HOW TO DEFEAT THE FEAR OF STARTING?

Everyone is afraid to start, why? the answer is very simple... they were so scared to fail. They will only start if everything is perfect, if everything is a guaranteed success. If you want to start a business and you're so afraid of losing your money then you will never start... ever, you will be trapped into that fear, you will never get out from it.

If you will start something there is only one thing that you should have in your mind... you are going to FAIL. It's not about being negative, it's the reality, failure will be the default, you will experience it no matter how good you are, nobody is immune from it, nobody can escape it, you have to taste a series of  defeats first before you become successful.

A lot of people were so scared to fail that is why they will make a lot of excuses before they start. Things like: I have to study this first before I start, I need to have a great guru first, I need this huge capital, I need a partner, I need to attend this seminar first, I need this, I need that... the neediness never ends, the stupid kid never start.

You can have this, you can have that but if you are not willing to fail then you will never start, you will never succeed. If you want to start then simply start regardless of what may happen... that is the best way to overcome the fear of starting. You don't need someone to give you confidence or knowledge, all you need to have is the willingness to fail, learn the lesson and stand up again, try again one more time. Once you start and you failed... be happy because you already killed that fear that is stopping you from progressing.

You should know that nobody will teach you something unless you are offering them something. Someone will help you if you will give him some money.

If you want to start something, do it on your own, don't be afraid to fail because you will experience it no matter how good you are. Start now even if you are scared and face failure right away.  Don't worry about it because it's part of the learning curve, handling failure is just part of the process, it's not a big deal, it's not something that will kill you.

Forget about perfection, forget about having a record... that's the best mindset to defeat the fear of starting. Just start and let the next sequence of events happen.  If you want to learn something then prepare yourself to make a lot of mistakes, have a lot of room for defeats because those are the only things that will make you great. Fail over and over again to succeed, that is the real formula for success.

Forget the idea about greatness or perfection, forget the idea about being undefeated and making it fast, success is a grind, learning something is really painful, I'm not discouraging you I'm just telling you the reality and the possibility. It's ok to fail, it's ok to produce zero results, what matters is you try again and you are never afraid to fail again. Being afraid to fail is the best way to defeat the fear of starting.