TO WIN IN THE GAME YOU HAVE TO STAY IN THE GAME

Success and being a winner is not all about going all in at once and expecting to win right away, it's not about going super hard and giving everything you've got and if you don't succeed then you will quit, success is not like that. If you want to win the game then you have to stay in the game for so long. Just like what Michael Bisping (former UFC middleweight champion) did... he is pursuing the middleweight belt for a very long time but for whatever reason it is very elusive to him, he can't catch it. What he does is he just keep fighting, he never quit, he stay in the game then one day he catches the belt, it submits itself to him. It takes more than ten years to catch that belt, he never think about retiring, he got it at the age of 37 years I guess, correct me if I am wrong.

Success is about who can stick with the process even if it's grueling, boring and very difficult. It's not about how can do it fast, it's not about who's the most talented but it's about who can do it for a very long time. You will never win if you're afraid to lose over and over again, success is not a cheap thing, easy to get like the girls in the club, it's hard to get, it's elusive, it will make you cry, it will make you quit. You have to court it for a very long time and give it what it needs so that it will be yours one day.

You have to enjoy the ups and downs, you have to be resilient here, success has no room for quitters and drama queens, it is for the real kings and real grown up men. If you keep on blaming people, blaming the unfairness of the world then you will never become successful. It's not on them, it's on you if you are willing to do whatever it takes and wait for a very long time just to become a winner in life. You have to stay in the game, sometimes you have to pace yourself, you can't go all in all the time. You have to be prepared in winning and losing, sometimes you will win, sometimes you will lose. Just like in stock market, you can't be going all in all the time or else you will lose your capital. You have to pace yourself while learning the tricks of the trade, you have to experience a lot of different situations. That's why you need to protect the capital and make it last for long until you become a master of it.

It's not about winning all the time, it's about staying in the game until you become a champion, until you become a master of it so you can win big time games.

Preserve yourself for a long journey, learn to be patient all the time, never rush the process but give your very best every single game. Keep that vision of becoming a champion in your head, never let go of your dream to become a winner.