THE SOFT IDENTITY IS NOT WORKING ANYMORE

If you want to survive then you need to become tough, you need to become harder. The soft identity is not working anymore, the soft minded people and weak people are dying, they are quitting, they can't take the pain, they can't take the hustle. It only means that this world is tough, life is tough but you need to become tougher.

Don't look for happiness, embrace the sadness that you are feeling now instead. So what if you're not happy, don't worry because emotions changes easily, just wait for a few minutes or hours and you will smile again. Sometimes it takes days to change but at least it will still change, you're not going to feel sad forever.

If you're this kind of person who is so weak and cannot face the pain of taking actions then you will become sad, you will never thrive in this world, you will always be left behind, you will never get what you want.

You have to start now, start right away and make things happen. Forget about your emotions, forget about feeling good or being comfortable. Success requires facing discomfort and moving forward no matter what. You have to keep on moving forward and give your best to become successful, as simple as that.

If you're always dependent from your parents or any help that you have then I feel so sorry for you, you will be controlled by people who are giving you support, you will become powerless.

If you want to become the number one, if you want to become the leader, if you want to stand out then stop acting like weak because you never were, you're not soft... you just don't have the habits yet of becoming successful.

Start to become an independent person now, do what matters, take massive action even if you're not feeling well. Stop looking for perfection and flawless situations because that will make you soft even more.

Before when people are still weak and the technology is not yet rising... you can afford to become weak. Just go to mountain and live there alone, nobody will harm you, you can just eat plants and vegetables, hunt some pigs and bring it home with you, you can survive easily way back then.

But today is different, you can't leave on mountains anymore, the cost of living now is different, it's high, the suicidal rate now is high, a lot of children getting bullied and if their parents didn't rehearsed them that life is just like that then those poor children are in big trouble. If life is hitting you you better hit back and fight, there is no room for softness nowadays, stop crying like a little bitch because it will only make you look weak even more, learn how to become hard, learn how to go hard. Life is tough, the world is tough, what are you expecting? that the world will be kind to you? If you want an easy life then find a rich person that will marry you, the question is... can you find it? gold diggers has no value to the rich people, they are just being played, gold diggers were trash... they were nothing, they are not being taken seriously.

Improve your mental game, improve your work ethic... have a goal and pursue it no matter what, get it, work for it, die for it... that is the only way to become hard, you need to have a purpose in life, you need to be doing something so you won't be sad if nobody is loving you, you have to have your own empire that is truly yours... you are the ruler and you are the one being followed. Just be great at something and you will become hard.