You have to accept that life is not all about winning, the sad truth is... you will lose more than you will win. You must be willing to face a lot of defeats, some are really heartbreaking... you must be willing to kiss the ground and eat mud, that's how life works. If you're willing to taste defeat again and again then one day you will win, sometimes the path to winning is a series of defeats, sometimes you will wonder when will it be over because it keeps on happening. Sometimes you would love to quit but you can't do that because once you do it... it's all over, you will never become a winner anymore.
Accept that winning is really hard, if all you wanted to do is to win then you will never win. It's because you will quit once can't take losing anymore. Sometimes you will taste a long losing streak before you win, nobody knows why it's like that but it's the reality... the victory belongs to the most persevering, the victory belongs to the person who doesn't know how to quit.
A lot of people were only good when they are winning, a lot of people were only great if they see themselves on top, they can't even move once they hit the rock bottom, they were in a state of panic once they're pretty lives were falling apart.
Never get mad once you lost... it's part of your life, people who hasn't tasted defeat before goes crazy once they tasted it for the first time. They can't make adjustments, they feel so embarrassed and humiliated, they feel that it's the end of the world, they were acting like kids, they were so funny because their lives revolve on that single failure and they can't move on.
If you're not afraid to lose then for sure you will win, failure should be the default, you should not feel anything about it because it's all part of the process. Just think that the more you lose... the more you are closer to becoming successful.
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