WHAT IS TRUE AND SOLID CONFIDENCE?

Some people are only confident when their situation is good, they are only confident when they have power but when they are not... they were like cute puppies who cannot even bark.

True confidence means having the ability to speak, express and enjoy the moment during uncomfortable times. It means you don't need power to feel powerful, you don't need support to believe in yourself.

Some people are really good and cocky when things and situations are in favor of them, they act invincible when things are going well but when pressure is there... they were stunned, they are shaking and they are in a panic mode.

All you need is yourself to thrive in any kind of situation, survive and thrive. Always remember why you are there and you will know what to do. If you're at the party and you got overwhelmed because you're not that handsome... always remember why you are there. Why are you there? to have date with girls right? so what are you waiting for? move and approach a girl, make your best move, tell them your best pick up lines. It's all about knowing your purpose.

If you are speaking in front of a lot of people, what is your purpose? to speak right? to express yourself and let them know your message. So just focus on speaking, focus on word per word. Never think about making them clap their hands because that's not your main purpose. Your objective is to speak and give information so never mind if they are getting bored with your style.

True and solid confidence only shows up during pressure and tight situations, real men will show up during hard times. Real men will keep on moving and do what they are suppose to do, kids will go home, they will cry for their mamas.

Have a mindset that all you need is yourself, all you need is a right thinking mind and you're ready to go. True confidence doesn't mean always feeling good, it's feeling bad but still being able to control yourself and do what must be done.