YOU CAN LIVE WITH OR WITHOUT IT

Stop chasing for it, stop making dramas about it, stop getting sympathy from other people so you can bring it back to your life. You can live with or without it, you just need to realize that it's possible and it's not that hard to accept that it's not there in your life.

You will feel better if you only know that you can live or without it. That car, that money, that dream... those things are nothing, you can live without those things. Are you going to die without those things? is your life going to end? is your breathing going to stop? life is simply life, you don't need anything to live. Just be happy and you will be alright. The emotions that you attached with something is what makes life difficult to live. You have nothing when you were born so you don't have anything to lose. All you need is your breathing and you can live, it's the air that matters not the things that you don't have.

But it's not bad to long for those things, the point here is that you can still live without those things, never feel bad if you can't have them. You don't need appreciation, you don't need attention, you don't need anything. If you don't have them before then you can still live without having them now.

You can live without your abusive partner, if the relationship is not getting any better then stop it, you will not die if someone is not there to kiss your lips, you can still breathe even if there is no one to remove your underwear, stop feeling weak because nobody is there beside you. You can still do a lot f things without your partner, show him/her that you're strong and have the courage to end an abusive relationship.

You can live without your toxic friends. If they are pulling you down so leave them, don't feel regretful, don't feel like a villain... leave them now and you will feel happier because nobody is there to make you feel bad. You can still earn without them, you can still drink without them, who are they to make you feel that you are weak without them? sometimes you are even stronger when you are alone, the right friends will be there for you if you will just choose wisely.

If you're still alive then you have the biggest reason to feel happy, it's not about the things and people around you... it's about you choosing to become strong and happy all the time. If you can make yourself believe that you can live alone then the right people and things will be attracted to you. It's because feeling powerful and independent is an attractive trait, you will become more interesting, you will become more attractive. People would love to go with you.

So stop being needy, stop being weak and dramatic. If you don't have this or that so be it. Just keep working hard and keep being yourself, you will get what you deserve if you have the right mindset.

Just be appreciative of what you have, feel happy even if you have less or you have more. You don't need what you don't have and you don't need to feel bad if you lost someone or something, all you need is your life because you can still experience a lot of better things in the future. Feel powerful without anything and you will become happier even more.