NOTHING IS FREE IN THIS WORLD

You have to get it on your own, you have to work for it because nothing is free in this world, you can't be asking for something that you never work for. You don't have the right to wish for something if you don't deserve it, you must deserve it first. Stop making dramas if people are not helping you, stop acting like you're entitled of getting something you didn't work for. This is life, this is serious, it's all business, if you can't offer something in exchange for what you want then stop wishing for it. The time for being soft, sensitive and emotional is over, if you're asking for an assistance from your friends or relatives and they didn't give it to you... stop feeling bad, did you give them anything? did you give them a favor? don't wish for something that you don't deserve from the very beginning. You have to deserve it first before you get it, you have to work for it and sweat for it, don't act like you have the right to get it if you didn't even exert a small effort to have it.

Nothing is free in this world, there is always a trade that is happening. What are you willing to trade for what you want? can you trade a work, money, property or anything that has a value? Michael Jordan will never be traded for nothing, he can never be traded for Clyde Drexler, he is valuable. If you want the greatest on your team then you must offer the greatest too, something like Kobe or Lebron James might work but they are not enough.

You can't be asking for a car without working for it, you have to die for it just to get it. Every action, every small steps, every setback... you need to face all of these. Sometimes you will even doubt yourself, you will even think about quitting but you can't do that if you want to become successful. It's hard, everything is hard because everything is not for free. The bigger your dream, the harder it is to get it so don't expect that everything will be a cake walk, don't expect that working hard will simply get the job done, sometimes it takes more than hard work, it's deeper than that.

So prepare yourself if you want to become successful. Prepare yourself to stumble, fall and cry, it is what it is... you need to sacrifice a lot of you want a lot.

So start now, go hard now and never stop until you have it, you have to trust yourself, rely only on yourself, never look for someone to give it to you because that is weakness in the making, that will only stop you from succeeding. Look for a process and trust it, believe it and do it everyday, have confidence in yourself. Deal with all the problems and challenges that you need to face, deal with them and start pushing yourself to become successful, you have to want it bad, you have to be competitive, fast and aggressive.