YOU ARE TEACHING YOURSELF TO BECOME SOFT

You don't know that you are becoming soft, you feel that you are progressing, you feel that you are winning but the truth is... every time you treat yourself with something that you don't deserve then you are becoming softer and softer each day. You are buying yourself a $500 cell phone even if you're just earning $800 a month, do you think you really deserve it? You want to impress people and look rich... that is the number one trait of a soft person, trying to be who isn't really him.

Just a little success is making you soft. You got your Christmas bonus and you spend it all in vacation, shopping, gifts and any other useless things. You don't do an overtime anymore because you think that your money is already enough. You didn't even use that money to get more money, you use it to make yourself weak because you are pampering yourself too much. That was soft, that was a weak move.

Any action that will not even improve your life is a soft decision especially if it's making your life even worse. Why will you do something that is not making your life improving? Being soft means doing what failures does, it means biting the instant gratification that will make your life miserable in the end. If you want to have a strong and better life then learn to stop yourself from making decisions that will lessen what you have.  Stop teaching yourself to become soft by doing the things that has no benefits.

You are demoting your financial status by buying useless stuffs that you can't even sell, things that has no value at all. You are making your mental toughness weak by entertaining gossips, negativity, news, mind conditioning from the media. Basically, you are getting softer and softer because of those weak activities. You are not thinking right here, you are not seeing the reality.

If you want to become tough then learn to practice delayed gratification, learn to avoid temptations that will lead to a bad life.  Your small decisions everyday is making you who you are. Be aware of the decisions that you are making, if you are doing something that is fun but will give you suffering in the end then that is a very weak decision.

If you want to become great, if you want to have a better life then stop spoiling yourself, stop making yourself soft by doing stupid stuffs that are none beneficial. You have to wait if you want to celebrate, you have to deserve it, don't try to get it or do it if you are not deserving of it. Make sure you really work hard and you have the right to have it before you even think about getting it. Buying $1000 bank with only $500 dollar savings is a stupid move, it is a weak move, always choose practicality over good looks. You can have those things if you're already a millionaire but if you're just someone who is trying to look rich then you better wake up, looking rich is not really being rich, it's setting yourself up for a broken life.