UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU ARE PLAYING

You are playing basketball, it's a physical game... you get mad when someone fouled you hard. Maybe you don't know what you are playing, maybe you think that basketball is a chess, maybe you're better in just playing an non contact game.

You're criticizing some people then you get mad when someone criticize you, you don't know that you are playing the critics game. You don't know that when you criticize someone then expect someone to criticize you, you shouldn't feel anything about it because it's the game that you're playing.

You are playing gambling but when you lose you feel so bad, you are getting depressed, don't you know that gambling is all about losing or gaining money? losing is part of the game, you should have known it first before you start gambling.

Don't play something if you're not prepared of the worst things that may happen. If you're not ready to fail, if you're not ready to feel the pain then don't play at all, you're just wasting your time, you better just play safe and be ok with zero accomplishments in life. If you don't know the consequences of the game that chose then you better think again, you will only get disappointed in the end, you will feel bad and that will make you quit, you will feel like a loser.

It's not all about winning, it's also about losing. You have to know that playing some game is not all about having fun, there is also a struggle attached with it. Just like in business, just because you're a businessman and self proclaimed "entrepreneur" doesn't mean you're rich and gaining a lot of money all the time, sometimes you will also lose a lot of money, you have to sacrifice to build your business or maintain it. It's not all fun and games, it's also about surviving and facing the difficult challenges.

So if you are playing some dangerous game... make sure you know what are the consequences, what's the worst thing that could happen if you lose? what might you lose? what can you afford to lose? are you ready for the defeat? are you ready to handle it if you win big time?

You have to be always prepared mentally or else you will be stunned in the end, you will go in panic mode and that will make you lose a lot even more. Every game has rules, every game has levels, if you don't know what might happen if you win and lose then you better study the game first.

If you are playing with fire then be ready to get burned, if you are playing with lies then be ready to get deceit, if you are playing with big risks then be ready to fail big time, if you are playing a physical game then be ready to get battered, if you are playing the surprise game then be ready to get surprised. Whatever the consequences maybe.. be ready for it and embrace it, there should be no regrets because you decided to play it without somebody forcing you. Whatever game you are playing... just enjoy it while you're still having fun.