If you don't have any confidence at all... you can create it by losing a lot of times. Losing a lot of times will create pain, it will hurt you, it will make you depressed but it has a good side... it will give you a mindset that you have nothing to lose anymore, you will feel invincible in some ways, you will be able to create a belief that you're down and you don't have any direction but to go up, and of course you will go up if you keep working hard and pushing yourself to the limits.
Not all the time you will lose, time will come and you will become a winner in life, just try and try again until losing doesn't want to see your face anymore. If you already seen the worst then it's time for you to see the best.
Keep losing, there is nothing wrong with it. You will gather a lot of information by losing, you will gain a lot of experience that you will use in the future. It's ok if your record is 0-10 what matters is you keep trying and you don't have plans of giving up. There is nothing special in losing so why make it a big deal? why do you feel so bad every time you lose? Stop thinking that losing is not an option, of course it is, there is no such thing as having a perfect record. You have to lose in order to gain some knowledge that you can use to become successful in the future. Losing every now and then means you really want it and quitting doesn't come across your mind. Lost now and lost tomorrow, you might win next week. Keep in mind that you will only win if you will try again, there is no room for quitting, just think that every time you lose you are getting closer and closer to victory.
Never feel bad if you lost because it's part of the process, it's part of becoming who you are. There is no time for whining and blaming, keep trying again so you will win next time.
You will become confident if you have a losing record because you have nothing to lose you have everything to gain, you will become deadly, you will become scary because you feel loose and you don't have any identity to protect.
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