FAILURE IS NOT A FAILURE

You think it is a failure because you're thinking about it. You are judging yourself as a failure. It's just a perspective. Most people programmed you to have a car, have a championship, have a lot of money to become successful but that's not the truth, if you're happy with what you're doing and you have a purpose then you're never a failure. You fail because you copy their beliefs, you're feeling like a failure because you're allowing their judgment to cloud your mind. You feel like a failure because you're comparing yourself to others, if you're not comparing yourself to others then you are free, you will never be scared of failing anymore, because it doesn't mean anything to you. When you're truly happy with your life then you're successful, but that doesn't mean to never chase your desires, you are allowed to do that but don't ever let it define you. Never let external things be the basis of your success. You have to control your mind and think what is best for you and that is not giving yourself a pressure to perform and just be yourself no matter what. What you get is what you got, what you don't have you don't need, what you need you already have. If you will ignore the standards of people about success and you feel a different type of way then you're successful. Success doesn't come from attachment to things, people or outcome, it comes from you. It comes from your perspective, work ethic, belief, purpose and vision. You don't need to convince anybody that you're winning, you just need to convince yourself that you didn't waste a single second being a mediocre. Success and failure is just a myth, nobody will get out alive in this world, that illusion of success is laughable because you cannot have it forever. Your money, awards, success and recognition cannot be with you forever, you will leave it in just a matter of time so have no pressure in trying to get validation from others, stop competing against them and just compete against yourself. You only need to tame yourself and you will be good. Even if you fail a lot of times to the eyes of many, you can still feel like a winner if you will never allow them to affect your feelings. Just be happy competing, trying, playing, working and giving your best, that is enough to feel successful. Some people already won but still feel like a loser why? because they weren't able to use their skills. Just like players in professional league... they feel sad not because they lost, they feel sad because they were not used. So choose to become a doer and not a winner, choose to do it your way, choose to use all of your strength and never let anybody stop you from taking actions. Failure is not a failure, it's just a perspective, you're the one who will tell yourself if you won or lose. 

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