Jun 10, 2018

STOP FEELING SPECIAL, YOU'RE NOT THE ONLY ONE WHO'S IN PAIN

You feel so special that's why you feel even badder, you feel that you're the only one who has a big problem. You're blaming the world, you're complaining too much, you can't do what is needed anymore, you can't focus on making your life better because you feel so special. Just a little problem or disturbance is making you feel bad, just a little friction is making you create dramas in your life.

Stop looking for sympathy, stop looking for respect... you're not entitled of something that you didn't work hard. If you haven't achieve anything great yet then you don't have the right to feel special about yourself.

Stop feeling special because you're not. Let yourself feel the pain, let yourself get wounded, look the problem in its eyes and never let it stop you. If you want to become special then prove it, work hard for it, never think that they should respect you because you feel that way.

If you want to become mentally tough then you better get your head straight, stop acting like a celebrity or something, stop being a snow flake, don't act like you're the only one who has a big problem in this world. Be tough, don't be a glass staircase who breaks down easily.

You're not special, you're just an ordinary guy so you better stop crying and start solving your problems.

There are even some people who have bigger problems than you but they are doing fine, they are doing good, they never complain, they are trying to make their lives better each day, they are still positive and they never lose hope.

Life is tough and it will become tougher if you will act soft, it will become harder if you will keep making dramas and scenes that will get sympathy from other people. Life is hard, if it is not hard then it is not life.

The best thing to do is be responsible, stop blaming something, stop looking for an easy way out. Deal with the pain, endure it until your situation change.

It's survival of the fittest, welcome to reality. If you're still virgin to pain then I feel sorry for you, you have to train yourself how to overcome difficult situations, you have to condition your mind to think that no matter what happens you will be alright.

Just a little pain shouldn't bother you, just a little noise shouldn't make you feel bad. You're not special, you're not even rich or successful, who are you to complain so much about life?

If you want to have an easier life then face all of your problems and responsibilities... move, don't run away from pain, face it and defeat it. Your situation will change in just a matter of time, just enjoy whatever you are feeling right now because at least you're still alive, at least you will still be able to see the sun tomorrow and feel the beauty of life, appreciate everything around you and you will never feel bad anymore.

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