YOU REALLY CAN'T CONTROL EVERYTHING

No matter how hard you try... you really can't control everything, you really can't control what is not inside of you. You can't control people's reactions, attitude, behavior etc. All you can control is how you you react, how you interpret a difficult situation.

Don't be to control freak, learn to let go, learn to accept the things that you can't change. If you will always try to change everyone or everything then you will fail, you will feel bad and get crazy. Just be yourself and focus on what you can control like your emotions and thoughts.

Your gate may accidentally close and hit your car, it's either you feel bad or move on. Others will feel bad, others will move on so fast. You can have it repair and that is what you can control.

Someone may bully you in the social media, can you control them? of course not, all you can do is ignore them. You cannot force them to like you, you cannot teach them how to be a good person. All you can do is stay patient and never argue with them. What's the point in proving them wrong? they will never believe you, they will never like you... ever.

If the judge in the competition you join is not in favor of you, if he doesn't like you even if you're more deserving than others... he will not give you a high score. Can you do something about it? definitely none. All you can do is give your best and try to impress the other judge. You cannot force them to like you because they have their own judgement.

Don't ever think that everything is under control, something might go wrong and you have to be ok with it.

Life is not perfect, no matter how rich or powerful you are... you will never control everything. All you can do is accept it and never feel bad about small things that you cannot control.