SELF DEVELOPMENT IS JUST A BUSINESS

Don't feel sorry if you didn't improve, don't blame the guru if nothing happened to your life after buying his $1000 program with DVDs and full of arrogance about his success in it. You are the one who is to blame, you fool yourself right from the very beginning. Don't you know that the only one thing you need to develop is the ability to take actions? if you can take actions anytime you need to then you don't need personal development anymore, every coach knows that. It's action that will make your life better and nothing else. People were so depressed because they are not moving, they were so unhappy because they want to do something but they couldn't even start, why is that? it's because they want it right away, they were so impatient, they are making themselves believe that something will help their lives without exerting too much effort.

If you want to develop yourself then simply develop, you know what to do, you're just making an excuse that you don't know it that's why you're looking for a coach. The coach will never change your life, they are just there to give you inputs, you can change by yourself that's why it's called "self development", you have to do it on your own. Those coaches are there to get your money, keep that in mind. So don't feel sorry if your wish of changing your life didn't happen after wasting hundreds of thousand of dollars, buying their CDs and attending seminars.

Wake up! if you want to change then start doing it now, start by counting, set a goal, set a specific number and go for it relentlessly. Let's say you want to become rich, all you have to do is set a specific amount of money that you want to get and do whatever it takes to get it, as simple as that. Every method is right, every failure is right, every movement that is related to that goal is right. Just simply enjoy the journey, stay focused and committed and your life will change. If you want to change then you need to take actions towards your goals.

If you want to get slim then set a specific number again and go relentlessly to get it. Not setting a specific number will make you lost. For example you want to weigh just 135 lbs. do it. Every action is the right action, there is no time frame here, you don't need to pressure yourself, just do something for it everyday and it will come to you. Don't eat, jog for 1 million kilometers, climb the mount everest, do yoga, etc. There is something you can do about it, you just can't take actions because you're so overwhelmed of the process, you can't stick with it.

It's all about facing the pain, you have to do what you don't want to do and you're already developing, remember that you need stress and friction if you want your life to change. There will be no growth if there is no struggle and difficulty. Don't rush too much, just grow slowly because if you want to grow fast then you will not be able to handle the process anymore, it will overwhelmed you. Fall in love with the little steps that you are doing everyday may it be giving you results or not.