DISADVANTAGE OF PROTECTING YOUR IDENTITY

If you are always protecting your identity then you will lose your freedom, you will lose control, you will always be cautious of what you're doing and what people are thinking of you. You will never become loose, you will always feel that there is something wrong, you will never become creative anymore. You will always care about the eyes that are looking at you, you will become conservative and reserved, you will feel that you can't unleash the true beast inside of you.

Stop protecting your identity, destroy it if you can, have as many mistakes as you can, don't be afraid to suck at something, don't be scared to look bad. Look at those celebrities... they were so conservative, they were so afraid of looking bad to other people that's why they can't do what they do, they are so afraid of being judged, they were so afraid of what other people are thinking that's why they feel sad and caged, they feel that their freedom is no longer in their hands. They always protect their identities that's why they were depressed, some of there are even sick and tired of their own lives.

Don't be afraid to look bad, don't be afraid to look stupid, it is what it is... even if you're the most perfect person in this world you will still make some mistakes.

Just go all out, go to the extreme, do what makes you happy despite of the critics waiting for you, at the end of the day.. if you feel happy about what you're doing then that's already ok even if other people are bashing you or saying nasty things at you.

You're a popular celebrity and you want to eat street foods? go ahead and do it, it's fun. You're a millionaire and the only room available is economy? so what, get it and appreciate it, even if you have a lot of money... that doesn't meant that you have the right to act like a king, it doesn't mean you can become picky. Just do what is needed, pick the only option remaining because someone might get it and there will be nothing left for you.

Stop protecting your identity, stop acting like you're so entitled of something, don't be afraid to look like a loser, don't be afraid to get criticized. You need to do what is needed, choose happiness over identity. Your identity is nothing, it will not even feed you.

Feel free to get judged, feel free to look like anything, be versatile, be flexible... forget your pride and experience the best out of life. You can only experience your life even more if you don't have any worries and fears inside of your head, live with the moment and just carry on.

Stop trying to explain yourself if you're doing something, stop always trying to please others, they can say whatever they wanted to say, they can do whatever they wanted to do but you need to focus on your own life and try to make it better each day.