Jun 23, 2018

HAVE PEACE WITH WHAT IS LACKING IN YOUR LIFE

Life, happiness, success is very simple to achieve... you should define it, you should give it your own definition and not be influenced by other people's definition. If you can be simply happy being with your friends and family then that is already success, if you can be simply happy by just giving your best and earning a couple of dollars then that is success. It's not bad to pursue for something great, there is nothing wrong with that but if you can't have it at the moment then still appreciate your life, be happy with it.

Accept that you don't have millions, accept that you don't have a car, accept that you don't have friends to help you. That is life, it will never give everything to you, you have to work for it. If you don't have it at the moment then don't panic, set a journey for yourself for getting it. It's like not knowing where you will go, don't panic if you don't have the direction, be happy where you at and try to make your situation better.

Because if you keep on feeling bad for what is missing in your life... you will have a miserable life. You will focus on it and your energy will be drained, you will become unproductive, your strategy will be broken, you will become super negative and that negative energy will start to take over your life. Just be happy with what you have and try to improve, try to make your situation a little bit better than yesterday.

Being a cry baby about something will never make you happy, focus on what you can control, focus on what you have in your life and try to make the best out of it.

If people can't appreciate you so be it, if you don't have shoes be happy, if you don't have fancy shirts and bags be happy, the key here is to stop looking outside of yourself and just be ok with who you are and what you have. Because at the end of the day... even if you already have those things you will still look for something that is missing in your life. Nobody gets satisfied here, everyone is looking for something.

If you can just be ok with your life and give your best without expecting anything then you will be really happy, you will achieve true happiness. Look at those people who are always buying something, look at those people who are always in a vacation... did they achieve forever happiness? they are still stressed right? they are competing, they are pleasing other people, they want to look good, but deep inside they are broke, deep inside they are really not happy. Yeah, maybe they will be happy for a little while but after those picture takings, after those social gatherings they are still lost. After seeing that they don't have money anymore, they will feel sad and stressed.

You have to realize that you will feel random emotions every now and then, deal with the negative emotions that you are feeling right now and try to process it, try to manipulate it. Don't ever panic if you are feeling bad, it is not there to stay forever. Have peace with what is lacking in your life and you will become really happy.

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