THEY ONLY LOVE YOU IF YOU ARE WINNING

That's the saddest truth, it's the reality.. they will only love you if you are winning, they don't care about your if you are losing. It's because losers make dramas and people hate dramas. People were so sick and tired of complaints, people don't want a man with a loser's mentality. What is a loser's mentality? it is someone who makes a lot of excuses, complaints, dramas, trying to get sympathy from other people, neediness, weakness and a lot of pointing fingers just to avoid the blame.

They will only love you if you are succeeding, that's the harsh truth, if you can't win by any means then they will ignore you, they will never respect you. If you're sick and tired of your life, if you're sick and tired of not getting respect then force yourself to become a winner. Win by any means possible.

It's easy to win, the process is very simple... look for something to do that has some benefits and go hard for it. Be the hardest worker, stay focused, stay on the grind and never look back where you came from, it's like leveling up each day and looking for that simple ways where you can win. You will feel it if you're becoming a winner, you have that pride, you will feel that power, you don't need to prove yourself to anyone else because you know that you're giving your best and you're slowly developing into a winner. You're not making dramas anymore, you're not making excuses anymore, you're so focused into action and getting things done. 

If there is a task in front of you, you do it right away without waiting, you don't need to be told on what to do, you are reliable and determined, you are pushing yourself like you never push before. 

Winners will get what they want, losers will always complain about what they don't have. If you want to become a winner then do whatever it takes to get your dream. Enough of the excuses, enough of the pity party... just get it. 

If you're not winning then it means you're not pushing hard, you're simply taking your life for granted, you're wasting a lot of your time and you're engaging with unproductive activities. If you really wanted to win then you will sacrifice your sleep and happiness for your goal. There will be times when you will only do the boring things that produces results, you will never give any useless activities some attention. You are focused, you are determined, you never care about the things that are making you slow, you only care about the growth. 

If you want some love, if you want some respect and appreciation then keep winning. You know what it is, you're not a child anymore. Stop being jealous with people who are winning and be a winner too, stop the crab mentality, stop thinking that you've been treated unfairly, you are the one who's responsible for the outcome of your life, you're the reason why you're failing. If you want to change your life then start winning now, forget the past and do whatever it takes to win in life.