can make mistakes too, why not do it for yourself? at least you will feel better because you made a decision for yourself.

Another example is in betting... you bet for the horse that you like but because some expert whispered you that you should bet on the horse that is popular because it is a sure win. If you listen to him and the horse didn't win... you will blame him, you will get mad at him. But you don't have the right to get mad because in the first place you allow him to take over, you give your power to him.

No matter what you do... you will still make mistakes in the future, you will still make wrong decision, why not do it yourself so your regrets will become smaller?